FabSwingers.com forum: YOUR coming out story

By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m not really into celebrity gossip, he said his piece there isn’t a need for it to be news for three days. so, with all this Phil talk, I want to know how YOU, you real-life people did it and became your real self. Was it negative or positive.

Mine is quite mortifying... but not for the obvious reasons.

My dad was at work on a night shift with four young apprentices who were looking at MySpace... commenting on the ‘fitness’ of this young girl and what they’d like to do to her they then asked my dad if he’d give her one too... turned the screen round.... it was me. MY POOR DAD. How absolutely awful!!

My mum rang to tell me the next day and commented ‘it says you are bisexual’ and I confirmed it was true. Nothing to else was ever said but I’m just happy that they know.

How did it go for you??

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't have a story as noone really knows.

I'd have died if it was the way it happened to you though!

Pleased you lived to tell the tale.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m not really into celebrity gossip, he said his piece there isn’t a need for it to be news for three days. so, with all this Phil talk, I want to know how YOU, you real-life people did it and became your real self. Was it negative or positive.

Mine is quite mortifying... but not for the obvious reasons.

My mum rang to tell me the next day and commented ‘it says you are bisexual’ and I confirmed it was true. Nothing to else was ever said but I’m just happy that they know.

How did it go for you??

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lol omg shock horror

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I was 'outed' by my ex to my family. My mother told me that I was 'going to die early and going to hell as gay sex is a sin.'

Unsurprisingly I don't have any contact with my family now.

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

My dad saw some pictures of me on Facebook. He looked at me and said 'what would your mother have said?'

I replied 'nice tits, probably'- he laughed and agreed she would have loved to come out for a night on the town, were she still with us.

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By *oodnitegirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"My dad saw some pictures of me on Facebook. He looked at me and said 'what would your mother have said?'

I replied 'nice tits, probably'- he laughed and agreed she would have loved to come out for a night on the town, were she still with us."

Love it

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"My dad saw some pictures of me on Facebook. He looked at me and said 'what would your mother have said?'

I replied 'nice tits, probably'- he laughed and agreed she would have loved to come out for a night on the town, were she still with us."

Perfect response.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started going out with a girl when I was 20 before anyone actually knew at all. Then we popped it on Facebook. I think a couple of people where surprised but just accepted it. I never came out so to speak.

I went round to my mum's a few days later. She said that she and my stepdad had seen me and my girlfriend (she had a pink mohawk at the time so you could see her from a distance) and I said, yeah about us, and my mum was like, I know. My mum seems to get it completely and that I fall for someone based on the person and not the gender.

All of my family were massively accepting too. I took my girlfriend over to Sheffield for my cousin's wedding about five months after we got together. The only surprised reaction was from my cousin's new husband when I told him she was my girlfriend and not just a friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only know guys with sexuality secrets.

As I'm not close to my family, only my Daughter. They wouldn't approve with me being on here, never mind my sexuality.

Its not their business or anybody else's.

I've had an open mind to both my Sons and Daughters lifestyles and never dictated how they should live it.

Both are gay!

Glad they didn't need to hide it from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is quite mortifying... but not for the obvious reasons.

My mum rang to tell me the next day and commented ‘it says you are bisexual’ and I confirmed it was true. Nothing to else was ever said but I’m just happy that they know.

How did it go for you??

On a side note..isn't myspace awful?

(I used to have a music/band page on there in the early days, then when murdoch bought the site it seemed to slowly turned to trash..)

I think the last time i logged on was about 3 years ago: my god..what a train wreck.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Some years ago I decided I was bi. I know ! I know! Anyway ..... now i'm not. I'm simply an opportunist.....

That's my going in story.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I was 'outed' by my ex to my family. My mother told me that I was 'going to die early and going to hell as gay sex is a sin.'

Unsurprisingly I don't have any contact with my family now.

That's heartbreaking Tea.

Jo.Xx

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

I came out as straight.

Came to a shock to some.

Just because I didn't talk pervy about girls.

Later to find out it's down to a social anxiety why I never really mixed well in group settings.

Not the coming out story you're used too huh

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I came out as straight.

Came to a shock to some.

Just because I didn't talk pervy about girls.

Later to find out it's down to a social anxiety why I never really mixed well in group settings.

Not the coming out story you're used too huh "

No but a fair indication of how people just love to label those that don't conform to their ideals.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t feel a need to discuss it with anyone. I like my privacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some years ago I decided I was bi. I know ! I know! Anyway ..... now i'm not. I'm simply an opportunist.....

That's my going in story. "
as opposed to cumming out lol

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"I came out as straight.

Came to a shock to some.

Just because I didn't talk pervy about girls.

Later to find out it's down to a social anxiety why I never really mixed well in group settings.

Not the coming out story you're used too huh

No but a fair indication of how people just love to label those that don't conform to their ideals. "

Exactly but I don't always like to conform or particularly like to be labelled just leave people to there assumptions

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My parents found their way into my email and my emails to my then girlfriend. Cue lecture about homosexuality being awful and I've had boyfriends before so it's just a phase, etc etc etc.

I've since dated men so I'm totes straight, and have moved a long, long way away

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I was 'outed' by my ex to my family. My mother told me that I was 'going to die early and going to hell as gay sex is a sin.'

Unsurprisingly I don't have any contact with my family now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son admitted to me over Christmas that he didn't know what sexuality he is, he said he is attracted to both yet not explored with either and that for him it is the person not their gender which he is attracted too.

My response "how exciting that you have yet to discover that" I told him to embrace himself, stay true and never try to hide who he is because he is beautiful inside and out to me whatever happens and to always be proud of himself.

I did tell him that as I already have a daughter in law I adore I would not mind a son in law to spoil at all

It makes me really sad that people feel they have to hide who they are, we should be living in age where love and acceptance over rides anything.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"My son admitted to me over Christmas that he didn't know what sexuality he is, he said he is attracted to both yet not explored with either and that for him it is the person not their gender which he is attracted too.

I did tell him that as I already have a daughter in law I adore I would not mind a son in law to spoil at all

It makes me really sad that people feel they have to hide who they are, we should be living in age where love and acceptance over rides anything. "

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