FabSwingers.com forum: What has FAB done for you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My FAB experience so far has been amazing. It’s given me friendships that I never expected. It’s given me confidence in myself that I didn’t have before, but has also helped me stay grounded with the attention that comes with being a women on here. It’s given me experiences that I never would have ever dreamed of having before including experimenting with women and going to clubs. As a result I’m far happier single then I was pre FAB!

What has FAB done for you?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’ve learnt how much women enjoy receiving random cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt how much women enjoy receiving random cock pics.

thats a good one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab bought us together, as we met on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt how much women enjoy receiving random cock pics.

Tinder taught me that!

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I realise now that the Sky remote has a multifunctional purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's made me feel liberated and given me the opportunity to try some things I may never have had the chance to otherwise.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has taught me that I dont need to be ashamed any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My FAB experience so far has been amazing. It’s given me friendships that I never expected. It’s given me confidence in myself that I didn’t have before, but has also helped me stay grounded with the attention that comes with being a women on here. It’s given me experiences that I never would have ever dreamed of having before including experimenting with women and going to clubs. As a result I’m far happier single then I was pre FAB!

What has FAB done for you? "

Much the same as you plus it has been the platform that gave myself and B the opportunity to cross paths, thus changing our lives to a certain extent.

It has also shown me that there are more unscrupulous people in the world than I ever imagined. That has been one of the hardest bits for me.

It's also given me hope and support when at times I felt isolated and hopeless.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

At a time when I've been needing something most, its given me things I'm really looking forward to and connections to people who have not only offered a hand in friendship but shown me people I would like to meet and get to know that I would never have thought would like to get to know me too.

It's a Fab thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's given me body confidence and my lovely Ash.

Other than that my Fab experience has been very similar to how you discribed OP.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Opportunity to meet people and friendships I would never have met. Distance means nothing if it’s right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met some amazing people, some of whom will be friends for life.

I’ve been opened up to some new liberating experiences, and mostly I’m having a lot of fun.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

Oh so true

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It's made me more of a relaxed, confident person. Made some genuine friends I can talk to on so many different levels. Oh It's also made me realise there are far more numpties out there than I first imagined

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

Being so new, not much as of yet! However, I was always uncomfortable at the thought of putting certain photos online and I’ve done that now. Albeit, the most revealing ones are Friends Only and I’ve no Friends yet but the principle of taking that kind of photo and even putting it online.

Don’t know if that even counts lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

And how jealous they can get!

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

It's made me realise that some people have zero self respect when posting profile pics.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

FAB has given me flatulence and bad breath.

On the plus side though, my IQ has risen to 65

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rebuilt my confidence

Got me many fucks

Allowed me to find love when i wasnt even looking for it

Allowed me an outlet for my stresses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

And how jealous they can get! "

Women are worse with the jealousy thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt to keep my clothes on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

And how jealous they can get!

Women are worse with the jealousy thing

Oh without a doubt but I’ve been amazed at how jealous some guys can get on here too

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"I’ve learnt to keep my clothes on

Until there's a motorboat involved...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solid friendships and 2 FBs I adore and everything else you mentioned OP.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

In the few weeks I'm here I must admit the warm welcome on both , UK & Irish forum is uplifting .

Putting a few faces to profile's on upcoming socials will be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The damning realisation that i'm not as fit/attractive/witty as i thought i was.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

It's given me confidence and a girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although weve not had a meet yet, were working towards it. Its brought us closer together, were more open with each other, gave MrsE some deserved confidence.

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

Proved guys always miss the things in profiles that are inportant , and includes them

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Lots of lovely ffm's

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

It’s given me RSI in my right hand

Being serious though, I’ve made amazing friends through being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole it’s been an amazing experience. I’ve made some fantastic friends, become more confident, embraced my sexuality (with the support of I_N_I), like me more- I’m not that bad, and stand up for myself more (sadly, negative experiences have led to my having to learn to do this, but learning about self preservation isn’t such a bad thing). I met I_N_I on here, even without the self growth, that in itself has made the past two years amazing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That docking isn’t always a boating term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found love. Although we're not together anymore I still feel lucky that I got to experience everything I have with him

Some of my closest friends I've met through fab

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

Nor motorboating.

Who knew

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Great experiences and wonderful people and lots and lots of laughter.

Unfortunately it has also shown me the length some people will go for sex and how little people consider the feelings of others. A real eye opener for me.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Fab has made me re discover the person i once was.x

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

What has FAB done for you? "

What a very interesting thread. Fab has taught me several things;

1. Men were made to fight, chase, fuck and spread their seed, whereas women were made to choose their partners very carefully.

2. I've learnt so much about how differently men and women think, partly due to this site.

3. Because of the openness of this site, and because it's a site where people chat, I've come to understand that some people really do have deep issues which they're continually battling with. I've met r*** victims, victims of abuse, aswell as victims of many other atrocities. It gave me the ability to understand that sometimes, things aren't always as oneself understands them to be.

4. I've made some great friends along the way. Some of whom I still talk with, years after I first joined.

5. I've done things which I wouldn't otherwise be able to do. Two women, threesums... Meeting women purely for chat and sex, etc. Clubs where anything goes. It's a real eye opener. These things generally don't happen in "the real world".

6. The site has helped to understand what I like, and what I want as an individual. I've learnt which types I go for and which types aren't for me.

Probably more stuff too!

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

And how jealous they can get! "

Wow I think they need to think about what this site is here for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

Nor motorboating.

Who knew

I’m going to have to look that up now, as don’t know what it means. Seen it mentioned, but didn’t know “docking” is a thing. I’m certainly learning lots! Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's made me feel liberated and given me the opportunity to try some things I may never have had the chance to otherwise."

This!

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

It's given me my confidence back and made me realise that I'm not the undesirable person I was told I was. I've had new experiences and made new friends that I would never have met in vanilla life.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

Nor motorboating.

Who knew

I’m going to have to look that up now, as don’t know what it means. Seen it mentioned, but didn’t know “docking” is a thing. I’m certainly learning lots! Haha xx"

I knew what docking was already but for the life of me I dont get how it would even feel like a sexy thing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

Nor motorboating.

Who knew

I’m going to have to look that up now, as don’t know what it means. Seen it mentioned, but didn’t know “docking” is a thing. I’m certainly learning lots! Haha xx"

Oh!! Now I know. Google to the rescue xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My attention was first brought to fab by a gay friend, I honestly thought it looked like a butchers window ! However I did my own research and realised I'd been shown the more shockingly explicit pictures.

Almost 3 years down the line, I've met some great people, been to several clubs, enjoy the forums a lot and learn something new on a daily basis ( usually not sex related ) chatted to people and I hope been an ear to others . I came here happy with myself and was most certainly not looking for a relationship. Met a very persistent guy on a whim one afternoon for coffee. And 5 months later we got married. So I have to thank Fab for finding my wonderful man, even though neither of us were looking for love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

Nor motorboating.

Who knew

I’m going to have to look that up now, as don’t know what it means. Seen it mentioned, but didn’t know “docking” is a thing. I’m certainly learning lots! Haha xx

I knew what docking was already but for the life of me I dont get how it would even feel like a sexy thing to do."

Sounds like it would need some practice to get the required outcome. According the description I found, it can be very intense for both, so guess the intimacy makes it sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's made me more of a relaxed, confident person. Made some genuine friends I can talk to on so many different levels. Oh It's also made me realise there are far more numpties out there than I first imagined

Oy!! I resemble that remark!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My attention was first brought to fab by a gay friend, I honestly thought it looked like a butchers window ! However I did my own research and realised I'd been shown the more shockingly explicit pictures.

Bloody hell wow!!! I love this!!!!! Really love hearing stuff like this! Fab is pretty awesome!!!!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

Nor motorboating.

Who knew

I’m going to have to look that up now, as don’t know what it means. Seen it mentioned, but didn’t know “docking” is a thing. I’m certainly learning lots! Haha xx

I knew what docking was already but for the life of me I dont get how it would even feel like a sexy thing to do.

Sounds like it would need some practice to get the required outcome. According the description I found, it can be very intense for both, so guess the intimacy makes it sexy xx"

I'll take their word for it, I'm missing a vital piece of the puzzle to make it work anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

And how jealous they can get!

Women are worse with the jealousy thing

Oh without a doubt but I’ve been amazed at how jealous some guys can get on here too"
jealous streak and proud of it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has taught me that most women are not interested in sex and only want cake.

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By *eralPete1Man
over a year ago

marsworth

It made me bold and I have hairs going out the palm's of my hands .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

And how jealous they can get!

Women are worse with the jealousy thing

Oh without a doubt but I’ve been amazed at how jealous some guys can get on here toojealous streak and proud of it too

I think it’s natural for everyone to have a little jealousy, but some of the jealousy I’ve experienced has been surprising and maybe a bit extreme. I’ve also been surprised with how some women react when I’ve met someone they’ve met. Saying that I’ve had the odd twinge of jealousy too but I’d never make it personal

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

I’m not googling ... Fab taught me that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

I’m not googling ... Fab taught me that

Dont do it Babs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

Nor motorboating.

Who knew

I’m going to have to look that up now, as don’t know what it means. Seen it mentioned, but didn’t know “docking” is a thing. I’m certainly learning lots! Haha xx

I knew what docking was already but for the life of me I dont get how it would even feel like a sexy thing to do.

Sounds like it would need some practice to get the required outcome. According the description I found, it can be very intense for both, so guess the intimacy makes it sexy xx

I'll take their word for it, I'm missing a vital piece of the puzzle to make it work anyway

I’ll take their word too, I’m all about one man and girly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

I’m not googling ... Fab taught me that

Dont do it Babs!

No, don’t!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

I’m not googling ... Fab taught me that

Dont do it Babs!

No, don’t!! xx

I did!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

Nor motorboating.

Who knew

I’m going to have to look that up now, as don’t know what it means. Seen it mentioned, but didn’t know “docking” is a thing. I’m certainly learning lots! Haha xx

Oh!! Now I know. Google to the rescue xx"

Me too, thanks google. Always good to expand the old knowledge base.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve learnt to keep my clothes on

Until there's a motorboat involved...

Of course Girty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell wow!!! I love this!!!!! Really love hearing stuff like this! Fab is pretty awesome!!!!"

Ahhh thank you. Yes I agree with you. Awesome indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It taught me I’m orally bi ... never saw that coming (excuse the pun) in a million years.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

For her: it helped her release some of her deepest desires, made her more open with me about her fantasies, gave her the confidence to try things she never would have dreampt of trying before, let out the greedy girl she always kept hidden, even from herself.

For me: gave me the opportunity to explore my desires, made ne more capable to express my wants and kinks,

her natural submissive in the bedroom let me realise I can be more assertive with her in the bedroom as I've always considered myself a force for equality not masculinity.

We both love the hedonistic nature of clubs and parties, love meeting others and letting ourselves go and explore all the things we would never have tried in vanilla life.

It's been a blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t google anything

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

I’m not googling ... Fab taught me that

Dont do it Babs!

I’m not Lorna. I’ve learnt that lesson the hard way

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

I’m not googling ... Fab taught me that

Dont do it Babs!

No, don’t!! xx

I haven’t. I can live without knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its taught me that one and one make three

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm still looking.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"That docking isn’t always a boating term

I’m not googling ... Fab taught me that

Dont do it Babs!

No, don’t!! xx

I haven’t. I can live without knowing

It's a safe one Babs I promise, I think you might even quite like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has probably given me the same as you Op and enabled me to express my sexual thoughts, feelings, desires, and sexual orientation. The highs definitely outway the lows but with many blips along the way. I've shared my bed with some of the most deliciously gorgeous people I never thought in a million years would want to "do me"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've made some incredible friends, and hopefully more to come.

My self confidence has gone through the roof. I've learned more about how to present myself, flaws and all. Both to attract others and in a way that suits me. The art of not giving a fuck comes along leaps and bounds, although the steps along the way there often hurt quite a lot.

I'm a lot better at accepting myself as I am, celebrating my strengths, and both working on and being compassionate of my weaknesses.

And I'm finally at peace with my sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has been absolutely fantastic for me I am so grateful for it... it’s given me the opportunity to meet NSA people make friends, explore sexual desires & fantasies, boosted my confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met some fabulous people, its made me appreciate sex more or should i say come to the conclusion not every holes a goal!

Im definitely quality over quantity now... i never thought id say that!

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By *harlieRiderMan
over a year ago

Vauxhall/Waterloo

Confidence, I have got my mojo back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me fab has made me feel more confident in myself and also brought back my cheeky side which I’ve missed greatly.

I’ve met some lovely people on here, for fun and also socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence after a relationship ended

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"It has taught me that I dont need to be ashamed any more"

That's fantastic to read and none of us should be ashamed of who we are! I'm a bit of a chubster (N) but receiving messages about the quality of my arse has actually improved my self esteem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Empty my balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Empty my balls

And broke my banjo !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has FAB done for you? "

Girl I could have wrote exactly that , it’s boosted my self confidence and in turn given me the confidence to try new things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave me the best two things I could of wished for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gave me the best two things I could of wished for...a twingo ans a bottle of cheap wine

Wish I was easy satisfy like that

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Being a nice guy (respectful) gets you no where in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a nice guy (respectful) gets you no where in life."

They all want rough and ready mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met some really great people and had some really great fun.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Being a nice guy (respectful) gets you no where in life."

I'd disagree (female here). The guys who message saying they'd love to smash me in the arse etc get ignored. The guys who send hi with nothing else get ignored. Those who send a personal message (no dick pic) and use proper words and some punctuation will get a reply at least once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined 10 years ago for NSA sex. I didn’t really get that at all. Instead what I got was to meet some lovely people, almost exclusively socially, developed some really good online friendships that I hope one day we’ll get the opportunity to meet and personal development. I have learned a lot about myself, my sexuality and recognised more of my strengths, found a few I didn’t know I had and accepted more of my flaws. I’m more comfortable in my own skin and might actually have some sex too in the not to distant future.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Being a nice guy (respectful) gets you no where in life."

If you say so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really loving reading all these comments! So much positivity!

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"Being a nice guy (respectful) gets you no where in life.

I don't send unsolicited dick pics ugh who wants that unless requested. When I interact I bring something into the message I've read on profile etc (not just on this site)

Or what I see as a friendly compliment (nothing seedy)

But I'm not everyone's cup of tea ha.

I'll keep going though thanks for the positive response.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It was probably the final piece in my mental health recovery, which has been a struggle for 25+ years. I bid farewell to my long term therapist last year, after nearly two years on Fab enhancing the work I was already doing.

My work on myself still continues, but I'm no longer "ill".

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

"It was probably the final piece in my mental health recovery, which has been a struggle for 25+ years. I bid farewell to my long term therapist last year, after nearly two years on Fab enhancing the work I was already doing.

My work on myself still continues, but I'm no longer "ill"."

Positive steps to a happier future well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given me a fairly decent confidence boost but more importantly it paired me up with K

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It’s given me the most memorable experiences, great nights out, some incredible friends and some absolute wrongens.

It’s been a blast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awesome friends both with and without benefits and other things too numerous to mention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met some completely mad people and one wonderful, funny, kind, beautiful, intelligent, amazing woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined 10 years ago for NSA sex. I didn’t really get that at all. Instead what I got was to meet some lovely people, almost exclusively socially, developed some really good online friendships that I hope one day we’ll get the opportunity to meet and personal development. I have learned a lot about myself, my sexuality and recognised more of my strengths, found a few I didn’t know I had and accepted more of my flaws. I’m more comfortable in my own skin and might actually have some sex too in the not to distant future. "

That's wonderful, some great experiences and friends.

Good luck in the future hopefully resulting in some sex, though ten years is still very early days for fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a really good job interview out of it, through a couple I met. Which was pretty fucking awesome. Could do with another, if anyone’s offering!?

Men that actually can genuinely be friends, as well as banging my brains out...

And the ability to walk into a room of people I don’t know, alone, completely naked. If someone had told me, a few years ago that I’d be able to do that, I’d have laughed my head off

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's given me the opportunity to have my poly relationships with some wonderful guys, tick lots of things off my bucket list and add lots more on. Meet loads of amazing people in London socials and given me the idea to throw my own.

To finally realise that people come into my life for a purpose, be it a good or bad thing there are lessons to be learned from every encounter, I can only grow if I learn the lesson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roads, the aqueduct, sanitation. Oh, wait, that's Romans..

FAB?......errr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got a really good job interview out of it, through a couple I met. Which was pretty fucking awesome. Could do with another, if anyone’s offering!?

Men that actually can genuinely be friends, as well as banging my brains out...

And the ability to walk into a room of people I don’t know, alone, completely naked. If someone had told me, a few years ago that I’d be able to do that, I’d have laughed my head off

Ha ha the last bit applies to me too! I keep thinking this time last year I never would have dreamed of doing anything like that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My work on myself still continues, but I'm no longer "ill"."

I’m so glad FAB has helped but more importantly that you are where you are now lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt how thoughtful, considerate and selfless some men are after fully reading profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt how thoughtful, considerate and selfless some men are after fully reading profiles. "

It’s nice to be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a really good job interview out of it, through a couple I met. Which was pretty fucking awesome. Could do with another, if anyone’s offering!?

Men that actually can genuinely be friends, as well as banging my brains out...

And the ability to walk into a room of people I don’t know, alone, completely naked. If someone had told me, a few years ago that I’d be able to do that, I’d have laughed my head off

Ha ha the last bit applies to me too! I keep thinking this time last year I never would have dreamed of doing anything like that!"

Bit my lip just then, imagining you...haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly what fab is for! To hear people's stories of how it has improved their lives and made them richer emotionally and sexually. It's so easy to get bogged down with the negatives of being in this lifestyle,but to hear how it has had a positive impact is unbelievably refreshing. Reading this thread is the stuff we got onto fab for. We are loving what people have written and listening intently for more of people's experiences and how it's bettered them. Much love guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's allowed me to meet some lovely people from across the world, restored my confidence, be myself and to finally explore my sexual side. Thank you!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Oh yeah and lots and lots of great sex, that's been nice.

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By *erryxxxWoman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve learned that men aren’t as critical of women’s bodies than I thought.

And I met the love of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tons of decent eye candy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is exactly what fab is for! To hear people's stories of how it has improved their lives and made them richer emotionally and sexually. It's so easy to get bogged down with the negatives of being in this lifestyle,but to hear how it has had a positive impact is unbelievably refreshing. Reading this thread is the stuff we got onto fab for. We are loving what people have written and listening intently for more of people's experiences and how it's bettered them. Much love guys

xxx"

Fab gave me you guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I got a really good job interview out of it, through a couple I met. Which was pretty fucking awesome. Could do with another, if anyone’s offering!?

Men that actually can genuinely be friends, as well as banging my brains out...

And the ability to walk into a room of people I don’t know, alone, completely naked. If someone had told me, a few years ago that I’d be able to do that, I’d have laughed my head off

Ha ha the last bit applies to me too! I keep thinking this time last year I never would have dreamed of doing anything like that!

Bit my lip just then, imagining you...haha

trust me when the lingerie comes off, everything bungee jumps out!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I’ve learned that men aren’t as critical of women’s bodies than I thought.

And I met the love of my life

I'm learning this too. S has always loved my body but can't say the same. I just see the flubbery bits, the stretch marks, the leg that doesn't work. Seems the chaps on here are seeing something a bit different

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fab's helped me rediscover myself and explore my sexuality - I've found out that I quite like men and I'm fond of the odd cock now and again. I'm far less harsh on myself and my physical appearance now; beauty doesn't need have to be the media ideals and everyone can be sexy in their own way. I'm enjoying stepping out of my comfort zone slowly and I'm hoping to continue that this year with club nights and private parties and maybe some decent photos for once!

The most important thing that fab has done for me is given me a chance to connect with people I might never have come across; I met my wonderful fiancè thanks to a social - he's the most kind and patient and loving man and I'm very lucky. I've met some incredible people who I class as good friends - we've had brilliant adventures, incredibly intimate moments and ridiculous escapades. They give me a lift when I need it, make me laugh constantly, send me random food porn images, talk to me for hours, buy me smutty Christmas presents and beautiful butt plugs and I adore them completely.

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

A guy in lingerie is a lot more common than I thought as far a guys wearing... but not as sought after as i hoped by women liking it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Husband, it has given me a husband and some amazing friends.

Danish x

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Fab taught me never to Google things that seem innocent enough. Rosebud anyone?

Fab gave me the experience to understand why my gut feeling is worth respecting.

Fab gave me an amazing group of people that I cherish even though they're all a bit mad.

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By *erryxxxWoman
over a year ago

manchester

"I’ve learned that men aren’t as critical of women’s bodies than I thought.

And I met the love of my life

We all focus on the bits we don’t like but they look at the bits they do

And so should we - you have a glorious figure

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I’ve learned that men aren’t as critical of women’s bodies than I thought.

And I met the love of my life

We all focus on the bits we don’t like but they look at the bits they do

And so should we - you have a glorious figure

Aww thank you! You ain't half hot too

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Fabs for me has given me some awesome sex that I would never have thought I would of experienced.....but unfortunately not what I came in here originally.....to find someone oh well can't have everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me want to fuck a older woman, lots of very attractive pics on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found some good friends and the love of my life

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

Fab brought me into the swinging lifestyle and with that found my sole mate and love of my life!

What amazing adventures we have had and are still to come

Swingfields

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

And how jealous they can get!

Women are worse with the jealousy thing

Men would claim to be “cool with it” but they get as jealous as women.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

And how jealous they can get!

Women are worse with the jealousy thing

Men would claim to be “cool with it” but they get as jealous as women. "

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Fab has basically saved my marriage. I've gone from pestering my husband for unreciprocated sex to being semi fulfilled x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

More sex than I ever thought i'd have, great friends, unforgettable experiences, clubs, socials. Yep, it's done fuck all for me!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Got me nailed.

Met my best gal.

Found me a man.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I’ve learnt how persistent men can be and how much they can nag

Ha ha some do

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Found me a fiancé

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’ve learned a lot during my time on fab - some great experiences / memorable moments to look back on. The site is full of a very diverse range of people, mostly nice people. It’s opened doors I would never have considered...

Love it here!

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Still early days but am managing to meet a few local ladies with open minds who even if they don't wanna play with Gemma accept it as part of guy me. This is pretty cool. Shows there is a glimmer of hope for me yet in finding something a little more permanent in the future!

No end of amusement from the cock pics & tacky lines sent by guys who seem to think I don't mean them when I say I'm not into guys!

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

There are a lot of nice, fun and friendly people on here. I've found a lot of women to be quite inquisitive and without judgement.

Also found out most guys just simply can't read the first line of a profile!

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

After being told for almost 10 years I was fat, ugly and no man in his right mind would want me, Fab has given me my physical and sexual confidence back.

I've met some of the nicest people in the world, explored my sexual side, had great sex, laughed and I'm finally enjoying life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a new bunch of people that enjoy my bad jokes... well mostly.

Oh and the occasional great meet of course.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

It’s allowed me to see lots of naked women, which is always nice.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Gave me a lovely group of friends , some very horny and sexy mate,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

...My other half.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Roads, the aqueduct, sanitation. Oh, wait, that's Romans..

FAB?......errr"

Haha.. Was scanning and you beat me to it.

On a serious note, fab has given me some lovely genuine friends and lovely naughty friends and made my life bearable at at VERY difficult time in my life. I'm not bored or lonely because of fab and I know I would have been.

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By *hubby11977Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Not much for me, i dont get many replies

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Given me the confidence to show and be Stella

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

The early days - dick pics including cum shots, plus filtering the fook out of my body shots to hide my insecurities.

Now I embrace what I have and always have face pics in public. Yes I still use filters, but my pics are an accurate representation of who I am and what I have to offer. Still no full on dick pics mind you

Fab has given me my confidence back, I've met some truly lovely people and have plans to meet more - including new experiences I would never have dreamed of before I joined.

As a single, average looking man I do alright for myself and I can't wait to see what the future brings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a couple of nice ladies in the past thxs to fabswingers brilliant if not some times frustrating lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The early days - dick pics including cum shots, plus filtering the fook out of my body shots to hide my insecurities.

Fab has given me my confidence back, I've met some truly lovely people and have plans to meet more - including new experiences I would never have dreamed of before I joined.

As a single, average looking man I do alright for myself and I can't wait to see what the future brings

Love this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love reading how much confidence FAB has given people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Love reading how much confidence FAB has given people! "
FAB gives me a semi boner seeing profiles like this! Cheers fab have a great day all

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

"I’ve learned that men aren’t as critical of women’s bodies than I thought.

And I met the love of my life

I think she means me blush.

I've definitely got a lot to thank fab for but by fuck it took it's sweet time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs made me a few friends I’d never have expected to have made. I’ve built better friendships here than with people I’ve known years.

It’s helped me get out and meet new people and improved my social skills in group settings.

It’s also taught me that I’m apparently better looking in person that in pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a confident filthy sex driven bitch which led me to this site with a recommendation so it's not really changed anything apart from meeting like for like minded people.

Love hearing stories how it's helped people with their confidence or finding someone.

Confidence & love is within all of us, just sometimes takes longer to find it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a life saver with the boredom of being home alone. Even if it is just people to pass the time with online.

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

Its been good, its been bad, and its been ugly.

No other way to describe it after 14 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my knee operation and was house bound for months it gave me a way to speak and chat to people when I felt alone.

I struggle with anxiety and ptsd and don’t have any real life friends so only people speak to is via posts I make. Always hoping some people will inbox and wana be friends but always hope I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty if it weren't for the forum I might have left Fab. Initially I joined to fool around with one or two women but I enjoy spending time on the forums and have made some great friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met some people I’d have never met.

I’ve learnt about a whole bunch of stuff I didn’t know existed.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It helped us to achieve something we had fantasied about for over 20 years! It has opened our eyes and minds to so much more! We have had more sex since joining here (didn’t think that was possible

)

We have a lot more fantasies!

We have made friends, we get out more as a couple (mostly dirty weekends but still

)

All in all Fab has done us good so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me create my first comedy movie

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Let me create my first comedy movie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

reduced the battery time of my mobile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"reduced the battery time of my mobile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and...

#Adventures

My god it's been exciting and still fabulous after all these years. Once you know the true potential of Fab things just keep getting better and better.

#2020

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years on fab I have met a few nice lady's on here even though it can be frustrating at times it's still worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kept me up all night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kept me up all night!

Ha ha night owls hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some great photos ??

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

Fab has feltched my soul with straw of my arsehole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Increased my appreciation of my other half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing too deep - a way to meet people on my wavelength re keeping things casual and it gives me something to do when I can't sleep!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve met some people that are a big part of my life.

The biggest two lessons I’ve learned are, never judge a book by its cover and how everyone is completely different to everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s made me more comfortable in my skin, give me more confidence. But most importantly I’ve made genuine friends and met people that I wouldn’t have had the opportunity to otherwise.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It's brought some amazing people into my life.... people that I can call friends, people that I've had amazing sex with, people that have given me a shoulder to cry on, people that have turned my frown into a smile, some that are all of the above and more.

And I wouldn't have met any of them if it wasn't for Fab, and in particular the forums

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Nothing too deep - a way to meet people on my wavelength re keeping things casual and it gives me something to do when I can't sleep!"

Pretty much the same for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm new and so far it has been fairly lonely to be honest, not entirely sure if it is just me or what but hey, that's my experience so far, hopefully things will improve but not the end of the world if it doesn't. Sorry to be negative folks but thought if I was honest some kind soul may take pity and atleast point me in the right direction, ??

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By *eralPete1Man
over a year ago

marsworth

It's done nothing that I could of done myself. In fact I've had more fun by going out and meeting people . But its something to do when I'm just chilling . So it's sort of worth the fever every 60 days . Not met anyone off here this time round . I live with a positive attitude to it

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Sadly its shown me the most vile of natures on the whole and hle nasty people can be.

Its shown me cliques exist everywhere and its diluted the real essence of meeting people in general.

Fab years ago was very different and had a community feel. Now its primarily used as a fuck site as many shout when stating "no meets".

I hope it goes back to how it once was

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