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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North

pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks "

indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks "

Some people are fuck buddies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barebackers do

Don’t forget using a condom is not bullet proof and oral without as risks.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do bare back. But dont worry, all my partners get tested afterwards

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X"

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do u know there randoms tho

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on? "

Just stick them on your block list

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on? "

Hopefully they would discuss that I've a regular I go bare back with we get tested regular to sometime ppl assume to much

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"How do u know there randoms tho"

Lots of different shots taken with different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Till they invent a condom that goes over a guys head to he’s toes all sexual contact will have risks.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on? "

are married people or those in a relationship 100% sure their partner isnt having sex elsewhere? It doesn't matter what the relationship we trust in others to be honest and that is flawed. So you have to look after your own sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do u know there randoms tho

Lots of different shots taken with different people. "

oh right urm yeah not my bag

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on?

Just stick them on your block list "

I wouldn’t be that drastic, I just don’t see how posting them kind of action shots gains any meaningful interest.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on? are married people or those in a relationship 100% sure their partner isnt having sex elsewhere? It doesn't matter what the relationship we trust in others to be honest and that is flawed. So you have to look after your own sexual health"

Indeed. Although protection doesn’t always work it does offer that extra piece of mind.

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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Don't meet them if they don't appeal to you, it's quite simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks "

Bareback is defo not for us but if other people do it, it’s their life, can’t honestly say I was always safe with randoms in my early 20s but I got lucky I guess. Nowadays it’s condoms or no play and has been that way for years

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on?

Just stick them on your block list

I wouldn’t be that drastic, I just don’t see how posting them kind of action shots gains any meaningful interest."

Not drastic and I'm sure they get meaningful interest from somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t look at them OP

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks

Bareback is defo not for us but if other people do it, it’s their life, can’t honestly say I was always safe with randoms in my early 20s but I got lucky I guess. Nowadays it’s condoms or no play and has been that way for years "

Agreed. It’s condoms all the way.

You need to be respectful of other people’s health as well as your own.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Don’t look at them OP "

Best answer so far

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on?

Just stick them on your block list

I wouldn’t be that drastic, I just don’t see how posting them kind of action shots gains any meaningful interest.

Not drastic and I'm sure they get meaningful interest from somewhere "

I can’t disagree with that

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Don’t look at them OP

Best answer so far "

You can never un-see what you’ve seen

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Don’t look at them OP

Best answer so far

You can never un-see what you’ve seen "

,

find something prettier to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t look at them OP

Best answer so far

You can never un-see what you’ve seen "

Yes you can...use some eye bleach

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Don’t look at them OP

Best answer so far

You can never un-see what you’ve seen ,

find something prettier to look at "

I am right now

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Don’t look at them OP

Best answer so far

You can never un-see what you’ve seen

Yes you can...use some eye bleach "

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Don’t look at them OP

Best answer so far

You can never un-see what you’ve seen ,

find something prettier to look at

I am right now "

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I only do bare back. But dont worry, all my partners get tested afterwards "

That's the spirit. You're so health aware. I only go bareback during pony play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Till they invent a condom that goes over a guys head to he’s toes all sexual contact will have risks. "

This is why Cheeky has done her latest photo challenge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Till they invent a condom that goes over a guys head to he’s toes all sexual contact will have risks.

This is why Cheeky has done her latest photo challenge."

That is correct Jim

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Till they invent a condom that goes over a guys head to he’s toes all sexual contact will have risks.

This is why Cheeky has done her latest photo challenge.

That is correct Jim "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the pics that have been taken of me fucking someone’s wife look bareback it’s only till I pull out full that you can see the condom. Condoms are ok to stop sti’s but we all no that skin on skin is nice and I am sure most couples as well as singles would go bareback if all could prove there clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do u know there randoms tho

Lots of different shots taken with different people. "

You must do a lot of close up cock studying.

We get it...you're a good guy

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I’m more concerned about the people that think they’re ‘safe’ by using a condom and think they can’t catch HIV/get pregnant etc than I am by those that do bareback/use prep and get checked regularly

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X

These action shots are very clear and no protection was being used.

I get that folk have ‘special’ friends. But are they 100% sure their friend doesn’t have other friends and so on? "

Preferences mate, don't like it ? Don't do it, easy isn't it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy cumming in ma pie hole OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only do bare back. But dont worry, all my partners get tested afterwards

That's the spirit. You're so health aware. I only go bareback during pony play "

Nay lass

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Fancy cumming in ma pie hole OP?"

Apparently not unless your wearing a nuclear waste suit and he's put 14 condoms on lol just in case

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

"

I personally use the new flash speedmop wipes - you can tie them around - barrier action and disinfectant in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont be daft, dont be silly.. wear a condom on your willy

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Dont be daft, dont be silly.. wear a condom on your willy "

Hahaha not heard that for a while x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont be daft, dont be silly.. wear a condom on your willy

Hahaha not heard that for a while x "

i remember seeing it written on the wall at school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

"

Oh I bleach my fanny afterwords

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

Oh I bleach my fanny afterwords "

Then I'll leave the wet wipes at home

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"How do u know there randoms tho

Lots of different shots taken with different people.

You must do a lot of close up cock studying.

We get it...you're a good guy "

No, I value my health it seems more than you value yours. That’s not me being a good guy, that’s me being a careful guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

"

At least use dettol wipes

Sexybrunette

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

At least use dettol wipes

Sexybrunette "

I don't like the taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a few local bareback players near us, went through their veris and blocked them all, quite a few claimed to only use condoms on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

At least use dettol wipes

Sexybrunette

I don't like the taste"

Yeah bleach tastes loads better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

Oh I bleach my fanny afterwords

Then I'll leave the wet wipes at home"

Damn daddy. I’ll buy raspberry bleach this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm what about married couples?

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A"

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Erm what about married couples?"

Do you know any random married couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

At least use dettol wipes

Sexybrunette

I don't like the taste"

So bloody picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm what about married couples?

Do you know any random married couples? "

Yes. Indians mainly. Arranged marriages and all that

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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Till they invent a condom that goes over a guys head to he’s toes all sexual contact will have risks. "
Isn't that a onezy?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

At least use dettol wipes

Sexybrunette

I don't like the taste

So bloody picky "

Bleach ya fanny and I'll think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

At least use dettol wipes

Sexybrunette

I don't like the taste

So bloody picky

Bleach ya fanny and I'll think about it"

Ahh go on then, as I know you never got over the fact I turned you down!

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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

Oh I bleach my fanny afterwords "

Toilet Duck, so it goes clear round the bend

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Erm what about married couples?

Do you know any random married couples?

Yes. Indians mainly. Arranged marriages and all that"

What’s their username?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I do bareback but always use wet wipes.

At least use dettol wipes

Sexybrunette

I don't like the taste

So bloody picky

Bleach ya fanny and I'll think about it

Ahh go on then, as I know you never got over the fact I turned you down! "

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area "

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

"

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some."

How many meets have you had OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks "

Just curious...wether people agree with you or not, in what way does it hurt you or your life.

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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some.

How many meets have you had OP"

interesting question

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some.

How many meets have you had OP"

Enough to know safety first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some.

How many meets have you had OP

Enough to know safety first "

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some.

How many meets have you had OP interesting question "

Yep

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks

Just curious...wether people agree with you or not, in what way does it hurt you or your life."

It would only hurt if I caught something

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some.

How many meets have you had OP

Enough to know safety first

Ok "

Check my veri’s to see how safe I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks

Just curious...wether people agree with you or not, in what way does it hurt you or your life.

It would only hurt if I caught something "

But I thought you always "bagged" ya self up??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some.

How many meets have you had OP

Enough to know safety first

Ok

Check my veri’s to see how safe I am "

You are fully aware that I cannot do that, so why suggest it?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

nice sentiment...but I think we all capable of taking care of our own health.

These 'randoms' play it their way. I play it mine and they do not affect me so I don't see a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you see bareback photos in someone's profile and choose not to meet them.

Do you automatically assume then that those not displaying bareback pics, whether single or couple, male or female, have never engaged in it and assume they're in any way safer to meet?

Because if you do - you're delusional.

The only person you know the full sexual history of is yourself.

A

Correct. If you’re displaying lots of action photo’s with different individuals having unprotected sex then it’s a no from me. If you don’t value your own sexual then it’s safe to say you certainly wouldn’t consider mine so you’d be a no go area

I wasn't disputing the first part - that's kind of common sense.

The point I was making was that assuming just because someone doesn't display evidence of bareback play that they've never done it.

How do you know anyone you've met has never done it? The simple answer is that you don't and you may well have met people who aren't up front about it.

Be thankful for those that are.

A

Corrrct hence why I always bag up.

As everyone says you’re not 100% protected but it does offer some.

How many meets have you had OP

Enough to know safety first

Ok

Check my veri’s to see how safe I am "

Do you bag up for oral and does the lady bag up if you go down on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So...you're scorning those who choose to go bareback, telling us all how fabulous and safe you are, yet you're you're concerned if people carry on you may catch something...

Sounds like your "bagging up" technique needs work.

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks

Just curious...wether people agree with you or not, in what way does it hurt you or your life.

It would only hurt if I caught something

But I thought you always "bagged" ya self up?? "

Read ^^ up there what else I’ve said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These posts that judge others usually backfire as they are always a thinly veiled....

"hey women look at me I'm a safety first kinda guy, shag me not those other mucky men"

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"So...you're scorning those who choose to go bareback, telling us all how fabulous and safe you are, yet you're you're concerned if people carry on you may catch something...

Sounds like your "bagging up" technique needs work."

So you advertise the fact that you go bareback and aren’t interested in others sexual health?

That’s says more about you than me

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"These posts that judge others usually backfire as they are always a thinly veiled....

"hey women look at me I'm a safety first kinda guy, shag me not those other mucky men"

"

Yeah this ones back firing on me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging is acting on a limited knowledge. Learn the art of observing without evaluating.

Pushpa Rana

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I would expect couples to have bare pics on their profile (with each other), and it’s reasonable to expect that anyone with a regular FB/FWB would be playing bare with them. I think those are reasonable things.

I would be put off by a single male profile that showed loads of bare play with different people though. I have avoided guys who’ve played with women who are prolific and advertise that they ONLY play bare, because that’s not careful enough for me. I’d use condoms for sex, but I do like to suck unprotected (probably ridiculous I know) so if I know that that cock has been in 10 bare fannys in the past month, or in a fanny that’s had 10 bare dicks then I don’t want to go near it. That’s not careful enough for me.

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By *undown40Couple
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks

Just curious...wether people agree with you or not, in what way does it hurt you or your life.

It would only hurt if I caught something "

Really???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one can trust anyone 100%. Your regular could also be someone else's regular and play bare. Your partner could be sneaking around going bare. You just don't know, it's down to you to take control of your own sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one can trust anyone 100%. Your regular could also be someone else's regular and play bare. Your partner could be sneaking around going bare. You just don't know, it's down to you to take control of your own sexual health. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had people say that if you go umbrella for a check up you must have something

Those are the ones I worry for health wise

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"I’ve had people say that if you go umbrella for a check up you must have something

Those are the ones I worry for health wise "

Enough to make your eyes water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going bare in bed tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm what about married couples?

Do you know any random married couples?

Yes. Indians mainly. Arranged marriages and all that

What’s their username? "

PickedAtRandom

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Barebacking is a game of chance. To lengthen the odds then use protection.

Each to their own but it costs the NHS and us to treat the reckless..

Would you cross a road blindfolded ? No

Why take the risk?

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By *ex Holes OP   Man
over a year ago

Up North


"Erm what about married couples?

Do you know any random married couples?

Yes. Indians mainly. Arranged marriages and all that

What’s their username?

PickedAtRandom"

Noted thanks, I’ve blocked and reported them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does it concern anyone else.. Also be aware that sometimes a photo may look bare... but it isnt. I had an old action shot that from one angle looked bare but when you see the video it was taken from it's clear there was no bareback x

Action shots sadly not on public picture list lol

I treat everyone I meet as if they have just had a GB bare... and take the precautions I'm happy with. X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging is acting on a limited knowledge. Learn the art of observing without evaluating.

Pushpa Rana"

The sexual domain is one of very few areas where people have a right to judge and where they see fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sutely its between the persons engaging in consensual sex and fuck all to do with the morality brigade.

And dont come back saying"but youre risking other peoples lives" cos that makes you a hypocrite.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Judging is acting on a limited knowledge. Learn the art of observing without evaluating.

Pushpa Rana

The sexual domain is one of very few areas where people have a right to judge and where they see fit. "

So you are saying you have the right to judge us because we play bareback? Well no you do not, you do however have the right to not meet us and if you wish to block us. But to stand in judgement you have no right

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh


"Judging is acting on a limited knowledge. Learn the art of observing without evaluating.

Pushpa Rana

The sexual domain is one of very few areas where people have a right to judge and where they see fit.

So you are saying you have the right to judge us because we play bareback? Well no you do not, you do however have the right to not meet us and if you wish to block us. But to stand in judgement you have no right"

Surely every message or meet is based on a “judgement” call? By definition everyone you chat with on here has judged you?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Judging is acting on a limited knowledge. Learn the art of observing without evaluating.

Pushpa Rana

The sexual domain is one of very few areas where people have a right to judge and where they see fit.

So you are saying you have the right to judge us because we play bareback? Well no you do not, you do however have the right to not meet us and if you wish to block us. But to stand in judgement you have no right

Surely every message or meet is based on a “judgement” call? By definition everyone you chat with on here has judged you?"

Absolutely, I make a judgement on every person I interact with on here, just as they do with me.

Having said that I also don't feel the need to dwell on the things I don't like, or publicly slate them, I just move on and let them get on with it. I'm a quiet judge!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"pics with randoms

Who in their right mind arranges a meet with these people?

Stay safe folks "

I arrange to meet them in parks and when they turn up a get Dom from Cowboy Builders to jump out with a camera man and out them.

Alternatively actually they are at least being open about it therefore people who are contemplating meeting them can choose whether to or not.

For the record, not for me, but I’m not everyone.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh


"Judging is acting on a limited knowledge. Learn the art of observing without evaluating.

Pushpa Rana

The sexual domain is one of very few areas where people have a right to judge and where they see fit.

So you are saying you have the right to judge us because we play bareback? Well no you do not, you do however have the right to not meet us and if you wish to block us. But to stand in judgement you have no right

Surely every message or meet is based on a “judgement” call? By definition everyone you chat with on here has judged you?

Absolutely, I make a judgement on every person I interact with on here, just as they do with me.

Having said that I also don't feel the need to dwell on the things I don't like, or publicly slate them, I just move on and let them get on with it. I'm a quiet judge! "

This is truth!! Having an opinion and a platform to voice it doesn’t make it valid!!

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By *iffy1968Man
over a year ago

STAFFORD

Its amazing the amount of people , both single guys and couples who state safe sex only , yet when we say we are a bareback couple they say thats ok as long as your clean they join us , we are both checked after every meet and are both clean ,each to their own , we are all adults and can all make our own decisions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything sexual with a stranger is a, risk

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By *ensual -lover69Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"I only do bare back. But dont worry, all my partners get tested afterwards

That's the spirit. You're so health aware. I only go bareback during pony play "

Pony Play ?

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