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Do I have a fetish...???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Constructive advice only please people ??

I have this scenario that I like to play out when I arrange a first meet, only been able to do this 5 times and even the thought of it makes me start to shake...!!!

Is this a fetish or living out a fantasy a few times ????

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

It would depend entirely on what scenario it is you like to act out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A fetish is defined as form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc. Does your scenario fit that description?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

It's all a bit vague to be honest. What is the scenario? Doesn't sound like a fetish though, more a fantasy

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Could be a kink or could be a fetish, depends on the scenario really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shake!

Tell you what. I'll bring my washing round, you fill the bath get in and shake. Add some powder and I'll watch.

Deal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like to be blindfolded on a first meet,

After arranging a meet and all that jazz, I like to meet at my own place, so..

I buzz them up to my apartment and I’m waiting in a chair..... I won’t take the blindfolded off until they are fukin me.....

I know it’s not a fetish per say but fuk..it makes me physically dizzy thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to be blindfolded on a first meet,

After arranging a meet and all that jazz, I like to meet at my own place, so..

I buzz them up to my apartment and I’m waiting in a chair..... I won’t take the blindfolded off until they are fukin me.....

I know it’s not a fetish per say but fuk..it makes me physically dizzy thinking about it "

I only wanted some sugar

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I like to be blindfolded on a first meet,

After arranging a meet and all that jazz, I like to meet at my own place, so..

I buzz them up to my apartment and I’m waiting in a chair..... I won’t take the blindfolded off until they are fukin me.....

I know it’s not a fetish per say but fuk..it makes me physically dizzy thinking about it "

OK its something I also do. Understood. I only do it with well verified people I trust and I do have other "safety precautions" in place. Can totally understand the appeal but would be more worried if I was a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha....?? Sorry

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem


"I like to be blindfolded on a first meet,

After arranging a meet and all that jazz, I like to meet at my own place, so..

I buzz them up to my apartment and I’m waiting in a chair..... I won’t take the blindfolded off until they are fukin me.....

I know it’s not a fetish per say but fuk..it makes me physically dizzy thinking about it "

I'd say it was a fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got to trust someone completely with this sort of thing.

Good luck with it sounds intriguing

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"I like to be blindfolded on a first meet,

After arranging a meet and all that jazz, I like to meet at my own place, so..

I buzz them up to my apartment and I’m waiting in a chair..... I won’t take the blindfolded off until they are fukin me.....

I know it’s not a fetish per say but fuk..it makes me physically dizzy thinking about it "

Interesting , that's some mind blast before the main event.

Do you repeat that if meeting again with same.

Assuming not as the main kick for me would be gone , but just want to make sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dose it really matter if whatever it is you enjoy don’t label it just enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, it’s only the first time. I don’t know what it is, but my heart rate goes mental hahaha and I shake with anticipation ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you even check the guy is the guy in the pictures.

Fuck that. I wouldn’t be blindfolded waiting for any old leper to start fucking me.

But, I’d say what you describe is a fetish rather than a fantasy.

I’m a somnophiliac, that’s a fetish in which I’m sexually aroused by sleeping men. What can you do apart get them to write disclaimers.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

It sounds very risky to be honest...

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I like to be blindfolded on a first meet,

After arranging a meet and all that jazz, I like to meet at my own place, so..

I buzz them up to my apartment and I’m waiting in a chair..... I won’t take the blindfolded off until they are fukin me.....

I know it’s not a fetish per say but fuk..it makes me physically dizzy thinking about it

I only wanted some sugar"

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"Dose it really matter if whatever it is you enjoy don’t label it just enjoy it

"

Kudos , unlabel sexuality .

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"No, it’s only the first time. I don’t know what it is, but my heart rate goes mental hahaha and I shake with anticipation ??"

Extreme sports fan by any chance? It's fear combined with your own mind knowing the good explosion is that one step out of control and comfort zone .

I started with bungee , plane was next , time for free fall jump .

Second jump on bunggee ok but not the same.

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