FabSwingers.com forum: homeless couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just having a look at my local updates,how many couples want to play but you to accommodate,whats that all about!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Kids at home maybe.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Are they obligated to accom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way I'd want anyone to know my home address??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also some people use it as a way to avoid !meeting married men. I know that not accommodating doesn't necessarily mean that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

then why expect someone else too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have a kid still at home with me but i would not ask to be accommodated !

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"then why expect someone else too!"
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We don't expect it but as we don't accommodate ourselves we imagine that anyone who contacts us is prepared to, otherwise why contact us?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"i have a kid still at home with me but i would not ask to be accommodated !"

Fair enough

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"then why expect someone else too!I

We don't expect it but as we don't accommodate ourselves we imagine that anyone who contacts us is prepared to, otherwise why contact us?"

same here

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

Your home is your castle.

I wouldn’t want anyone in my house.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

Teenage children can't be trusted to stay away from your home so hell no when I'm with my partner that I swing with we can't accommodate. Generally we prefer to be in a hotel for that reason but if another couple can accommodate then fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fakes

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Your home is your castle.

I wouldn’t want anyone in my house. "

This..

No matter how well we get on with our swinging friends we would never invite them to our home.

We may not accommodate at home but we can in a hotel. X

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Fakes"

Who?

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Fakes"

What? You think just because we cannot accommodate we are fakes??? Says you who's got no public pictures or even a profile pic.. you're more of a fake!!!

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Fakes

What? You think just because we cannot accommodate we are fakes??? Says you who's got no public pictures or even a profile pic.. you're more of a fake!!!

Plus you're not a site supporter either...

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Fakes

What? You think just because we cannot accommodate we are fakes??? Says you who's got no public pictures or even a profile pic.. you're more of a fake!!!

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I would imagine having kids at home is the main reason.

I have no issues in accommodating couples or singles, much more friendly than hotel rooms.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We can't accommodate because we don't want to simple as that.

We now only do club meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids/family at home would be a big factor in that, its the reason we cannot accommodate.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Teenage children can't be trusted to stay away from your home so hell no when I'm with my partner that I swing with we can't accommodate. Generally we prefer to be in a hotel for that reason but if another couple can accommodate then fine. "

This! We have a 17yo who says he's staying out but magically reappears and obviously has a key. Also we have a 3yo who interrupted us twice last night. If we'd have invited someone over, the mood would've died and the whole experience ruined. I'd rather pay for a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll never accommodate

I’m a fake , although a single one

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Same, we won’t play with the kids at home and if we got a sitter we’d rather go up to Glasgow for a night out as well.

Used to think it meant one of the couple was married etc, seems people have the same concerns as us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can accommodate but only when daughter is at her mums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could accommodate with some planning if I really wanted to

I don't want to though.

It's my choice, just as it is other people's. These choices should be respected. And if someone has difficulty with that, they wouldn't be someone I'd want to meet.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I could accommodate with some planning if I really wanted to

I don't want to though.

It's my choice, just as it is other people's. These choices should be respected. And if someone has difficulty with that, they wouldn't be someone I'd want to meet."

A wise choice. I do not want Fab people knowing where i live let alone allow them into my house. Fab life and home life i will always keep seperate.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I am a single guy who can’t accommodate.I find clubs are a safe environment to meet , chat , play.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Can meet at a mutually convenient place, hotel or club. It’s really not complex.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Can meet at a mutually convenient place, hotel or club. It’s really not complex. "

exactly

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By *ad steMan
over a year ago

Southport

I can and will accommodate I see it as personal choice for whatever reason if they fake that there loss not mine life is to short to be bothered with ppl that don't matter to me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Loads of different reasons - accept their boundaries or move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple living together, have our own place, no children but would still choose not to accommodate.

A club is neutral ground, no one is pressured to play, if you don't click there is others there that you might do with. Also if your meet doesn't turn up your not left sat around waiting on someone, feeling let down and disappointed as you can still socialise/play with others.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I can and will accommodate I see it as personal choice for whatever reason if they fake that there loss not mine life is to short to be bothered with ppl that don't matter to me "

This

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Tory government

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe they are a FAB couple and after a meet at yours or a nice hotel they go back to their own partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

I am a fake!

Who doesnt want people in the home where my child sleeps, so chooses clubs or hotels!

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

Two teenager girls and a dog with a dislike of strangers. Pretty much rules us out of accommodating.

Hence we look for people who can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accommodate, as my partners adult daughter lives at home with us, this being due to her having a condition.

I am also sure that people on here have legitimate reasons for not accommodating. Also, hotels are bit more neutral, so bit better for breaking the ice.

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