FabSwingers.com forum: more than casual meets....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Lots of people here look for their meets to contain most of those elements - without possibly the "romance" although that depends how you define it.

It is possible in an NSA setting to have those things - my preferred type of meet certainly would - it all builds anticipation and adds to the overall experience.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're looking for a guy who could become my regular bit on the side, hotwifey style. I'd have to have more than just sexual attraction to whoever it is because if we're going to see each other regularly, there'd have to be intelligent conversation etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be good if it happened

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over a year ago

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP do you think you have improved your chances by posting the same thread three times in eleven minutes ?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"OP do you think you have improved your chances by posting the same thread three times in eleven minutes ?"

I agree, if he hasn’t done it 5 times in 11 minutes he’s got no commitment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......"

Ive found more men want more of the intimacy than woman on here. I get quite afew casual one night stand offers.. i decline because i hate one off hook ups.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I get quite afew casual one night stand offers.. i decline because i hate one off hook ups."

So what are you looking for from a swinging site ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am.

For me having a fix of adult company with affection and some of life's simple pleasures along with the rest is absolutely perfect. I just like being able to revert back to life inbetween.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you like to come out on a proper date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am.

For me having a fix of adult company with affection and some of life's simple pleasures along with the rest is absolutely perfect. I just like being able to revert back to life inbetween.

This exactly

. I won’t and never will do casual one offs. Does nothing for me at all. I want more than just sex but I want less than a relationship. It’s not that easy to find here.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......

Ive found more men want more of the intimacy than woman on here. I get quite afew casual one night stand offers.. i decline because i hate one off hook ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am.

For me having a fix of adult company with affection and some of life's simple pleasures along with the rest is absolutely perfect. I just like being able to revert back to life inbetween.

This exactly

. I won’t and never will do casual one offs. Does nothing for me at all. I want more than just sex but I want less than a relationship. It’s not that easy to find here. "

Its not easy at all I agree.

I don't even want posh luxury or OTT. Just simple and low key and I'm more than happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am.

For me having a fix of adult company with affection and some of life's simple pleasures along with the rest is absolutely perfect. I just like being able to revert back to life inbetween.

This exactly

. I won’t and never will do casual one offs. Does nothing for me at all. I want more than just sex but I want less than a relationship. It’s not that easy to find here.

Its not easy at all I agree.

I don't even want posh luxury or OTT. Just simple and low key and I'm more than happy. "

Yes definitely. Just a bubble to step into, have the best time, then step out of it back to normal life. I like the bubble analogy. And keep in touch in between meeting of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am looking for more than just sex if that’s even possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was looking for casual then it turned into amazingly good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am.

For me having a fix of adult company with affection and some of life's simple pleasures along with the rest is absolutely perfect. I just like being able to revert back to life inbetween.

This exactly

. I won’t and never will do casual one offs. Does nothing for me at all. I want more than just sex but I want less than a relationship. It’s not that easy to find here.

Its not easy at all I agree.

I don't even want posh luxury or OTT. Just simple and low key and I'm more than happy.

Yes definitely. Just a bubble to step into, have the best time, then step out of it back to normal life. I like the bubble analogy. And keep in touch in between meeting of course. "

Exactly and I love the bubble analogy too.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

But how often do you stay in touch between meets? To keep it a bubble and not turn into a part of ordinary life?

Difficult... very difficult... *said in a Sorting Hat voice*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

posh luxury, OTT AND a bubble of great, exciting, fantastic, normal - well, extraordinarily ‘normal’ and great Life offered here ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not into one offs, it has to be more than that

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It's amazing when you click with someone and that happens, and I'm always open to it, but with no expectations... I don't think you can "look" for it as such though, it just happens naturally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would like a regular friend for us both who understands the scene who we both click with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But how often do you stay in touch between meets? To keep it a bubble and not turn into a part of ordinary life?

Difficult... very difficult... *said in a Sorting Hat voice*

Can be. Not sure. I’ve always managed it but I’m pretty straight in what I’m looking for. I tend to make the rules clear from the start lol. Feelings don’t scare me like they do a lot of people. I guess I’m pretty adamant I don’t want anyone in my life full time and that won’t change no matter who it is. Depends on the person I guess x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, sort of. I don't want to run off into the sunset with someone but I'm starting to embrace and be more open with how I feel about people. I like doing little activities, like going for dinner or going to art exhibitions and then fucking all night after. I like kissing and talking about everything and it might be too much for some but it works for me.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......"

I don’t mind this if it’s someone interested in that sort of relationship.

But I have no wish to be romanced by someone merely intending to use my vagina for 15 minutes of fun.

It’s all or nothing. Either keep it casual if it’s casual. Woo me if you intend to put a ring on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, sort of. I don't want to run off into the sunset with someone but I'm starting to embrace and be more open with how I feel about people. I like doing little activities, like going for dinner or going to art exhibitions and then fucking all night after. I like kissing and talking about everything and it might be too much for some but it works for me."

Dinner and proper dating works for me too....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......

I don’t mind this if it’s someone interested in that sort of relationship.

But I have no wish to be romanced by someone merely intending to use my vagina for 15 minutes of fun.

It’s all or nothing. Either keep it casual if it’s casual. Woo me if you intend to put a ring on it.

Absolutely right....

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Someone regular would be nice, I don't want to go as far as romance & love tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Someone regular would be nice, I don't want to go as far as romance & love tho"

Aw, I love being the romantic Gentleman....

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By *uiceeeWoman
over a year ago

sheffield

18 months i met a guy for a meet purley for sex we spent the night together in a hotel...he ended up comming to my place when we left the hotel weve been with each other since .we never planned for it but sometimes you find love in the most unexpected places xx yes we are still on fab because we have made good friends on here along the way X

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

To have a long term partner who was kinky, that would be amazing... I can but hope...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We tried through here, we did the whole exploring thing but anything that left us Meh or feeling empty wasn’t done again.

Many will say it’s what they want but very very few want it from a couple so we looked elsewhere. We now have a regular friend (On a break though as they’ve had an op) & we can go out as a three or either combo of two depending on who wants to go or how busy we are with work sometimes.

We probably have a messenger chat once or twice a week just to see how our week is going. So far our dates have included dinners, pub crawls, the cinema, walking in the mountains of Wales, a steampunk event, local art exhibitions & craft fairs.

There are people out there that want more than a bit of play but it’s no good sitting their waiting for them to find you, you want it? You find it then.....we did as it was never going to happen otherwise..

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

"We're looking for a guy who could become my regular bit on the side, hotwifey style. I'd have to have more than just sexual attraction to whoever it is because if we're going to see each other regularly, there'd have to be intelligent conversation etc "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......"

Yes, it's how we met on here. Completely smitten with each other, and the extra fun is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So like the boyfriend experience without the living in element?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So like the boyfriend experience without the living in element?"

Kinda... Just having the best bits without all the other normal stuff. Or like a best mate that you go out with and sleep with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So like the boyfriend experience without the living in element?

Kinda... Just having the best bits without all the other normal stuff. Or like a best mate that you go out with and sleep with. "

That exactly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......"

Some people's dream including mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......

Some people's dream including mine! "

Same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......

Some people's dream including mine! "

Well it can and does happen. Look at us two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......"

Yes. I’ll be looking for this in the near future.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is anyone looking for more than a casual meet? What about romance, kissing, being held and loved.....as well as the giggles together......"
I

We'll do dinner, drinks, friendliness etc but being held and loved isn't something either of us want from casual encounters not is romance and kissing.

We're aware that we far as the forum is concerned that makes us unusual. Does it make is bad people? We don't think so

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Apologies for the terrible proof reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want someone to hold and love me...but I’ve been told I’m unloveable

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I just want someone to hold and love me...but I’ve been told I’m unloveable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just want someone to hold and love me...but I’ve been told I’m unloveable

It’s okay, I know I’m a boss ass bitch

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I just want someone to hold and love me...but I’ve been told I’m unloveable

It’s okay, I know I’m a boss ass bitch

That's alright then

I probably am too.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"I just want someone to hold and love me...but I’ve been told I’m unloveable

I want all that, too. And had it, until late last year, but I reckon my own subconscious has convinced me I'm unlovable and I sabotage my own relationships until the other person bails on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but I don't think you get it here.

Experience has showed me most people are here for their own agenda.

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