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Planned Or Spontaneous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I literally try to do as little planning as possible as I love being spontaneous and impulsive

This comes with a cost though its either really shit outcome or extremely good no in-between

Thoughts?

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I love spontaneity not knowing what going to happen to sabrina xx

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

normally planned as I love the build up and increase in tension

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Planned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love spontaneity not knowing what going to happen to sabrina xx"

Yeppp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"normally planned as I love the build up and increase in tension "

Hmm i feel like i might expect to much if its planned

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends what it is - planning and spontaneity both have their place in life

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Mood depending I would say

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Planning usually means over complication- spontaneity on the other hand.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planned for me. I like to be freshly showered, make sure I'm wearing nice underwear and done my hair and make up. Straight from work etc just wouldn't feel right for me.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Planned if I need to look like this or can do spontaneous as long as you dont expect to see me in a dress or make up.

Depends on who with and distance as much as anything else.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Oh, I just can't do planning. My life twists and turns in all sorts of directions and I just can't do advance meet appointments. I like spontaneous I by that I mean the same day, not necessarily in the next hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a planner. I like to have loose plans in place and then be flexible how I work round it.

I feel I can't relax without plans.

I remember one time with beast we were planning for some outside play (well secluded) and he laughed because I arrived with a blanket and wipes. I can't do spontaneous

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I'm terrible at being spontaneous so everything has to be planned...would like to be a bit of both though if I'm honest.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land


"Planned if I need to look like this or can do spontaneous as long as you dont expect to see me in a dress or make up.

Depends on who with and distance as much as anything else."

I don't mean like that I would plan a meet so sabrina can dress but when I had a mistress she knew I didn't want to know what she had planned for me any time we met up.

But then I trusted her so much and she never ever let me down xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spontaneity all the way for almost everything

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

When it comes to Fab, so far always (fairly) planned... but that’s due to lack of offers for spontaneity!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Depends what it is - planning and spontaneity both have their place in life "

This for me

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Planned all the way baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plan to be spontaneous

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I like to plan far enough in advance that I can take care of personal grooming, but I don't plan what exactly we should do as it varies depending on partner and mood - what works one day, with one person, may not be so great another day, or with someone else.

There's room for both planning and spontaneity.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I like to plan far enough in advance that I can take care of personal grooming, but I don't plan what exactly we should do as it varies depending on partner and mood - what works one day, with one person, may not be so great another day, or with someone else.

There's room for both planning and spontaneity."

That's part of what I was getting at - if we're talking Fab meet then I prefer to plan ahead and allow anticipation etc to build (as well as grooming etc) - but once there it's very much about spontaneity and going with the flow and seeing where it leads

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Planned in as much as a date and time of meeting is set. Everything else after that is spontaneous, just going with the flow and seeing where the mood leads you both

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Definitely spontaneous on the meet....lots of pre planning though xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Planned in as much as a date and time of meeting is set. Everything else after that is spontaneous, just going with the flow and seeing where the mood leads you both "

Word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've a free day or evening, I just pop a meet up on here on the day. My best meets have been last minute ones to be honest. I'm rarely 100% sure who I'm meeting until an hour or so beforehand.

Last Saturday night I was free but had kinda given up on meeting and had a hot bath, got my jarmies on. An ex meet of mine popped up offering to come over and spoil me with a massage. Ended up having one of the best nights ever.

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