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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "

Fucking good luck with that one... I don’t even get a polite reply never mind a meet and a bit of don

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

More chance of finding rocking horse poo!

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I managed to find one, but in Vanilla life, of all places, not on fab, so proof that mystical unicorns do exist

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Submission is earned and is always, always conditional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "

So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.

I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?

Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Submission is earned and is always, always conditional."

I'll agree with that 100%

Trust is also a HUGE factor.

A sub is going to need to be able to totally trust you.

I didn't get to my situation right from the outset. It's only come about in the last week, and after a lot of communication, and pretty much by happy accident.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.

I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?

Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x"

Absolutely... to have a woman let go completely to you is an be one of the most erotic things if done right. It’s based massively on trust... it’s about pushing boundaries and you can’t do that without complete trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Submission is earned and is always, always conditional."

Not everyone seems to understand that. If it’s not symbiotic it’s not an equal relationship, and inequality can lead to the abuse of the other as they not shown they’re valued xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, good luck in your search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.

I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?

Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x"

Are you looking for a one off or regular? If a one off you may find someone, who wants to simply submit for the night- be careful though, as what you’re asking could lead to issues if you don’t establish firm boundaries from the onset- for both of you! xx

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Getting them to do Anal & DP is one thing , but making them watch BBC TV all day , that's just cruel !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try hypn0tist school

Look into my eyes

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "

Wow. I get the feeling thats not happening on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting them to do Anal & DP is one thing , but making them watch BBC TV all day , that's just cruel !!"

That made me LOL.

Cruel indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submission is earnt, not just given away

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "

And yet you mention none of this on your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

Wow. I get the feeling thats not happening on here. "

Only if she doesn’t mind not establishing trust and boundaries first! You wouldn’t believe the people who think that total submission on the first/second meet is the way to go. How can you trust someone you’ve only chatted to, or met once! Nowt strange as folk I guess xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

Wow. I get the feeling thats not happening on here. "

I'd hope it wouldn't happen anywhere. It's not just basic self-respect, it's basic self-preservation.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I detect a wind-up here.....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.

I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?

Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x"

Couldn't agree with you more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.

I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?

Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x

Absolutely... to have a woman let go completely to you is an be one of the most erotic things if done right. It’s based massively on trust... it’s about pushing boundaries and you can’t do that without complete trust. "

And yet so many think it’s instantaneous. The level of trust needed isn’t established, that then leads to problems as people don’t understand the boundaries xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

So you want a sub? You do realise that you have to earn that right? You have to prove she can trust you, in order to give herself over in such a way.

I’m not going to go into the whole true Dom, true sub stuff, as one woman’s Dom is another woman’s abuser- there is no hard and fast rule, but you’re tapping into someone’s subconscious need, so what do they get from it?

Fantasy is one thing, reality is a whole lot more complicated than that x

Absolutely... to have a woman let go completely to you is an be one of the most erotic things if done right. It’s based massively on trust... it’s about pushing boundaries and you can’t do that without complete trust.

And yet so many think it’s instantaneous. The level of trust needed isn’t established, that then leads to problems as people don’t understand the boundaries xx"

I’m not knocking anyone who does feel they have an instant trust btw, but it’s not something that I, personally, get xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "

Any takers on this yet?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Oh my what an offer, how can anyone refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and most of the men on the planet

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By *verdalesCouple
over a year ago

felpham and Rotterdam

Found mine , kitten is the best sub I could have , but it's all about trust and at the end of the day it's the sub who has all the power even tho they have given themselves over to you .

She needs treating like a queen with care and compassion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny!!

I agree with so many of the comments above.

Trust is most definitely earned. And so easily broken.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "

FML, that's not how ANY of this works

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc

FML, that's not how ANY of this works "

There are men on here who thinks it is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ontae plums mate

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Good luck with that op, maybe you should getting a blow up doll.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I’m looking for a woman to obey every command I give must be filthy any doesn’t mind anal/dp/bbc..etc "

So if you tell me to fuck and suck 2 obese smelly old men i have to obey cos you said so?. Pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck. I can’t even get vixen to cook dinner for once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her) casually walked into this thread and with a roll of my eyes and a flick of my hair I strut back out.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It's a hot fantasy, isn't it OP? I'm sure that a few people would like to find someone similar to how you describe. I think that you need to build some sort of "relationship" (and I use that term loosely) with another before you find that. People still want, to some extent, to be treated like a person. There are women on here who enjoy that sort of thing and don't necessarily require much more but most do require a good level of trust, communication and mutual pleasure - it's as much about your enjoyment as it is theirs. I hope you find what you're looking for OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loool!

Get my kill at this way of thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Found mine , kitten is the best sub I could have , but it's all about trust and at the end of the day it's the sub who has all the power even tho they have given themselves over to you .

She needs treating like a queen with care and compassion"

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

The green arrow is always interesting to follow.

Good luck OP, I think you might have set your expectations a little high

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