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Phillip Schofield giver or a taker

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

What a horrible thing to write

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Do you ever have days where you think some people shouldn’t be allowed to use the internet

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester

Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"[Removed by poster at 08/02/20 08:23:37]"

Too late, cowardly move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And people wonder why men don't want to be honest about being bi

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"What a horrible thing to write"
This is factual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver "

Seek therapy

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"[Removed by poster at 08/02/20 08:23:37]

Too late, cowardly move "

No just spelling mistakes

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver "

Have you genuinely just wrote this?

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"What a horrible thing to write This is factual"

Factual is fine. Making fun of someone who has probably made an extremely difficult decision to be honest, absolutely stinks

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"What a horrible thing to write This is factual"

No it’s not factual it’s pure childish drivel

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By *attyduk76Man
over a year ago

nearby


"And people wonder why men don't want to be honest about being bi "

This

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By *abKenMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Welcome to the stupid side of Fab...

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Well I like doing both so I hope he does too. Variety is the spice of life

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver "

1. Other people aren't considering this.

2. No one gives a toss.

3. No person is remotely interested.

4. No one gives a shit.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

1. Other people aren't considering this.

2. No one gives a toss.

3. No person is remotely interested.

4. No one gives a shit."
You still replied though

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Well I like doing both so I hope he does too. Variety is the spice of life"

finally someone who isnt a snowflake

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver "

Why are you so interested? Can you identify with Philip and waiting to come out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

1. Other people aren't considering this.

2. No one gives a toss.

3. No person is remotely interested.

4. No one gives a shit."
i just gave a toss thank you very muchly

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Why are you so interested? Can you identify with Philip and waiting to come out?"

possibly, I could have an inner entity waiting to come out, I have been known to hang out the back of someone thinking of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thy doth protest too much, maybe if everyone had the strength to be their best self then there would not be so much hatred and vitriol in the world.

I wonder what the responses be had a lady come out as lesbian after all these years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you ever have days where you think some people shouldn’t be allowed to use the internet "

Every day!

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"And people wonder why men don't want to be honest about being bi "

Absolutely spot on bab. It took ages for me to change profile from straight on here.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Well I like doing both so I hope he does too. Variety is the spice of life

finally someone who isnt a snowflake"

Why do you think everyone who hasn’t agreed with your childish post is a snowflake?

If some mindless cretin made fun of your sexuality, I’d pick them up on it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And people wonder why men don't want to be honest about being bi "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thy doth protest too much, maybe if everyone had the strength to be their best self then there would not be so much hatred and vitriol in the world.

I wonder what the responses be had a lady come out as lesbian after all these years?

"
they'd probably say we knew all along

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Why are you so interested? Can you identify with Philip and waiting to come out?

possibly, I could have an inner entity waiting to come out, I have been known to hang out the back of someone thinking of others"

Fab straight at it's best.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Thy doth protest too much, maybe if everyone had the strength to be their best self then there would not be so much hatred and vitriol in the world.

I wonder what the responses be had a lady come out as lesbian after all these years?

"

The same response i think he's done well, his wife must have known a long time and has stood by the decision, well done for working it out ammicably.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Thy doth protest too much, maybe if everyone had the strength to be their best self then there would not be so much hatred and vitriol in the world.

I wonder what the responses be had a lady come out as lesbian after all these years?

"

There would probably still be many a crude thread on here if Holly had come out instead of Phillip to be fair.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

This thread is lower than a snakes belly (no offence to snakes)

Low even by my standards which are pretty low.

I see it from a different perspective though. His wife. Poor lady..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thy doth protest too much, maybe if everyone had the strength to be their best self then there would not be so much hatred and vitriol in the world.

I wonder what the responses be had a lady come out as lesbian after all these years?

There would probably still be many a crude thread on here if Holly had come out instead of Phillip to be fair. "
holly is already out as a muff diva

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It's exactly this kind of thread and thought process that points out exactly why there is a long long way to go with LGBTQ acceptance.

The framing of the question as a 'joke' points out that you think there's something funny or worse, demeaning about gay sex.

Grow up.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"It's exactly this kind of thread and thought process that points out exactly why there is a long long way to go with LGBTQ acceptance.

The framing of the question as a 'joke' points out that you think there's something funny or worse, demeaning about gay sex.

Grow up. "

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"It's exactly this kind of thread and thought process that points out exactly why there is a long long way to go with LGBTQ acceptance.

The framing of the question as a 'joke' points out that you think there's something funny or worse, demeaning about gay sex.

Grow up. "

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By *icklesCouple
over a year ago

North wales


"It's exactly this kind of thread and thought process that points out exactly why there is a long long way to go with LGBTQ acceptance.

The framing of the question as a 'joke' points out that you think there's something funny or worse, demeaning about gay sex.

Grow up. "

Well said

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Thy doth protest too much, maybe if everyone had the strength to be their best self then there would not be so much hatred and vitriol in the world.

I wonder what the responses be had a lady come out as lesbian after all these years?

There would probably still be many a crude thread on here if Holly had come out instead of Phillip to be fair. "

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him "
Exactly and this is why the country has turned out how it has today, god help us if WW3 was ever about to happen

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I get it OP, you were trying to be funny but it's just the sort of thing that teenage boys giggle about, not a grown man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him "

The problem with humour is knowing your audience

Many don't here

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"I get it OP, you were trying to be funny but it's just the sort of thing that teenage boys giggle about, not a grown man "

Trust me the amount of memes i received yesterday and that strangers posted on FB i beg to differ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

The problem with humour is knowing your audience

Many don't here"
lol hey if you haven't met em you don't know em

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

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As though it's an insult

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"It's exactly this kind of thread and thought process that points out exactly why there is a long long way to go with LGBTQ acceptance.

The framing of the question as a 'joke' points out that you think there's something funny or worse, demeaning about gay sex.

Grow up. "

Maybe the OP is struggling with his own sexuality... and makes light of others who have had the strength to be honest... certainly seems that he is conflicted as he has a very keen desire to know a bit more about it....

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"It's exactly this kind of thread and thought process that points out exactly why there is a long long way to go with LGBTQ acceptance.

The framing of the question as a 'joke' points out that you think there's something funny or worse, demeaning about gay sex.

Grow up.

Maybe the OP is struggling with his own sexuality... and makes light of others who have had the strength to be honest... certainly seems that he is conflicted as he has a very keen desire to know a bit more about it.... "

Oh yes always curious me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

The problem with humour is knowing your audience

Many don't here"
oh and many don't have a sense of humour

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"It's exactly this kind of thread and thought process that points out exactly why there is a long long way to go with LGBTQ acceptance.

The framing of the question as a 'joke' points out that you think there's something funny or worse, demeaning about gay sex.

Grow up.

Maybe the OP is struggling with his own sexuality... and makes light of others who have had the strength to be honest... certainly seems that he is conflicted as he has a very keen desire to know a bit more about it....

Oh yes always curious me"
Although i did hang out of the back of a lady boy once, she had the full chop aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's exactly this kind of thread and thought process that points out exactly why there is a long long way to go with LGBTQ acceptance.

The framing of the question as a 'joke' points out that you think there's something funny or worse, demeaning about gay sex.

Grow up.

Maybe the OP is struggling with his own sexuality... and makes light of others who have had the strength to be honest... certainly seems that he is conflicted as he has a very keen desire to know a bit more about it....

Oh yes always curious me"
me to is the earth round

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Thy doth protest too much, maybe if everyone had the strength to be their best self then there would not be so much hatred and vitriol in the world.

I wonder what the responses be had a lady come out as lesbian after all these years?

"

Are you bi? Will you meet me n me missus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. The fact that someone has to "come out" to explain their sexual preference to complete fucking strangers proves that we have a long way to go still.

2. The fact that anyone fucking cares what someones sexuality is being personal gain is fucking ridiculous.

3. What exactly is a "muff diva"? To me it kind of indicates a rather hypocritical point of view/ stance WAF when people use derogatory terms or slang.

4. Its fun to joke/banter about sex. I love it as much as anyone else but this was not joking or banter. What this does do is show you who people really are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

The problem with humour is knowing your audience

Many don't hereoh and many don't have a sense of humour "

That's a line rolled out by folks that nobody finds funny

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"I get it OP, you were trying to be funny but it's just the sort of thing that teenage boys giggle about, not a grown man

Trust me the amount of memes i received yesterday and that strangers posted on FB i beg to differ "

Hey I get it and saw a few myself. It's just a little crass and predictable that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him Exactly and this is why the country has turned out how it has today, god help us if WW3 was ever about to happen"
its called political correctness...... freedom of speech only applies to the others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

The problem with humour is knowing your audience

Many don't hereoh and many don't have a sense of humour

That's a line rolled out by folks that nobody finds funny "
you never lose a debate do you?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

As though it's an insult "

It’s not insult to the majority it is an insult to the ignorant homophobic. I’m not insinuating OP is a homophobe but he has put himself out there for ridicule. People mentioned hate a lot on the forum yesterday... now a reply could be hateful which I don’t think it deserves, or it could be mildly a piss take .... and normally when confronted by such comments in life turning it back on the person normally stops them going any further with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood why anyone has to come out. I personally don't care about their sexuality and neither should anyone else. It doesn't change that person.

It's not something I thought about but as the question has been asked, I think he will be a bumee not a bumer.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

"

I take it that was directed at me. Why would a straight man even give a flying rats ass as to whether a gay man was a giver or receiver? Yes I think it's an unheathy obsession, especially if they go on to call people snowflakes for challenging the juvenille post - take and receive, yes ironic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear. Time to log off now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

The problem with humour is knowing your audience

Many don't hereoh and many don't have a sense of humour

That's a line rolled out by folks that nobody finds funny "

Nailed it

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over a year ago


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

As though it's an insult

It’s not insult to the majority it is an insult to the ignorant homophobic. I’m not insinuating OP is a homophobe but he has put himself out there for ridicule. People mentioned hate a lot on the forum yesterday... now a reply could be hateful which I don’t think it deserves, or it could be mildly a piss take .... and normally when confronted by such comments in life turning it back on the person normally stops them going any further with it "
hey he's bi at best unless his children were by immaculate conception please don't get carried away with homophobic accusations hes made a harmless joke about our beloved bisexual phil its not the end of the world go have some Weetabix and chill

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Now I believe the OP is probably a little regretful about the thread... it’ll go one of two ways

1. Apologise for any offence and end it

2. Think, I need to see this through or lose face

I wonder which it will be

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

As though it's an insult

It’s not insult to the majority it is an insult to the ignorant homophobic. I’m not insinuating OP is a homophobe but he has put himself out there for ridicule. People mentioned hate a lot on the forum yesterday... now a reply could be hateful which I don’t think it deserves, or it could be mildly a piss take .... and normally when confronted by such comments in life turning it back on the person normally stops them going any further with it "

I get what you're saying, but I feel like it's basically doing what everyone has already criticised the op for, making a joke of him being gay as though it's something that should offend. And to be fair to him, it didn't.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

I take it that was directed at me. Why would a straight man even give a flying rats ass as to whether a gay man was a giver or receiver? Yes I think it's an unheathy obsession, especially if they go on to call people snowflakes for challenging the juvenille post - take and receive, yes ironic.

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Just like being called homophobic also

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

As though it's an insult

It’s not insult to the majority it is an insult to the ignorant homophobic. I’m not insinuating OP is a homophobe but he has put himself out there for ridicule. People mentioned hate a lot on the forum yesterday... now a reply could be hateful which I don’t think it deserves, or it could be mildly a piss take .... and normally when confronted by such comments in life turning it back on the person normally stops them going any further with it hey he's bi at best unless his children were by immaculate conception please don't get carried away with homophobic accusations hes made a harmless joke about our beloved bisexual phil its not the end of the world go have some Weetabix and chill "

Read the post again. I didn’t say he was... I don’t know him and I’m sure he’s a really top chap.

And it’s always porridge for breakfast

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

As though it's an insult

It’s not insult to the majority it is an insult to the ignorant homophobic. I’m not insinuating OP is a homophobe but he has put himself out there for ridicule. People mentioned hate a lot on the forum yesterday... now a reply could be hateful which I don’t think it deserves, or it could be mildly a piss take .... and normally when confronted by such comments in life turning it back on the person normally stops them going any further with it

I get what you're saying, but I feel like it's basically doing what everyone has already criticised the op for, making a joke of him being gay as though it's something that should offend. And to be fair to him, it didn't."

It didnt because it was in a banterous way, i dont do malicious, although this is as watered down as i can be without being too offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver "

What a despicable person you are.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

I take it that was directed at me. Why would a straight man even give a flying rats ass as to whether a gay man was a giver or receiver? Yes I think it's an unheathy obsession, especially if they go on to call people snowflakes for challenging the juvenille post - take and receive, yes ironic.

Just like being called homophobic also"

Are you homophobic OP?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Now I believe the OP is probably a little regretful about the thread... it’ll go one of two ways

1. Apologise for any offence and end it

2. Think, I need to see this through or lose face

I wonder which it will be "

I hope it's number 2. Well metaphorically speaking it already is but you know what I meant......

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester

Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver "

Are u speaking from experience

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

I take it that was directed at me. Why would a straight man even give a flying rats ass as to whether a gay man was a giver or receiver? Yes I think it's an unheathy obsession, especially if they go on to call people snowflakes for challenging the juvenille post - take and receive, yes ironic.

"

Straight men can be sexually inquisitive as to the sex life of others though. Loving the juicy gossip of it all etc.

I just don’t think questioning his sexuality was really needed.

But thanks for explaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

As though it's an insult

It’s not insult to the majority it is an insult to the ignorant homophobic. I’m not insinuating OP is a homophobe but he has put himself out there for ridicule. People mentioned hate a lot on the forum yesterday... now a reply could be hateful which I don’t think it deserves, or it could be mildly a piss take .... and normally when confronted by such comments in life turning it back on the person normally stops them going any further with it hey he's bi at best unless his children were by immaculate conception please don't get carried away with homophobic accusations hes made a harmless joke about our beloved bisexual phil its not the end of the world go have some Weetabix and chill

Read the post again. I didn’t say he was... I don’t know him and I’m sure he’s a really top chap.

And it’s always porridge for breakfast "
really theyre both not for me but give me phillips smiley face in the morning every time, lovely chap that he is and just because he likes to give a guy a blow job doesn't make him any less popular with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him Exactly and this is why the country has turned out how it has today, god help us if WW3 was ever about to happen"

Hahahahaha. No it isn’t. And no it won’t.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him "

Hold on a minute I was the first woman to post and I thought it was childish, and no I didn’t think it was funny, it’s not funny when someone has had to wait 57 years to be able to open up and feel like themselves, if you think that’s laughable then get on with it, personally I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!"
you to, who you watching?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

What a despicable person you are. "

I think he was trying to be humourful, not malicious.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!you to, who you watching? "

All of them, It's a marathon of a session today, with some crazy Jocks aswell haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

What a despicable person you are.

I think he was trying to be humourful, not malicious. "

I don’t think he is being malicious at all but his humour is that of a 12 yr old boy..

And, I’m not being malicious saying that

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Wow. Shocking OP. And totally unnecessary and childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is allowed ??

Beggars belief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I predict a lot longer before he gets any action from here. Terrible person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

Hold on a minute I was the first woman to post and I thought it was childish, and no I didn’t think it was funny, it’s not funny when someone has had to wait 57 years to be able to open up and feel like themselves, if you think that’s laughable then get on with it, personally I don’t "
as a woman you have responsibility as well as power here on the Internet domain called fabswingers and you strike me as a person who 'normally' has a sense of humour it was a joke end of, have a great weekend

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

The only crime the OP has committed is the one of hackneyed predictability. Gay guys must be so utterly bored of this sort of sniggering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I predict a lot longer before he gets any action from here. Terrible person "

Perhaps he doesn’t realise that potential meets could come across this thread. He’ll be fooked if she’s a huge Phillip fan ( like myself )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 08/02/20 08:23:37]"

When Fabbers say the men on here are terrible, your behaviour reinforces their perception.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"I predict a lot longer before he gets any action from here. Terrible person "

Your very wrong i was on here b4 with a few veri's, I only come on here to stay in the loop, trust me i dont need to come on here to meet people, there is a wonderful world outside these white walls you know

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

What a despicable person you are.

I think he was trying to be humourful, not malicious.

I don’t think he is being malicious at all but his humour is that of a 12 yr old boy..

And, I’m not being malicious saying that "

So what if it is, humour is humour, better than being boring. No offence meant to anyone with that comment either

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

Hold on a minute I was the first woman to post and I thought it was childish, and no I didn’t think it was funny, it’s not funny when someone has had to wait 57 years to be able to open up and feel like themselves, if you think that’s laughable then get on with it, personally I don’t as a woman you have responsibility as well as power here on the Internet domain called fabswingers and you strike me as a person who 'normally' has a sense of humour it was a joke end of, have a great weekend "

A responsibility and power, I’ve heard it all now, in that case I am responsibly standing up for a brave act and I have the power to say this childish thread should disappear!!!

Has it happened yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!you to, who you watching?

All of them, It's a marathon of a session today, with some crazy Jocks aswell haha."
I'll be watching to although was disappointed with englands performance France played well

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!you to, who you watching?

All of them, It's a marathon of a session today, with some crazy Jocks aswell haha.I'll be watching to although was disappointed with englands performance France played well "

terrible wasn't it, hopefully that was a shock and pushed us into gear, I can't watch a loss today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!you to, who you watching?

All of them, It's a marathon of a session today, with some crazy Jocks aswell haha.I'll be watching to although was disappointed with englands performance France played well

terrible wasn't it, hopefully that was a shock and pushed us into gear, I can't watch a loss today "
someone has to lose and today its you lol

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"have you noticed though about any thread the first few comments kinda set the theme especially if made by a woman, i personally dont mind if phillip schofield is bi gay straight or a transsexual or even a CD but how should we as the British people not be able to take the piss or have a laugh he phillip would he's got a great sense of humour, so hes bi so was kenny Everett and people used to love him

Hold on a minute I was the first woman to post and I thought it was childish, and no I didn’t think it was funny, it’s not funny when someone has had to wait 57 years to be able to open up and feel like themselves, if you think that’s laughable then get on with it, personally I don’t as a woman you have responsibility as well as power here on the Internet domain called fabswingers and you strike me as a person who 'normally' has a sense of humour it was a joke end of, have a great weekend

A responsibility and power, I’ve heard it all now, in that case I am responsibly standing up for a brave act and I have the power to say this childish thread should disappear!!!

Has it happened yet? "

No because its not offensive to you, freedom of speech just like you chose to click on it and comment, there's no nastiness here honey only friendship and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!you to, who you watching?

All of them, It's a marathon of a session today, with some crazy Jocks aswell haha.I'll be watching to although was disappointed with englands performance France played well

terrible wasn't it, hopefully that was a shock and pushed us into gear, I can't watch a loss today "

Seemless switch of topic OP, I don't think anyone noticed

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!you to, who you watching?

All of them, It's a marathon of a session today, with some crazy Jocks aswell haha.I'll be watching to although was disappointed with englands performance France played well

terrible wasn't it, hopefully that was a shock and pushed us into gear, I can't watch a loss today someone has to lose and today its you lol "

This will not surprise me if it happens

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Anyway have a good day guys and gals and anyone else, Rugby today and drinks to be had, enjoy your day!!you to, who you watching?

All of them, It's a marathon of a session today, with some crazy Jocks aswell haha.I'll be watching to although was disappointed with englands performance France played well

terrible wasn't it, hopefully that was a shock and pushed us into gear, I can't watch a loss today

Seemless switch of topic OP, I don't think anyone noticed "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

What a despicable person you are.

I think he was trying to be humourful, not malicious. "

I recognise that it was intended as humorous, that's the issue. Its the puerile thought process that sniggers at gay sex or considers someone who 'takes' as less that's the problem.

Dressing up and accepting derogatory views as 'banter' is the acceptable face of intolerance.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM? "

I don't think any rules have been broken, have they?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM? "

What has broken the rules ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM?

I don't think any rules have been broken, have they? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM? "

Sometimes she goes to bed. Sometimes she's in ASDA. You can usually hear her bat wings when she logs on.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM?

Sometimes she goes to bed. Sometimes she's in ASDA. You can usually hear her bat wings when she logs on."

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM?

I don't think any rules have been broken, have they? "

Nope.

People can write what they want, as long as it's not directly insulting (amongst other rules). Having a distasteful viewpoint doesn't result in a ban. It will result in blocks and reaction from others though.

So long as the discussion is about the topic, not the person, it should be OK.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester

This is what i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM?

Sometimes she goes to bed. Sometimes she's in ASDA. You can usually hear her bat wings when she logs on."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

What a despicable person you are.

I think he was trying to be humourful, not malicious.

I recognise that it was intended as humorous, that's the issue. Its the puerile thought process that sniggers at gay sex or considers someone who 'takes' as less that's the problem.

Dressing up and accepting derogatory views as 'banter' is the acceptable face of intolerance. "

Exactly this. Its puerile at best and insidious at worst.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

[Removed by poster at 08/02/20 09:24:28]

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

For those really not liking this thread the best way to stop it is to not contribute......

He's just a very naughty boy.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

It doesn't need moderating

There are numerous threads on here started by grown men about 'catching the ghey'

It's immature and boring but not really offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those really not liking this thread the best way to stop it is to not contribute......

He's just a very naughty boy."

Granny he’s used my real name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those really not liking this thread the best way to stop it is to not contribute......

He's just a very naughty boy."

Yep, it was a misjudged post by the OP. I'm just bookmarking because the outrage is much funnier than the original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 post to close thread here’s mine

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By *hongguyMan
over a year ago

heckmondwike

whats happened to the british sense of humour I blame Brexit my self

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"whats happened to the british sense of humour I blame Brexit my self "

Brexit has gone, you’re too late for that excuse

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"whats happened to the british sense of humour I blame Brexit my self

Brexit has gone, you’re too late for that excuse "

I blame Corbyn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats happened to the british sense of humour I blame Brexit my self "

I guess we've just moved on from sniggering at gay people. My son knew at eight years old that it was unkind and not funny. He loves all kinds of comedy and we watch hours of it together. This just isn't funny.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating "

Do we know he's cheated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those really not liking this thread the best way to stop it is to not contribute......

He's just a very naughty boy."
Philip or the Op

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating "

How do you know this? Even he doesn’t know what going to happen next

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating "

Or they’ve had an open marriage and she’s known for years and years? There’s alsorts of different relationships out there

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

"

No but we do know he cheated his wife out of a descent marriage,

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Do we know he's cheated?

"

Only explanation is he’s on here as a fan straight single (y’all are cheaters) male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

"
he cheated at cards once he mentioned it to hollywillowbooby on the box

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

No but we do know he cheated his wife out of a descent marriage,"

27 years is pretty decent, if his wife and family accept him and respect him for his decision who are we to say any different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those really not liking this thread the best way to stop it is to not contribute......

He's just a very naughty boy.Philip or the Op "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"For those really not liking this thread the best way to stop it is to not contribute......

He's just a very naughty boy.

Granny he’s used my real name. "

Was it on your profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Narrow minded first thing I thought once seeing this post nobody know what’s gone in behind closed doors only Phillip his wife,kids,close friends know so does it really matter

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

he cheated at cards once he mentioned it to hollywillowbooby on the box "

Do you wreckon Gino D'scampo will be getting his arse out again in the kitchen,

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating "

You don’t know anything about his private sex life, but somehow assume that you do, because you use your own criteria. So he has to have had multiple goes at “being gay” before deciding that he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those really not liking this thread the best way to stop it is to not contribute......

He's just a very naughty boy.

Granny he’s used my real name.

Was it on your profile ?"

No. Also our profile is hidden.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

No but we do know he cheated his wife out of a descent marriage,

27 years is pretty decent, if his wife and family accept him and respect him for his decision who are we to say any different. "

I agree with this, this is if he stayed with her, there's no doubt he loves her dearly, My friend was with a man for 7 years and he's now with a woman he loves and has had a child to her, he's denied all knowledge of ever being gay,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

he cheated at cards once he mentioned it to hollywillowbooby on the box

Do you wreckon Gino D'scampo will be getting his arse out again in the kitchen, "
no but did you know he was a crook before he became a celebrity chef he stole Paul Youngs guitar

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

No but we do know he cheated his wife out of a descent marriage,"

It sounds like they have had a very good marriage, he is supported by his wife and lovely daughters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

In his direction of travel .....he must of taken some pit stops before getting to his destination.

"

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

You don’t know anything about his private sex life, but somehow assume that you do, because you use your own criteria. So he has to have had multiple goes at “being gay” before deciding that he was. "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

It’s unfortunate that people have to live a life without being able to be true to themselves. For him, it’s great that he can now be free of the angst over it all. It seems like it’s been difficult.

For his wife ... it’s just the start for her. Everything she knows has changed through none of her own doing. You don’t stop loving someone but it has certainly changed her life and she’s the one that family and friends should keep their eye on.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

No but we do know he cheated his wife out of a descent marriage,

It sounds like they have had a very good marriage, he is supported by his wife and lovely daughters "
Smoke and mirrors, no ones knows what goes on behind closed doors. I had a wonderful marriage outdoors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

No but we do know he cheated his wife out of a descent marriage,

It sounds like they have had a very good marriage, he is supported by his wife and lovely daughters "

His wife’s the hero let’s not give Schofe

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

he cheated at cards once he mentioned it to hollywillowbooby on the box

Do you wreckon Gino D'scampo will be getting his arse out again in the kitchen, no but did you know he was a crook before he became a celebrity chef he stole Paul Youngs guitar "

Everydays a school day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s unfortunate that people have to live a life without being able to be true to themselves. For him, it’s great that he can now be free of the angst over it all. It seems like it’s been difficult.

For his wife ... it’s just the start for her. Everything she knows has changed through none of her own doing. You don’t stop loving someone but it has certainly changed her life and she’s the one that family and friends should keep their eye on. "

Got to look for the possitives. She might like the idea of a bi mmf

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

No but we do know he cheated his wife out of a descent marriage,

It sounds like they have had a very good marriage, he is supported by his wife and lovely daughters Smoke and mirrors, no ones knows what goes on behind closed doors. I had a wonderful marriage outdoors"

No we dont, so none of us can make assumptions, either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

No but we do know he cheated his wife out of a descent marriage,

It sounds like they have had a very good marriage, he is supported by his wife and lovely daughters

His wife’s the hero let’s not give Schofe"

....all the credit

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

OP. You can't just put gay men in two camps (no pun intended)

of givers and takers. Some may be as you describe, some may do both and some will not indulge ever in the act you allude to. This is not even Carry On or Benny Hill humour. That was far more sophisticated than that which is amusing you.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver "

Is this what you wrote on your first post?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

Do we know he's cheated?

he cheated at cards once he mentioned it to hollywillowbooby on the box

Do you wreckon Gino D'scampo will be getting his arse out again in the kitchen, no but did you know he was a crook before he became a celebrity chef he stole Paul Youngs guitar "

That was decades ago. First they came for Begum...... then they came for D'Campo......

I just find him highly irritating.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Seek therapy "

Why? Gay sex is about giving and taking

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Is this what you wrote on your first post?"

yes thats is

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

1. Other people aren't considering this.

2. No one gives a toss.

3. No person is remotely interested.

4. No one gives a shit."

The OP obviously does

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Is this what you wrote on your first post?

yes thats is "

I am not sure why the posts telling you off for it. The post is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like Schofe but doesn’t sit right to me,

he come out as gay, but married for 27 years

So the only way he knows that ....he’s cheated on his wife multiple times, celebrating his coming out is one thing but surely we not supporting his cause for cheating

You don’t know anything about his private sex life, but somehow assume that you do, because you use your own criteria. So he has to have had multiple goes at “being gay” before deciding that he was. "

The whole thread is on assumption, I’m focusing on the partner whilst others seem to be defending it celebrating a sexual realisation

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Making fun of someones sexual choices isnt nice. At all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Seek therapy

Why? Gay sex is about giving and taking"

Erm... OK. If that's what you believe that's fine. I think the thread states pretty clearly what myself and others have objected to.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Is this what you wrote on your first post?

yes thats is

I am not sure why the posts telling you off for it. The post is fine

"

Well i never meant for any distateness in the slightest, purely a comical error of judgement as to what different levely of banter ppl can and cant take,

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Stop attacking people when you post. The man is allowed to ask the question, it isn't against rules.

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester

Making fun of someones sexual choices isnt It was a question not making fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Is this what you wrote on your first post?

yes thats is

I am not sure why the posts telling you off for it. The post is fine

Well i never meant for any distateness in the slightest, purely a comical error of judgement as to what different levely of banter ppl can and cant take, "

Don't start on the taking again

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Seek therapy

Why? Gay sex is about giving and taking

Erm... OK. If that's what you believe that's fine. I think the thread states pretty clearly what myself and others have objected to. "

It isn't what I believe, that is how gay men have sex.

It isn't against any rule to ask did gay men who came out think of men when doing their wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop attacking people when you post. The man is allowed to ask the question, it isn't against rules.

"

Isn’t having your real name used against the rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Is this what you wrote on your first post?

yes thats is

I am not sure why the posts telling you off for it. The post is fine

Well i never meant for any distateness in the slightest, purely a comical error of judgement as to what different levely of banter ppl can and cant take,

Don't start on the taking again "

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By *undayTarka OP   Man
over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester


"Let's settle this is he a giver or a taker or does he like both, considering how many times he has shot his fat into his wife thinking of other men, possibly a giver

Is this what you wrote on your first post?

yes thats is

I am not sure why the posts telling you off for it. The post is fine

Well i never meant for any distateness in the slightest, purely a comical error of judgement as to what different levely of banter ppl can and cant take,

Don't start on the taking again "

Im loving my own words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, can you start a 2nd one? This turned entertaining

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

And that concludes the FAB forum discussion on what is funny and what is not.

Join us next week for another perpetual cyle of ner ner ner ners.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Stop attacking people when you post. The man is allowed to ask the question, it isn't against rules.

Isn’t having your real name used against the rules?

"

No, but it is something a mod would remove if someone objected. To clarify though, I am reading from the beginning, up to now I have only got to Grannies and a couple on the bottom, if your name has been used and you don't want it to be I can get to it faster as I still have the rest of the thread to read if you report the actual post or mail me which post it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a matter of time before the warped phil jokes appeared!

Thank god I'm not on any other media platforms....

Anyway back to swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just platform shoes

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why is it, when someone starts a thread that folk don’t like, that people immediately question the OP’s sexuality, like insinuating that the OP must be in the closet or in denial about something themselves?

I’ve never understood that...

As though it's an insult "

Exactly that. Make a joke about gay sex and whether the man who came out thought of men when he had sex with his wife 27 years and whether he takes or gives and you get told off for being disrespectful to someone who has just come out....then you get told you must be a closet gay as if that is an insult.

I guess that would be disrespectful if you thought the first was

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

PS, posts had to be removed so why it looks like a mod has closed a thread when in fact it closed for getting to 175 but it might be best not to start another anyway

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Who’s moderating this? Where’s RugbydoesMFM?"

I was in bed.

@ batwings

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