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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here, not much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Are you bothered about how people take you?"

As long as it's not in the ass with a prosthetic limb I'm really not bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who takes you seriously?! Ahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Are you bothered about how people take you?

As long as it's not in the ass with a prosthetic limb I'm really not bothered "

Well damn

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sometimes yes, sometimes no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who takes you seriously?! Ahahahaha"

Honestly you’d be bloody surprised

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Not bothered at all queen. Some will like me. Some won’t get me and some will hate me. I am who I am and I’m no different in my suit as I am in a dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not too bothered but I do take crappy comments personally when I shouldn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its each to their own,

one persons nightmare is another's dream.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?"

No I'm really not bothered and you come across as a lovely young lady, I like your posts

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not too bothered but I do take crappy comments personally when I shouldn’t "

Ah I used to as well. And occasionally I still do. But most of the time I’m able to just laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?"

On here? No!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?

No I'm really not bothered and you come across as a lovely young lady, I like your posts

x"

Ahhhh why thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?

On here? No! "

Well you should

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Really couldn't care. I use the forums as outlet to the trials & tribulations of daily life. I can be whatever type of person I want to be on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavens no

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?

No I'm really not bothered and you come across as a lovely young lady, I like your posts

x

Ahhhh why thank you "
,

. I love hearing updates on little man xx

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?"
Nope....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

On the internet no. In real life I do I hate the fact I do but can’t help it.

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

I’m relatively new to this site and have only started posting on the Forums within the last day or two. The fact I’m very much a “Newbie” to both this site and Lifestyle and trying to take the first steps means I am a little shy, cautious and tentative so I suppose I am slightly conscientiously atm until I’ve posted a bit more and had some interactions, conversations and exchanges then I doubt it will bother me too much as I don’t have high expectations atm and just dipping my toes and testing the water so to speak lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube."
swarfega?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube."

I’ll use olive oil

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube."
love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m relatively new to this site and have only started posting on the Forums within the last day or two. The fact I’m very much a “Newbie” to both this site and Lifestyle and trying to take the first steps means I am a little shy, cautious and tentative so I suppose I am slightly conscientiously atm until I’ve posted a bit more and had some interactions, conversations and exchanges then I doubt it will bother me too much as I don’t have high expectations atm and just dipping my toes and testing the water so to speak lol"

just join in and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?

No I'm really not bothered and you come across as a lovely young lady, I like your posts

x

Ahhhh why thank you ,

. I love hearing updates on little man xx"

He’s a grumpy bum today. It’s been suuuuuper fun

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

Only that I hate being tarred by the same brush as all other guys get tarred.

But generally, not so much. I’m me. I know what I have to offer, what my flaws are and where I excel.

I know I’m a really decent guy who cares and considers others on a par, if not more than he does for himself.

I’m happy with me, and if you’re not, well, I can’t do anything about that and you’re missing out.

If you’re happy with me too, then even better!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No as I’m just being me and just say what I’m thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only that I hate being tarred by the same brush as all other guys get tarred.

But generally, not so much. I’m me. I know what I have to offer, what my flaws are and where I excel.

I know I’m a really decent guy who cares and considers others on a par, if not more than he does for himself.

I’m happy with me, and if you’re not, well, I can’t do anything about that and you’re missing out.

If you’re happy with me too, then even better! "

You look sexy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not really unless im being really serious about something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I live for the judgment of others

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I hopefully come across as friendly.

As long as I don’t unintentionally offend someone who may misconstrue a joke comment I may make, it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try my best not to be negative. I'm not overly bothered about being liked but I wouldn't want to be seen as a negative presence.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Only that I hate being tarred by the same brush as all other guys get tarred.

But generally, not so much. I’m me. I know what I have to offer, what my flaws are and where I excel.

I know I’m a really decent guy who cares and considers others on a par, if not more than he does for himself.

I’m happy with me, and if you’re not, well, I can’t do anything about that and you’re missing out.

If you’re happy with me too, then even better!

You look sexy "

Wow how to knock me off guard....thank you. As a longtime reader and sometime contributor to the forums and your posts, that means a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good few think I'm a cheeky cow. ...sometimes bothers me...sometimes not. There are a handful of people who I genuinely really like and it would upset me if they thought I was a wee boot.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I’m relatively new to this site and have only started posting on the Forums within the last day or two. The fact I’m very much a “Newbie” to both this site and Lifestyle and trying to take the first steps means I am a little shy, cautious and tentative so I suppose I am slightly conscientiously atm until I’ve posted a bit more and had some interactions, conversations and exchanges then I doubt it will bother me too much as I don’t have high expectations atm and just dipping my toes and testing the water so to speak lol"

Welcome to the site and forums. You'll come across all sorts on here, but don't take things too seriously. A hard shell comes in handy and a sense of humour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Infact, I find it funnier when people take me the wrong way

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Only a little but that's more because there aren't as many like me on here as there are women or regular men so not too sure sometimes how people will take me.

I'm on good behaviour for now till I work people out better and get out to a social to meet some of you.

I do wonder if I'd come across the same way as a guy not a CD....who knows, maybe one day I'll make that profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only that I hate being tarred by the same brush as all other guys get tarred.

But generally, not so much. I’m me. I know what I have to offer, what my flaws are and where I excel.

I know I’m a really decent guy who cares and considers others on a par, if not more than he does for himself.

I’m happy with me, and if you’re not, well, I can’t do anything about that and you’re missing out.

If you’re happy with me too, then even better!

You look sexy

Wow how to knock me off guard....thank you. As a longtime reader and sometime contributor to the forums and your posts, that means a lot "

I hope the roley eyes were a mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On an Internet site full of people I've never met and 99.9% unlikely to ever meet...then no...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. Infact, I find it funnier when people take me the wrong way"

Why don’t you love me uncle fabrah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. Infact, I find it funnier when people take me the wrong way

Why don’t you love me uncle fabrah"

Because you are unlovable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I like to be taken seriously

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not bothered in terms of whether people like me or not, but I am concerned that my intended meaning comes across. If I'm going to give offence I'd rather do it deliberately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often act the clown so I dont often get taken seriously but I do have my sensitive sensible side to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like to be taken.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?

No I'm really not bothered and you come across as a lovely young lady, I like your posts

x

Ahhhh why thank you ,

. I love hearing updates on little man xx

He’s a grumpy bum today. It’s been suuuuuper fun "

Bless him, you must both get so much fun from him too xx

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Only that I hate being tarred by the same brush as all other guys get tarred.

But generally, not so much. I’m me. I know what I have to offer, what my flaws are and where I excel.

I know I’m a really decent guy who cares and considers others on a par, if not more than he does for himself.

I’m happy with me, and if you’re not, well, I can’t do anything about that and you’re missing out.

If you’re happy with me too, then even better!

You look sexy

Wow how to knock me off guard....thank you. As a longtime reader and sometime contributor to the forums and your posts, that means a lot

I hope the roley eyes were a mistake "

Oh they’re roley eyes!? I thought they were a ‘male’ version of . Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not bothered in terms of whether people like me or not, but I am concerned that my intended meaning comes across. If I'm going to give offence I'd rather do it deliberately."

I get ya!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only that I hate being tarred by the same brush as all other guys get tarred.

But generally, not so much. I’m me. I know what I have to offer, what my flaws are and where I excel.

I know I’m a really decent guy who cares and considers others on a par, if not more than he does for himself.

I’m happy with me, and if you’re not, well, I can’t do anything about that and you’re missing out.

If you’re happy with me too, then even better!

You look sexy

Wow how to knock me off guard....thank you. As a longtime reader and sometime contributor to the forums and your posts, that means a lot

I hope the roley eyes were a mistake

Oh they’re roley eyes!? I thought they were a ‘male’ version of . Sorry "

Aye you better be

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

I'm myself whatever I'm doing and whenever I am. If people dont like that then, I'm not going to cry about it.

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I never used to be... I am now more aware of a few things that I really don't like about me. I'm working on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. Infact, I find it funnier when people take me the wrong way

Why don’t you love me uncle fabrah

Because you are unlovable "

I’m crying

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not too bothered but I do take crappy comments personally when I shouldn’t

Ah I used to as well. And occasionally I still do. But most of the time I’m able to just laugh "

I laugh at the ones that get shitty at rejection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the point haha take me and maybe meet me or don’t and carry on as I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be taken from behind

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Yeah I like to be taken seriously"

And you are Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 opinion matters to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only 1 opinion matters to me "

And it’s mine. I think you’re alright. Your bald head isn’t a total turn off

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By *herealdavidjonesMan
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

I don’t care what others think of me at all.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I'm not too fussed. But I wouldn't like to think I've upset someone (unless they are a twat that deserves it).

The above applies wherever I am, online, in the pub, at work etc.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If I were to upset somebody without meaning to then I would be bothered.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Only that I hate being tarred by the same brush as all other guys get tarred.

But generally, not so much. I’m me. I know what I have to offer, what my flaws are and where I excel.

I know I’m a really decent guy who cares and considers others on a par, if not more than he does for himself.

I’m happy with me, and if you’re not, well, I can’t do anything about that and you’re missing out.

If you’re happy with me too, then even better!

You look sexy

Wow how to knock me off guard....thank you. As a longtime reader and sometime contributor to the forums and your posts, that means a lot

I hope the roley eyes were a mistake

Oh they’re roley eyes!? I thought they were a ‘male’ version of . Sorry

Aye you better be"

Course I am. Been using that emoji for months and not getting replies. Now I have one idea why!

Am flattered and, if I may say, a little excited that someone thinks that of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I also dont use emojis very often as i think its funny not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only 1 opinion matters to me "

Thats a lie, you started a thread just to see if people liked your bridge more than mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube. swarfega? "

I don't understand Welsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube.

I’ll use olive oil "

That's a bit posh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube. swarfega?

I don't understand Welsh."

lube is short for lubricant

hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered, I don't even take myself seriously ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube. swarfega?

I don't understand Welsh.

lube is short for lubricant

hope that helps "

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube.

I’ll use olive oil

That's a bit posh."

You’re worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube. swarfega?

I don't understand Welsh.

lube is short for lubricant

hope that helps "

Do you speak Welsh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube. swarfega?

I don't understand Welsh.

lube is short for lubricant

hope that helps

Do you speak Welsh?"

Si

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to be taken from behind "

I’d like to be the one to take you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to be but I definitely let things bother me when they shouldn't. I'm not really any different in here than I am I'm real life. I'm a natural flirt, try to be nice and kind to those who deserve it but will always say what I think.

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube. swarfega?

I don't understand Welsh.

lube is short for lubricant

hope that helps

Do you speak Welsh?

Si "

I don't understand.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Meh I’d be surprised if anyone noticed me

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim


"I’m relatively new to this site and have only started posting on the Forums within the last day or two. The fact I’m very much a “Newbie” to both this site and Lifestyle and trying to take the first steps means I am a little shy, cautious and tentative so I suppose I am slightly conscientiously atm until I’ve posted a bit more and had some interactions, conversations and exchanges then I doubt it will bother me too much as I don’t have high expectations atm and just dipping my toes and testing the water so to speak lol

Welcome to the site and forums. You'll come across all sorts on here, but don't take things too seriously. A hard shell comes in handy and a sense of humour! "

Thank you for the welcome! Aw I’m sure it’ll not be long before I’m rambling a lot of aulde pish, having a laugh and making as much sense a nympho baker with a broken baguette! Just easing my way into the forums to start with lol

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I'm not arsed.

Have you seen some of my comments on here? Lol.

Sometimes, I'm joking, but sometimes I'm serious. I guess people never really know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I seem to offend a lot of people. I’m a nice guy in real life. Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah not really. You shouldn’t be on here. Just be yourself. Those who match your humour will get it x

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

not really. i know im a decent person so i dont worry about anyones opinion of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind how I'm taken, just so long as there's lube. swarfega?

I don't understand Welsh.

lube is short for lubricant

hope that helps

Do you speak Welsh?"

Swarfega is that orange hand wash stuff, we used to have it at the washing stations around Bosch!

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Hopefully people know I rarely post anything serious. I just say the first thing that comes into my head...

Bananas

If people don't like the way I post then we are unlikely to get on in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest, it's online worlds without actually meeting noone knows anyone! What happens here doesn't affect my life in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meh I’d be surprised if anyone noticed me"

I notice ya

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No. but I do write my meet messages on fab and the forum posts on fab in different styles of writing, so I am happy that I'm not misunderstood on what I am trying to say to potential meets.

Forum is just for fun and perving and I hope if I did offend anyone they would feel able to call me on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah not really. You shouldn’t be on here. Just be yourself. Those who match your humour will get it x"

Why shouldn’t I be here?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Not really, not anymore, as u get older u generally start to have the attitude, I don’t give fuck

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m bothered if people take me up the wrong in with a _aseball bat.

Other than that I’m quite easy going and go by take me as you find me.

I do get bothered if people are offended by something I’ve done as I’m very rarely offensive purposely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes. I know I am an acquired taste and generally people either like me or loath me. I mean well though, I only ever have the best intentions at heart, and my mission in life is to have a laugh and make others laugh. It can get a bit tiring I'm sure if I'm just trying to be funny on all my posts and not writing serious stuff, but I do try and be serious when serious is called for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?

On here? No!

Well you should "

Sorry, mum

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Nah, I’m not bothered how people take me, written words are so flat anyway, no inflections or glints in the eye so people can’t always gauge wether you are joking or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I don't give a dam on here only my friends will ever know me really

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?"

Frankly my dear i don't give a damm. Some like me and some maybe won't but i am not a bad soul and refuse to change for anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?"

Nope but it used to bother me a little before but like you I'm taken too seriously also as regards some of my status updates etc...

Peeps on here can take me as I am or just like it or lump it

I'm straight up & out with it tbh

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

I’m Marmite and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally in life no. I do listen to advise quand criticism, but I am quite good at recognising when people are being malicious or trying to deflect from their own inadequacies. 'An empty vessel makes the loudest noise'!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Who takes you seriously?! Ahahahaha"

Aaand that's a clique...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes my (Will) cheeky, playful sarcasm is taken out of context, but I think hey, get over yourself. You can't take anything seriously in this lifestyle, it's all about fun!

On a side note, I think my playful sarcasm is rubbing off on Vic by the way she's been winding up some single guys who message us! I'm so proud of her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who takes you seriously?! Ahahahaha

Aaand that's a clique..."

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who takes you seriously?! Ahahahaha

Aaand that's a clique...

Eh?"

I would like to add a further 'eh?' to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people judge me unfairly and make assumptions about me. Not sure if I care or not though. The thing that bothers me most on here is people not being blunt enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t even take me seriously, I can’t understand why anyone else would.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I don’t even take me seriously, I can’t understand why anyone else would. "

I take you seriously

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I think people judge me unfairly and make assumptions about me. Not sure if I care or not though. The thing that bothers me most on here is people not being blunt enough.

"

Most of the ladies I've sent messages to have been pretty blunt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one should care what anyone thinks about them. You are who you are, everyone is different with different tastes. You just gotta home you find the people that like you for you

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I’m relatively new to this site and have only started posting on the Forums within the last day or two. The fact I’m very much a “Newbie” to both this site and Lifestyle and trying to take the first steps means I am a little shy, cautious and tentative so I suppose I am slightly conscientiously atm until I’ve posted a bit more and had some interactions, conversations and exchanges then I doubt it will bother me too much as I don’t have high expectations atm and just dipping my toes and testing the water so to speak lol

Welcome to the site and forums. You'll come across all sorts on here, but don't take things too seriously. A hard shell comes in handy and a sense of humour!

Thank you for the welcome! Aw I’m sure it’ll not be long before I’m rambling a lot of aulde pish, having a laugh and making as much sense a nympho baker with a broken baguette! Just easing my way into the forums to start with lol "

Same as most of us then

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I couldn’t be less interested if I’m honest.

Better being yourself on here rather than being something others expect you to be.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have the same problem. I'm utterly rediculous 90% of the time but some people think I'm being serious and I'm just bloody mental. They're partly right to be fair.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Honestly don't care about other people's opinions of me. I'm true to myself and I like me.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I couldn’t be less interested if I’m honest.

Better being yourself on here rather than being something others expect you to be. "
,

Yep

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?"

Not particularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes and sometimes not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only people that matter

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

not bothered in slightest we are who we are and anyone dont like it the tough! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People always seem to assume the worst in me. I let them think that so I guess that means I don't care really. The forum doesn't impact any other part of my life so I don't see it as important at all.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

On the beginning on the forums maybe a bit too much .

Now not so much .

Irish forums could use a few from this thread to get that place rocking a bit , feels too serious at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to worry about how I'm perceived on fab. It's not as if any of us really strive to get to know each other on here.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I tend not to worry about how I'm perceived on fab. It's not as if any of us really strive to get to know each other on here. "

True and no one really knows your life....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend not to worry about how I'm perceived on fab. It's not as if any of us really strive to get to know each other on here.

True and no one really knows your life...."

Absolutely!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not really. I’m lovely. And if people got to know me they’d know i was lovely.

I’m also very modest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the beginning on the forums maybe a bit too much .

Now not so much .

Irish forums could use a few from this thread to get that place rocking a bit , feels too serious at times "

Scottish forum is the same....everything turns into a fucking bun fight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bothered if people I really like misunderstand me, but it doesn’t happen often. I like direct feedback that I am grateful for even if I don’t agree with it entirely, as I learn from it because their perception is their reality and there is always an important truth in their perception. If I have done something that has upset them I generally apologise if I actually think I have done something I feel was wrong. Sometimes I know I can behave like a twat too so own that I also get it wrong frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people judge me unfairly and make assumptions about me. Not sure if I care or not though. The thing that bothers me most on here is people not being blunt enough. "

In pms or on the forums? I've always found folk to be pretty blunt with you if I'm honest but then maybe you're thicker skinned than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really. I’m lovely. And if people got to know me they’d know i was lovely.

I’m also very modest "

Yeh, me too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the beginning on the forums maybe a bit too much .

Now not so much .

Irish forums could use a few from this thread to get that place rocking a bit , feels too serious at times "

We tried Can try again if you want?

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I do care to a certain point. If nobody liked me, I'd want to know why.

I've known so many people who don't give a shit what people think about them and sometimes I think it's the best way to be. I do think though sometimes you need to look in the mirror and ask yourself why does everyone have something bad to say about me?

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"On the beginning on the forums maybe a bit too much .

Now not so much .

Irish forums could use a few from this thread to get that place rocking a bit , feels too serious at times

We tried Can try again if you want?

S x"

Yeah where were you yesterday ?

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Not anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all have preconceived ideas about people on here and will interpret posts from people to fit our perceptions.

So if we like someone, we’ll see a post from them as being light hearted and a pisstake but someone we don’t particularly like, the same post would be taken as them being serious and trying to cause trouble.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Does anyone really know anyone here, I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and it dosnt bother me, I would never intentionally offend anyone and if I do or have I apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I don't give a monkey's what anyone thinks of me on here. I don't know anyone and probably never will get to know anyone from here. The forum to me is a distraction to pass the time when the adverts are on the telly, or, such as now, when I'm stuck in an hotel room somewhere wondering what's on the menu tonight.

In real life, I care what those close to me think about me and when my best mate fell out with me last year, and in his words said "as far as I'm concerned, you're dead", that hurt. Lots. I worked hard, though, and nine months later we can share a laugh and a joke again, which makes me immensely happy.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I think we all have preconceived ideas about people on here and will interpret posts from people to fit our perceptions.

So if we like someone, we’ll see a post from them as being light hearted and a pisstake but someone we don’t particularly like, the same post would be taken as them being serious and trying to cause trouble."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Does anyone really know anyone here, I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and it dosnt bother me, I would never intentionally offend anyone and if I do or have I apologise "

I like what I know, albeit a very small amount. You know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the beginning on the forums maybe a bit too much .

Now not so much .

Irish forums could use a few from this thread to get that place rocking a bit , feels too serious at times

We tried Can try again if you want?

S x

Yeah where were you yesterday ?

"

I was in a bad mood. Better for everyone if I stay quiet when I'm grumpy xx

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

No !! Because Nobody replies to me,lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No !! Because Nobody replies to me,lol"

Hello

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"No !! Because Nobody replies to me,lol"
,

Hello

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

these days everybody is offended it seems

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...


"On the beginning on the forums maybe a bit too much .

Now not so much .

Irish forums could use a few from this thread to get that place rocking a bit , feels too serious at times

We tried Can try again if you want?

S x

Yeah where were you yesterday ?

I was in a bad mood. Better for everyone if I stay quiet when I'm grumpy xx"

We might do our own over the weekend .

"Cheeky, dirty & flirty" thread , with a warning for people without sense of humour not to enter

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

No, I'm not bothered at all. People who've met me know I'm a very nice person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" these days everybody is offended it seems "

You clearly haven’t read the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah not really. You shouldn’t be on here. Just be yourself. Those who match your humour will get it x

Why shouldn’t I be here? "

Sorry, what i meant was you shouldn’t be worried on here. Not that you shouldn’t be here xx

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

On here? I wouldn't like to think I'd upset anyone unintentionally, other than that I don't mind as long as I can still find people willing to meet me

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Meh I’d be surprised if anyone noticed me

I notice ya"

I’m offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the beginning on the forums maybe a bit too much .

Now not so much .

Irish forums could use a few from this thread to get that place rocking a bit , feels too serious at times

We tried Can try again if you want?

S x

Yeah where were you yesterday ?

I was in a bad mood. Better for everyone if I stay quiet when I'm grumpy xx

We might do our own over the weekend .

"Cheeky, dirty & flirty" thread , with a warning for people without sense of humour not to enter "

Sounds great but I won't be on here over the weekend, we have lots planned

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes. I am. Not for my own sake but the sake of someone who should perhaps not be online without their carer.

I have never set out to offend anyone and never make personal remarks unless it's an obvious joke with someone who has been here a long time and I know they won't take things to heart and start bleating about their feelings being hurt as if everything that is said is about them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"On the internet no. In real life I do I hate the fact I do but can’t help it. "

The people in here are real. I think. Quite a few of them appear real anyway. I can't speak for them all .

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

About the male no as he seen as a legend but very unfair to what the female and her image and how she would be perceived..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to the extent that it troubles me no, but I'd never have the "I couldnt care less what others think" attitude.

I do actually.

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

It doesn’t bother me what people think. Those that know me well enough will know what I am truly like and that’s what matters to me

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I'd say so, yes. I hate being misconstrued or misrepresented. I'm particularly mindful of that when posting, trying to make my intention clear

Mrs TMN x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


" Not to the extent that it troubles me no, but I'd never have the "I couldnt care less what others think" attitude.

I do actually."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only 1 opinion matters to me

And it’s mine. I think you’re alright. Your bald head isn’t a total turn off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only 1 opinion matters to me

Thats a lie, you started a thread just to see if people liked your bridge more than mine!"
yes but as you can tell by the fact the thread is burriedi dont care of the result

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes. I’m not an idiot so wouldn’t like to be thought of as one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?"

I don’t know you at all but I can sometimes see what you’re thinking behind some of your posts. It’s like you’re setting them up for an amusing punchline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much I'm bothered about how people take me correlates pretty much directly with how much respect I have (or don't have) for the person in question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fear being misrepresented. I nearly lost my freedom once because someone bared false information about me and I am still paying for it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel on the forums I’m taken very seriously by a lot of people who don’t know me well. 90% of the time I’m really not being serious at all. I suppose it’s because I don’t always use emojis

Are you bothered about how people take you?"

Nope, not at all.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Far too much, probably.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much I'm bothered about how people take me correlates pretty much directly with how much respect I have (or don't have) for the person in question. "

Okay so say it’s me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much I'm bothered about how people take me correlates pretty much directly with how much respect I have (or don't have) for the person in question. "

I couldn't agree with this more. As is so often the case with you, monkey dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not especially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I like people to take me from behind xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't give two hoots about who likes me or what anyone has to say about me. I'm never going to meet 99.99% of the fab world so I wouldn't let it bother me.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Nope. I don't give a shite.

Should I?

Nah.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think very strongly that som

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