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How Fab has Changed over the Years

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Hey everyone,

So I'm back here. I tend to come and go in phases. Some will probably remember me.

This time, it's really noticeable how fab has changed. Last time I was on here, around 4 years ago, it was rare to find a cheating wife who was open about it. I look on profiles now and a lot of women seem to be so open and honest about it.

Just a few years ago, this was considered to be taboo, even on here, and many women would lie or hide the facts. I remember women being ashamed, hiding away, profile disappearing after a month of chat, I remember many conversations which lead to guilt, etc. I remember kickoffs in the forums regarding it. We seem to have become more open, as a whole over the last few years.

I remember a distinct stigma about women "cheating", like as if it should be suppressed at all costs. This attitude seems to have gone now!

Anyway, that just my observation. What about you, what changes have you noticed over the years on this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabbing"

Fab has become quite mainstream, leading to a higher percentage of men using this site to get laid, rather than "swing".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think, over the years, swinging has been glorified as a sort of porn.

This has attracted a lot of short term fantasists and people who think you’re ready at the drop of a hat.

I’ve noticed a lot of people become very quickly offended when you state something they’re in to, isn’t for you.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


""Fabbing"

Fab has become quite mainstream, leading to a higher percentage of men using this site to get laid, rather than "swing"."

Yes!!! Lots in the forums say singles can't be true swingers, that's a whole other debate. I see myself as a swinger and think the social side is a big part of this. I know we can all use the site how we want to but it's the 'entitled' ones on here that really wind me up and think that just because I, and no doubt others, are on here it means that we want to fuck any and every person that messages us.

Aaaaaaaaand breathe. Yes, I feel better now x

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


""Fabbing"

Fab has become quite mainstream, leading to a higher percentage of men using this site to get laid, rather than "swing".

Yes!!! Lots in the forums say singles can't be true swingers, that's a whole other debate. I see myself as a swinger and think the social side is a big part of this. I know we can all use the site how we want to but it's the 'entitled' ones on here that really wind me up and think that just because I, and no doubt others, are on here it means that we want to fuck any and every person that messages us.

Aaaaaaaaand breathe. Yes, I feel better now x "

Well well well... And I thought you were sweet and innocent. This changes things. Ha!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


""Fabbing"

Fab has become quite mainstream, leading to a higher percentage of men using this site to get laid, rather than "swing"."

Yes, I understand. I don't claim to be a swinger. I just use it to make sexy friends. To be honest, in the real world, a huge amount of women just have very low libidos or are very inhibited sexually. Atleast that's how I see it.

Here however, you know straight away that there's a sexual side to her. I guess that's why men come here in droves.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


""Fabbing"

Fab has become quite mainstream, leading to a higher percentage of men using this site to get laid, rather than "swing".

Yes!!! Lots in the forums say singles can't be true swingers, that's a whole other debate. I see myself as a swinger and think the social side is a big part of this. I know we can all use the site how we want to but it's the 'entitled' ones on here that really wind me up and think that just because I, and no doubt others, are on here it means that we want to fuck any and every person that messages us.

Aaaaaaaaand breathe. Yes, I feel better now x "

That's actually quite interesting. I also like the social side. I guess what it is for a lot of men, they want to think that it *can* actually lead to fun.

Maybe some other guys will say how they feel about it.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


""Fabbing"

Fab has become quite mainstream, leading to a higher percentage of men using this site to get laid, rather than "swing".

Yes!!! Lots in the forums say singles can't be true swingers, that's a whole other debate. I see myself as a swinger and think the social side is a big part of this. I know we can all use the site how we want to but it's the 'entitled' ones on here that really wind me up and think that just because I, and no doubt others, are on here it means that we want to fuck any and every person that messages us.

Aaaaaaaaand breathe. Yes, I feel better now x

Well well well... And I thought you were sweet and innocent. This changes things. Ha!"

Haha. A claim I've never made. Sweet and innocent!!! Hardly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Fabbing"

Fab has become quite mainstream, leading to a higher percentage of men using this site to get laid, rather than "swing".

Yes!!! Lots in the forums say singles can't be true swingers, that's a whole other debate. I see myself as a swinger and think the social side is a big part of this. I know we can all use the site how we want to but it's the 'entitled' ones on here that really wind me up and think that just because I, and no doubt others, are on here it means that we want to fuck any and every person that messages us.

Aaaaaaaaand breathe. Yes, I feel better now x "

Totally agree with you .

I have been told I shouldn't be on here cos being a single women don't swing only a couple can swing . I should be looking for relationship.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool


"Hey everyone,

So I'm back here. I tend to come and go in phases. Some will probably remember me.

This time, it's really noticeable how fab has changed. Last time I was on here, around 4 years ago, it was rare to find a cheating wife who was open about it. I look on profiles now and a lot of women seem to be so open and honest about it.

Just a few years ago, this was considered to be taboo, even on here, and many women would lie or hide the facts. I remember women being ashamed, hiding away, profile disappearing after a month of chat, I remember many conversations which lead to guilt, etc. I remember kickoffs in the forums regarding it. We seem to have become more open, as a whole over the last few years.

I remember a distinct stigma about women "cheating", like as if it should be suppressed at all costs. This attitude seems to have gone now!

Anyway, that just my observation. What about you, what changes have you noticed over the years on this site?

"

Cheating is still shit, whichever gender is doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey everyone,

So I'm back here. I tend to come and go in phases. Some will probably remember me.

This time, it's really noticeable how fab has changed. Last time I was on here, around 4 years ago, it was rare to find a cheating wife who was open about it. I look on profiles now and a lot of women seem to be so open and honest about it.

Just a few years ago, this was considered to be taboo, even on here, and many women would lie or hide the facts. I remember women being ashamed, hiding away, profile disappearing after a month of chat, I remember many conversations which lead to guilt, etc. I remember kickoffs in the forums regarding it. We seem to have become more open, as a whole over the last few years.

I remember a distinct stigma about women "cheating", like as if it should be suppressed at all costs. This attitude seems to have gone now!

Anyway, that just my observation. What about you, what changes have you noticed over the years on this site?

Cheating is still shit, whichever gender is doing it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the beauty of Fab is that the friends you make here will all to some extent be sexually liberated (or they wouldn’t be here). I don’t think it means you want to shag them all but you might meet someone(s) that you might want to shag who shares your kinks and desires. You will meet people who don’t think you’re a weirdo because of your kinks and desires.

That may also happen in vanilla world but is less likely maybe.

The hierarchical high horses of morality here do make me chuckle as all of ya would be considered to be amoral deviants in the non-Fab world.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Hey everyone,

So I'm back here. I tend to come and go in phases. Some will probably remember me.

This time, it's really noticeable how fab has changed. Last time I was on here, around 4 years ago, it was rare to find a cheating wife who was open about it. I look on profiles now and a lot of women seem to be so open and honest about it.

Just a few years ago, this was considered to be taboo, even on here, and many women would lie or hide the facts. I remember women being ashamed, hiding away, profile disappearing after a month of chat, I remember many conversations which lead to guilt, etc. I remember kickoffs in the forums regarding it. We seem to have become more open, as a whole over the last few years.

I remember a distinct stigma about women "cheating", like as if it should be suppressed at all costs. This attitude seems to have gone now!

Anyway, that just my observation. What about you, what changes have you noticed over the years on this site?

Cheating is still shit, whichever gender is doing it.

"

But, based on which circumstances is it shit? Who are we to say that a man or woman shouldn't "cheat"? I don't personally know his or her circumstances, so I wouldn't like to judge.

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