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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

an exchanging of partners of the opposite sex or is it a free for all? Can/should it be defined?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re only a swinger if you’ll fuck anyone and everyone. True facts

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It is what you want it to be for yourself

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

More respect than a random fuck but not as much as dating.

We've also never swapped. Don't want to.

I do wish single guys would stop offering soft/full swap though. You're single, you can't swap.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

https://youtu.be/9z3jCiCrsx0

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"an exchanging of partners of the opposite sex or is it a free for all? Can/should it be defined?"

People will define it, whether it can/should be or not. People will always define things based on their own experiences and judge others accordingly.

To me, swinging is a mindset.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know what it is, I just do my thing.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Swinging how you personally want to define it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging how you personally want to define it "

This

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't think there is a universally accepted single definition of swinging. There are a number of behaviours you can select from that indicate a swinger but not all of them have to be present for somebody to identify as a swinger.

I think at it's heart is consensual non-monogamy. Characteristics include couples bringing other people in to enjoy sex with them; and individuals who have multiple partners, either one at a time (something like a rota) or at the same time (from threesomes to full orgies).

There will be variants on those I'm sure so it won't be a single set of them that makes somebody a swinger.

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