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Mission Impossible?

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don’t login much these days. I guess I’m totally uninterested in the wasted time spent on pointless messages from unsuitable men.

The men with no guts to meet, the disposability of supposed friendships and the banality of it all.

But, as an optimist, I wonder if I can fulfil my life fantasy here. Which is to be in a committed relationship that is a closed poly triad, the mmf version

Anyone have any ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move to America lol x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont know about on here but isnt there poly websites. I dont know anything about them but you may find what your looking for there

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Move to America lol x"

Did that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just wasted 3 years of my life on a man who found another playmate. Talked about her constantly. Took her out (he is married so we 'couldn't' go out in public. Then told me that they bareback, so I needed to get STI checked and show him the result, but even then he would probably be using condoms with me. Just in case. (She barebacks with others but obviously has a magic fanny that wont pick anything up). Thankfully I never stopped seeing others, who are very supportive. But I am losing faith in this site. Too many weirdos.

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I dont know about on here but isnt there poly websites. I dont know anything about them but you may find what your looking for there"

I did try another site but still only got messages from Dim Doms

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I've just wasted 3 years of my life on a man who found another playmate. Talked about her constantly. Took her out (he is married so we 'couldn't' go out in public. Then told me that they bareback, so I needed to get STI checked and show him the result, but even then he would probably be using condoms with me. Just in case. (She barebacks with others but obviously has a magic fanny that wont pick anything up). Thankfully I never stopped seeing others, who are very supportive. But I am losing faith in this site. Too many weirdos. "

Yikes

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I have no useful advice as am a single pringle who knows not how one can find this elusive love thing. But, I know this, I wish you every success in your quest and hope you find exactly what you want and need. You’re a genuine and caring person .

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”"

Very true, though I’m pretty darn awesome, despite my many flaws

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Yikes "

Agree

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I have no useful advice as am a single pringle who knows not how one can find this elusive love thing. But, I know this, I wish you every success in your quest and hope you find exactly what you want and need. You’re a genuine and caring person ."

I’ve been in long relationships, but not felt loved. I’ll stay single before making that mistake again.

And thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of your feelings and observations are valid.

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I think a lot of your feelings and observations are valid."

Thank you, everyone's are even when we think they are being silly or whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t login much these days. I guess I’m totally uninterested in the wasted time spent on pointless messages from unsuitable men.

The men with no guts to meet, the disposability of supposed friendships and the banality of it all.

But, as an optimist, I wonder if I can fulfil my life fantasy here. Which is to be in a committed relationship that is a closed poly triad, the mmf version

Anyone have any ideas?"
finding our soulmate or soulmate is the hardest thing in the world to try and do.

I've found the more I try and find my soulmate the more I fail. I've gotten to a point of it happens when it happens.

But obviously with poly it's different, I used to know a couple into poly relationships but do not know how they met. Maybe it's worth browsing the web for places poly's meet n chat. Although, your post seems to be just that you'll get there, just keep an eye open and enjoy life regardless.

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

This site is full of wannabes and dreamers! Haven't got the slightest intention of meeting. Just like to jerk of at the thought. Shoot there load and get scared the wife might find out !

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Mission impossible is getting a meet on here

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've found the more I try and find my soulmate the more I fail. I've gotten to a point of it happens when it happens. "

Completely agree, which is why I'm not looking in earnest. Though equally, staying in and working a lot doesn't help me either.

I ask here because here one can be open about one's sexuality and wants

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This site is full of wannabes and dreamers! Haven't got the slightest intention of meeting. Just like to jerk of at the thought. Shoot there load and get scared the wife might find out !"

Yes there a many many of them

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Mission impossible is getting a meet on here "

Hardly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stated I wanted NSA and ended up with a guy that said he'd fallen for me... Maybe that's how you do it?? I have no idea really. Its confusing.

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I stated I wanted NSA and ended up with a guy that said he'd fallen for me... Maybe that's how you do it?? I have no idea really. Its confusing. "

Yes, they can be very contrary can men

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

So, can anyone find me some tall hot men that I can consider?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you like bi guys could be a bi sandwich.

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