FabSwingers.com forum: Please help me improve my profile thank you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Need help improving my profile I have like 4 or 5 pics up not off my penis of me and I message a woman 9 times out of 10 no reply back I want to know what I'm going wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need help improving my profile I have like 4 or 5 pics up not off my penis of me and I message a woman 9 times out of 10 no reply back I want to know what I'm going wrong

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it could be your username defining you here, your profile is your advert it should be the best it can be youre competing with many guys with better

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

More dick pics please.

Actually mate, it makes fuck all difference. As if a woman is ever going to read a profile..

It’s all about the messages you send. And don’t ever say anything more than ‘fancy it?’ I tend to send one every 30 seconds until I get an answer..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah that could be true thanks for your help mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah thanks for your help pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many exclamation marks. And off putting username.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (mr) just read your profile and it may just be me but it reads slightly as if you've tried to tick every box that you know women like as opposed to showing the real you. Hard to say why but trying slightly too hard?

Hate writing stuff like this coz it sounds really critical but you asked and hope it helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Need help improving my profile I have like 4 or 5 pics up not off my penis of me and I message a woman 9 times out of 10 no reply back I want to know what I'm going wrong

Your photos are okay, not the best not the worst- and no dick photos which is always good.

Your bio needs reading over for spelling and grammar (sounds pretty but it does put a lot of women off)

Also get rid of the "lol"s and exclamation points.

You could stand to lose the last line in capitals too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't fancy you.

There seems to be some idea floating around that it's all about hooking someone with some maguc lines or something.

Most will check your profile before looking at your message. If they don't like the look of you or your profile, your message won't matter.

Believe it or not, people of fab aren't here to shag everybody or as many as they can.

Women and couples outnumber us single guys massively and are generally inundated with messages on a daily basis.

Try to see it from their point of view. If you got 100's of messages every day, would you reply to all the ones that didn't interest you just to deflate their ego with a 'no thanks'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They don't fancy you.

There seems to be some idea floating around that it's all about hooking someone with some maguc lines or something.

Most will check your profile before looking at your message. If they don't like the look of you or your profile, your message won't matter.

Believe it or not, people of fab aren't here to shag everybody or as many as they can.

Women and couples outnumber us single guys massively and are generally inundated with messages on a daily basis.

Try to see it from their point of view. If you got 100's of messages every day, would you reply to all the ones that didn't interest you just to deflate their ego with a 'no thanks'?"

To be fair, you’re saying that unless the profile is appealing then anything else is irrelevant, yet the OP did indeed ask for profile advice, to make him be more interesting and for his profile to appeal to more people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just have to be found attractive by the person you’re messaging. There is no magic formula.

I met a guy years ago who literally had on his profile, “After sex I’ll whisper romantic things in your ear like babe get the fuck outta my house”

Alright it’s quite funny but he was gorgeous looking so he could get away with it.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's not all about your profile. What messages do you send out? We've had numerous ones that are just awful but presumably the sender thinks they are perfectly OK. Would you give us an example or two of the messages you send out to make initial contact? That's where a lot of people trip up without even realising it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't look like a Greek adonis it makes no difference what you write

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