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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so been here a while and only recently had a meet, although more social then anything. The thing is I hardly get replies, the messages read but no reply and sometimes a straight of delete and block, am I doing something wrong or am I just that ugly?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

No, you're just experiencing the same thing as most other blokes on here - if you expect to get meets just for being a member then you have your expectations set wrong.

Take a more laid back approach, get your expectations and attitude right, accept that you're going to get knock backs and that some people will find you attractive and appealing and others won't and the experience makes more sense.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Just engage in forums as poster provide opportunity to engage in conversation... don’t come across as desperate and just talk as if you had just met. You’ll either click or you want. The forum is the virtual disco of the 80/90’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think 8 weeks is "a while" then it kinda sounds like you're expecting miracles and lack patience.

I almost consider anyone who's been here under a year a relative newbie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think you just need to enjoy the site and be prepared to have any fun as a bonus, although this is frustrating with all the hot bodies ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys, some d*unken moments have led to a few multi messages haha, but other then that i fee I’ve been patient. I must admit I haven’t done much on the forums, thank you for the help tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you think 8 weeks is "a while" then it kinda sounds like you're expecting miracles and lack patience.

I almost consider anyone who's been here under a year a relative newbie.

P"

Oh I have been here before and for a couple of years, although there was a break In Which I forgot my password to the original account x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers guys, some d*unken moments have led to a few multi messages haha, but other then that i fee I’ve been patient. I must admit I haven’t done much on the forums, thank you for the help tho"

See now that does make ya sound like you lack respect.

You gotta remember your d*unken messages are someone else's sober experience of the site. That's the kind of behaviour that have women leave because it makes them feel like they're nowt more than good for tapping up through beer goggles, or that the men are pushy and impatient.

You can't expect positive results when acting in a negative manner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheers guys, some d*unken moments have led to a few multi messages haha, but other then that i fee I’ve been patient. I must admit I haven’t done much on the forums, thank you for the help tho

See now that does make ya sound like you lack respect.

You gotta remember your d*unken messages are someone else's sober experience of the site. That's the kind of behaviour that have women leave because it makes them feel like they're nowt more than good for tapping up through beer goggles, or that the men are pushy and impatient.

You can't expect positive results when acting in a negative manner.

P"

Cheers By d*unken messages I mean more spelling mistakes and sending the same message twice by accident rather then offensive , but I get what you mean x .

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