FabSwingers.com forum: Why do you hide?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Stops messages saying"see you've looked at me" or similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "

I never hide it, just because I look at a profile doesn't mean I'm trying to get somewhere with them.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "

Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

My phone twitches every time you look at me... it’s forever twitching...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t want the mingers to know I’ve looked at their profile

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because people assume that looking at their profile means I'm about to drop my knickers. Sometimes I'm looking because the status is a thing of horror, or even I accidentally clicked profile B instead of A.

And then they abuse you because a look means a shag, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...

Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages...."

Exactly what Stingly says. I always view in stealth mode so if there's a particular profile I like then i don't come across as a stalker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like hiding

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...

Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages....

Exactly what Stingly says. I always view in stealth mode so if there's a particular profile I like then i don't come across as a stalker. "

And yes, sometimes I appreciate some pictures a lot and... no I'm not admitting to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the same as others I guess but it's a shame though. You never know do you..?

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

I certainly wouldn’t mind you stalking my profile and me being able too see you are doing so!!

then gives me reason to keep viewing your profile And your hot sexy pics!!

Then hope you update with some more sexy pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad I'm not the only stalker/peeve... I mean peruser of some profiles

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I don’t want people knowing I’ve been perving over their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Glad I'm not the only stalker/peeve... I mean peruser of some profiles

Peeve? Perve!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's no one's business if I look at something they've made public.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Stops messages saying"see you've looked at me" or similar."

This.

I get a fair number of messages from guys who clearly haven't bothered to even read the first 2 lines of my profile.

I am only looking to meet ladies.

I don't want to have to filter everyone else out, as the forums are great for leading to some interesting conversations.

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By *ilks xXxWoman
over a year ago

East Mids

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

This

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

This is me too!!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

This is me too!!"

Me three

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Out of interest....if i stop hiding....do my historic/previous views all become active?!! Or just the views from that moment onwards...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Out of interest....if i stop hiding....do my historic/previous views all become active?!! Or just the views from that moment onwards..."

I don’t know, I wouldn’t have thought so...

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Out of interest....if i stop hiding....do my historic/previous views all become active?!! Or just the views from that moment onwards...

I don’t know, I wouldn’t have thought so... "

Wouldnt have thought which one lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I hide when i want to perv or read forums in peace without getting messages. I usually do this when nightshift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

Made me snort - and totally accurate (for me at least, and probably for her ladyship too coz she's a total perv

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "

I'm always in stealth mode...I stops the unsolicited messages from guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Out of interest....if i stop hiding....do my historic/previous views all become active?!! Or just the views from that moment onwards..."

All of them. Think of it as everyone having a log of who has viewed their profile. Ninja mode hides your entries on their log.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "

Saves more messages tbh

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you"

This. Also, sometimes it's nice to have a quiet fantasy about some of the gorgeous looking people on this site without having to worry about rejection etc

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I look at loads of people but don't want most getting the wrong idea. If I want them to know I've looked I'll fab something.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you

This. Also, sometimes it's nice to have a quiet fantasy about some of the gorgeous looking people on this site without having to worry about rejection etc"

God so true.

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

A lot of men seem to think just looking means interest and mail you like right away

If I want someone to know I looked I'll fab a picture or send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking... "

It's called stealth mode, the last time we unlocked this we were bombarded with messages asking why we'd not messaged, Jeez, we look at Argos but don't buy everything we view.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Stalkers, checking on ex's....who knows but I dont feel the need to hide who I'm looking at.

I look to see if we might get on, how to approach or reply to the type of person you are or just to have a look at your pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea.

Ohh.. I have a pretty good idea _eli

and thankyou fee telling me I could change that setting, I would be embarrassed as hell if only people knew the levels of stalking I go to!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea.

Ohh.. I have a pretty good idea _eli

and thankyou fee telling me I could change that setting, I would be embarrassed as hell if only people knew the levels of stalking I go to!

Xxx"

I have an idea

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea.

Ohh.. I have a pretty good idea _eli

and thankyou fee telling me I could change that setting, I would be embarrassed as hell if only people knew the levels of stalking I go to!

Xxx

I have an idea

xxx"

Yeah!! You already know I look at your constantly, it would be pointless if I hid it now!

xxx

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Wow there’s definitely some hot sexy female stalkers-pervettes!! Amongst the posters on here I can only dream of having such sexy stalkers!!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Because some men think that because you've looked you're interested and then mail you.

Also I might get arrested if some people knew how often I looked at them

Yep. There are a couple of profiles I look at far too often but luckily they have no idea.

Then tell them. Lol. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they dont look back

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"So they dont look back"

With anger?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So they dont look back

With anger? "

At least, not today.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

People may think we perv on their profiles far too often if we had it shown that we looked!

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

Im not going in ninja mode any more.

I dont really care if the people will think why I was lurking at their profiles all the time

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...

Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages...."

Exactly this. I never used to hide and got loads of these messages daily. So now I hide all the time.

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By *ireupthequattroCouple
over a year ago

Stratford

"A question - why do some people hide the fact that you’ve looked at a profile?

I get you’re not always looking because of interest and sometimes you’re just looking...

Because their inbox fills up with "I see you looked at my profile, fancy a fuck, here's a picture of my cock" messages...."
. Exactly right

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Because sometimes i just want to perv a cock in peace. Low key dick appreciation

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Gets awkward as I like to check a person's profile often if we're messaging and it looks a bit desperate

Plus sometimes I click on the profile but accident and it would look like I was stalking.

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