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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Is it boredom, something you want to get off your chest, feeling horny or maybe just because.

What prompts you to start a thread

All are welcome and newbies and lurkers I do want to hear what you have to say, come and join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it for Sunshine.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't start them for fear they will flop

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Generally a combination of curiosity and self reflection and time on my hands. I've not started one in yonks though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't posted a thread on here yet, but usually if a do start something on a forum, it usually a controversial topic, to get people fired up, just to get idea where people generally stand on aforementioned topics lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't start them for fear they will flop "

That's my worry as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Angie was slacking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above. Sometimes I feel like I have something intersting/funny to say, other times I'm looking advice. I don't start too many but prefer to jump on the back of other peoples.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I’m on a break from starting threads - my last few have had 2 or 3 comments then died.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start them when I feel attention whoreish or have a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start them because I have a question that is exercising my mind and I need it exorcising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't start them for fear they will flop "

This is me also.

Nobody is interested in what I have to say generally lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only recently started replying in threads. Why? Because I'm far too nosey after searching what I'm looking for then start reading through everything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't start them for fear they will flop

This is me also.

Nobody is interested in what I have to say generally lol"

Awwwh, now I'm sure that's not true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't start them for fear they will flop

This is me also.

Nobody is interested in what I have to say generally lol

Awwwh, now I'm sure that's not true x"

Me too. That profile doesn't suggest someone boring at all. I think you should pipe up a lot more

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Holibobs

I do understand the whole fear of flop reason, I'm hoping this thread gives someone the confidence to go I've got something to say and I don't care if it flops I'm going to do it anyway

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Is it boredom, something you want to get off your chest, feeling horny or maybe just because.

What prompts you to start a thread

All are welcome and newbies and lurkers I do want to hear what you have to say, come and join in "

Either for shits and giggles or to try and strike up a debate.

Some work, some fall flat on their arse without a single reply.

Doesn't bother me either way as it's just words typed on a page and no big deal. I never understand why people get worked up when a new thread or an post on an existing one doesn't get a reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't start them for fear they will flop

This is me also.

Nobody is interested in what I have to say generally lol"

Same here

I started one seeking advice for a first meet, at a similar time a lady started the same type of thread. Who do you think got 3 responses and who got dozens?

It's just how it is I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very interesting to get people's opinions. Amazed by how threads go.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Usually when I’m horny.. ??

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I start mainly user above 'say something nice' threads, mainly when I'm feeling a bit meh. I've seen the support that fabbers can give and it cheers me up. The odd other threads I've started have died a death after a few comments but I got the advice I needed x

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I don't start them for fear they will flop "

This!!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't start them often (I'm more of a contributor to threads than a starter of them) but when I do it'll either be because a thought has occurred to me that I'm interested in other peoples opinions on, or it'll usually be a music related thread just to while some time away, oh or a continuation of a previous thread that is closing but still appears to have some value

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Usually if I've had something rolling around in my head that I think would be an interesting discussion. Sometimes because I like making people think or reflect on themselves.

If I post a serious one then often I'll try and balance it with a playful one.

I've found that certain times of day/certain days are better for responses and reflection than others.

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By *riar Belisse OP   Woman
over a year ago

Holibobs

I suppose the traffic flow of people will depend on what types of answers you receive, work and timescales all play a part in the frequency of replies, don't be afraid to make a comment on your thread if you have not yet received an answer which satisfies your question

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Mostly if there's something on my mind, sometimes for fun or if I'm bored. Some do well, others not so well, after having an initial fear of failure I've realised it's rarely personal if a thread does well or not Try it people, it's fun!

Mrs TMN x

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