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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im new to this and was wanting to clarify something, when you meet a man, its only acceptable for him to wear a condom, is this the same when a woman meets another woman?

No one wants a STD, so tell me do women who have just met a new female partner use a barrier when giving oral?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A piece of wood with a hole in it I would of thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are barriers available.. but then again, very few folks use barriers when giving oral, but still use condoms for penetration...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dental dams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im new to this and was wanting to clarify something, when you meet a man, its only acceptable for him to wear a condom, is this the same when a woman meets another woman?

No one wants a STD, so tell me do women who have just met a new female partner use a barrier when giving oral?"

you profile says your bisexual, do you use protection when going down on a woman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes but thats what im getting at; its not openly spoken about - the sexual consequences for girl on girl.

i know how to use a barrier with a girl, i just want to know are they used?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could use a female condom but if you got one out it may put people off lol... some people get regular checkups from a nurse at you local gp or a std clinic, never be shy to ask people before meeting them and if in any doubt dont do anything your unsure of x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ps.... you dont have to just give oral are as much fun as well as toys are as much fun as is toys xx and the fem condom goes inside and tucked over the edges,.. they do feel n taste horrid though. good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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you profile says your bisexual, do you use protection when going down on a woman?"

ive only ever had 1 woman and in that case no. this situation of meeting women who meet other women is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes but thats what im getting at; its not openly spoken about - the sexual consequences for girl on girl.

i know how to use a barrier with a girl, i just want to know are they used?"

i would think its something thats spoken about before a meet

I have to say i have been doing this for 11 years and i have never seen anyone at all use dental dams when doing oral on a woman, man or woman so i dont think its common

if you feel you want to use them then just suggest it while arranging a meet, it is something i would speak about first tho, i wouldnt just turn up and get them out, i think a lot of women would sooner not meet than use them, i know i would, id say no thnaks and look for someone who didnt use them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

naughtynmphos ; i understand where your coming from and your point however isn't your health more important than pleasure? oral is just as dangerous at contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Do you suggest i just forget about barriers and get checked regularly?

what if, you give someone oral who has HIV?

I know this is a contraversial suject but you cannot trust another person completely. Who is openly going to admit they have any STD?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naughtynmphos ; i understand where your coming from and your point however isn't your health more important than pleasure? oral is just as dangerous at contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Do you suggest i just forget about barriers and get checked regularly?

what if, you give someone oral who has HIV?

I know this is a contraversial suject but you cannot trust another person completely. Who is openly going to admit they have any STD?"

not at all, im not suggesting you do anything you do not want to, if you want to use dental dams thats your choice, all im saying is not everyone does or would use them so i would mention it before the meet

I would get no pleasure at all from licking someone thro a plastic sheet and i very much dount it would feel good for the other person, so me personally i would sooner not do it than do something neither party is really enjoying

But thats just me

Everyone if different, your sexual health is your responsability so only you can decide whats best for you, and regardless of what other people do you must do what feels right for you

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

1) If you use toys - don't share them without cleaning them first

2) If you use a double ender - put a different colour condom on each end - and keep to the same end - as in 1)

Above all - enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Siren uses a barrier to prevent unwanted sex. It's a fookin boulder and weighs 500lbs. She puts it behind the bedroom door so I can't get in!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"naughtynmphos ; i understand where your coming from and your point however isn't your health more important than pleasure? oral is just as dangerous at contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Do you suggest i just forget about barriers and get checked regularly?

what if, you give someone oral who has HIV?

I know this is a contraversial suject but you cannot trust another person completely. Who is openly going to admit they have any STD?"

okay... lots of messed up info here... so lets make it a little clearer...

yes you can catch "certain" sti's thru oral... however the risk of catching them thru oral is a lot lot lot lower then thru intercourse...... and even lower than that for the one you mentioned (HIV)

so in the end it is all about managing the risks....

my favourite analogy at the moment is crossing the road... we all have to do it from time to time.... but there is a difference between crossing the road at a zebra crossing... and crossing a 6 lane motorway.....

the only form of safe sex is no sex... and even when condoms/dental dams are used they are still 98% effect "when used perfectly"

so it is a case of managing the risks as you see fit... as against the pleasure/non pleasure you get from using something like that... and only in the end you can decide that

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"naughtynmphos ; i understand where your coming from and your point however isn't your health more important than pleasure? oral is just as dangerous at contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Do you suggest i just forget about barriers and get checked regularly?

what if, you give someone oral who has HIV?

I know this is a contraversial suject but you cannot trust another person completely. Who is openly going to admit they have any STD?

okay... lots of messed up info here... so lets make it a little clearer...

yes you can catch "certain" sti's thru oral... however the risk of catching them thru oral is a lot lot lot lower then thru intercourse...... and even lower than that for the one you mentioned (HIV)

so in the end it is all about managing the risks....

my favourite analogy at the moment is crossing the road... we all have to do it from time to time.... but there is a difference between crossing the road at a zebra crossing... and crossing a 6 lane motorway.....

the only form of safe sex is no sex... and even when condoms/dental dams are used they are still 98% effect "when used perfectly"

so it is a case of managing the risks as you see fit... as against the pleasure/non pleasure you get from using something like that... and only in the end you can decide that"

OP the GUM clinic do not recommend dental damns, if there was a significant risk they would.

As with everything in life there is a statistical risk, whether it is giving unprotected oral or leaving the house. when it comes to ftof oral the risk is so low i have never come across anyone who uses protection.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"naughtynmphos ; i understand where your coming from and your point however isn't your health more important than pleasure? oral is just as dangerous at contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Do you suggest i just forget about barriers and get checked regularly?

what if, you give someone oral who has HIV?

I know this is a contraversial suject but you cannot trust another person completely. Who is openly going to admit they have any STD?"

Unless you have very poor oral hygine and open sores in your mouth and they have cuts or are on their period you would not catch Hiv from oral sex on a woman.

You may need to think whether swinging other than watching is for you if you are this concerned.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"naughtynmphos ; i understand where your coming from and your point however isn't your health more important than pleasure? oral is just as dangerous at contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Do you suggest i just forget about barriers and get checked regularly?

what if, you give someone oral who has HIV?

I know this is a contraversial suject but you cannot trust another person completely. Who is openly going to admit they have any STD?

Unless you have very poor oral hygine and open sores in your mouth and they have cuts or are on their period you would not catch Hiv from oral sex on a woman.

You may need to think whether swinging other than watching is for you if you are this concerned."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only use condoms for penetrative sex... I certainly would not use it for oral on either a man or a woman.. as I would just rather not bother..

In fact I go a step further with my dislike of condoms as to rarely have full sex just because I dont like them.

I would think you would find it very hard to find a meet male or female that would want to perform oral using protection.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex is great if you have the right combination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naughtynmphos ; i understand where your coming from and your point however isn't your health more important than pleasure? oral is just as dangerous at contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Do you suggest i just forget about barriers and get checked regularly?

what if, you give someone oral who has HIV?

I know this is a contraversial suject but you cannot trust another person completely. Who is openly going to admit they have any STD?

Unless you have very poor oral hygine and open sores in your mouth and they have cuts or are on their period you would not catch Hiv from oral sex on a woman.

You may need to think whether swinging other than watching is for you if you are this concerned."

The thing is, and im not trying to talk anyone into or out of anything here this is just my opinion, you have as much chance of catching something thro kissing as you have oral sex, only takes someone to have a cold sore on its way, covered up with a bit of make up, so where do you draw the line, no kissing? protected oral? latex gloves for masterbation? only you know whats right for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naughtynmphos ;

Latex gloves for masterbation? "

Sounds kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naughtynmphos ;

Latex gloves for masterbation?

Sounds kinky"

well lol

i have used them for anal fisting before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naughtynmphos ;

Latex gloves for masterbation?

Sounds kinky

well lol

i have used them for anal fisting before "

And thats where I draw the line.

I guess it stops you getting shit under your nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"naughtynmphos ;

Latex gloves for masterbation?

Sounds kinky

well lol

i have used them for anal fisting before "
OUCH

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"naughtynmphos ; i understand where your coming from and your point however isn't your health more important than pleasure? oral is just as dangerous at contracting sexually transmitted infections.

Do you suggest i just forget about barriers and get checked regularly?

what if, you give someone oral who has HIV?

I know this is a contraversial suject but you cannot trust another person completely. Who is openly going to admit they have any STD?

Unless you have very poor oral hygine and open sores in your mouth and they have cuts or are on their period you would not catch Hiv from oral sex on a woman.

You may need to think whether swinging other than watching is for you if you are this concerned.

The thing is, and im not trying to talk anyone into or out of anything here this is just my opinion, you have as much chance of catching something thro kissing as you have oral sex, only takes someone to have a cold sore on its way, covered up with a bit of make up, so where do you draw the line, no kissing? protected oral? latex gloves for masterbation? only you know whats right for you"

i was actually thinking about this thread, i know sad but it beats housework, and how worrying peoples lack of knowledge is,

When it comes to oral its for more likely for a giver with a cold sore to infect the person they are going down on than anything else...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Cling film might work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cling film might work."

Tin foil is much better

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