FabSwingers.com forum: Your Fab Life

By *riar Belisse OP Woman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

What if you are, looking for and or achieving in your fab life?

Is it specific fantasys, sexual bucket lists, romance, dates, just sex, making new friends and more...

The variety of people and all of their different wants and needs on here, that's what keeps me on fab

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Two sides.

I love going to clubs and meeting so many beautiful people, the sex and fetish is just a bonus .

But I only use this site for light entertainment. Xx

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'm trying to get meet with a lady possible fWB or couple fun. This appears to be an impossible task.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wants have changed over my time on here. When I first joined I’d just split really from my ex husband and I needed to feel attractive etc again. I used this site for meets , I guess essentially what it says on the tin.

Now, I’m looking for a friendship with extras - I’d rather not ‘play the game’ etc, I have no list and I do find it all rather unsavoury at times

The one constant is the forum - I’ve dipped in and out for 11 plus years now. Which makes me feel incredibly old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New friends... Nice social meets .. spontaneous meets( exciting and make you feel good ) good chat .. anything else is a bonus . Fab gets addictive.. but patience , politeness and respect has opened many doors for me on here.. it's been a good fab week for me

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

"My wants have changed over my time on here. When I first joined I’d just split really from my ex husband and I needed to feel attractive etc again. I used this site for meets , I guess essentially what it says on the tin.

Now, I’m looking for a friendship with extras - I’d rather not ‘play the game’ etc, I have no list and I do find it all rather unsavoury at times

The one constant is the forum - I’ve dipped in and out for 11 plus years now. Which makes me feel incredibly old "

Totally irrelevant to this thread, but what brand / colour is your lippy in your pic, it's lush and I so want it sorry xx

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I've been there and done that, I think I'm looking for the impossible now, a friend once said "you're a great bloke but your taste in women is shit".

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

Now, I’m looking for a friendship with extras - I’d rather not ‘play the game’ etc, I have no list and I do find it all rather unsavoury at times

The one constant is the forum - I’ve dipped in and out for 11 plus years now. Which makes me feel incredibly old "

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By *riar Belisse OP Woman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

"Two sides.

I love going to clubs and meeting so many beautiful people, the sex and fetish is just a bonus .

But I only use this site for light entertainment. Xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be invisible

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By *riar Belisse OP Woman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

"I'm trying to get meet with a lady possible fWB or couple fun. This appears to be an impossible task."

Good luck

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By *riar Belisse OP Woman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Now, I’m looking for a friendship with extras - I’d rather not ‘play the game’ etc, I have no list and I do find it all rather unsavoury at times

The one constant is the forum - I’ve dipped in and out for 11 plus years now. Which makes me feel incredibly old "

I like that your fab journey can evolve with time as interests change

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By *riar Belisse OP Woman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

"New friends... Nice social meets .. spontaneous meets( exciting and make you feel good ) good chat .. anything else is a bonus . Fab gets addictive.. but patience , politeness and respect has opened many doors for me on here.. it's been a good fab week for me "

Great news

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By *riar Belisse OP Woman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

"I've been there and done that, I think I'm looking for the impossible now, a friend once said "you're a great bloke but your taste in women is shit".

Some fab self reflecting time needed maybe x

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By *riar Belisse OP Woman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

"Not to be invisible "

Hugs x

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I have no specific goals or bucket list. I just like different experiences. Me and my wife enjoy swinging but are unable to agree on couples so decided to meet as singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined with hubby many years ago to experience new things and experiment, but it wasn't for him. So I meet for sex on my own. I do like group sex and clubs but have found that hard to achieve on my own and because of some bad experiences, I'm very wary now. I like the Forums too. G3orgie introduced them to me and I've made a few friends from them. So, I'm here now to chat in the Forums and arrange meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here for the forums and to chat, meet socially and make some fun new friends

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

As a couple it’s different, life is so busy, demanding and full already so occasional, adventurous sex with new people, extra fun on business trips and holidays gives a great release. We generally group chat on WhatsApp with a couple before meeting and buildup with lots of flirting and seduction etc that’s also fun

At first we thought the lifestyle , new friends, socials all that but we were kidding ourselves , it’s pure sexual adventure / midlife crisis !

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By *rouserbulgeMan
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I’m looking for the occasional meet up but this is proving impossible.

Failing that I’m more than happy to chat to woman about stuff (sexual or not) - but I’m getting nowhere with that either.

I think I’m boring or something.

I shall keep myself entertained by posting the occasional dick pic and batting away the numerous offers of blow jobs from the men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined Fab nearly 3 years ago after splitting with my partner who I thought was the love of my life, and turned out to be my biggest mistake.

I thought I’d never meet any good guys, and that if I did they wouldn’t be interested in me, but I needed some sex, so I joined another swinging site first, then moved to Fab.

To begin with I made errors of judgement which didn’t help my already battered self esteem. Then I met a lovely guy (who I still see occasionally many years later). I learned quickly and I’m happy to say that the last couple of years have been great. I’ve had a couple of long term regular FWB’s, and some less regular, but still fantastic meets.

I think, several years on I’m finally ready to move away from only NSA sex, thanks to my lovely Fab friends.

But I’m finding it very hard to meet that elusive partner (who I hope to swing with). I’m envious, but not in a bad way, of you lucky couples.

In the meantime my Fab journey continues!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We are mostly here for the forums after achieving our main aim for joining, we have made some nice friends and we try to attend group socials where possible. New fantasies have obviously arose (cis fab is so fricken horny

) so now we are just going with the flow and seeing what can tickle our fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to make new friends,if there's the chance of some sex as well even better. I've come to the conclusion that looks & the size of your cock is more important than personality to most people on here so my expectations are not that great,but ever the optomist I'm still sending messages that either don't get read or deleted with out a reply.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Several things - specific group events, although very difficult to arrange; making connections with couples and singles, ideally for regular meets; and the social side of the forums, which took me completely by surprise!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2 regular couples who we can hang out with on a social aspect, hopefully leading to being able to spend naughty time with them too. As nice as ffm is we have been there done that, loved it but not the top of our agenda.

Though there is something to do and thats try another cock. Im still a fab virgin in that way, feeling kind of deprived that inked has fully swapped and im still waiting lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been really lucky with Fab.

I’ve met some amazing, kind, supportive people who are now also friends and hopefully always will be.

I only really come on here for the forums now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her) think our Fab journey has evolved. We have found the site to be a great social media platform to chat with like minded people.

We tend to not use fab for meets as we have been unlucky in the past with single guys. We would still like to use it for meets, so we are not closed off to the idea it's just we manage our own expectations better now.

We enjoy meeting at clubs and then using Fab as our communication tool to keep in touch and plan repeat meets.

We both enjoy the forums, me more than Mr as its usually me that is logged on more than him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To continue my happiness not chasing fannys my penis will only taste one vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A splendid mix of both , good times with great friends .

I think when I started tbis adventure 10 years ago it was just the sex .

Now it's more about splendid socials with good friends , cake , a cuppa and chuckles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now, I’m looking for a friendship with extras - I’d rather not ‘play the game’ etc, I have no list and I do find it all rather unsavoury at times

The one constant is the forum - I’ve dipped in and out for 11 plus years now. Which makes me feel incredibly old

Totally irrelevant to this thread, but what brand / colour is your lippy in your pic, it's lush and I so want it sorry xx "

It’s Mac - Russian red is what I’m wearing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To continue my happiness not chasing fannys my penis will only taste one vagina"

Are you involved in some kind of bet, or do you get 10p each time you say this ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for anything in particular, but there are some things I want to do, I don't look at it like a list though. They'll either happen or they won't. Aside from from that I'm just happy exploring along the way with no expectations.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

When we first joined we were looking for single guys, so we could try a mfm together.

Once we'd tried that we moved on to looking for a longer term arrangement with one guy and to be exclusive with each other.

Now we're just here for the forum.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have no list, we are just along for the ride and whatever happens happens, we have made lots of true friends in the lifestyle and happy if we make more along the way

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

"I'm not looking for anything in particular, but there are some things I want to do, I don't look at it like a list though. They'll either happen or they won't. Aside from from that I'm just happy exploring along the way with no expectations."

Any1 who meets you is very lucky that's for sure.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've achieved everything I wanted. Have amazing friends, fantastic sex, intense and memorable experiences and have ticked a number of fantasies. Discovered quite a bit about myself along the way. I just want more of all i've experienced

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I joined here for the sex; not to get my dick wet but to feel that I was sexually attractive to someone. My self esteem due to my marriage took a huge battering and I needed to feel wanted.

That’s developed a bit and I’ve made friends here. People that I like, have fun with and care about.

As for the future - probably more of both. Making friends is actually fucking awesome and being able to admit that liking sex is fine makes me feel like I’m honest with myself.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

What I want has changed an awful lot over the years, so how I use the site has also changed. I'm pretty content with the way things are at the moment, I've met some wonderful people that I'm happy to call friends, and had some amazing adventures, with more of the same planned. I'm using Fab to fill up my happy memory bank

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In all honesty I'm not sure what I am looking for from Fab any more - a few things have put it into perspective in recent months - BUT I have friends here and people that mean a lot to me...for now I'm happy going with the flow without looking for anything specific and seeing what life brings my way

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I didn't know what I wanted.

Increasingly it's becoming part of my journey of self-actualisation. The sex is good too, but it's so much more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to of lots of new people and gain some confidence.

The dream would be to meet someone who completely knocks me off my feet, we couple up, meet other couples and have lots of amazing sex.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'd like to of lots of new people and gain some confidence. "

This is what I've done so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd like to of lots of new people and gain some confidence.

This is what I've done so far

feels good doesnt it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined for nsa fun after finding out my ex had cheated on me with loads of women, knocked my confidence massively.

Made some amazing friends and met inked, and that was the best thing to have happened to me. Can honestly say, I don’t regret the decisions I’ve made. Obviously I still want to be more confident, who doesn’t, and learn to love me a bit more. This place can knock you at times, but I’m looking forward to many more adventures in Fabland xx

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