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"My weight loss is going... okay. Not as fast as I'd like, only about 1-1.5 lbs per week if I'm lucky. But myfitnesspal is helping me keep track of what I'm eating and motivating me to stay within the limit which is always useful." That's a healthy amount for most people, particularly women. Don't rush it, you don't want too much muscle loss. I've lost less than a stone in a year, but it's been recomp. Trying to ignore the scale and my preconceived ideas on BMI. They mean nothing when you throw muscle into it. | |||
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"I've stopped tracking food, I find it quite crazy making I just kind of eat the right way most of the time. " Same. I don't want to become obsessed around my daughter | |||
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"I have very slow weight loss but have gained a lot of upper body muscle and lost some fat. My mobility situation reduces my ch of substantial weight loss " Oh definitely, disability changes things a lot. Just one of those things where you do the best you can with what you've got. (Sometimes my mental health leads my diet less of the garden path and more off a cliff ) | |||
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"I have very slow weight loss but have gained a lot of upper body muscle and lost some fat. My mobility situation reduces my ch of substantial weight loss Oh definitely, disability changes things a lot. Just one of those things where you do the best you can with what you've got. (Sometimes my mental health leads my diet less of the garden path and more off a cliff )" We all need to give ourselves a break sometimes and just recognise our achievements, not be so hard on ourselves | |||
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"I have very slow weight loss but have gained a lot of upper body muscle and lost some fat. My mobility situation reduces my ch of substantial weight loss Oh definitely, disability changes things a lot. Just one of those things where you do the best you can with what you've got. (Sometimes my mental health leads my diet less of the garden path and more off a cliff ) We all need to give ourselves a break sometimes and just recognise our achievements, not be so hard on ourselves " Absolutely. I'm moving ever closer to a body weight chin up. I'm a fucking bad arse. I'm just going to ignore the, err, chocolate. | |||
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"I do not know why but i don't put weight on. I am more inclined to lose weight then need to eat extra calories as hate being too thin. " Can we swop?! | |||
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"I do not know why but i don't put weight on. I am more inclined to lose weight then need to eat extra calories as hate being too thin. " Maybe you should calorie count, too? Look at your intake? Muscle gain, if you can (requires a calorie surplus and sufficient protein) might help you gain more shape if that's what you're worried about (I'm not saying your body lacks it, I'm talking in general terms). Women are often so afraid of "bulking", but that's fucking hard to do without testosterone like guys have. (Even for them it isn't all that easy) | |||
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"My weight loss is going... okay. Not as fast as I'd like, only about 1-1.5 lbs per week if I'm lucky. But myfitnesspal is helping me keep track of what I'm eating and motivating me to stay within the limit which is always useful." Woh seriously your loss rate is perfect To lose more than 500 g of FAT per week is tough That's a 500 cal deficit every day I suggest healthy scepticism when you hear larger figures My current goal is lose one kg body fat maybe 1500 g and add 2 kg in total body weight I anticipate 6 to 9 months xxx | |||
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"My weight loss is going... okay. Not as fast as I'd like, only about 1-1.5 lbs per week if I'm lucky. But myfitnesspal is helping me keep track of what I'm eating and motivating me to stay within the limit which is always useful. Woh seriously your loss rate is perfect To lose more than 500 g of FAT per week is tough That's a 500 cal deficit every day I suggest healthy scepticism when you hear larger figures My current goal is lose one kg body fat maybe 1500 g and add 2 kg in total body weight I anticipate 6 to 9 months xxx" Thanks, that's reassuring! I guess I'm just impatient. I want to lose 40 lbs and I know it's going to take ages :/ .xx | |||
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"My weight loss is going... okay. Not as fast as I'd like, only about 1-1.5 lbs per week if I'm lucky. But myfitnesspal is helping me keep track of what I'm eating and motivating me to stay within the limit which is always useful. Woh seriously your loss rate is perfect To lose more than 500 g of FAT per week is tough That's a 500 cal deficit every day I suggest healthy scepticism when you hear larger figures My current goal is lose one kg body fat maybe 1500 g and add 2 kg in total body weight I anticipate 6 to 9 months xxx Thanks, that's reassuring! I guess I'm just impatient. I want to lose 40 lbs and I know it's going to take ages :/ .xx" 40 weeks as you are Never if you change strategies xxx | |||
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"My weight loss is going well, I can see my clavicle slowly emerging and that makes me really happy. Seeing old me and how far I've come keeps me motivated. I just need to try and keep on track and not comfort eat when I've had a tough day at work - that's my biggest downfall." I hear you. I'm sometimes at the point where I'll go and comfort lift I'm broken | |||
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"My weight loss is going well, I can see my clavicle slowly emerging and that makes me really happy. Seeing old me and how far I've come keeps me motivated. I just need to try and keep on track and not comfort eat when I've had a tough day at work - that's my biggest downfall. I hear you. I'm sometimes at the point where I'll go and comfort lift I'm broken " Seriously comfort lifting is so good and the feel good hormones last longer than any sugar rush xxx | |||
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"My weight loss is going well, I can see my clavicle slowly emerging and that makes me really happy. Seeing old me and how far I've come keeps me motivated. I just need to try and keep on track and not comfort eat when I've had a tough day at work - that's my biggest downfall. I hear you. I'm sometimes at the point where I'll go and comfort lift I'm broken Seriously comfort lifting is so good and the feel good hormones last longer than any sugar rush xxx" Definitely. Note to self, though, angry lifting is injury town | |||
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"I've lost just over 2 stone, I've 7lb left to go and its verging on impossible urgh...." Well done! It does get harder the more you lose, most of the time. | |||
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"I've lost just over 2 stone, I've 7lb left to go and its verging on impossible urgh.... Well done! It does get harder the more you lose, most of the time." Honestly its ridiculous...I'm close to chopping an arm off just to lose the weight | |||
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"I have very slow weight loss but have gained a lot of upper body muscle and lost some fat. My mobility situation reduces my ch of substantial weight loss " That’s a real challenge , puts all the work onto diet but tbh most significant weight loss comes from changes to attitude to food and alcohol not cardio, although being inactive can demotivate you and you end up overeating / drinking | |||
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"I would like to get to a size 12-14 this year from around a 20. It's a big task" Make smaller goals in the meantime. 1-2lb a week, or, more vegetables, or, more exercise. Long term sustainable change comes from umpteen little habit changes. | |||
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"I would like to get to a size 12-14 this year from around a 20. It's a big task Make smaller goals in the meantime. 1-2lb a week, or, more vegetables, or, more exercise. Long term sustainable change comes from umpteen little habit changes." This. For me it was fixing my sleep pattern. Then I wasn't so tired, so I was more likely to go to the gym. Once I was actually going, the next thing was increasing the number of times I went, then adding in some HIIT sessions between gym visits to mix it up a bit. Start small and build up gradually. | |||
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"I'm improving my fitness. My diet is going to take a lot more work. Mostly I'm trying to like my body a bit more. Again, easier said than done but I'm trying x" For me my fitness journey has been about learning to love my body. | |||
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"I've lost just over 2 stone, I've 7lb left to go and its verging on impossible urgh.... Well done! It does get harder the more you lose, most of the time. Honestly its ridiculous...I'm close to chopping an arm off just to lose the weight " You NEED a six month diet brake and eat for maintenance then reboot You need to remember as your weight has dropped so has your Basel metabolic rate Thus your maintaining cals will be lower | |||
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"any tips for a menopausal woman. I walk minimum 4 miles a day (work) lift weights, calorie count, cut sugar down to minimum, drink once a month 1lb a week loss " Yes Lift heavier weights less reps more times a week Eat more protein And tell us your current weight goal weight and current macros | |||
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"any tips for a menopausal woman. I walk minimum 4 miles a day (work) lift weights, calorie count, cut sugar down to minimum, drink once a month 1lb a week loss Yes Lift heavier weights less reps more times a week Eat more protein And tell us your current weight goal weight and current macros " usually lift weights every 2nd day. haven't done anything for a week as currently ill and lost 2lbs this week want to lose minimum 2 stone (weight gain of 3 st due to menopause) macros - 45/50% carbs I'm eating lots of vegetarian meals at moment (im not vegetarian just busy lifestyle and it's easier) I should up fish intake really fat & protein 25% each | |||
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"any tips for a menopausal woman. I walk minimum 4 miles a day (work) lift weights, calorie count, cut sugar down to minimum, drink once a month 1lb a week loss Yes Lift heavier weights less reps more times a week Eat more protein And tell us your current weight goal weight and current macros usually lift weights every 2nd day. haven't done anything for a week as currently ill and lost 2lbs this week want to lose minimum 2 stone (weight gain of 3 st due to menopause) macros - 45/50% carbs I'm eating lots of vegetarian meals at moment (im not vegetarian just busy lifestyle and it's easier) I should up fish intake really fat & protein 25% each " Well carbs absolutely should not be above 33 And you dont tell me the grams or calories thus I have no idea what 50 percent is in real terms I can tell you no more than 150 g total carb The rest works itself | |||
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"any tips for a menopausal woman. I walk minimum 4 miles a day (work) lift weights, calorie count, cut sugar down to minimum, drink once a month 1lb a week loss Yes Lift heavier weights less reps more times a week Eat more protein And tell us your current weight goal weight and current macros usually lift weights every 2nd day. haven't done anything for a week as currently ill and lost 2lbs this week want to lose minimum 2 stone (weight gain of 3 st due to menopause) macros - 45/50% carbs I'm eating lots of vegetarian meals at moment (im not vegetarian just busy lifestyle and it's easier) I should up fish intake really fat & protein 25% each Well carbs absolutely should not be above 33 And you dont tell me the grams or calories thus I have no idea what 50 percent is in real terms I can tell you no more than 150 g total carb The rest works itself" And do you lift heavy weights what's your reps and sets | |||
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"Dropped 5kg this year and down to 6% fat..... I’m hoping by the end of March I’ll be where I want to start hitting the weights to increase mass and start to bulk a little." 6% I guess I'm at 20-ish and I'm delighted, haha | |||
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"Dropped 5kg this year and down to 6% fat..... I’m hoping by the end of March I’ll be where I want to start hitting the weights to increase mass and start to bulk a little. 6% I guess I'm at 20-ish and I'm delighted, haha" A woman will never be 6% body fat. Guys have far less of it and can lose it much more easily. | |||
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"A total of over 17 stone weight loss in the last 6 years and that's very minimal exercising, mainly due to the fact I was told I had a year to live. Scared the hell out of me and was the wake up call that I needed. No way was I going to leave my children without a mum. Was all done through what I ate and drank, very hard going and I would often fall off the wagon but my before pics was all the motivation that I needed to get myself back on target and one day at a time I could see a difference in myself and I've lived to tell my story. " That's amazing! | |||
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"any tips for a menopausal woman. I walk minimum 4 miles a day (work) lift weights, calorie count, cut sugar down to minimum, drink once a month 1lb a week loss Yes Lift heavier weights less reps more times a week Eat more protein And tell us your current weight goal weight and current macros usually lift weights every 2nd day. haven't done anything for a week as currently ill and lost 2lbs this week want to lose minimum 2 stone (weight gain of 3 st due to menopause) macros - 45/50% carbs I'm eating lots of vegetarian meals at moment (im not vegetarian just busy lifestyle and it's easier) I should up fish intake really fat & protein 25% each Well carbs absolutely should not be above 33 And you dont tell me the grams or calories thus I have no idea what 50 percent is in real terms I can tell you no more than 150 g total carb The rest works itself" I'm sticking to 1200 calories. ìve no idea on grams im just logging all food onto my fitbit app reps/kgs what would you be suggesting? | |||
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"Dropped 5kg this year and down to 6% fat..... I’m hoping by the end of March I’ll be where I want to start hitting the weights to increase mass and start to bulk a little. 6% I guess I'm at 20-ish and I'm delighted, haha A woman will never be 6% body fat. Guys have far less of it and can lose it much more easily. " Oh I know. It's all good | |||
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"any tips for a menopausal woman. I walk minimum 4 miles a day (work) lift weights, calorie count, cut sugar down to minimum, drink once a month 1lb a week loss Yes Lift heavier weights less reps more times a week Eat more protein And tell us your current weight goal weight and current macros usually lift weights every 2nd day. haven't done anything for a week as currently ill and lost 2lbs this week want to lose minimum 2 stone (weight gain of 3 st due to menopause) macros - 45/50% carbs I'm eating lots of vegetarian meals at moment (im not vegetarian just busy lifestyle and it's easier) I should up fish intake really fat & protein 25% each Well carbs absolutely should not be above 33 And you dont tell me the grams or calories thus I have no idea what 50 percent is in real terms I can tell you no more than 150 g total carb The rest works itself I'm sticking to 1200 calories. ìve no idea on grams im just logging all food onto my fitbit app reps/kgs what would you be suggesting?" Not till you tell me what you are doing And 1200 seems too low I doubt you're sticking to it honestly and you need to know the grams If you're are a true 1200 and 600 cal are carb then you are only eating 30 g fat and 70g ish p you will need MORE fat for correct hormonal balance | |||
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"Dropped 5kg this year and down to 6% fat..... I’m hoping by the end of March I’ll be where I want to start hitting the weights to increase mass and start to bulk a little. 6% I guess I'm at 20-ish and I'm delighted, haha A woman will never be 6% body fat. Guys have far less of it and can lose it much more easily. Oh I know. It's all good" Sorry, didn't intend to teach you to suck eggs (so to speak) | |||
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"Dropped 5kg this year and down to 6% fat..... I’m hoping by the end of March I’ll be where I want to start hitting the weights to increase mass and start to bulk a little. 6% I guess I'm at 20-ish and I'm delighted, haha A woman will never be 6% body fat. Guys have far less of it and can lose it much more easily. Oh I know. It's all good Sorry, didn't intend to teach you to suck eggs (so to speak) " No worries | |||
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"If anyone would like to be a weight loss buddy (nothing sexual involved) just a check in now and again and some motivation let me know. " Part of the reason for these threads | |||
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"If anyone would like to be a weight loss buddy (nothing sexual involved) just a check in now and again and some motivation let me know. Part of the reason for these threads " Indeed I just wouldnt want to divulge my vital statistics on the thread | |||
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"If anyone would like to be a weight loss buddy (nothing sexual involved) just a check in now and again and some motivation let me know. Part of the reason for these threads Indeed I just wouldnt want to divulge my vital statistics on the thread " Fair enough! You'll notice I haven't either. | |||
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"any tips for a menopausal woman. I walk minimum 4 miles a day (work) lift weights, calorie count, cut sugar down to minimum, drink once a month 1lb a week loss Yes Lift heavier weights less reps more times a week Eat more protein And tell us your current weight goal weight and current macros usually lift weights every 2nd day. haven't done anything for a week as currently ill and lost 2lbs this week want to lose minimum 2 stone (weight gain of 3 st due to menopause) macros - 45/50% carbs I'm eating lots of vegetarian meals at moment (im not vegetarian just busy lifestyle and it's easier) I should up fish intake really fat & protein 25% each Well carbs absolutely should not be above 33 And you dont tell me the grams or calories thus I have no idea what 50 percent is in real terms I can tell you no more than 150 g total carb The rest works itself I'm sticking to 1200 calories. ìve no idea on grams im just logging all food onto my fitbit app reps/kgs what would you be suggesting? Not till you tell me what you are doing And 1200 seems too low I doubt you're sticking to it honestly and you need to know the grams If you're are a true 1200 and 600 cal are carb then you are only eating 30 g fat and 70g ish p you will need MORE fat for correct hormonal balance " yes I am sticking to 1200. there's stuff I don't want to put on forum | |||
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"If anyone would like to be a weight loss buddy (nothing sexual involved) just a check in now and again and some motivation let me know. " Lol the irony | |||
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"If anyone would like to be a weight loss buddy (nothing sexual involved) just a check in now and again and some motivation let me know. Lol the irony " What was ironic about that? | |||
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"I started running and it's been great for losing some weight but I don't like loosing weight from my boobies!! " I've lost so much from my boobs it's untrue. I believe chest work is making them perkier. (I may or may not do pec dances sometimes ) | |||
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"If anyone would like to be a weight loss buddy (nothing sexual involved) just a check in now and again and some motivation let me know. Lol the irony " You do know the meaning of the word ‘irony’? | |||
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"I started running and it's been great for losing some weight but I don't like loosing weight from my boobies!! I've lost so much from my boobs it's untrue. I believe chest work is making them perkier. (I may or may not do pec dances sometimes )" Ha, I'd love to see that! Oh mine are 46 years old and have breastfed two babies so I don't think chest work would make much difference now. Ho hum | |||
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"If anyone would like to be a weight loss buddy (nothing sexual involved) just a check in now and again and some motivation let me know. Lol the irony What was ironic about that? " Angel you dafty ( ment in a most friendly manner) You seem to have totally misunderstood (fair enough) . But removed all chance to articulate my reasoning I literally have no problem with you ! Zero Nada There are hundreds of profiles called angel eyes I had not been on fab forums and your profile showed up as 2 week new one " Hmm thought i i wonder if that angel from the forums if so i wont block her as i would any other new profile that pops into my searches and after reading i doubt we will meet " I'll ask I have zero negatives towards you as a person and would not want to block a nice forumite in case we ever wanted to exchange a non sexual PM regarding any future forum topic also noce for a forite to see my profile it may be related to a post Was just a shame you did not feel you could ask me for details directly Also a shame I did not pop onto forum and discover the answer myself Hey ho | |||
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"My gym progress is going good. I have just posted an progress pic, my 6pack is getting more defined and you can start seeing the striations on my shoulders " I'm accepting I'm never getting a six pack | |||
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"My gym progress is going good. I have just posted an progress pic, my 6pack is getting more defined and you can start seeing the striations on my shoulders I'm accepting I'm never getting a six pack " Nothing is impossible. I have cut out most of the sugar now as I am getting ready for the summer. | |||
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"My gym progress is going good. I have just posted an progress pic, my 6pack is getting more defined and you can start seeing the striations on my shoulders I'm accepting I'm never getting a six pack Nothing is impossible. I have cut out most of the sugar now as I am getting ready for the summer." I think given my current body composition and estimated body fat, the way I carry weight would make it difficult. My abs are quite strong, but my limbs are lean and I carry my body fat mostly in my torso. | |||
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"My gym progress is going good. I have just posted an progress pic, my 6pack is getting more defined and you can start seeing the striations on my shoulders I'm accepting I'm never getting a six pack Nothing is impossible. I have cut out most of the sugar now as I am getting ready for the summer. I think given my current body composition and estimated body fat, the way I carry weight would make it difficult. My abs are quite strong, but my limbs are lean and I carry my body fat mostly in my torso." That could be right and it is good that your abs are strong too | |||
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"My gym progress is going good. I have just posted an progress pic, my 6pack is getting more defined and you can start seeing the striations on my shoulders I'm accepting I'm never getting a six pack Nothing is impossible. I have cut out most of the sugar now as I am getting ready for the summer. I think given my current body composition and estimated body fat, the way I carry weight would make it difficult. My abs are quite strong, but my limbs are lean and I carry my body fat mostly in my torso.That could be right and it is good that your abs are strong too " Female fat distribution. It's all good | |||
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