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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just want to have a rant!!!

I have been on here a few months. Very open and will happily message most people back. But if you are going to message me and be all judgemental as I’m not “verified” PISS OFF!!! I’ve had 3 very different meets and 2 I’m still indulging! I do not need or ask a guy to verify me as kinda spoils the enjoyment! Sorry if that is not the Fab way but I do not need to prove anything to anyone. Why on Earth is it such a big deal to some people?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ameulMan
over a year ago

Nr Norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want to have a rant!!!

I have been on here a few months. Very open and will happily message most people back. But if you are going to message me and be all judgemental as I’m not “verified” PISS OFF!!! I’ve had 3 very different meets and 2 I’m still indulging! I do not need or ask a guy to verify me as kinda spoils the enjoyment! Sorry if that is not the Fab way but I do not need to prove anything to anyone. Why on Earth is it such a big deal to some people?! "
no and i agree with you veris are the bain of this life keep what you do to yourself instead of bragging about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry can’t answer you because we have no veris!!!!

It’s your adventure so enjoy it your way and bollocks to all the haters.

Block duck and dodge!!

Enjoy.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure for most people it's a way of making sure they don't end up in a body bag or that you actually are who you say you are. I mean I find the whole idea crazy but each to their own.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

If people are judgemental, that's not cool. However, it *is* a bog deal to some people and I wouldn't judge that either.

We've been mucked around quite a bit and I personally would not now meet someone who did not have good "reviews."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pretty sure for most people it's a way of making sure they don't end up in a body bag or that you actually are who you say you are. I mean I find the whole idea crazy but each to their own. "

I have a huge list of people for the body bag!!! Not sure someone I want to have sex with will go to top of the list!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry can’t answer you because we have no veris!!!!

It’s your adventure so enjoy it your way and bollocks to all the haters.

Block duck and dodge!!

Enjoy.

T"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me , verifications show me that the person I’m meeting is ‘safe’ and who they say they are

It’s a double edge sword ... I rarely show mine now as last time I did I got some rather unsavoury mails.

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

Lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"For me , verifications show me that the person I’m meeting is ‘safe’ and who they say they are

It’s a double edge sword ... I rarely show mine now as last time I did I got some rather unsavoury mails. "

Yes. You can quite easily get the verification, not show it, and that way you've got the tick. If you so choose. It'd make the problem stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but when i had no varies it was hard to get any meets. So many fakes. Most arnt varied

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Just want to have a rant!!!

I have been on here a few months. Very open and will happily message most people back. But if you are going to message me and be all judgemental as I’m not “verified” PISS OFF!!! I’ve had 3 very different meets and 2 I’m still indulging! I do not need or ask a guy to verify me as kinda spoils the enjoyment! Sorry if that is not the Fab way but I do not need to prove anything to anyone. Why on Earth is it such a big deal to some people?! "

Don't feed the trolls, they'll love that you've started a post about them and they're probably wanking off onto their cum splattered computer screen

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen


"Just want to have a rant!!!

I have been on here a few months. Very open and will happily message most people back. But if you are going to message me and be all judgemental as I’m not “verified” PISS OFF!!! I’ve had 3 very different meets and 2 I’m still indulging! I do not need or ask a guy to verify me as kinda spoils the enjoyment! Sorry if that is not the Fab way but I do not need to prove anything to anyone. Why on Earth is it such a big deal to some people?! "
I agree what is the big deal

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I like veris as they show the person is real and hopefully safe although some do look at them and decide that you've fucked everyone who has verified you.

Mine are mostly friends I've met and nothing more than that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just want to have a rant!!!

I have been on here a few months. Very open and will happily message most people back. But if you are going to message me and be all judgemental as I’m not “verified” PISS OFF!!! I’ve had 3 very different meets and 2 I’m still indulging! I do not need or ask a guy to verify me as kinda spoils the enjoyment! Sorry if that is not the Fab way but I do not need to prove anything to anyone. Why on Earth is it such a big deal to some people?!

Don't feed the trolls, they'll love that you've started a post about them and they're probably wanking off onto their cum splattered computer screen"

Actually laughing out loud!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I refer you to Rant Thursdays?

We have a whole day for it because other people are such twats!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm not sure how verifications spoil the enjoyment... but it's up to you how you do things, just as its up to those who don't want to meet unverified people. Just delete any messages you feel are judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Verifications are great reading funny as hell, I mean a lot of them sound a used car sales person selling a car or a food critic.

Pleasing to the eye, great oral skills, once warmed up runs like a dream, funny as fuck love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want to have a rant!!!

I have been on here a few months. Very open and will happily message most people back. But if you are going to message me and be all judgemental as I’m not “verified” PISS OFF!!! I’ve had 3 very different meets and 2 I’m still indulging! I do not need or ask a guy to verify me as kinda spoils the enjoyment! Sorry if that is not the Fab way but I do not need to prove anything to anyone. Why on Earth is it such a big deal to some people?! "

There are some tools on here hun. If they care about verifications then in my eyes they arent worth it.

Seems a lot on here are here for their ego or seem to think everyone who isn't verified is a scam or that you are a 57 year old Black guy called Trevor. Daft.

Theres plenty of people who will take you as you are, but unfortunately there are a lot of fools to ween down first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just want to have a rant!!!

I have been on here a few months. Very open and will happily message most people back. But if you are going to message me and be all judgemental as I’m not “verified” PISS OFF!!! I’ve had 3 very different meets and 2 I’m still indulging! I do not need or ask a guy to verify me as kinda spoils the enjoyment! Sorry if that is not the Fab way but I do not need to prove anything to anyone. Why on Earth is it such a big deal to some people?!

There are some tools on here hun. If they care about verifications then in my eyes they arent worth it.

Seems a lot on here are here for their ego or seem to think everyone who isn't verified is a scam or that you are a 57 year old Black guy called Trevor. Daft.

Theres plenty of people who will take you as you are, but unfortunately there are a lot of fools to ween down first.

"

58 actually!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just want to have a rant!!!

I have been on here a few months. Very open and will happily message most people back. But if you are going to message me and be all judgemental as I’m not “verified” PISS OFF!!! I’ve had 3 very different meets and 2 I’m still indulging! I do not need or ask a guy to verify me as kinda spoils the enjoyment! Sorry if that is not the Fab way but I do not need to prove anything to anyone. Why on Earth is it such a big deal to some people?!

There are some tools on here hun. If they care about verifications then in my eyes they arent worth it.

Seems a lot on here are here for their ego or seem to think everyone who isn't verified is a scam or that you are a 57 year old Black guy called Trevor. Daft.

Theres plenty of people who will take you as you are, but unfortunately there are a lot of fools to ween down first.

58 actually!!! "

Awesome, hows your curried goat?

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Verifications on here are like any other feedback system - they are open to abuse.

Been to many a restaurant which boasts a high Trip Adviser score and they were rubbish.

Buy anything on line these days and within minutes of it arriving you have an E mail asking for feedback.

Life is too short to waste time on such frivolous things as feedbacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pretty sure for most people it's a way of making sure they don't end up in a body bag or that you actually are who you say you are. I mean I find the whole idea crazy but each to their own.

I have a huge list of people for the body bag!!! Not sure someone I want to have sex with will go to top of the list!!! "

No but I bet some of the people on your body bag list your on their wish I could be with list.

People are strange and lie (while I'm watching catfish) sometimes from both sides.

I don't agree with people ruling out others solely because they have no verifications but I can see why women especially would use it as sort of a security measure.

I guess from a guys point of view its to make sure it's not another guy or the possibility of getting jumped which unfortunately I know does happen via fake profiles.

If your happy doing what your doing just carry on and ignore the idiots

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