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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them, if there’s a chance they are coming your way

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By *inkylovers09Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Find it frustrating lol... quite a few people we would love to meet are to far!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?"

Ask them how they plan to offset their carbon emissions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them usually.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I've had a few now (couples and women) from Ireland ask me to go and see them and as much as I'd love to, in reality it is a bit too far.

If I was already there then absolutely I'd meet them but making that trip just for a few hours of fun alone is unlikely.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I immediately book the church, the vicar and the lady’s air fare and proceed to stand waiting at the alter.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had a few now (couples and women) from Ireland ask me to go and see them and as much as I'd love to, in reality it is a bit too far.

If I was already there then absolutely I'd meet them but making that trip just for a few hours of fun alone is unlikely.

"

True.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just politely say I see no point in chatting cause there too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say shut it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threaten to head them over their head with that dildo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And of corse my catchphrase would follow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Threaten to head them over their head with that dildo! "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And of corse my catchphrase would follow"

Which is ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See how much the price of flights is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See how much the price of flights is lol "

This. Dublin here I come

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"See how much the price of flights is lol

This. Dublin here I come "

I'll bring cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See how much the price of flights is lol

This. Dublin here I come "

Belfast isn't far away hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See how much the price of flights is lol

This. Dublin here I come

Belfast isn't far away hey "

Really? My geography is terrible

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?"

Same as a message from anyone. Get to know them and you never know what may happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See how much the price of flights is lol

This. Dublin here I come

Belfast isn't far away hey

Really? My geography is terrible "

It's only like 100 miles, plus I have a car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite them for a social??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t usually like it when people message from far away because unless you invest quite a bit of time before meeting you can end up feeling obliged to go through with something purely because they’ve travelled really far. I wouldn’t feel obliged personally and would say so if I wasn’t feeling it but it can put pressure on others.

A few years back I went all the way up to Hull for a first meet with a guy, that’s over 6 hours on a train but I’d been speaking to him for a month before, had Skyped with him and would speak to him almost every day. I’d seen enough of him and him of me to know that when I got there there would be attraction.

I ended up seeing him for 18 months but it just got too expensive and plus I didn’t really care for his accent and the annunciation of his vowels so when he said he’d move down here I said I wasn’t feeling it anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See how much the price of flights is lol

This. Dublin here I come "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t usually like it when people message from far away because unless you invest quite a bit of time before meeting you can end up feeling obliged to go through with something purely because they’ve travelled really far. I wouldn’t feel obliged personally and would say so if I wasn’t feeling it but it can put pressure on others.

A few years back I went all the way up to Hull for a first meet with a guy, that’s over 6 hours on a train but I’d been speaking to him for a month before, had Skyped with him and would speak to him almost every day. I’d seen enough of him and him of me to know that when I got there there would be attraction.

I ended up seeing him for 18 months but it just got too expensive and plus I didn’t really care for his accent and the annunciation of his vowels so when he said he’d move down here I said I wasn’t feeling it anymore.

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Sounds like it was a fun few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I immediately book the church, the vicar and the lady’s air fare and proceed to stand waiting at the alter....."

I’m still at the airport

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I immediately book the church, the vicar and the lady’s air fare and proceed to stand waiting at the alter.....

I’m still at the airport "

Sorry I'm late

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I immediately book the church, the vicar and the lady’s air fare and proceed to stand waiting at the alter.....

I’m still at the airport "

I’m presently still stuck in Slough.....damn - how many traffic lights in this place?! I’m on my way though - keep the champagne chilled my love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I immediately book the church, the vicar and the lady’s air fare and proceed to stand waiting at the alter.....

I’m still at the airport

I’m presently still stuck in Slough.....damn - how many traffic lights in this place?! I’m on my way though - keep the champagne chilled my love "

I will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t usually like it when people message from far away because unless you invest quite a bit of time before meeting you can end up feeling obliged to go through with something purely because they’ve travelled really far. I wouldn’t feel obliged personally and would say so if I wasn’t feeling it but it can put pressure on others.

A few years back I went all the way up to Hull for a first meet with a guy, that’s over 6 hours on a train but I’d been speaking to him for a month before, had Skyped with him and would speak to him almost every day. I’d seen enough of him and him of me to know that when I got there there would be attraction.

I ended up seeing him for 18 months but it just got too expensive and plus I didn’t really care for his accent and the annunciation of his vowels so when he said he’d move down here I said I wasn’t feeling it anymore.

Sounds like it was a fun few months."

It was and when I used to go up to see him I did like taking a packed lunch and doing a puzzle on the train and I did like being the only welsh person in an English town.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I fly to the UK 3 or 4 times per year usually during the MLS. While I'm there I meet with friends and I've set up meets. Long distance isn't a problem for me or the people I've met. We've both had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 06/02/20 23:49:46]"

Deleted my text by mistake.

I hardly get any messages so I would be happy to chat with them.

I don't message women who are to far away from me, because I don't think we would ever meet. I only message locals and women who are in my search area when I'm away working.

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore them usually. "

Yep. Delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?"

Generally speaking you ignore them, in the exact same way that you (you) ignore messages from people close to you....

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap


"When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?"

Set off jogging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?"
hire a boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?

Generally speaking you ignore them, in the exact same way that you (you) ignore messages from people close to you...."

Lol i was just about to ask the OP what she does, but I guess this answers it.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?

Generally speaking you ignore them, in the exact same way that you (you) ignore messages from people close to you...."

Cringe

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Are they far away or are they just really small.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"See how much the price of flights is lol

This. Dublin here I come "

Is that a threat or a promise!?

Buzz me when you do ,live 15 min from the airport , can pick you up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When people far away message about meeting you but they are a whole ocean away what do you do?

Generally speaking you ignore them, in the exact same way that you (you) ignore messages from people close to you....

Lol i was just about to ask the OP what she does, but I guess this answers it. "

No I've chatted with few and even arranged a meet with one guy.

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over a year ago

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