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"I don't really have mates, my best friend is a cat." What’s your cat called. I love cats | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood." I do too and I think it's gradually getting better. I've been hurt a lot by women but still feel a lot of solidarity and very few things make me as angry as women beaters. I'll still feel a flash of the old black rage that I keep in a ch*ke hold. I wanted to get hold of Mark Field and just keep punching til the miserable mother fucker stopped kicking. | |||
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"I don't really have mates, my best friend is a cat. What’s your cat called. I love cats " Casper, he likes to bite me. | |||
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"Women supporting each other. Men being mates. It's a valuable thing when you can find it." Couldn’t agree more. I’m running a men’s group tomorrow night, within the kink community in my town. | |||
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"I don't really have any friends, just people I know. Most of them treat me like shit. I've already cut two of them out of my life because I was tired of them tearing me down. It's kind of heart breaking hearing your friends confirm your worst thoughts and feelings about yourself. " Yes, that is tough, I'm sorry. | |||
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"I don't really have any friends, just people I know. Most of them treat me like shit. I've already cut two of them out of my life because I was tired of them tearing me down. It's kind of heart breaking hearing your friends confirm your worst thoughts and feelings about yourself. " Then you’re better off without them Concentrate on yourself and don’t let anyone put you down x | |||
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"Lone wolf here. I wouldn't say I have any friends. I do have acquaintances but no-one I'd call a close friend. " Same... Reliable acquaintances | |||
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"No... My closest friend never actually asks me how I am, or whats going on. So I say nothing about my life. My true friend died in an accident. Never replaced the level of friendship we had. " One of the friends I just cut out of my life was my oldest and best friend. He was the exact same as yours. Never asked how I was. He never came around to mine, I always had to go to his. He never made plans, it was always me making them. The one time he showed any concern was when I was having a really rough time a few years ago. I won't go into detail, but I went out drinking by myself and d*unkenly told my mates in a FB group chat that I was gonna do something stupid. He came out looking for me in town to bring me home. I guess you could say he was a true friend for doing that, but the problem is, I have self-esteem issues which are made worse because he used to treat me like shit sometimes and made me feel like I'm completely alone. He wasn't the main reason I was going to do something stupid, but he was one of them. | |||
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"I don't really have any friends, just people I know. Most of them treat me like shit. I've already cut two of them out of my life because I was tired of them tearing me down. It's kind of heart breaking hearing your friends confirm your worst thoughts and feelings about yourself. Then you’re better off without them Concentrate on yourself and don’t let anyone put you down x" I'm not sure I want friends anymore to be honest. If I could cut my family out of my life too I would. It's sad and I do feel pretty fucking lonely sometimes, but I honestly think I'd rather be alone than have to deal with people. | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood." Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies! | |||
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"No... My closest friend never actually asks me how I am, or whats going on. So I say nothing about my life. My true friend died in an accident. Never replaced the level of friendship we had. One of the friends I just cut out of my life was my oldest and best friend. He was the exact same as yours. Never asked how I was. He never came around to mine, I always had to go to his. He never made plans, it was always me making them. The one time he showed any concern was when I was having a really rough time a few years ago. I won't go into detail, but I went out drinking by myself and d*unkenly told my mates in a FB group chat that I was gonna do something stupid. He came out looking for me in town to bring me home. I guess you could say he was a true friend for doing that, but the problem is, I have self-esteem issues which are made worse because he used to treat me like shit sometimes and made me feel like I'm completely alone. He wasn't the main reason I was going to do something stupid, but he was one of them. " Look into some conselling and take up a hobby.. A short night class for a few weeks. Meet more people that way. It helps the alone feelings. | |||
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"I often find friendships with women more challenging than with men. But there's something about the common experience we have... " I dont have much in common with the friends i have now. | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood. Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies! "Yes, it certainly is There is something about this funny old world, isn't there? | |||
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"Is praise the same as friendship... No..not for me" I'm not sure that's what the OP meant. I think it's more about the importance of same sex friendship but I could be wrong. | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood. Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies!
Yes, it certainly is There is something about this funny old world, isn't there?"The way I think of it is - we already know each other’s biggest, dirty secret (as far as the outside world’s concerned anyway) - so we tend to be far more open with each other about all the other things in our lives too! I think that in the swinging world we make close bonds quite quickly because we have a commonality that the real world doesn’t. That’s kinda how I see it anyway! X | |||
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"Is praise the same as friendship... No..not for me I'm not sure that's what the OP meant. I think it's more about the importance of same sex friendship but I could be wrong. " Yes. Friends with people of the same sex are valuable. Discuss. Sort of thing | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood. Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies!
Yes, it certainly is There is something about this funny old world, isn't there?
The way I think of it is - we already know each other’s biggest, dirty secret (as far as the outside world’s concerned anyway) - so we tend to be far more open with each other about all the other things in our lives too!
I think that in the swinging world we make close bonds quite quickly because we have a commonality that the real world doesn’t.
That’s kinda how I see it anyway! X"This is a brilliant way of looking at things. X | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood. Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies!
Yes, it certainly is There is something about this funny old world, isn't there?
The way I think of it is - we already know each other’s biggest, dirty secret (as far as the outside world’s concerned anyway) - so we tend to be far more open with each other about all the other things in our lives too!
I think that in the swinging world we make close bonds quite quickly because we have a commonality that the real world doesn’t.
That’s kinda how I see it anyway! X
This is a brilliant way of looking at things. X"Thanks lovely. So where are you moving to? Anywhere near Prestonish? | |||
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"No... My closest friend never actually asks me how I am, or whats going on. So I say nothing about my life. My true friend died in an accident. Never replaced the level of friendship we had. One of the friends I just cut out of my life was my oldest and best friend. He was the exact same as yours. Never asked how I was. He never came around to mine, I always had to go to his. He never made plans, it was always me making them. The one time he showed any concern was when I was having a really rough time a few years ago. I won't go into detail, but I went out drinking by myself and d*unkenly told my mates in a FB group chat that I was gonna do something stupid. He came out looking for me in town to bring me home. I guess you could say he was a true friend for doing that, but the problem is, I have self-esteem issues which are made worse because he used to treat me like shit sometimes and made me feel like I'm completely alone. He wasn't the main reason I was going to do something stupid, but he was one of them. Look into some conselling and take up a hobby.. A short night class for a few weeks. Meet more people that way. It helps the alone feelings. " It's weird, but I'm quite introverted, I like my solitude. But I feel like people forget that I exist and that's when I get lonely. If I see friends doing something together, something that I myself would enjoy doing and they know that I would, I feel left out. I'm perfectly happy spending time alone writing, but every once in a while, it'd be nice to have my friends and family ask me if I wanna play a game of pool (I have a pool table in my garage, it's not like we'd have to go far) or come and watch a film with them downstairs or play Monopoly together. I even brought it up once before and my sister actually said ''you're always in your room, whenever we ask you if you wanna come out for a meal you say no''. I say no because I've probably already had my tea. | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood. Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies!
Yes, it certainly is There is something about this funny old world, isn't there?
The way I think of it is - we already know each other’s biggest, dirty secret (as far as the outside world’s concerned anyway) - so we tend to be far more open with each other about all the other things in our lives too!
I think that in the swinging world we make close bonds quite quickly because we have a commonality that the real world doesn’t.
That’s kinda how I see it anyway! X
This is a brilliant way of looking at things. X
Thanks lovely. So where are you moving to? Anywhere near Prestonish? "To London, I'm moving in with Ash. X | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood. Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies!
Yes, it certainly is There is something about this funny old world, isn't there?
The way I think of it is - we already know each other’s biggest, dirty secret (as far as the outside world’s concerned anyway) - so we tend to be far more open with each other about all the other things in our lives too!
I think that in the swinging world we make close bonds quite quickly because we have a commonality that the real world doesn’t.
That’s kinda how I see it anyway! X
This is a brilliant way of looking at things. X
Thanks lovely. So where are you moving to? Anywhere near Prestonish?
To London, I'm moving in with Ash. X"Ah ok. Well you’ll be grand - and some of the loveliest fab ladies I know live in them there parts! | |||
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"Is praise the same as friendship... No..not for me I'm not sure that's what the OP meant. I think it's more about the importance of same sex friendship but I could be wrong. " In that case, friendship, true friendship is very important. I don't have many true friends...I have a couple of them and I love them dearly. I have a few acquaintances. I am lucky that my life is filled with good people. I can't imagine feeling/being alone or isolated. I know that their are many lonely people out there who feel that way. | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood. Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies!
Yes, it certainly is There is something about this funny old world, isn't there?
The way I think of it is - we already know each other’s biggest, dirty secret (as far as the outside world’s concerned anyway) - so we tend to be far more open with each other about all the other things in our lives too!
I think that in the swinging world we make close bonds quite quickly because we have a commonality that the real world doesn’t.
That’s kinda how I see it anyway! X"Yes. And I think there's a wavelength and acceptance that isn't always there in the rest of life. It's something I've always struggled with when trying to bond with people. Any sign of my eccentricity and they're off. Sadly, I'm eccentric. | |||
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"I've never had the best luck with female friends, but I want that to change. I very much believe in the sisterhood. Well hopefully that’s changing?
I think most of my best friends these days are fab ladies!
Yes, it certainly is There is something about this funny old world, isn't there?
The way I think of it is - we already know each other’s biggest, dirty secret (as far as the outside world’s concerned anyway) - so we tend to be far more open with each other about all the other things in our lives too!
I think that in the swinging world we make close bonds quite quickly because we have a commonality that the real world doesn’t.
That’s kinda how I see it anyway! X
This is a brilliant way of looking at things. X
Thanks lovely. So where are you moving to? Anywhere near Prestonish?
To London, I'm moving in with Ash. X
Ah ok. Well you’ll be grand - and some of the loveliest fab ladies I know live in them there parts! "Yep, I know them and very much agree. Xx | |||
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"Apologies OP..I completely misread the title ..hence my comment "No worries | |||
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"Apologies OP..I completely misread the title ..hence my comment
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"I don’t have male friends so I miss out on that different type chat. Even in work I’m the only male on my unit with 35 females so OMG ?? I have tried to join things to make male friends but just doesn’t work, even old school mates I struggle to relate to as most have families kids and other things. I do my specialist job, I am a gaming geek who also builds Lego and collects Star Wars things and it also a performer of music playing my own songs at gigs am recording them. I always hope even on here can chat to guys and have banter etc but nope lol And when I have had 1 or 2 I used get rejected for meets as women would msg said no your gay as have male friends on page lol" You can hide your friends list. Doesnt sharing and playing your music give the opportunity to meet guys as friends. I hope you can find and build some male friend relationships x | |||
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"I don’t have male friends so I miss out on that different type chat. Even in work I’m the only male on my unit with 35 females so OMG ?? I have tried to join things to make male friends but just doesn’t work, even old school mates I struggle to relate to as most have families kids and other things. I do my specialist job, I am a gaming geek who also builds Lego and collects Star Wars things and it also a performer of music playing my own songs at gigs am recording them. I always hope even on here can chat to guys and have banter etc but nope lol And when I have had 1 or 2 I used get rejected for meets as women would msg said no your gay as have male friends on page lol You can hide your friends list. Doesnt sharing and playing your music give the opportunity to meet guys as friends. I hope you can find and build some male friend relationships x" I have people I see at gigs I say hi to but I have an overwhelming shyness which only leaves when performing so struggle. Just be nice speak to people similar that ain’t partner or people just talk cos work together. I probably sound really sad now lol | |||
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