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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....

Do you:

A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks

B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If I were on a date I would want her to enjoy herself. I wouldn't be there to constrain her. I would hate to think she didn't have what she really wanted because she was trying to second-guess my reaction. Luke

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d have the veggie option but be wondering if I could kiss her with bits of rotting meat stuck between her teeth.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

A for me

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Definitely A

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"B"
I don’t want to see you chomping down on a slab of pizza chewing with your mouth open and spraying bits of cheese everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It would be A all the way for me, if he didnt like it, we wouldnt get on anyway haha

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Definitely A, if the date is going to go any further he as to know I eat like a pig

But seriously it would be A as I would be myself then if he doesn't like it then he's not the one for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d have the veggie option but be wondering if I could kiss her with bits of rotting meat stuck between her teeth. "

So you dont date meat eaters then? That must really limit your options...

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I love messy food. I just love messy. If he wasn’t prepared to suck the stickiness from my fingers, we wouldn’t really get on.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever I want, IDGAF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go for the latter until I know him better. Beast doesn't eat red meat so I found I would try to chose foods that were meat free too, I didn't later on when he got to know me

I'll also always remember him trying to eat chicken wings without getting them everywhere too

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

A swanky restaurant probably wouldn't have a mixed grill on the menu

Problem solved and no dilemma to consider...

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London

I'd enjoy watching you lick your fingers...

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'd prefer they went with whatever they wanted. Being relaxed and comfortable is what I'd like as it makes me more relaxed and comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd prefer they went with whatever they wanted. Being relaxed and comfortable is what I'd like as it makes me more relaxed and comfortable. "

You have to be yourself, order what you want to eat. Everyone knows you can only eat ribs with your hands ..well eat em properly

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I go for a light easy meal. Don’t want to start farting later on

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

B. I don’t like eating in front of new people. I get shaky and the food falls off the fork.

I’m quite odd upon reflection.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Dump the date and eat the meal like it was my last xx

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends what we are going to be doing later.

If I'm bouncing them round the bedroom I don't want a 10 course tasting menu first

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

First date so I'd be trying to show I wasn't a completely useless uncoordinated git. Second date is fine though ')

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'd be really bothered if I thought she was eating light to try and appear delicate rather than eating what she wants to.

A girl who knows her appetites and makes sure she has them met is a damn fine thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever I ordered I'd drop it down myself, I always do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A swanky restaurant probably wouldn't have a mixed grill on the menu

Problem solved and no dilemma to consider..."

Wait a minute, are you telling me a hungry horse isnt swanky

who knew haha.

Was more an example of a messy food though lol

Could easily be spaghetti bolognaise

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"B I don’t want to see you chomping down on a slab of pizza chewing with your mouth open and spraying bits of cheese everywhere!

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im a delicate eater

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally take my 1st dates to a chineese where they do a 15 course meal lasting around 4 hours...

If she's not blown her spanx by the time the bill comes ...I'll take her to a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.

S x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"B I don’t want to see you chomping down on a slab of pizza chewing with your mouth open and spraying bits of cheese everywhere!

im a delicate eater

"
and utterly butterly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....

Do you:

A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks

B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands"

Afraid I have to say option B.

My hand OCD is too bad

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

I'd order whatever it was I wanted to eat, if the person can't handle that they wouldn't handle me anywhere else lol xT

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.

S x"
I prefer not to eat with people I know. I went to a Bills when it first opened in Brighton and was horrified when strangers were sat at the same table.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.

S x I prefer not to eat with people I know. I went to a Bills when it first opened in Brighton and was horrified when strangers were sat at the same table.

"
People I don’t know, I meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B deffo not on a first date, I would try to be refined and ladylike

2nd date I may consider swearing like a navvy and chomping on burgers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B as would look a prick covered in barbecue and pepper sauce.

A if out with family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.

S x I prefer not to eat with people I know. I went to a Bills when it first opened in Brighton and was horrified when strangers were sat at the same table.

Was it one of those long tables? I hate it when restaurants do that. Although I'm not a fan of Bills either

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.

S x"

Same, plus I can't think of anything worse than sitting through a meal with someone you don't find appealing. Just a coffee for me to!

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

"You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....

Do you:

A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks

B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands"

Id be ordering the mixed grill to so tell you to do same ivy

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....

Do you:

A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks

B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands"

I would hope the lady in question would order the mixed grill what man doesn’t t to see how a woman uses her hands when she’s eating meat. Extra kudos if she keeps them by her sides.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I’d have the veggie option but be wondering if I could kiss her with bits of rotting meat stuck between her teeth. "

rotting???

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Definitely A, if the date is going to go any further he as to know I eat like a pig

But seriously it would be A as I would be myself then if he doesn't like it then he's not the one for me. "

This!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Neither, I won't go for dinner on a first date. Coffee or a drink only. I don't like eating in front of people I don't know.

S x I prefer not to eat with people I know. I went to a Bills when it first opened in Brighton and was horrified when strangers were sat at the same table.

Was it one of those long tables? I hate it when restaurants do that. Although I'm not a fan of Bills either

"
yes, it was a long table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B. I'm very paranoid

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By *LOVEpinacoladasWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd eat whatever I wanted to eat, and I'd expect my date to as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a problem eating infront of people I find attractive anyway.. nevermind if it's something that makes me look even more messy and pig like...

Anxiety is a 'wonderful' thing...

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks - this is what I’d do, Mrs

B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands - this is what Mr would do!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"B.

I have a problem eating infront of people I find attractive anyway.. nevermind if it's something that makes me look even more messy and pig like...

Anxiety is a 'wonderful' thing...

It is indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You go for a meal at a swanky restaurant, you look at the menu, you really want the mixed grill with ribs, but this a very big meal, and ribs are messy.....

Do you:

A) Go for what you want to hell with what the date thinks

B) Find a more delicate meal that only requires and knife and fork, no hands

Afraid I have to say option B.

My hand OCD is too bad

How do you cope with foreplay then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A" all the way! Just be yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only person thinking it’s a first date so I wouldn’t be expecting sex anyway? Eat what you like there might be a next time to have desert

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there

I think I’d go for B but still make it something I’d enjoy, so I look classy & refined.

esp if it’s in a formal setting.

And if there was fun to be had, don’t want full stomach or warming up the porcelain throne

If another date then maybe more casual food?

Millie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Option A. I'd rather enjoy it & be myself than try too hard too impress.

Also, I've been single for a while, so I may need to change my tactic lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'd order the ribs and get him to lick my fingers clean!

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