FabSwingers.com forum: Personality or looks

By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Not many of us would meet someone on purely looks or personality, so what would you prefer:

Average looks with a great personality

Average personality with great looks.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

"Not many of us would meet someone on purely looks or personality, so what would you prefer:

Average looks with a great personality

Average personality with great looks. "

Absolutely the first always

Some people grow more beautiful the more you get to know them and that's because of their personality. You see their kindness, humour, - their values that shape them - that shines through everytime

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.

A bit knackered then?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

First one. I can’t bear boring people.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I don’t look at the their personality when I’m pounding away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally always

Personality

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Great tits, every other plus point is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I’m meeting them just for sex or meeting them to actually talk to them as well

If I think, “Fuck, take me now, you sex god” and they haven’t opened their mouth then great looks and mediocre personality wins but if I’m looking for a mental connection, then their personality has to be shit hot to me and their looks aren’t as important.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

First one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t look at the their personality when I’m pounding away

What do you look at

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Average looks with a great personality

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Absolutely the personality.

If we dont get on then no matter how attractive you are I'm not going to be into it and wont enjoy you so hardly likely to put any effort in at all.

I'd walk away to be honest and it wouldn't be the first time I had either.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I don’t look at the their personality when I’m pounding away

What do you look at

What I can nick when she’s in the bog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not many of us would meet someone on purely looks or personality, so what would you prefer:

Average looks with a great personality

Average personality with great looks. "

Average personality with great looks! Can deal with that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s just a shag then I’m shallow enough to just want the looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always personality first

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

The more attractive someone's personality, the more attractive I find them when I look at them. So the "average" looks I guess this dichotomy is an odd one. You can have a great personality and looks. Likewise you can be average in both. I don't tend to see people as average or not, just I really fancy x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t look at the their personality when I’m pounding away

What do you look at

What I can nick when she’s in the bog

You’re terrible for doing that

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Always the former

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average personality with great looks for sex,but great personality if looking for relationship

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.

I’m the guy for you if that’s quality’s yr after

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.

I’m the guy for you if that’s quality’s yr after

You need a trip to Wales then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average looks with great personality. Ive never been out for one offs so I like to be able to socialise with the people I have sex with

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Personality, I could nt have sex with someone I didn't get on with.

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Personality seems to be winning so far.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Average looks with great personality. I have odd taste in men anyway. Beautiful men have never done it for me, i like men who have their life experiences written on their faces.

I’m the guy for you if that’s quality’s yr after

I’ve admired your quality arse a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more attractive someone's personality, the more attractive I find them when I look at them. So the "average" looks I guess this dichotomy is an odd one. You can have a great personality and looks. Likewise you can be average in both. I don't tend to see people as average or not, just I really fancy x."

Agree beautiful lady 100%. They need that spark to ignite my interest.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Average looks with great personality, the personality is what makes me want them and the more I want them the sexier to me they become.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the first one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both looks and personality i want perfection that is why i am the way i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've turned down ludicrously good looking men because they were thick or boring or immature. But I've never turned down anyone I really clicked and connected with because I didn't fancy them physically. My long term fwbs are mostly presentable guys who are amazing company and wonderful in bed and value me for completely non sexual reasons.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

personality

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories "

Not from what heard.

You're a decent fella - I'm told.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories "

Bollocks

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

A combination of both

I’m a bloody choosy bird as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average looks, great personality, I’m more attracted to the person anyway, not just the outer

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"A combination of both

I’m a bloody choosy bird as it is "

Don't I know It. Pffffft. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks over personality.

I can talk enough for both of us.

Relationship is a different matter. For that I require a fat bank balance.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories

Not from what heard.

You're a decent fella - I'm told. "

Cheers fellow gent. From what I’ve heard of yourself you’re absolutely the better man

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories

Bollocks"

Now, that’s the 3rd secret category where I shiiiiiiine

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories

Not from what heard.

You're a decent fella - I'm told.

Cheers fellow gent. From what I’ve heard of yourself you’re absolutely the better man

But you've had the pleasure of actually them.

So that puts you higher.

(tips hat to the fine gentleman)

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

If it's someone to meet regularly, the personality has to be up there with average looks.

If it's a one off fuck , looks are more important!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories

Bollocks

Now, that’s the 3rd secret category where I shiiiiiiine"

Youre welcome

You are nice to look at and a good friend so have a great personality so I'm being nice (just for today)

Dont get used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a partner, average looks with a great personality, you definitely do date a personality more than looks in my opinion.

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Anyone that’s met me would strongly argue that I offer very little in both categories

Bollocks

Now, that’s the 3rd secret category where I shiiiiiiine

Youre welcome

You are nice to look at and a good friend so have a great personality so I'm being nice (just for today)

Dont get used to it

You can't fool us - you're always nice. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For fab, average personality with hot looks. I'm not looking for someone to grow old with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average looks with a fantastic personality would win every time for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good personality is what makes someone attractive. So good personality, always!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Average looks with a fantastic personality would win every time for me."

Me too.

Been out with a couple of very handsome men who were as boring as hell.

And crap shags also

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

There has to be something initially, it doesn't have to be stunning looks and for me it's often a friendly smile.

And then it's chats and banter hopefully leasing to more, stunning looks but dull as dishwater might challenge me but there's always doggy so you can pull faces or still watch the tv

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Both looks and personality i want perfection that is why i am the way i am "

Your so right lordy why can't we have both. Look at us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For fab? Second option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good looks fade. Only a good personality remains!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Average looks with a fantastic personality would win every time for me.

Me too.

Been out with a couple of very handsome men who were as boring as hell.

And crap shags also

On the flip side... I've mostly met extremely handsome men who are awesome fucks and great guys too. It is possible if you choose wisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good looks fade. Only a good personality remains!"

Hopefully not during the few hours I'm spending with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

What's an average personality? I like having a laugh with someone, but I don't really want to compromise on what I like physically. So I'll choose neither and stay at home til someone better arrives

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality...."

But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's an average personality? I like having a laugh with someone, but I don't really want to compromise on what I like physically. So I'll choose neither and stay at home til someone better arrives

I find a gag really useful with those lacking in personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good. "

Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.

Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site"

Crikey. Sorry to hear that.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've been lucky enough to only meet people with both (in my opinion - both attributes are, of course, very subjective). I'd rather not meet if it meant not having both.... shoot me for being fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.

Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site

Crikey. Sorry to hear that.

It works both ways...it's the blokes with six packs and big Cocks that are getting most of the single action on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Average looks with a fantastic personality would win every time for me."

So that means I'm 4/10 look with 9/10 personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Average looks with a fantastic personality would win every time for me.

So that means I'm 4/10 look with 9/10 personality?

"Would"... you're obviously a 14/10 on both counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything with a fanny that is at least average looking.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Thing is to meet someone I'd have to find them attractive - therefore by definition I wouldn't consider either their looks or personality to be average

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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.

Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site

Crikey. Sorry to hear that.

It works both ways...it's the blokes with six packs and big Cocks that are getting most of the single action on here...

Not all though.

If a guy with a party 7 can get meets then anyone can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take personality

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Personality = just don't be an arsehole.

I go for looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men who can laugh me in to bed. However, there does still need to be some physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.

Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site

Crikey. Sorry to hear that.

It works both ways...it's the blokes with six packs and big Cocks that are getting most of the single action on here...

Not all though.

If a guy with a party 7 can get meets then anyone can.

if it's only a meet your after then all is good.. but if your looking to get get your willy wet it's another story

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

You're all liars

Joking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.

Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site"

I'm so sorry but early wet myself ... unhinged physio!! Have we met? Hahahahahahahaha

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personality everytime x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Average looks with great personality x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality every single time, even if it's just for sex. You can look like Margot Robbie for all I care, but if you have a shite personality, I'll stick with the imaginary Margot Robbie in my head and just have a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Average looks with great personality x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

But you can for what is inside - what makes their personality so good.

Fit body...pretty face...you can see that on the 1st meet ...it could take you months of meeting to find out she's an unhinged physio... it's not a dating site

I'm so sorry but early wet myself ... unhinged physio!! Have we met? Hahahahahahahaha

Your arse does look familiar...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely average looks with a great personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality every single time, even if it's just for sex. You can look like Margot Robbie for all I care, but if you have a shite personality, I'll stick with the imaginary Margot Robbie in my head and just have a wank."

Really

you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

great looks and great personality please. I know that isn't an option on this thread but it is an option in life

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Great personality makes someone way more attractive. So that every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really

you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!

A turd coated in glitter is still a turd. Not the prettiest way to describe it, but it's accurate. I'd sooner sleep with a five who's humble as fuck than a 10 who thinks they're the shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really

you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!

A turd coated in glitter is still a turd. Not the prettiest way to describe it, but it's accurate. I'd sooner sleep with a five who's humble as fuck than a 10 who thinks they're the shit. "

Fair enough... I'd be balls deep in a Margot Robbie lookalike....and maybe considering her personality traits as I'm wiping my dick on the duvet after...

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Average looks for me, I need a personality to make me smile

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Really

you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!

A turd coated in glitter is still a turd. Not the prettiest way to describe it, but it's accurate. I'd sooner sleep with a five who's humble as fuck than a 10 who thinks they're the shit. "

what about a humble 10?

What about a 5 who thinks they're the shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Average looks for me, I need a personality to make me smile"

You could have it all...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Really

you expect any sane person to believe that...Margot Robbie!!

A turd coated in glitter is still a turd. Not the prettiest way to describe it, but it's accurate. I'd sooner sleep with a five who's humble as fuck than a 10 who thinks they're the shit.

Fair enough... I'd be balls deep in a Margot Robbie lookalike....and maybe considering her personality traits as I'm wiping my dick on the duvet after... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average looks and great personality. X

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality...."

I think considerate people are also considerate when fucking. At least I (hope) I am.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Personality every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got to remember you can't shag a personality....

I think considerate people are also considerate when fucking. At least I (hope) I am. "

I think your looking too deep... it's a swinging site.. great to get on with someone, but are you telling me if a sexy as fuck woman, who is a bit of a bitch, gives you the nod....your going to need asking twice ?

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Personality or looks - with a twist