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"Me! Would love to find someone where sex isn't the omly thing we do" It's so frustrating- I've stopped meeting men from Fab because I'm bored of just sex - but now I dont date or have sex I'm living like a housebound nun | |||
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"Me. I found Tinder worse than here for men who just want a ONS. And POF was even worse. Which is why I'm sticking here " Definitely with you there POF was so bad for it , fed up with being asked, so what you looking for , code for can I fuck and dump | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? " all internet domains feature sex in some shape or form and all prospective relationships will involve it, meet them its the only way | |||
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"I get offers from men that want a blow job but would never be seen in public with me. When I'd rather find a woman that wants walks in the country, cinema, meals out, chips at the end of the pier at the seaside, giggles at silly private jokes. Sex would be nice as well, but that's the icing not the cake." You had me at chips | |||
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"I get offers from men that want a blow job but would never be seen in public with me. When I'd rather find a woman that wants walks in the country, cinema, meals out, chips at the end of the pier at the seaside, giggles at silly private jokes. Sex would be nice as well, but that's the icing not the cake." Yep, apart from being a man that's looking for a woman, I want all that stuff as well | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? " I have to say, your profile pic, first time I’ve actually seen the sun shine out off someone’s arse | |||
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"Me! Would love to find someone where sex isn't the omly thing we do" I've got several buddies from fab that we dont just do sex x so it is possible | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? " Ye, I’m up for more than just sex .. but it’s all about individual wants | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? all internet domains feature sex in some shape or form and all prospective relationships will involve it, meet them its the only way " It’s when you arrange to meet them then they cancel last minute as the weathers not great | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? all internet domains feature sex in some shape or form and all prospective relationships will involve it, meet them its the only way It’s when you arrange to meet them then they cancel last minute as the weathers not great " why would they cancel because weathers not great, I'm saying meet for a social judge them in person its only way | |||
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"Yes but I dont want a relationship either, so I am a bit of an anomaly " Same | |||
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"I'm on there and I constantly swipe right, I'm looking for a long term bf though " Have you ‘found yourself’ then? | |||
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"I'm on there and I constantly swipe right, I'm looking for a long term bf though " king gay aka king G aka mr gorgeous | |||
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"I'm on there and I constantly swipe right, I'm looking for a long term bf though Have you ‘found yourself’ then? " Noone will ever be this fantastic | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? " I’m with you on this. I’ve tried a few dating sites without much success, only attracting men past there sell by date! I’m undateable too. Maybe I should take up knitting lol Still looking but in the meantime I’ll enjoy my time on fab | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? " Me too doll! I’ve tried dating just doesn’t work lol | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? all internet domains feature sex in some shape or form and all prospective relationships will involve it, meet them its the only way It’s when you arrange to meet them then they cancel last minute as the weathers not great why would they cancel because weathers not great, I'm saying meet for a social judge them in person its only way " We were meeting to have a drink and see if we got on then he message that morning to say the weather (really strong winds a few weeks ago) had put him off doing anything so he was cancelling | |||
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"I personally prefer OK Cupid." I use cupid too. Its better than a lot of sites. | |||
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"I think, unless you are in a relationship, or are a very anti-social person, then we all would like that little bit more than just a no-names quickie. Which maybe says something about some of the blokes that seem to be approaching the ladies here! Obviously that all being said. Sometimes, it is nice to just come together with someone for an afternoon/evening of passion." The majority of "single men " here already have a wife / GF at home to go out and share things with. I'm not sure what I'm doing here anymore to be honest - it doesnt make me feel good | |||
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"I think, unless you are in a relationship, or are a very anti-social person, then we all would like that little bit more than just a no-names quickie. Which maybe says something about some of the blokes that seem to be approaching the ladies here! Obviously that all being said. Sometimes, it is nice to just come together with someone for an afternoon/evening of passion. The majority of "single men " here already have a wife / GF at home to go out and share things with. I'm not sure what I'm doing here anymore to be honest - it doesnt make me feel good " If no one is making you do something,and you're not really enjoying it. It is probably time to question why you're doing it?! | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? all internet domains feature sex in some shape or form and all prospective relationships will involve it, meet them its the only way It’s when you arrange to meet them then they cancel last minute as the weathers not great why would they cancel because weathers not great, I'm saying meet for a social judge them in person its only way We were meeting to have a drink and see if we got on then he message that morning to say the weather (really strong winds a few weeks ago) had put him off doing anything so he was cancelling " really, thats a really crap excuse almost worse than saying my cars broken down or i have a nose bleed | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? all internet domains feature sex in some shape or form and all prospective relationships will involve it, meet them its the only way It’s when you arrange to meet them then they cancel last minute as the weathers not great why would they cancel because weathers not great, I'm saying meet for a social judge them in person its only way We were meeting to have a drink and see if we got on then he message that morning to say the weather (really strong winds a few weeks ago) had put him off doing anything so he was cancelling really, thats a really crap excuse almost worse than saying my cars broken down or i have a nose bleed " That’s what I thought although to be fair he did laugh at himself and call himself a pussy but at least I know to check the weather forecast before planning any socials | |||
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"I think, unless you are in a relationship, or are a very anti-social person, then we all would like that little bit more than just a no-names quickie. Which maybe says something about some of the blokes that seem to be approaching the ladies here! Obviously that all being said. Sometimes, it is nice to just come together with someone for an afternoon/evening of passion. The majority of "single men " here already have a wife / GF at home to go out and share things with. I'm not sure what I'm doing here anymore to be honest - it doesnt make me feel good If no one is making you do something,and you're not really enjoying it. It is probably time to question why you're doing it?! " I agree - I'm mainly here to fill time now and occasionally scratch an itch I'm happy in my own company and not looking for a relationship. I've decided in concentrating on friendships for now. | |||
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"I can take or leave this sex shiz at the moment. Much prefer decent company and laughter. " Yeah I agree. Laughter is missing in my life at the moment x | |||
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"I can take or leave this sex shiz at the moment. Much prefer decent company and laughter. Yeah I agree. Laughter is missing in my life at the moment x" hey its not missing in mine | |||
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"I think, unless you are in a relationship, or are a very anti-social person, then we all would like that little bit more than just a no-names quickie. Which maybe says something about some of the blokes that seem to be approaching the ladies here! Obviously that all being said. Sometimes, it is nice to just come together with someone for an afternoon/evening of passion. The majority of "single men " here already have a wife / GF at home to go out and share things with. I'm not sure what I'm doing here anymore to be honest - it doesnt make me feel good If no one is making you do something,and you're not really enjoying it. It is probably time to question why you're doing it?! I agree - I'm mainly here to fill time now and occasionally scratch an itch I'm happy in my own company and not looking for a relationship. I've decided in concentrating on friendships for now." Dating sites and Fab can sometimes get a bit soul-destroying - I can only actively meet in small cycles before needing a break from it (although still reading the forums!). Happily I have a number of friends (all previous partners) who I still do 'date stuff' with - drinks, dinner, cinema, walks... And sometimes the other benefits too! I hope concentrating on friend stuff re-centres you. Do what makes you feel good! And you can 'date' your friends too, even without the romance. | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? " I’m clearly one of the lucky ones. ‘Even’ on here I have no problem getting dinner dates, trips to the cinema, hotel weekends etc etc. I don’t ‘just shag’ - so unless a guy is willing to put a little time and effort in getting to know me I’ll stick to my toys! However - I wouldn’t arrange any/all of the above unless I was prepared to contribute. | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? I’m clearly one of the lucky ones. ‘Even’ on here I have no problem getting dinner dates, trips to the cinema, hotel weekends etc etc. I don’t ‘just shag’ - so unless a guy is willing to put a little time and effort in getting to know me I’ll stick to my toys! However - I wouldn’t arrange any/all of the above unless I was prepared to contribute. " omg you do youre always shagging jeez lol | |||
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"Ok I admit it .... I'm on Tinder I feel like I need to go out and have some fun without it all being about sex. Its impossible- the men on Tinder only care about sex as well It official - I'm undateable! Who else would like a bit more than body parts rubbing together? " PoF was the same!! Then when I changed my profile to casual sex they all ran away J x | |||
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"It's not all about sex, yes this is a sex site, but I have and continue to meet some great people here as social meets. Some lead to sex, some just end but others become friends to chat and hang out with. The great thing about this as they are fab people the banter var starts high with few off limits discussion topics." I totally agree with all of this - I have some great friends from here - some are now mates - some are FWB - some I just share banter with and some are my Fabnilla friends - this site can be what you want it to be xx | |||
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" The majority of "single men " here already have a wife / GF at home to go out and share things with. I'm not sure what I'm doing here anymore to be honest - it doesn't make me feel good " I hear yer | |||
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"Me I’m the same as you, but they are actually more crass and forward on there as opposed to here I’m available for dates with bumping uglies " lol | |||
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"I’m undateable too " I'm totally feeling this way too. Maybe we should start a support club | |||
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"I’m undateable too I'm totally feeling this way too. Maybe we should start a support club " An undateable post | |||
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"I’m undateable too I'm totally feeling this way too. Maybe we should start a support club An undateable post " I was thinking undateable fuckers is more apt | |||
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"I’m undateable too I'm totally feeling this way too. Maybe we should start a support club An undateable post I was thinking undateable fuckers is more apt " I am sure that you are all, more than, dateable. However, sharing the approaches that work, and maybe some input from the bloke's perspective, may be helpful. I've a couple of friends in similar places, really fed up with having to try and sieve the (small amount) of wheat from the (huge amount) of male chaff online! | |||
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