FabSwingers.com forum: single men we will find you

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great you have now found me now f**k off you arogrent twits.

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did somebody say 'desperate'

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Or perhaps the men that understand and respect that other people manage their profile how they want, will appreciate that they have been contacted, take their time getting to know the people concerned and see how things go from there

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Don't you need two fingers to click ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jokes on them, they'll never find me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Don't you need two fingers to click ?"

Depends on how arthritic your knuckles are

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Don't you need two fingers to click ?"

I've heard some can use toes. Dependant on the village they come from.. Naturally

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Great you have now found me now f**k off you arogrent twits.

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Who said anything about men coming running, and who are you calling arogrent?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Someone feeling the Monday blues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or perhaps the men that understand and respect that other people manage their profile how they want, will appreciate that they have been contacted, take their time getting to know the people concerned and see how things go from there

Then they can block single guys and message themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience when you act like an arrogant twit, you get arrogant twits messaging you.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

“arogrent”... lol

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I come running at the smell of fresh backing, emanating from the kitchen

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Great you have now found me now f**k off you arogrent twits.

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Dummy officially launched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great you have now found me now f**k off you arogrent twits.

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Or..... despite being clear about our likes and dislikes - we all have them, it's not arrogance - we get fed up with guys (and occasionally couples and single ladies) who are either;

a) Too selfish to be interested in anything other than getting a shag so don't take the time to read our profile to see what we may or may not like and send the kind of opening message we explicitly ask not to recieve.

b)Have read our profile but are so arrogant they decide it doesn't apply to them and send the kind of opening message we explicitly ask not to recieve.

c)Have made an attempt to read our profile but couldn't be bothered to spend 30 seconds paying attention to what someone else wants so miss bits and send the kind of opening message we explicitly ask not to recieve.

When you get this behaviour on a daily basis it becomes easier to think we would prefer to find single men ourselves.

I don't understand how it's any more arrogant to state this particular preference than say an age limit or any other preference. Just because YOU fancy someone it doesn't mean that they have to want you and that they're arrogant for not doing so.

There is also the fact that while a lot of single guys use this site to fulfill their sexual needs, for couples it is a way of having a bit of fun as and when suits them. That doesn't necessarily mean right here and now- it may mean that they're not looking for a single man for many months or longer so it's easier for them to initiate a search when it's right for them. Getting pissed off that someone isn't available as and when you want them to be is a big part of the reason that couples post this kind of comment.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm single

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Single men expose yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Don't you need two fingers to click ?"
ask thanos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or perhaps they dont like being unindated with 100s of messages of hungry non picky guys all day long.

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By *ouple 71Couple
over a year ago

Stonehaven

Yes ! This !!

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

I see no problem with this? People don’t want to be approached by the hoards of single men on here.

It’s a sausage fest. Fair enough.

Must be pretty annoying for women and couples.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Twit! Oh damn, the severity... killed 'em dead

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Couples, I will find you, if I want you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see no problem with this? People don’t want to be approached by the hoards of single men on here.

It’s a sausage fest. Fair enough.

Must be pretty annoying for women and couples. "

this a thousand times

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP, I would say that for many women and couples, searching themselves is the sensible option.

It's not arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I love the desperate ones

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Jokes on them, they'll never find me! "

Is that right sexy

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"OP, I would say that for many women and couples, searching themselves is the sensible option.

It's not arrogant."

Nail. Head.

We used to meet mainly single guys. We'd put up a post and be very specific about who we were looking to meet. Cue dozens of messages who'd ignored all the details, thought that we'd change our minds just for them and that regardless of the fact they were the opposite of what we wanted that they were entitled to meet us to prove the error of our ways.

Fuck that.

So we blocked incoming messages and started approaching guys ourselves. Many said no thanks or ignored our messages - which was perfectly fine. But we had much more success being proactive than reactive.

It's honestly not fucking rocket science whether you're a couple or a single - do the legwork yourself and concentrate on what you are looking for rather than what you're not. And when you get a 'no thanks' or no reply - don't sulk and say 'it's not fair'.

It certainly makes managing messages far easier.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

This is unfortunately why you have to block single males, such a shame for the nice ones out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great you have now found me now f**k off you arogrent twits.

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Well said its quite an arrogant statement

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"This is unfortunately why you have to block single males, such a shame for the nice ones out there "

Yup, when I get a rare message I don’t trust it the majority of time anyway.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

It’s not the click of a finger though is it? It’s just a rule that you need to make yourself known by some other means eg chatting on the forums.

If they like you then they’ll approach you.

Otherwise you’ll get men trying the 10% rule and just trying it on with everyone in sight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Don't you need two fingers to click ?"

The pedant in me loves this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great you have now found me now f**k off you arogrent twits.

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Yet arrogant (see? I spelled it right, can I have gold star?

) men believe women would come running to them at the click of a finger? Or wonderfully intelligent 'wanna fuck?' message? Don't like the tables being turned around, OP, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe everyone should treat each other with respect. We are all human, all have feeling and all have a real world to live in xx

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

If anyone wants to find me, I'm in the cupboard under the stairs.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm a bit difficult to miss.

I'm the fat bloke blocking the sun.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Maybe everyone should treat each other with respect. We are all human, all have feeling and all have a real world to live in xx"

That’s some out of the box thinking there.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Maybe everyone should treat each other with respect. We are all human, all have feeling and all have a real world to live in xx

That’s some out of the box thinking there.

It'll never work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone wants to find me, I'm in the cupboard under the stairs. "

Harry Potter ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Don't you need two fingers to click ?

The pedant in me loves this post.

Technically you need one finger and a thumb. Or is that just me?

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"If anyone wants to find me, I'm in the cupboard under the stairs.

Harry Potter ??

No, it's just where I keep the gin.

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Great you have now found me now f**k off you arogrent twits.

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Are you looking for Men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great you have now found me now f**k off you arogrent twits.

Only the desperate men will come running at the click of a finger.

Or..... despite being clear about our likes and dislikes - we all have them, it's not arrogance - we get fed up with guys (and occasionally couples and single ladies) who are either;

b)Have read our profile but are so arrogant they decide it doesn't apply to them and send the kind of opening message we explicitly ask not to recieve.

When you get this behaviour on a daily basis it becomes easier to think we would prefer to find single men ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for a single guy at the moment for something very specific and still having problems. Everything is in our profile and explained in the first message. Some have been rude and arrogant. Some have only addressed me and completely ignored Twisted. Some start to message, sound interested then just disappear.

S x

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"We are looking for a single guy at the moment for something very specific and still having problems. Everything is in our profile and explained in the first message. Some have been rude and arrogant. Some have only addressed me and completely ignored Twisted. Some start to message, sound interested then just disappear.

S x"

You guys aren’t blocking men and picking yourself though. That’s what the OP had an issue with, I believe.

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