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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Big hugs for you OP x

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By *ove2lickJemWoman
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

Aww, and you take care of you tonight xxx

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Ach, sending you big hugs. That’s a really tough work day, take care of yourself now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear that

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By *ab50Man
over a year ago

bexhill

Wow.. Sounds tough..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god for people like you and I hope you get the support you deserve xx

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By *ab50Man
over a year ago

bexhill

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Pfff that is tough. hope you’re okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor family, too soon to leave that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its really shitty and very sad, thank you for everything you do.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

People forget about the toll that dealing with this sort of thing has on the professionals. I know many doctors and nurses who really struggle. Much love to you, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs OP xx

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

So sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, that was a tough time. You need some Dreamtime OP.

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By *r_FaustusMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx"

Always so hard: look after yourself, OP xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is an utter bag of shit sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's crap when you lose one but remember the majority that you don't.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx"
God bless you for being there for his last moments a beautifull thing to give your time to others in need . give yourself some me time to look after yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure to look after yourself too. Talk about it and take advantage of whatever support is available. Trust me ... dont bottle it up. I know how you feel, and I know what happens if you dont follow the above advice.

Bless you and your colleagues xx

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

Thankyou to all of you lovely folk that commented, went to the funeral today,beautiful service.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs to you, hope you are being kind to yourself tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankyou to all of you lovely folk that commented, went to the funeral today,beautiful service.x "

Take some time to ge good to yourself now x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx"

The biggest of hugs to you xxx

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Hugs and thanks for folk like you xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankyou to all of you lovely folk that commented, went to the funeral today,beautiful service.x "

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

"Hugs to you, hope you are being kind to yourself tonight

Thankyou,Masterchef and Gin!

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

"Thankyou to all of you lovely folk that commented, went to the funeral today,beautiful service.x

Take some time to ge good to yourself now x"

Thankyou, makes you appreciate what we are lucky enough to have while we have it. X

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx

The biggest of hugs to you xxx"

Thankyou,hugs cure most things!xx

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

"Hugs and thanks for folk like you xxxxx"

I am just one of thousands who deal with this every day as part of our working life,some patients just have more of an impact on you,hit us all.xx

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx"

You were there for somebody.... in the right place at the right time. You gave somebody the support they needed. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so sorry OP x remember to give yourself some time to deal with this too. It’s one thing I don’t miss, I often used to take the grief home with me when we lost patients. To this day haven’t forgotten the first patient I lost.

Sending you a hug, and hope that you and your colleagues will be ok xx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx"

And I thought I’d had a lousy day

Thinking of you x

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx

You were there for somebody.... in the right place at the right time. You gave somebody the support they needed. Xx"

Thankyou,feel privileged to be a part of people's journets,even if it's at the end of one.x

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx

You were there for somebody.... in the right place at the right time. You gave somebody the support they needed. Xx"

Thankyou,feel privileged to be a part of people's journeys,even if it's at the end of one.x

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

"I’m so sorry OP x remember to give yourself some time to deal with this too. It’s one thing I don’t miss, I often used to take the grief home with me when we lost patients. To this day haven’t forgotten the first patient I lost.

Sending you a hug, and hope that you and your colleagues will be ok xx"

Thankyou,never leaves you really,why our profession has such a dark sense of humour and party hard! And why there are so many of us on here ??

Support from the team is essential,we look after each other always.x

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By *arracks OP Couple
over a year ago

Deal

"Had a patient, 56,die today,massive undiagnosed brain tumour, only picked up 3 weeks ago,dealt with his next of kin,cried with her today,take care of each other folks. Xx

And I thought I’d had a lousy day

Thinking of you x "

Thankyou to everyone,my loss is nothing compared to his family,life really is unpredictable and can end in the blink of an eye,enjoy every moment.xx

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