FabSwingers.com forum: What can I do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What can I do to interest women more? Seems like only guys view or message me.

I cant have face public due to work but will show in messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer cake

Bitches love cake

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By *hom_1981Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Fuck me... lose the Santa photo for starters!!!

Definitely not a good look....

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I would loose the Santa photos for starters. Christmas has been and gone!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

wait 11 months....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate works better than cake on a serious note go into your settings and block men

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It’s still a compliment that guys like your profile and message you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"It’s still a compliment that guys like your profile and message you "
indeed. you should encourage them, OP, as they’ve made an effort to contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest OP, once you realise that getting a woman on here to message you, let alone ride you is near impossible. The next best option is the men...there are 1000s of them, most are horny as hell...quite a few will do go and blow....so no need for chit chat. Others are happy just to be a bottom... so it doesn't make you gay...well unless you start kissing...just go for it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop posting pics that will mostly appeal to other men... Know your audience! Oh... And cake/chocolate... Unless you are looking for an older lady... Then, Werthers!

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Have no expectations and treat all with respect.....

Im a complete nightmare (in a good way..........so they say) and worked for me so it can for you too..

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

"What can I do to interest women more? Seems like only guys view or message me.

I cant have face public due to work but will show in messages. "

You know you can block men from messaging you right

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Block men from messaging

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Stop posting pics that will mostly appeal to other men... Know your audience! Oh... And cake/chocolate... Unless you are looking for an older lady... Then, Werthers!

It’s the Father Christmas look which is attracting the men. Beyond December it’s a clear gay message that says “any men want me to empty their sack?” and boom! they just come running, don’t they?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Change your pics. They would put me off

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I won't give you specific feedback on your profile unless you ask for it.

What kind of messages are you sending out to make contact? We get messages that the sender must think are going to interest us but they are awful. Make sure what you are sending out is likely to be received positively. If you give us an example of somethingyyou send out then we should be able to help you with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To attract more interest you have to make yourself more attractive. It’s a simple as that.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"What can I do to interest women more? Seems like only guys view or message me.

I cant have face public due to work but will show in messages. "

My general theory is if you do not know how you do not understand how then no one can tell you how

From my perspective one needs to understand humans and women and this takes years of observation interaction and some empathy

I suggest leave fab start your training and return when you no longer need to ask a forum quite a fundamental question about 2 to 7 years xxx

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By *ucidityWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Offer cake

Bitches love cake "

Bitches love vegan cake...and doughnuts.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Apparently you've been on before with success so what's different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck me... lose the Santa photo for starters!!!

Definitely not a good look...."

I agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not, I repeat do not post up a c’mere finger pic. My inbox is on fire!!!!!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

And has be taken our advice?.....nope.

No surprise there then.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"And has be taken our advice?.....nope.

No surprise there then."

It's all the women that looked an thought yea he is the bomb...

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

You can lead a horse to water but you cant make it drink it

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By *irtySexyDawgMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

I'd suggest you find some profiles of the kind of ladies you'd like to meet (aim high but be realistic) and look at the profiles of some of their male veris.

If you've picked well you'll soon see some common traits, then, if you're serious, do what's needed to match those traits, whilst still being true to yourself.

Hope that helps, good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are aware that most women and couples view in stealth mode

You may have more people looking at your profile than you realise

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