FabSwingers.com forum: Virginity

By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Was loosing your virginty a special moment in your life and puts a smile on your face when you reminisce, or are you like me and wish you had waited and lost it to someone else?

Mine was a god dam disaster and a total let down.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was horrible .... ok , a disappointment not horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No under 18s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was ok, for me anyway

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"No under 18s.

I was very careful not to mention age.

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By *awk90Man
over a year ago

Amsterdam

I really wish it had been different for me. Sweden can be an odd place, with lots of pressure!

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Mine was the most 'meh' thing I've ever done I think!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Mine was age 19 with my future husband. It wasn't as marvellous as I had hoped.

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

I’m happy with with when and whom I was with when I lost my virginity. I didn’t wait until I thought I’d met “The One” but I also didn’t jump into it like most of my mates first chance they got!

Only regret is I was so damn nervous and didn’t know what I was doing that I started slapping my hard on against her belly and had one leg up on the sofa like a Yoga practicing Cowboy. Couldn’t even blame Porn for the ridiculous

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

Probably the worst sex I’ve ever experienced

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I was very lucky to bag my longterm crush that I had married so many times in my head and imprinted our initials in heart shapes on books. A very special encounter.

Till he met his to be real life wife two weeks later

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Wish I had waited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it was lovely, in a romantic sense, as we were both virgins, had been dating for a year or two, the sun was streaming through partially closed curtains on a warm summer afternoon. Bowie's Low was on the stereo. If I smell the pefume Poison ever again it will take me straight back to those times.

I rem_mber my overwhelming thought at the time was "I'm actually doing it at last" and of course the sex was poor, but I treasure the memory...

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Wish I had waited

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.yep, me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Miss) that bad that i didnt do it again for 4 yrs

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"(Miss) that bad that i didnt do it again for 4 yrs

Awwww no. Hope you've made up for it now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was a disappointment, she came I didn’t and I thought oh is that it then

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By *miableRogueMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I was 16. She was 33. It was my first ever night out. I thought “Great, this must happen every week!!”

It was a 18 months before my next encounter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't a disaster, but given my time again I'd choose not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I had waited

.yep, me too."

I actually waited until I was 21 and it was still a huge disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"(Miss) that bad that i didnt do it again for 4 yrs

Awwww no. Hope you've made up for it now though."

Oh yes for sure but still got lots more making up to do

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Terrible experience

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"(Miss) that bad that i didnt do it again for 4 yrs

Awwww no. Hope you've made up for it now though.

Oh yes for sure but still got lots more making up to do

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

We were both virgins, both quite naive and it was a disaster.

I don't regret it though, I don't wish I'd waited, I don't attach that much importance to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was so quick I thought I’d that it. X

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

It was a let down for me. My mum told me it was painful the first. It wasn't for me.

Now I got have pain or its no good to vanilla for me.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I did marry him. Then it went downhill. But T has made up for it

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By *antrelWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham/Cardiff

It wasn’t great but we’re still good friends 20+ years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was everything I'd want it to be.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It wasn't great and there was some laughter.

I don't regret it or wish I had waited.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It wasn't absolutely terrible...I dumped him a week later because he'd gone bragging to his friends about it

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

A one night stand when I turned 23, I didn't even ask his name I just wanted to know what all the hype was about. It took me over a year to start actually enjoying sex. Now I'm kinda addicted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was loosing your virginty a special moment in your life and puts a smile on your face when you reminisce, or are you like me and wish you had waited and lost it to someone else?

Mine was a god dam disaster and a total let down.

Mrs"

I waited and wish I hadn't, the reality didn't live up to the expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was horrible and traumatic and I'm glad to have moved on from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking back at the experience I can see it wasn't the greatest night for either of us. I can't put all the blame on the guy, I didn't have a sodding clue about what I was going to experience and what I should / could do to enjoy the experience for myself and to help him enjoy it more. So it was a very awkward encounter and didn't get repeated.

Sex with a more experienced lover (2 yes older than myself) opened my mind and taught me so much about myself and pleasuring my lover .... including eventually introducing me to swinging.

I dont regret losing my virginity in an awkward encounter, looking back I think it's all quite endearing.... my innocence towards sex.

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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Amazingly underwhelming. Neither of us knew what we were doing. I don't treasure the memory. I don't hate it either. It was more a 'should we get this over with then?' experience.

Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine was the most 'meh' thing I've ever done I think!"

Mine too.

Then I lost it with a man.... better but took a while to get used to it.

Third time lucky later this year

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Mine was very mediocre, quick and didn't live up to the expectations that I had. Thankfully it did get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was horrible and traumatic and I'm glad to have moved on from it."

Mine too

S x

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Mine was everything I'd want it to be. "

That's good to hear. Seems most of us, it wasn't the greatest of experiences.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wish I hadn't bought into the concept.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Just you raising the subject makes me shudder........

No. It was vile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I had waited

.yep, me too."

Me 3

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Just you raising the subject makes me shudder........

No. It was vile. "

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

We have both planned it for a long time. Kinda romantic way

No regrets at all. We both have been virgins. He suppose to be my future hubby but we split a few years after. He married a lovely shy girl, I've married a lovely Spaniard man. Hubby was 10 years older than me and gave me a wonderful daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely hideous....he looked like he was going to internally combust, I found it horrific....took me 2yrs before I tried it again...I was 17 first time round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh! That's it really.

Still together 30 years later

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't really get this concept of "losing" your virginity. When I had sex for the first time it didn't feel like I "lost" anything. I had an experience that I hadn't had before.

I've never done a bungee jump, performed open-heart surgery or worn contact lenses. There's no word to describe me as a person who hasn't done those things and I doubt anybody would say I've lost anything for the rest of my life if I did them.

So why do we consider having sex for the first time a loss? I much prefer having a sex life to not having one. If anything, I've gained something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was loosing your virginty a special moment in your life and puts a smile on your face when you reminisce, or are you like me and wish you had waited and lost it to someone else?

Mine was a god dam disaster and a total let down.

Mrs"

Mine was a d*unken mess , lost my snail virginity first ha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Admin have asked us to shut these types of thread as they inevitably lead to discussion of under 18s and underage.

I've removed certain posts.

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