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Living a double life in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I saw an interview of a woman whose husband had 4 other secret relationships where she knew nothing about it during their marriage.

She found out about it one day when she waited in the car as one knocked on the window to ask if he was in as she in the car waited for him.

She in the car was shocked and she said she was his husband too and then the one who knocked told her that he had cheated on her too previously.

She later confronted him about it and he acted like nothing have happened, she threw him out and ended the marriage.

How can someone live such double life and feel like it is normal?

It was good that she found out about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of a book I read (cannot remember the name) but also the same sentiment was echoed in the movie "The Last King of Scotland" - and I am paraphrasing it loosely - "because what do you do when you get bored."

I just think itd be an expensive habit, however historically polygamy/having many wives was the more common state. Monogamy was the newer concept.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reminds me of a book I read (cannot remember the name) but also the same sentiment was echoed in the movie "The Last King of Scotland" - and I am paraphrasing it loosely - "because what do you do when you get bored."

I just think itd be an expensive habit, however historically polygamy/having many wives was the more common state. Monogamy was the newer concept. "
Yes and eventually they cant hide it forever as the truth always comes out when they least expect it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I imagine it must be quite stressful leading a double life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I imagine it must be quite stressful leading a double life. "
Yes it must be stressful to and tireing as well.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t know how folk can remember the lies they tell everyone. Must be exhausting, stressful and surely that outweighs any perks for them?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Now imagine you don’t find out until the partner dies..... a friend found out after her father died, that he had a whole other family and she had a half brother and sister, he’d been living with both and neither family knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw an interview of a woman whose husband had 4 other secret relationships where she knew nothing about it during their marriage.

She found out about it one day when she waited in the car as one knocked on the window to ask if he was in as she in the car waited for him.

She in the car was shocked and she said she was his husband too and then the one who knocked told her that he had cheated on her too previously.

She later confronted him about it and he acted like nothing have happened, she threw him out and ended the marriage.

How can someone live such double life and feel like it is normal?

It was good that she found out about it."

I despise people like this. If you want to fuck about, be single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t know how folk can remember the lies they tell everyone. Must be exhausting, stressful and surely that outweighs any perks for them?

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Yes it must be and as well to remember the names.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"I don’t know how folk can remember the lies they tell everyone. Must be exhausting, stressful and surely that outweighs any perks for them?

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I think they choose people who don't ask a lot of questions and are trusting.

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over a year ago

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