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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies pls rate my pic and profile face pic friends only or pm me and tell me why I'm not having ppl message me sorry I've had 1 a gay guy which I am not but at least I know now I can be seen just not by the person I want to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have one pic where you can see half your torso.

You have nothing about you or what you're looking for on your profile.

You are one of a million guys on here, you need to sell yourself a bit. Have a look at some of the more successful guy's profiles and see how yours compares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says absolutely nothing about you and you have only one picture.

You do understand that us single men massively outnumber women and couples on the site, by about 100 to 1. You need to stand out.

Question, are you pro-actively messaging people or are you sitting back waiting for others to come to you.

As most will view your profile (usually in stealth mode - so you won't even know) before even considering opening any message you may have sent them, you need to make sure your profile is the best it can possibly be.

Have a look in the Introductions forum (or do a forum search) for some of the many, many threads on profile advice and see what tios you can pick up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies pls rate my pic and profile face pic friends only or pm me and tell me why I'm not having ppl message me sorry I've had 1 a gay guy which I am not but at least I know now I can be seen just not by the person I want to lol "
your profile is your advert it has to be best it can be and that means pics and write up, presently youre asking for sympathy vote and that's not a great advert

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you babe I shall edit it can I send u a friend request so u can see the new profile and score me well that and your bum is amazing sorry couldn't help that I'm sure u have heard that a few times before lol thanks for help x p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you babe I shall edit it can I send u a friend request so u can see the new profile and score me well that and your bum is amazing sorry couldn't help that I'm sure u have heard that a few times before lol thanks for help x p"
please dont call me babe reminds me of the film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you babe I shall edit it can I send u a friend request so u can see the new profile and score me well that and your bum is amazing sorry couldn't help that I'm sure u have heard that a few times before lol thanks for help x p"

I'm gonna assume this was for me.

No, I only add people as friends who I've been chatting with a while and hope to meet.

If you post on here when it's updated I will have another look though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you babe I shall edit it can I send u a friend request so u can see the new profile and score me well that and your bum is amazing sorry couldn't help that I'm sure u have heard that a few times before lol thanks for help x p

I'm gonna assume this was for me.

No, I only add people as friends who I've been chatting with a while and hope to meet.

If you post on here when it's updated I will have another look though. "
damn i assumed it was for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you babe I shall edit it can I send u a friend request so u can see the new profile and score me well that and your bum is amazing sorry couldn't help that I'm sure u have heard that a few times before lol thanks for help x p

I'm gonna assume this was for me.

No, I only add people as friends who I've been chatting with a while and hope to meet.

If you post on here when it's updated I will have another look though. damn i assumed it was for me "

You can have it if you want, I don't mind. The word babe gives me irrational anger anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny how guys ask the ladies for advice when, if you think about it, they should really be asking for advice from successful men about what works and what doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you babe I shall edit it can I send u a friend request so u can see the new profile and score me well that and your bum is amazing sorry couldn't help that I'm sure u have heard that a few times before lol thanks for help x p

I'm gonna assume this was for me.

No, I only add people as friends who I've been chatting with a while and hope to meet.

If you post on here when it's updated I will have another look though. damn i assumed it was for me

You can have it if you want, I don't mind. The word babe gives me irrational anger anyway "
me to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for ur input aswell I shall return lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for ur input aswell I shall return lol"

When replying to someone specifically, hit on 'reply+quote' as it will help people undrstand who your comments are intended for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lol"
its a derogatory term ie oink oink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lol"
got it after I'd sent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Funny how guys ask the ladies for advice when, if you think about it, they should really be asking for advice from successful men about what works and what doesn't"
ur right advice from both better though as I've just found out cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lol"

Nothing, pet names from a stranger online just seem creepy. I get that in person it's different because it's just something you say but on here there's no tone or intention behind it and it just comes across as too forced or insincere. That's my opinion anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lolits a derogatory term ie oink oink "
lol how do you start ur messages then..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lol

Nothing, pet names from a stranger online just seem creepy. I get that in person it's different because it's just something you say but on here there's no tone or intention behind it and it just comes across as too forced or insincere. That's my opinion anyway. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lolits a derogatory term ie oink oink lol how do you start ur messages then.."
dear sir/madam

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lolits a derogatory term ie oink oink lol how do you start ur messages then.."
so how wud u like to be messaged ur initial or ur profile name I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lolits a derogatory term ie oink oink lol how do you start ur messages then..dear sir/madam "
or hi how are you I'm horny as hell

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

If anyone opens up a message to me and uses the word babe or hun, they better know how to run as for me and many others it's like a red rag to a bull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What wud u suggest other than babe then it seems a commonly hated word and where I'm from it's real common so it naturally rolls out I shall stop that in future lolits a derogatory term ie oink oink lol how do you start ur messages then..dear sir/madam or hi how are you I'm horny as hell "
or you look lovely can i see your knees please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone opens up a message to me and uses the word babe or hun, they better know how to run as for me and many others it's like a red rag to a bull."
you'd never catch me in 6" heels babe

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"If anyone opens up a message to me and uses the word babe or hun, they better know how to run as for me and many others it's like a red rag to a bull.you'd never catch me in 6" heels babe "

I knew that was coming with you.

You wont get the chance to run as those 6inch heels will be through your foot at the bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone opens up a message to me and uses the word babe or hun, they better know how to run as for me and many others it's like a red rag to a bull.you'd never catch me in 6" heels babe

I knew that was coming with you.

You wont get the chance to run as those 6inch heels will be through your foot at the bar "
I'm teetotal

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