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By *Jsandstockings OP   Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Question for all ... when you are in a relationship do the ladies enjoy exerting sexual power and control over their partner or do men call all the shots ?

For example ... can your behaviour , looks and words always get him going or does he have to be in the mood ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmm both? Neither?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I have sexual control over him but he's also always horny so never says no to me

S x

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Snap. No power trip here... we just generally have an agreement that we both want to

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By *Jsandstockings OP   Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"I wouldn't say I have sexual control over him but he's also always horny so never says no to me

S x"

Absolutely agree ...it the best sort of relationship you have there x

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By *Jsandstockings OP   Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"Snap. No power trip here... we just generally have an agreement that we both want to "

Agreed ... it has to be mutual !

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Question for all ... when you are in a relationship do the ladies enjoy exerting sexual power and control over their partner or do men call all the shots ?

For example ... can your behaviour , looks and words always get him going or does he have to be in the mood ? "

Question made me smile.

Certain brat behaviour can alway get a rise out of me in oh so many ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my life I've always found it hard to let the lady take control most of the time. It's not planned that way, we just go with what ever flows naturally at the time.

If you're lucky enough to be in a relationship where there's an effortless balance then you're on to a winner in my opinion.

I've had times where I've wanted to let her take charge and it's just not been in their nature but then again, a couple of partners nailed it and it was incredible.

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By *Jsandstockings OP   Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"In my life I've always found it hard to let the lady take control most of the time. It's not planned that way, we just go with what ever flows naturally at the time.

If you're lucky enough to be in a relationship where there's an effortless balance then you're on to a winner in my opinion.

I've had times where I've wanted to let her take charge and it's just not been in their nature but then again, a couple of partners nailed it and it was incredible. "

I absolutely agree with you ... I love to take charge but balanced with him doing the same at other times x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I seek partners who have the same level of dominance as me, so we fluidly pass the power between us giving and taking constantly, feeding off each others energy and each of us driving the passion higher and higher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say I have sexual control over him but he's also always horny so never says no to me

S x"

Hmmm shall we put it to the test soon?

Twisted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't difficult. I'm rarely not in the mood. Even if I'm distracted I could most likely be persuaded..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my life I've always found it hard to let the lady take control most of the time. It's not planned that way, we just go with what ever flows naturally at the time.

If you're lucky enough to be in a relationship where there's an effortless balance then you're on to a winner in my opinion.

I've had times where I've wanted to let her take charge and it's just not been in their nature but then again, a couple of partners nailed it and it was incredible.

I absolutely agree with you ... I love to take charge but balanced with him doing the same at other times x "

Exactly. sex Doesn't get dull when you can naturally push and test eachother or better yet, surprise them by experimenting and pushing boundaries.

I wonder if it's easier for women to attract a bloke on the same level of pervertedness (new word lol) than it is vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the dynamic between me and my guy.

Sometimes I want control, an intrinsic need too. Sometimes ny control needs to be admonished

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