FabSwingers.com forum: Friends list removal etiquette

By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Once a fab meet has happened and said male/female avoids all written contact ie "ghosts" you whilst still being active, what is considered a reasonable amount of time before you delete them?

Curveball: when they realise their deletion and then contact you for reinstatement, what do you do next

Personally I have a deletion time bomb of a working week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck em. Remove them immediately

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Delete straight away

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I'm quite lazy with the Fabministration. Once you're on the friends list the only way to get off it is to remove yourself as I can't be arsed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on the circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have any friends

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I delete within 48hrs normally

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Remove them.

End of.

Do NOT I repeat Do NOT answer any comms.

In fact take their number offfuv your phone and block them on your phone.

Block them here.

Zap their computer and melt their connection

Report them to admin.

Spread rumours.

Put shit in a dog bag through their letter box.

Before you do all this send them a message saying they were a shit shag.

Post their photo on some lamposts.......

That should do it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know if I ever make any friends

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Fuck em. Remove them immediately "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Immediately, if not sooner.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

If someone’s behaviour changes after we’ve met I delete within a week.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Once a fab meet has happened and said male/female avoids all written contact ie "ghosts" you whilst still being active, what is considered a reasonable amount of time before you delete them?

Curveball: when they realise their deletion and then contact you for reinstatement, what do you do next

Personally I have a deletion time bomb of a working week

Straight away, if they then ask you about it tell them to feck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remove them.

End of.

Do NOT I repeat Do NOT answer any comms.

In fact take their number offfuv your phone and block them on your phone.

Block them here.

Zap their computer and melt their connection

Report them to admin.

Spread rumours.

Put shit in a dog bag through their letter box.

Before you do all this send them a message saying they were a shit shag.

Post their photo on some lamposts.......

That should do it..... "

Someone really pissed you off

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If someone’s behaviour changes after we’ve met I delete within a week. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Remove them.

End of.

Do NOT I repeat Do NOT answer any comms.

In fact take their number offfuv your phone and block them on your phone.

Block them here.

Zap their computer and melt their connection

Report them to admin.

Spread rumours.

Put shit in a dog bag through their letter box.

Before you do all this send them a message saying they were a shit shag.

Post their photo on some lamposts.......

That should do it.....

Someone really pissed you off"

Nope.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

People meet on fab? Hussies.

I'd probably delete within a few days. Life happens and people are busy but deliberately ignoring is wank.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Once a fab meet has happened and said male/female avoids all written contact ie "ghosts" you whilst still being active, what is considered a reasonable amount of time before you delete them?

Curveball: when they realise their deletion and then contact you for reinstatement, what do you do next

Personally I have a deletion time bomb of a working week

If their behaviour has changed that drastically after a meet it shows they've no interest in remaining friends. No reason to keep them around.

Having that behaviour then contacting you when they realize they've been axed is pathetic.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Block and report as they’re obviously fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People meet on fab? Hussies.

I'd probably delete within a few days. Life happens and people are busy but deliberately ignoring is wank."

Only people that meet on fab are the ones who’s profiles say “not meeting”

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Block and report as they’re obviously fake "

How does one meet a fake ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight away don't worry about there feelings block and move on

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"People meet on fab? Hussies.

I'd probably delete within a few days. Life happens and people are busy but deliberately ignoring is wank.

Only people that are worth a meet on fab are the ones who’s profiles say “not meeting”"

Thanks hun. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people are busy. I'm all for deleting forum group convos if they've gone stale after a meet up, but no harm in seeing how they are in a few weeks, if its still stale then no hard feelings and move on.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Couple of days max. Give time for an apology and if none is forthcoming then they're gone.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Block and report as they’re obviously fake

How does one meet a fake ? "

How do you know it was them?????

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I'd just remove them & if they asked why just say we'll you've ignored me so I thought you didn't like me for whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone’s behaviour changes after we’ve met I delete within a week. "

Exactly

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Don't think we've ever deleted any. Just checked and there are some on our list that haven't logged on in over a year.

They may come back at some point - like we did.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

If we don’t chat then we’re not friends. It’s a simple rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck em. Remove them immediately "

This.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

"Block and report as they’re obviously fake

How does one meet a fake ?

How do you know it was them?????

How does he know it was her ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block and report as they’re obviously fake

How does one meet a fake ?

How do you know it was them?????

How does he know it was her ?"

How does she know it was him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin them.

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By *atricia Parnel OP Woman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends. It’s a simple rule

That's epic and I've stolen it for my profile, should help keep the cockwombles away

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends. It’s a simple rule

That's epic and I've stolen it for my profile, should help keep the cockwombles away

hopefully!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only consider a woman a friend if she can cook

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends. It’s a simple rule

I go through my monthly culling using this basic rule

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately only you can decide based on what you know - but if someone has gone quiet on you and avoids you and it's obvious they have nothing else going on in their life that may be the reason for it - then I don't really see why any "etiquette" is needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many say on here within a few days. If I see they're on and no replying (Unlike other fabbers, I'd expect them to be interested in what I had to say). I tend to give a few days longer for those I've messaged but aren't friends.

Depending on my level of hormones at that time I may just say fuck it and filter into my blocklist as fab does say no reply means not interested. Not the type of friends I'd associate with.

Remember being at a social years ago and someone recognised me and said as a greeting, why did you block me. I honestly couldn't think who they were and never did, but just replied, you ghosted me. It must have been right as there was no reply.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"Once a fab meet has happened and said male/female avoids all written contact ie "ghosts" you whilst still being active, what is considered a reasonable amount of time before you delete them?

Curveball: when they realise their deletion and then contact you for reinstatement, what do you do next

Personally I have a deletion time bomb of a working week

If their behaviour has changed that drastically after a meet it shows they've no interest in remaining friends. No reason to keep them around.

Having that behaviour then contacting you when they realize they've been axed is pathetic."

Yep. Agree.

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple
over a year ago

Seaford

Generally keep friends list small and go through it every so often, if we’ve not spoken for a good while I’ll just delete

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