FabSwingers.com forum: Men why are you so obsessed about getting your dick out?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just don't get it

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It shows their personality to a t I guess *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean. No need for all the dick pics that some send out

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Or is it boys with their toys? I'm undecided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trousers get tight so he gets fresh air

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I honestly think that they are so proud of them they really feel everybody wants to see them from 30 different angles, up close and covered in or spurting body juices and over or sat on the loo.

It's something that is totally beyond me.

It's up to the people to run the profile however they like, but when it's full of cock pics I can't get out of there fast enough.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Mine only comes out when it's time to play

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine only comes out when it's time to play

You don't wank

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine only comes out when it's time to play

You don't wank

Or pee?

Or wash it?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm deeply ashamed now, seeing as put my first dick pic up today F

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"I just don't get it

It helps with sex... Basically, get it out, and then start sliding it in an out of a woman. It feels good. That's all.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Mine only comes out when it's time to play

You don't wank

Or pee?

Or wash it?"

....you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

losers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind dick pics or seeing a dick as long as they send a face pic with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face is ugly so I get that out instead lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"losers x "

Hey they have feelings too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t mind dick pics or seeing a dick as long as they send a face pic with it. "

Not what I'm asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goes to hide his dick pics since he’s been shamed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine only comes out when it's time to play

You don't wank

Or pee?

Or wash it?

....you know what I mean

I do, you have a cheesy knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only gave one on display though unless we friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is out quite a lot on my profile, I’m aware it probably won’t get me much joy, but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My face is ugly so I get that out instead lol"

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only gave one on display though unless we friends

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No different to a woman getting her tits out

Most do on here

Thank god ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is out quite a lot on my profile, I’m aware it probably won’t get me much joy, but hey ho"

Yes but why?

There's no wrong answer, you do you.

I just want to know why?

If you're proud of it, what about it makes you proud?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"losers x

Hey they have feelings too!"

Yeah right!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

A lot are under the impression that it's all that people are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My face is ugly so I get that out instead lol

Fair enough

Id let you be the judge but your to beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"losers x

Hey they have feelings too!

Yeah right!"

I have feelings lemon buttercream x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry but I’ve seen some badly packed tacos in the time I’ve been on here so what’s the difference when I lad has his cock on display and why does it bother you so much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor little fella will suffocate if he doesn't get to come out for some air every so often

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"I’m sorry but I’ve seen some badly packed tacos in the time I’ve been on here so what’s the difference when I lad has his cock on display and why does it bother you so much?

It probably doesn't bother him, yet it's a great opportunity to show women that he's different!

I actually did a thread last week about it. It turned out that over half of women on here didn't like to see dick in profile, a tiny amount didn't care either way, and a few did like to see dick in profile.

So yeah!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m sorry but I’ve seen some badly packed tacos in the time I’ve been on here so what’s the difference when I lad has his cock on display and why does it bother you so much?

So me asking a question about men makes you want to insult women?

Winning strategy there man...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm asking men a question, the men are deflecting the question back to women.

Yup forums have definitely not changed one bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"losers x

Hey they have feelings too!

Yeah right!

I have feelings lemon buttercream x"

I refuse to believe it. All men are dead inside and only here to get their dick serviced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So this wouldn't be good time to start a rake your togger out Tuesday thread then?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"losers x

Hey they have feelings too!

Yeah right!

I have feelings lemon buttercream x

I refuse to believe it. All men are dead inside and only here to get their dick serviced."

After full plate of pasta you would be dead inside too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m sorry but I’ve seen some badly packed tacos in the time I’ve been on here so what’s the difference when I lad has his cock on display and why does it bother you so much?

It probably doesn't bother him, yet it's a great opportunity to show women that he's different!

So yeah!!! "

So if you did a thread on it last week this one is a redundant “look at me, I’m different” thread is what you’re saying I gotcha. Crack on Morningstar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"losers x

Hey they have feelings too!

Yeah right!

I have feelings lemon buttercream x

I refuse to believe it. All men are dead inside and only here to get their dick serviced."

Oh lemmon you dont seem your cheery self today and you have such a lovely smile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is out quite a lot on my profile, I’m aware it probably won’t get me much joy, but hey ho

Yes but why?

There's no wrong answer, you do you.

I just want to know why?

If you're proud of it, what about it makes you proud?"

I am quite proud of it, it’s mine and I’m comfortable being me.

I’m probably not as proud of the rest of me

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I think the science behind it is that for many men, the phallus is the quintessential symbolic representation of virility and masculinity.

Therefore, much like the depiction of the famous Cerne Giant - his penis standing erect and proud, to display ones aroused member is to indicate ones sexual prowess.

Having said that, it is entirely possible that am talking a load of old bollocks however....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because i wanna leave me alone ya big bully

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I got mine out loads when I first joined, now not do much after joining the forums

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

"I’m sorry but I’ve seen some badly packed tacos in the time I’ve been on here so what’s the difference when I lad has his cock on display and why does it bother you so much?

It probably doesn't bother him, yet it's a great opportunity to show women that he's different!

So yeah!!!

So if you did a thread on it last week this one is a redundant “look at me, I’m different” thread is what you’re saying I gotcha. Crack on Morningstar

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"I just don't get it

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it's where most mens brains are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have a profile full of sausage shots if I had one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get it

Because I ask them too and it's not Bookface!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think on a more serious note yes I k ow I'm not often serious but I think many guys have no idea what other pictures to put on most people on here wont show their face and that's true of men and women and not all us guys have a six pack and peks so what else do we show oh I know get our cock out make it hard get the right angle to make it look that extra inch bigger and snap that's our picture.

Ladies have it easier than men in a sense that us guys like to see boobs bum lips pussy legs bra on pics you ladies can take so many different pictures. So guys need to find other ways to make their profile less just cock but not all guys are confident with any other part of their body.

I could of course just be talking shit and have it all wrong but that's what I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine only comes out when it's time to play

So you enjoy pissing your pants then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice out but you can get arrested for it ??????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's important to always give a lady what she wants. (Or to give her something to laugh at. One or the other.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get it

Leave em, it's a cracking filter for us to ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cocks

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Because it’s amazing

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"Mine only comes out when it's time to play

Wow just had a peek (perv?) at your pics... Very nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect it may have started as a response to the profiles who have very exacting standards stated in response to the kind of cock that's acceptable to them

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'd just leave it as exhibitionism.

In order of living peacefully I'll chuck it in behavioural catalog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you had mine you’d know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like getting our dicks out?? We don't take life too seriously, it's just a cock, it's our toy, look away if you're not a fan.

sorry if you think we're all juvenile kids but playing the:

"Hey girls, I'm more sensitive than the other silly men" card, rarely works

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I suspect it may have started as a response to the profiles who have very exacting standards stated in response to the kind of cock that's acceptable to them "

May I posit another reason? One of the main reasons, I believe, is twofold. One is the fear of recognition. To actively take part in the site, one has to show oneself, for many people (not just men) there is a fear of exposure, yet this is a swinging site, therefore they show a sexual organ or body part that is deemed sexually attractive. For a woman this may mean a boob, or an arse, sexy lingerie photos or the almighty clunge. Men would argue they had fewer options to show off how virile or sexually active they are, without exposing who they are, hence knob shot.

Secondly it can be low self esteem, if you have a beer belly or a pigeon chest and you are surrounded by photos of men with the body beautiful you may feel that you don’t come up to scratch, afraid of showing off your body (quite wrongly, but still afraid) you retreat to the lowest common denominator; the knob shot)

Many woman do both the above but have a wider choice in what they display (if they display at all), from lips to stockinged hips, a flash of boob or an inner thigh)

But it’s quite easy to say, gosh all those cock pics, how base without given the above any mind at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm asking men a question, the men are deflecting the question back to women.

Yup forums have definitely not changed one bit

Well, there's been a lack of white knights till you trotted in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why men do it OP,each to their own I suppose. I did have one up but they’re in my friends list now. I don’t agree with just randomly sending them to women tho,but after chatting to women and couples on here obviously a lot of men do. That’s not on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t mind dick pics or seeing a dick as long as they send a face pic with it.

Not what I'm asking"

Ok they probably are obsessed with getting their dicks out cos I’ve been actively asking men for the last 10 years to send pics of their dicks and have public pics of their dicks. Word probably spread that dicks are what women want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen so many dic pics and torso shots I am now beginning to find the background decor far more interesting..like.. is that the IKEA Malm 7 drawer there ..honestly it gets really boring.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I just don't get it

What's to get?

It'll either work for them (which for many I have no doubt it does) or it won't.

Just because there a vocal population of women on the forums that says they don't like them doesn't mean the other 99% of women on site don't.

You rarely see a thread bemoaning tits being out or spread leg vag shots. Why so many whining about cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like getting our dicks out?? We don't take life too seriously, it's just a cock, it's our toy, look away if you're not a fan.

sorry if you think we're all juvenile kids but playing the:

"Hey girls, I'm more sensitive than the other silly men" card, rarely works "

I think that just about sums it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care why they do it, I'm just very glad that they do. Cheers you sexy fuckers

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"Mine only comes out when it's time to play

You don't wank

Or pee?

Or wash it?

....you know what I mean

I do, you have a cheesy knob

I just spat water all over my laptop

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think a lot of people got really defensive and missed the point entirely.

I'm asking why, I'm not saying it's bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of people got really defensive and missed the point entirely.

I'm asking why, I'm not saying it's bad."

The inference is there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a knob.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I don’t mind dick pics or seeing a dick as long as they send a face pic with it. "

Aren’t they the same

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"I think a lot of people got really defensive and missed the point entirely.

I'm asking why, I'm not saying it's bad."

Because they probably sit there fantasizing "oh god they want this cock they are going beg me to fuck them/ to let them suck it"

Why do guys need people to stare at them wanking to make them cum and to watch them cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine only comes out for special friends...it's not been out for a long time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think a lot of people got really defensive and missed the point entirely.

I'm asking why, I'm not saying it's bad.

Because they probably sit there fantasizing "oh god they want this cock they are going beg me to fuck them/ to let them suck it"

Why do guys need people to stare at them wanking to make them cum and to watch them cum?

I'm asking men.

No need for belittling, some people enjoy leave them to it.

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"I think a lot of people got really defensive and missed the point entirely.

I'm asking why, I'm not saying it's bad.

Because they probably sit there fantasizing "oh god they want this cock they are going beg me to fuck them/ to let them suck it"

Why do guys need people to stare at them wanking to make them cum and to watch them cum?

I'm asking men.

No need for belittling, some people enjoy leave them to it."

I wasn't I was asking a question

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I find most think it is their best feature! If that is the case then best to just ignore, coz they just turn out to be total cocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get it

Neither do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's never made a public appearance. Only in person or by request in PM can my penis be viewed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, another good old-fashioned male-bashing thread. We certainly don't get enough of them!

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

If you've got it flaunt it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah, another good old-fashioned male-bashing thread. We certainly don't get enough of them! "

Another male not reading with understanding. We certainly don't have enough of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah, another good old-fashioned male-bashing thread. We certainly don't get enough of them!

Another male not reading with understanding. We certainly don't have enough of them."

I'm talking about the comments, doofus.

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Not all are, unless called for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah, another good old-fashioned male-bashing posts. We certainly don't get enough of them!

Another male not reading with understanding. We certainly don't have enough of them.

I'm talking about the comments, doofus. "
FIFY doofus. Your sincerely another doofus.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"If you've got it flaunt it

Yours is different - you have sex written all over it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you've got it flaunt it

Yours is different - you have sex written all over it! "

And it has magic powers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think all men are obsessed OP. Equally some people enjoy seeing those pics and others don't.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"If you've got it flaunt it

Yours is different - you have sex written all over it! "

I better rub it off then

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By *yx_InannaWoman
over a year ago

Burslem

"Ah, another good old-fashioned male-bashing thread. We certainly don't get enough of them!

Another male not reading with understanding. We certainly don't have enough of them."

I'm confused you accused me of belittling, you say there isn't enough male bashing threads and you start your forum thread with you don't get why men are obsessed with getting their cocks out, why does it seem your contradictory?

Were you embarrassed by my suggestion of that guys fantasise someone begging for their cock because you've fantasised about that with your cock out?

Or by my question why do guys need to be watched to cum and be watched while cumming?

You never stipulated about where when and how guys obsess over getting their cock out. I generalised it I didn't stipulate where it could be in clubs, on cam, in pictures, outdoors or 1 to 1.

I don't belittle anyone unless it's asked of me for their pleasures.

I ask straightforward questions if that seems offensive then I'm sorry you took it as so.

Is this another thread I'm misinterpreted again because of lack of emojis? Because if you knew me you'd know I judge no one's pleasures as long as it's consensual and legal.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"If you've got it flaunt it

Yours is different - you have sex written all over it!

And it has magic powers

Yeah it makes most women vanish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you've got it flaunt it

Yours is different - you have sex written all over it!

And it has magic powers

Yeah it makes most women orgasm over and over and over"
I know, stop bragging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get it

Are you even a man?

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