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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

This site and the people on it make little sense.

Too many pics, not enough...

Verfi are too old, too many new ones.

Pics are rude, not rude enough..

Quick shag or get to know someone...

Blah blah...

I think every should only be very clear in their profile what they want.

So many people think they are so different... We all want the same thing....

Sexy fun experiences?

Yes or no

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

And I thought I was Grumpy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

We mostky want the same thing. But we all want it in different ways and have different ways of working out how to vet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not here for sexy fun experiences

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't think we are all here for the same thing, but I think people do need to worry less about how other people run their profiles and use the site, and focus on finding the people they're compatible with rather than moaning about the ones they're not.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

But we don't all want the same things. Different people all want different things. You can't please everyone so just run your profile how best reflects you, avoid those who don't match up with you and the ones that do should be easier to find x

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m here to discover recipes for authentic Indian and Asian fusion cuisine, and quite frankly it’s pretty shit.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I also don't get why person A wanting X and person B wanting Y is contradictory. We're not the Borg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my adult FB . I don’t know what I want really and that’s fine by me

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Do we all want the same thing? I don't think we do.

If fab were full of the same people, it would become rather boring. Granted it can become frustrating at times but, everyone is different for a reason. You get serious people, daft people, some who want to shag anything with a pulse & others that just love a good laugh & getting to know people.

It's life.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Variety is awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a simple man, all I want is a woman whos not to short but also not too tall but also good looking enough I won't be embarrassed to be seen with her but ugly enough no one will be jealous. She must be fit, but not too fit. Her breasts must be a certain shape, but the shape depends on the body. She should also have a good ratio of good qualities to bad qualities, the ratio will depend on how bad the bad qualities are. She must have a sense of humour but needs to have a laugh that won't get annoying after a while.

If there are any women like this, hit me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a simple man, all I want is a woman whos not to short but also not too tall but also good looking enough I won't be embarrassed to be seen with her but ugly enough no one will be jealous. She must be fit, but not too fit. Her breasts must be a certain shape, but the shape depends on the body. She should also have a good ratio of good qualities to bad qualities, the ratio will depend on how bad the bad qualities are. She must have a sense of humour but needs to have a laugh that won't get annoying after a while.

If there are any women like this, hit me up"

Ffs. Talk about wanting it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a simple man, all I want is a woman whos not to short but also not too tall but also good looking enough I won't be embarrassed to be seen with her but ugly enough no one will be jealous. She must be fit, but not too fit. Her breasts must be a certain shape, but the shape depends on the body. She should also have a good ratio of good qualities to bad qualities, the ratio will depend on how bad the bad qualities are. She must have a sense of humour but needs to have a laugh that won't get annoying after a while.

If there are any women like this, hit me up

Ffs. Talk about wanting it all "

Ah, fuck it, you'll do

Bend over please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a simple man, all I want is a woman whos not to short but also not too tall but also good looking enough I won't be embarrassed to be seen with her but ugly enough no one will be jealous. She must be fit, but not too fit. Her breasts must be a certain shape, but the shape depends on the body. She should also have a good ratio of good qualities to bad qualities, the ratio will depend on how bad the bad qualities are. She must have a sense of humour but needs to have a laugh that won't get annoying after a while.

If there are any women like this, hit me up

Ffs. Talk about wanting it all

Ah, fuck it, you'll do

Bend over please"

The power of a switch

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I’m here to discover recipes for authentic Indian and Asian fusion cuisine, and quite frankly it’s pretty shit. "

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By *hamCouple30 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yep

Sure. You're all so different

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"This site and the people on it make little sense.

Too many pics, not enough...

Verfi are too old, too many new ones.

Pics are rude, not rude enough..

Quick shag or get to know someone...

Blah blah...

I think every should only be very clear in their profile what they want.

So many people think they are so different... We all want the same thing....

Sexy fun experiences?

Yes or no "

I'm genuinely different. I'm not desperate for sex and I don't know exactly what I want. I'm fussy. Sometimes I get bored of a woman, sometimes not.

Sometimes I'm a "time waster" and sometimes not.

Sometimes I like to be teased and seduced, but not always. Most of the time, I like older women, but then sometimes not!

For me, it's definitely not a case of "just fuck", seemingly unlike the majority of guys on here.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I don't think we are all here for the same thing, but I think people do need to worry less about how other people run their profiles and use the site, and focus on finding the people they're compatible with rather than moaning about the ones they're not. "

This sums it up perfectly - why waste time and energy worrying about how others use the site - surely it's better to concentrate on how *you* use the site and finding people who have a similar view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment we're learning where swinging, how much swinging, what kind of experiences and types of people we're looking for.

So I have no idea what the answers are, you clearly know what you want by the sounds of things. So no, we aren't all looking for the same thing by a long shot.

Things change, people change, desires change, so even if I did know what I wanted today, it may not be what I want next week.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep

Sure. You're all so different "

What would make you happy? How could things be different and suit you better?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"This site and the people on it make little sense.

Too many pics, not enough...

Verfi are too old, too many new ones.

Pics are rude, not rude enough..

Quick shag or get to know someone...

Blah blah...

I think every should only be very clear in their profile what they want.

So many people think they are so different... We all want the same thing....

Sexy fun experiences?

Yes or no "

I can guarantee I'm not looking for the same thing as you so you're wrong. You really should concentrate on your own swinging experience and not worry about what everyone else is doing.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

What I need, what I want and how I would like them vary. It varies depending on how I connect with someone and what they want & need as well

Variety is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site and the people on it make little sense.

Too many pics, not enough...

Verfi are too old, too many new ones.

Pics are rude, not rude enough..

Quick shag or get to know someone...

Blah blah...

I think every should only be very clear in their profile what they want.

So many people think they are so different... We all want the same thing....

Sexy fun experiences?

Yes or no

I can guarantee I'm not looking for the same thing as you so you're wrong. You really should concentrate on your own swinging experience and not worry about what everyone else is doing. "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Yep

Sure. You're all so different "

If we weren't, we would all meet everyone who messages us wouldn't we? We're all looking for different things, thats not a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We mostky want the same thing. But we all want it in different ways and have different ways of working out how to vet people."

Everyone knows you don't vet people, you vet animals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We mostky want the same thing. But we all want it in different ways and have different ways of working out how to vet people.

Everyone knows you don't vet people, you vet animals."

Rrruff ruff rrrrrrUFF...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the only reason I was here was for fun sexy times then I’m on the wrong site completely. Fab is an alternative social network for me where I can get to know some lovely people. Some I might have sex with and have lots mutual pleasure and fun, but for the majority of my time here that wasn’t even something I wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed that of the very few women that are on here, more and more of them are "not meeting/chat only".

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Please are unique and with thousands here, you'll learn to communicate well, to better ensure a good match.

You will not homogenise their desires. Not can you reasonably expect to get them to fix their profiles to your tastes. Buyer beware.

Do things as seems right for you. If others notice, more may follow.

It's not just a site with people on it who want to find others for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like and have fun sexy times, I just don't have them with 99% of the people who want to. Because I don't want to.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Yep

Sure. You're all so different "

We ARE all very different and as such want different things.

I'm a little baffled, as to why you would expect everyone to be looking for exactly the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a simple man, all I want is a woman whos not to short but also not too tall but also good looking enough I won't be embarrassed to be seen with her but ugly enough no one will be jealous. She must be fit, but not too fit. Her breasts must be a certain shape, but the shape depends on the body. She should also have a good ratio of good qualities to bad qualities, the ratio will depend on how bad the bad qualities are. She must have a sense of humour but needs to have a laugh that won't get annoying after a while.

If there are any women like this, hit me up"

Cracked me up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not all here for the same thing.

I don't think there is a contradiction, some like things some don't.

Just focus on the ones that want the same as you OP.

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