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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

what do you do when you know someone is using someone else for what they can get out of them? Do you tell the person being used? Do you call the user out on it ? or do you just sit tight and stay out of it?

A "friend" of mine is blatently using someone i know for what she can get out of him as she seems to do with a few people he is a little blinded by her sexual prowess and empty promises she has admitted to me while a little d*unk that she actually just pick him up and drops him when she needs someone to take her out and pay for things for her i have dropped her as a "friend" but dont know what to say to the guy if anything what would you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep out of it .. maybe he's already sussed it but dont mind as he gets sex,

maybe he enjoys it,

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

He probably knows...after all he is using her for sex isnt he ?

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

im not sure he does but ok thanks its just not nice to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep out of it, I once put a friend straight on the same type of situation, were no longer friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres a phrase about shooting the messenger for a reason....

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

thanks guys yes i will stay out of it i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what do you do when you know someone is using someone else for what they can get out of them? Do you tell the person being used? Do you call the user out on it ? or do you just sit tight and stay out of it?

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A very difficult situation due to the fact the person being used doesn't want to see that its happening. Best advice is to stay out and hope they don't get hurt and be there to pick up the pieces and not do the 'told you so' thing. Not easy but probably the bast way to go. I have seen it happen a few times now in swinging and you often end up despising the user.

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury


"what do you do when you know someone is using someone else for what they can get out of them? Do you tell the person being used? Do you call the user out on it ? or do you just sit tight and stay out of it?

A very difficult situation due to the fact the person being used doesn't want to see that its happening. Best advice is to stay out and hope they don't get hurt and be there to pick up the pieces and not do the 'told you so' thing. Not easy but probably the bast way to go. I have seen it happen a few times now in swinging and you often end up despising the user. "

Thanks for the advice i am already starting to despise her to be honest hence why have distance myself from her but will now just sit back and wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the other person is a very close friend that I care about, then I would give him/her a piece of my mind, then I would stay out of it afterwards.

That is what he/she knows I would do and my action would not come as a surprise to him or her.

If he/she is merely an acquaintance, then I would stay out of it.

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