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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes or no ? Do you check to see who has sent them ? Feel free to send me some I've had 2 since I've been on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like receiving a cheeky wink and has lead to me chatting to some fun folk so yes yes YES !!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I rarely look at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check and respond to some kindly with a

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely look at them. "
I sent u one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely look at them. "

That’s probably because you get a lot of them

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By *ezmanyorksMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

As they are a rarity, yes I do look at them, and usually follow up with a thank you message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never received a wink

(carefully typed)

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I rarely look at them.

That’s probably because you get a lot of them"

I just think if anyone is genuinely interested in chatting with a view to meeting, they'll message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly look at winks.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I rarely look at them. I sent u one too "

Here have one back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rarely look at them. I sent u one too

Here have one back "
thank u that's 3 in my collection now

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I look sometimes but anyone actually likely to meet would send a message.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Well, whether it’s winks, fabbed or messages, cuz they are in very short supply, I get excited when I see I’ve got one... so yes, I totally support them... I can understand the ladies not even looking, due the ratio of men to women and they must get bombarded with en

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't check winks, I just delete them every now and then

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

If sinker is that an invite to message ?

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By *ou LabelleWoman
over a year ago

benfleet

Very rarely check them tbh

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I look sometimes but anyone actually likely to meet would send a message."

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've had meets off the back of winks so they work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find them a bit of a hit and miss always like to reply and acknowledge them with a thanks or no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think winks work better for the women winking men

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Never got one (nor am I asking)

But I use them when I'm feeling unsure what to say.

Don't want to give off a creepy vibe...

Ohh wait too late haha

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Winks sent by women are probably quite effective. I like receiving them.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I find them a bit of a hit and miss always like to reply and acknowledge them with a thanks or no thanks. "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

4 now and rising I hope lol

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I will admit to not checking them very often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes or no ? Do you check to see who has sent them ? Feel free to send me some I've had 2 since I've been on "

Very rarely use winks and always forget to check them...

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I've never received a wink

(carefully typed)"

That did make me laugh!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Winks sent by women are probably quite effective. I like receiving them. "

Agreed. I gladly accept them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never received a wink

(carefully typed)

That did make me laugh!"
I winked over the 3 of u

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

I’d guess men look at them, women can’t get through them all

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By *erryhallMan
over a year ago

birmingham

As I'm not a pushy guy if I see someone that I like I will send them a wink and if they wink back I will more than likely to message them if they don't respond then I assume that they have looked at my profile and are not interested so I wont bother them but at least if I have sent a wink then at least they know their profile is getting attention off someone

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By *arah_tv999TV/TS
over a year ago

Oxford

I think they are a good ice-breaker, especially if the recipients profile is very sparse.

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By *urlyCatzWoman
over a year ago

Blackpool

I've just had a winkathon

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

I've sent some and received a few, I respond if sent one, polite to say thankyou and if it could lead to more , chatting etc

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

Winks have lead to my best meets !!

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By *winfrozrMan
over a year ago

Carnoustie

Winks have led to all of my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete them straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at mine and if I like the look of their profile I wink back

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'm nosey so yes, I'll reply to some if their profile appeals in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the point of them unless the person wants to meet with me.

But I do get TVs and men winking because i have the don't want to meet on the messages.

So they think because they wink I would change my mind and meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink off of a lady is always welcome and will usually get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite enjoy receiving a wink.

Mind you, a woman could smile at me in the street and I automatically think she wants fucked

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I rarely look at them. "

Duly noted, must send this sexy lady a message instead.

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By *uckmefackwardsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

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By *uckmefackwardsMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I have had about 10 in my time on here. Eight from gay guys who obviously didn't check my profile and I've had two from two couples who didn't respond to my reply. So I think they're useless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite enjoy receiving a wink.

Mind you, a woman could smile at me in the street and I automatically think she wants fucked "

Smiling lots your way!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get any

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By *ames2602Man
over a year ago

whittle


"I look at mine and if I like the look of their profile I wink back "

Sane here but don't get many

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By *aughty sweepCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Yes or no ? Do you check to see who has sent them ? Feel free to send me some I've had 2 since I've been on "
never ever look at winks.if somebody cannot be bothered to message properly why should you want to converse with them ..just instant delete..just take away the winks

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I often fail to spot winks on here. I tend to prefer pictures of cake being sent over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are ok with receiving a wink it's away of striking up a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check mine regularly

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"We are ok with receiving a wink it's away of striking up a conversation. "

This... good quick way of gauging mutual interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at mine and if I like the look of their profile I wink back "

Is this not the purpose of winks an initial contact to see if any initial mutual attraction pics,profile etc women receive hundreds of messages so even the best plaid out message could get overlooked at least a wink shows interest

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By *wocurious01Couple
over a year ago

little hulton

We like the wink system as it's a way of showing your interested without having to send a message we've sent a few out to some couples and don't get a response..some don't bother with them but we think it's a good start of point to showing interest..

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

The problem with winks is that they are not used the same way by everyone.

As a guy we all know putting effort in to a message can often be deflating if it actually has effort and thought put in to only to be ignored or discarded especially when unread. THIS IS NOT A COMPLAINT!

A wink can be useful (as has been proven above) in just acknowledging a mutual attraction or connection without the fuss of going in to effort without any certainty of success. If the wink is mutual then putting that effort in feels so much more like a worthy investment and less of a waste of time.

Very similar to catching somebody looking at you from across the room, it's partially an invitation to approach/be approached. Then the conversation can really be invested in.

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By *urious1973Man
over a year ago

angus

i wouldnt mind a wee wink x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you don't get views or messages then a little wink goes a long way.

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By *appyhubby500Man
over a year ago

Dartford

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By *appyhubby500Man
over a year ago

Dartford

I think that’s it’s nice to receive a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t look at them much

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We are currently at 212 and counting.

Literally look once in a blue moon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting winks. It's a nice little surprise. Getting a message is an added bonus. Getting a meet is the real prize though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any form of communication is nice but nothing beats a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wink basically means I’ve noticed you and is an invitation to start a dialogue imo

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By *appyhubby500Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Just that

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I check my winks. For some reason i get alot from couples which is strange as i am here looking for men only.

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By *irty Boy-123Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I have had a few meets through winks. It's a good way of showing and receiving interest. If someone's profile says no winks then I wouldn't send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, I usually just bulk delete them.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes we look at them and it has led to some good meets

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