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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really don't get this site girls put what they like and are looking for .

Some put filthy request and some quite tame I answer each acording to the request

Even tried being nice and laid back to the dirty ones and all the same outcome lol

Some reply and some don't some reply and don't look at the profile I'm totally lost lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called a woman's right to do what she likes I'm a chunky monkey not the best looking guy in the world yet I chat to a few wonderful people on here and have even had a couple of meets it takes time but you will get there dont complain I've found the ladies dont find that sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having just been catfished by a guy I completely get where the woman are coming from.

Maybe I’m just angry right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did some back of a fag packet calculations one day and I reckon there are between 30 and 50 single guys for every single lady.

Think about the implications of that. It's also probably the case that the most successful 20% of guys get 80% of meets, so there's that too.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Really don't get this site girls put what they like and are looking for .

Some put filthy request and some quite tame I answer each acording to the request

Even tried being nice and laid back to the dirty ones and all the same outcome lol

Some reply and some don't some reply and don't look at the profile I'm totally lost lol "

They don't fancy you, simple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not complaint just confused. Com

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Point taken hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably the correct answer I'm only 5ft 2 to mane I'm a low down bum lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Woman looks for something

Woman puts out open request

Woman rejects when she isn't interested, even if the person thinks they meet the requirements

... this isn't hard.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Not complaint just confused. Com"

What are you confused about? That not every woman is interested in you enough to reply? Why would that be confusing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Woman looks for something

Woman puts out open request

Woman rejects when she isn't interested, even if the person thinks they meet the requirements

... this isn't hard."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry all the women just keep flocking to me bud I cant help it the dog the dad bod and the rest of the guys here dint get any love.

My fault sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry all the women just keep flocking to me bud I cant help it the dog the dad bod and the rest of the guys here dint get any love.

My fault sorry "
pmsl

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Anyone can reject anyone for any reason they like. That's just how the world works, for anyone.

Fab is a difficult place if you don't accept that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don’t you try normal mainstream dating sites, plenty of ladies on there looking for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up fella. You'll get there in the end. There's no magic secret to it. Just keep being yourself and if you're a decent bloke it'll happen eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't get this site girls put what they like and are looking for .

Some put filthy request and some quite tame I answer each acording to the request

Even tried being nice and laid back to the dirty ones and all the same outcome lol

Some reply and some don't some reply and don't look at the profile I'm totally lost lol "

I could say I’m looking for a white guy that’s between the ages of 31 and 45 that wants regular meets rather than a one off. Someone who wouldn’t mind being sucked off, rimmed or fucked whilst he’s asleep and I’d probably find a thousand guys who fit that description but they still won’t be suitable unless I’m attracted to one of them.

Doesn’t matter if you ‘think’ you fit what someone’s looking for, you have to be attractive to that person.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP you've already had quite a few meets. Some are still struggling after years of being on here.

Not sure what you expect really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry all the women just keep flocking to me bud I cant help it the dog the dad bod and the rest of the guys here dint get any love.

My fault sorry pmsl"

What so funny I'm inundated here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, but how do you know that they haven't looked at your profile.

Most women on fab view in stealth mode, and most will have looked at your profile before even thinking about looking at your message - which will explain why some have gone unread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't know about stelth mode lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you order from every take away that delivers leaflets though your door when you fancy it? I know I don't, one may just have the edge over another, or by the time looked through them all 17 times I'm no longer hungry

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Users can opt to remain invisible when browsing.

Most women and many couples do this because a lot of them have found men messaging them just because they've viewed their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it so girls dont pester me if im nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Some girls will, some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' and some girls don't

Well, I know I've got the fever but I don't know why

Some say they will and some girls lie.’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"*Some girls will, some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' and some girls don't

Well, I know I've got the fever but I don't know why

Some say they will and some girls lie.’

"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As fantastic a match to the people you message, if they don't feel the chemistry, it's not a match. They likely have hundreds of other people who are interested, so their choice and taste prevails.

Hard, soft, raunchy, romantic and their activities interests, are possible options, and not guarantees for anyone.

It's really simple. They'll not reply if they have no interest. Site FAQ state this clearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s called life each to there own and everyone has there own wants and needs just maybe your not what that person is after but there will be someone who thinks you are just takes time finding that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also OP they probably have looked at your profile but in stealth mode so you would have no Idea they had looked.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

There's no point sending messages based on reading a profile, won't answered. Get busy in the forum and you'll find the site naturally open up to you

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I agree with all of the comments above. Some of it could also come down to timing. Sometimes I'm just too busy to think about meeting anyone. Maybe my inbox is overrun. Maybe I'm busy in the real world. Maybe I'm preoccupied with my current fab situation.

On a different day, I may have free time, be browsing, up pops a message and I'll chat.

Timing is everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're just not into you. Simple as that. Not much you can do about it.

I would understand the complaint if you never had a meet...

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

The pond is full of fish, if one doesn’t care just move on! best policy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They go fishing for attention, wallow in a full inbox (the more messages, the bigger the badge of honour), then pick the bloke with the ripped 6 pack and huge dick before realising they’ve been catfished and then moan about all the time wasters. It’s how Fab works.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Lose the sense of entitlement from EVERY message you send and enjoy those who do reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They go fishing for attention, wallow in a full inbox (the more messages, the bigger the badge of honour), then pick the bloke with the ripped 6 pack and huge dick before realising they’ve been catfished and then moan about all the time wasters. It’s how Fab works. "

It’s really not you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They go fishing for attention, wallow in a full inbox (the more messages, the bigger the badge of honour), then pick the bloke with the ripped 6 pack and huge dick before realising they’ve been catfished and then moan about all the time wasters. It’s how Fab works.

It’s really not you know "

For some it is (not all I will accept!)

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