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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

There's often the school of thought that when a person is 'tipsy' the truth of a matter is more likely to be told. That a person's 'true character' can be revealed.

Do you agree with this or do you think that it's just the drink talking?

Thoughts folks...

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Sometimes the lips are loosened, inhibitions lost, filters dropped and true thoughts are revealed

Sometimes however, the drink makes one speak even more shit than usual

It's picking which one is happening that's the real trick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope totally disagree. When i am d*unk I am an obnoxious attention seeking twat. Oh. Hang on. Maybe you are right afterall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drinking impairs cognitive function. Basically you're too d*unk to think of a lie so youre more likely to tell the truth

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Absolutely. I'll admit all kinds of crap when half cut xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Drink talking. Sometimes drinking will help people say things they've wanted to for ages of inadvertently reveal their true feelings but I've heard too many drink people talk utter nonsense to believe anything a d*unk person says

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I don't think that I hide my true character, I am me regardless if I'm tipsy or not.

For example if I don't like someone I won't pretend to be their best friend, but I won't tell them what I think of them either. However, if I don't like the said person because of a specific behaviour, I'm more likely to call them out on it whilst tipsy. This is due to a loss of my own inhibitions. Have I expressed my thoughts I normally bottle up after a drink yes, and more often than not it's been a good thing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It just disguises my composure. It's pretty ugly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth juice theres a reason i dont drink often

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I just talk random shit to any unfortunate soul to be listening. Did lose my anal virginity when pissed and no lube. Soon sobered up when i was impailed to the bed by a cock up my arse

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Absolutely. I'll admit all kinds of crap when half cut xx"

No take backs!

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I don't have many filters anyway and can't lie for shit because it's written all over my face (I'd be the worst poker player ever). But when I've drinking I'll say any old shite that comes into my head and I'm a bit more blunt and less tactful.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"Absolutely. I'll admit all kinds of crap when half cut xx"

Do you remember the conversations the next day or do you dread to pick up your phone and scroll back through

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Absolutely. I'll admit all kinds of crap when half cut xx

Do you remember the conversations the next day or do you dread to pick up your phone and scroll back through "

Mostly I know something was said but I dont know what... can be very awkward sometimes xx

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"There's often the school of thought that when a person is 'tipsy' the truth of a matter is more likely to be told. That a person's 'true character' can be revealed.

Do you agree with this or do you think that it's just the drink talking?

Thoughts folks... "

I personally just get uber confident my personality is still the same just enhanced.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs


"Absolutely. I'll admit all kinds of crap when half cut xx

Do you remember the conversations the next day or do you dread to pick up your phone and scroll back through

Mostly I know something was said but I dont know what... can be very awkward sometimes xx"

That's when the I was d*unk excuse comes in handy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It lowers inhibitions.

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By *eith28Man
over a year ago

uxbridge

In vino, veritas

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Nope totally disagree. When i am d*unk I am an obnoxious attention seeking twat. Oh. Hang on. Maybe you are right afterall"

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I wish I knew this. Mostly so I could understand other people’s behaviour better.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Drinking impairs cognitive function. Basically you're too d*unk to think of a lie so youre more likely to tell the truth"

To a certain degree I see your point, however studies (yes there were clinical studies) have found that the effects of alcohol on higher brain function were found to inhibit reasoning and response. In many ways, being d*unk *is* an excuse for aberrant behaviour

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"There's often the school of thought that when a person is 'tipsy' the truth of a matter is more likely to be told. That a person's 'true character' can be revealed.

Do you agree with this or do you think that it's just the drink talking?

Thoughts folks... "

It definitely lowers inhibitions and makes me more impulsive! I don't think I turn into a completely different person though. I guess it depends on how much of your "true self" you're masking in day to day life?

Mrs TMN x

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

True for me. I can be a bit soppy too after a couple of drinks

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats


"True for me. I can be a bit soppy too after a couple of drinks "

I get very very affectionate after a few drinks, definitely need to stay sober if I ever go to a club

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"True for me. I can be a bit soppy too after a couple of drinks

I get very very affectionate after a few drinks, definitely need to stay sober if I ever go to a club "

I'm sure you will be everyone's friend

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats


"True for me. I can be a bit soppy too after a couple of drinks

I get very very affectionate after a few drinks, definitely need to stay sober if I ever go to a club

I'm sure you will be everyone's friend "

Yeah, probably shouldn't be though

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Look up alcohol as a myopic, it is commonly looked at as a dust inhibitor but that's only one angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Truth comes out more lol im braver too when tipsy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely true. Good job I don't really drink because I have a nasty habit of telling people what I really think and that trait is bad enough when I am sober

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say the same stuff d*unk or sober. Depending on what it is though it may be forceful when I'm d*unk.

I'm more likely to cry when I'm d*unk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When people show you who they really are, believe them."

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

My thoughts are, people tend to be more open with their values after a drink, less socially constrained.

Long live the id.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We're not 1 static limited self, so the concept is flawed .

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By *ark-loverMan
over a year ago

Weston Super Mare

I’m tipsy and despise myself. However, I’ll never stop trying to be better, and I’ll always carry a torch for the gadget queen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alcohol heightens certain parts of our persona, we lose inhibitions and allow things to be shown we normally wouldn't (hence the amount of people dancing on tables etc).

I don't think it's true it's our true character showing, more an exaggerated version of ourselves.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"I don't have many filters anyway and can't lie for shit because it's written all over my face (I'd be the worst poker player ever). But when I've drinking I'll say any old shite that comes into my head and I'm a bit more blunt and less tactful. "

I do this completely sober and I don't drink.

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