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"Help me out here please. Since joining Fab, apart from the usual cock shot messages, all the meaningful messages for meets seem to be for the Mr and not myself. I’m starting to doubt myself and my self worth is at a bit of a low. Do any of you lovely ladies ever experience this- or is it that I just have to face the reality that my look isn’t what’s wanted, I’m the weakest link and this is the way of things to come? " Yep, I currently experiencing this. I’m having a major confidence crisis and it’s a horrible feeling. Sending you lots of love OP x | |||
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"Finding four people who all are happy to play and then working the logistics for four people to have time free to meet is super difficult. Don't give up! It's very worth the effort you put in!" | |||
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"Finding four people who all are happy to play and then working the logistics for four people to have time free to meet is super difficult. Don't give up! It's very worth the effort you put in! " I can only agree. You are also quite new to Fab. When meeting as a couple, we find clubs are the best option. I have to say, if you were closer we would definitely be interested, even if only for a social. | |||
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"Help me out here please. Since joining Fab, apart from the usual cock shot messages, all the meaningful messages for meets seem to be for the Mr and not myself. I’m starting to doubt myself and my self worth is at a bit of a low. Do any of you lovely ladies ever experience this- or is it that I just have to face the reality that my look isn’t what’s wanted, I’m the weakest link and this is the way of things to come? Yep, I currently experiencing this. I’m having a major confidence crisis and it’s a horrible feeling. Sending you lots of love OP x" Can't think why?.... | |||
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"I find this hard to believe. I thought women were always much more in demand than men. " If you don't have any standards and love playing the part of a free prostitute then yes, this is the place to be | |||
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"Help me out here please. Since joining Fab, apart from the usual cock shot messages, all the meaningful messages for meets seem to be for the Mr and not myself. I’m starting to doubt myself and my self worth is at a bit of a low. Do any of you lovely ladies ever experience this- or is it that I just have to face the reality that my look isn’t what’s wanted, I’m the weakest link and this is the way of things to come? " yep. Major loss of confidence on here recently! Turned into a blubbering wreck on Saturday because I didn’t feel good enough bizzare as I never feel like it in “real life”. | |||
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"Help me out here please. Since joining Fab, apart from the usual cock shot messages, all the meaningful messages for meets seem to be for the Mr and not myself. I’m starting to doubt myself and my self worth is at a bit of a low. Do any of you lovely ladies ever experience this- or is it that I just have to face the reality that my look isn’t what’s wanted, I’m the weakest link and this is the way of things to come? " You're not alone OP I have huge self esteem issues in general and I really don't think fab helps all that much. Perhaps try taking a break until you're feeling a little better? | |||
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"I find this hard to believe. I thought women were always much more in demand than men. If you don't have any standards and love playing the part of a free prostitute then yes, this is the place to be " But still I thought women were more in demand | |||
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"Sorry to hear that being on here is sapping your self confidence OP. You look amazing and seem lovely. Xx" | |||
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"Help me out here please. Since joining Fab, apart from the usual cock shot messages, all the meaningful messages for meets seem to be for the Mr and not myself. I’m starting to doubt myself and my self worth is at a bit of a low. Do any of you lovely ladies ever experience this- or is it that I just have to face the reality that my look isn’t what’s wanted, I’m the weakest link and this is the way of things to come? " Can I ask some direct questions? The people who you are choosing is hubby choosing them or you? Are you going along with it for him more than for yourself? From the pictures I can see you look great and sexy there will be absolutely no shortage of guys willing to meet YOU. Problems occur if hubby is alpha, this can put alot of guys off as many of them also like to be an alpha/bull type. Suggest perhaps meeting guys on your own but for social meet only in public places an afternoon coffee or glass of wine. Then you can build up a rapport with guys. You have absolutely no reason to have self doubt. If fabs has taught us anything it's that there's always someone for everyone and as a female there's many someone's. | |||
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"I find this hard to believe. I thought women were always much more in demand than men. If you don't have any standards and love playing the part of a free prostitute then yes, this is the place to be But still I thought women were more in demand " Did you also think this was by respectful men? | |||
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"I find this hard to believe. I thought women were always much more in demand than men. If you don't have any standards and love playing the part of a free prostitute then yes, this is the place to be But still I thought women were more in demand Did you also think this was by respectful men? " Respectful or not I'm sure you ladies get a lot more attention than i have ever had online. | |||
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"Help me out here please. Since joining Fab, apart from the usual cock shot messages, all the meaningful messages for meets seem to be for the Mr and not myself. I’m starting to doubt myself and my self worth is at a bit of a low. Do any of you lovely ladies ever experience this- or is it that I just have to face the reality that my look isn’t what’s wanted, I’m the weakest link and this is the way of things to come? " Well going on your pictures i(rabbit) think you look great and you have an amazing figure from what i can see. It can take some time but dont doubt yourself. I did for a while. Im not the thinnest of women and inked is amazing, always think im punching above my weight and that hes the one they all want. Its took some time but we have our first proper social meet in a cpl of wks. Hang in there x | |||
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"To add to what my good lady said above, you say in the OP 'apart from all the usual cock shot messages' - you do realise that, however irritating these are, they are an indication of interest from men interest levels that I guarantee your hubby doesn't get. A quick browse through your pics (and I have to say you're both attractive people) you'll notice that you regularly have hundreds of fabs on your photos to mostly single figures on his - we are exactly the same. It sounds as though the issue isn't the amount of attention that he is getting compared to you but the quality of that attention. I may be wrong here but I suspect that when he gets attention you understand what other women see in your man and believe it because you fancy him yourself. Conversely, when you get attention, because you don't believe yourself to be anything special you dismiss it as horny men who'll fuck anything. Again, I may be wrong but I bet hubby doesn't see it like that, he fancies you, he knows what goes through other men's minds when they look at you/your pics and (if he's anything like me) he'll get a kick knowing other guys fancy his woman. Please don't worry that you're not what other people want, trust me there are plenty of guys around who'd love a chance to play with you, they may not be what you two want but that doesn't change your attractiveness or your suitability for others. Good luck on your journey and I hope you find what you are both after. P" Very nicely said. Seconded | |||
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"To add to what my good lady said above, you say in the OP 'apart from all the usual cock shot messages' - you do realise that, however irritating these are, they are an indication of interest from men interest levels that I guarantee your hubby doesn't get. A quick browse through your pics (and I have to say you're both attractive people) you'll notice that you regularly have hundreds of fabs on your photos to mostly single figures on his - we are exactly the same. It sounds as though the issue isn't the amount of attention that he is getting compared to you but the quality of that attention. I may be wrong here but I suspect that when he gets attention you understand what other women see in your man and believe it because you fancy him yourself. Conversely, when you get attention, because you don't believe yourself to be anything special you dismiss it as horny men who'll fuck anything. Again, I may be wrong but I bet hubby doesn't see it like that, he fancies you, he knows what goes through other men's minds when they look at you/your pics and (if he's anything like me) he'll get a kick knowing other guys fancy his woman. Please don't worry that you're not what other people want, trust me there are plenty of guys around who'd love a chance to play with you, they may not be what you two want but that doesn't change your attractiveness or your suitability for others. Good luck on your journey and I hope you find what you are both after. P" so well put! | |||
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"No idea why all the meaningful messages are addressed to the male of your profile, its normally the other way round. I'd say if fab is the cause of you feeling bad about yourself you need to step back for a while to build your confidence back up. No need to leave, just hide your profile for a bit. Also if your self esteem depends on Internet strangers wanting you it might be a good idea to assess why and find other ways of building yourself up. It's all smoke and mirrors on the net. For what it's worth from one straight woman to another you look great " | |||
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"Help me out here please. Since joining Fab, apart from the usual cock shot messages, all the meaningful messages for meets seem to be for the Mr and not myself. I’m starting to doubt myself and my self worth is at a bit of a low. Do any of you lovely ladies ever experience this- or is it that I just have to face the reality that my look isn’t what’s wanted, I’m the weakest link and this is the way of things to come? " Often in the past, especially as he’s very much in demand, but I try not to let it get to me anymore. I am who I am and if they can’t see my worth then I wouldn’t want to meet them anyway xx | |||
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