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"I have a FB and she told me she wanna be mom. And asked me to do it bareback so she can be mom and she will never tell anything about. I don't feel like doing it but... what would you do?" No chance. | |||
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"Tell her you have a headache" The snip would probably be more effective  | |||
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"I have a FB and she told me she wanna be mom. And asked me to do it bareback so she can be mom and she will never tell anything about. I don't feel like doing it but... what would you do?" Are you really seriously considering this?
Are you right in the mind, OP, or am I missing something? Sorry, no offence, it sounds absurd to me.
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"Run a fucking mile! Definitely this and very fast  "Agreed. Leg it | |||
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Run run as fast as you can...you can't catch me benefit man
On a serious note if you get her pregnant at anytime she can claim for support | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense." I’m hoping you don’t mean that as it’s written as it’s a very incorrect statement. | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. I’m hoping you don’t mean that as it’s written as it’s a very incorrect statement. " X2 | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense." oh wow... judgemental much... being a single parent does not make you a bad parent | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. I’m hoping you don’t mean that as it’s written as it’s a very incorrect statement. " An absent father has a huge effect on a child. Boys typically have anger issues. Girls end up being absolute trainwrecks. | |||
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"being a single parent does not make you a bad parent" No it doesn't. But it's less than ideal. | |||
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"Tell her there are sperm donor sites if that's what she's after. One of the newspapers did a big spread about it the other month. Stay wrapped up my dear x" Good advice | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. I’m hoping you don’t mean that as it’s written as it’s a very incorrect statement. An absent father has a huge effect on a child. Boys typically have anger issues. Girls end up being absolute trainwrecks." With the greatest of respect bill fucking shit.... | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense." WoW!! What a judgement, and what information are you judging this I'll informed statement on? | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. I’m hoping you don’t mean that as it’s written as it’s a very incorrect statement. An absent father has a huge effect on a child. Boys typically have anger issues. Girls end up being absolute trainwrecks." Thanks for your top level insight, but you’re very wrong from first hand experience. | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. I’m hoping you don’t mean that as it’s written as it’s a very incorrect statement. An absent father has a huge effect on a child. Boys typically have anger issues. Girls end up being absolute trainwrecks." Again what a judgmental statement! This is so untrue. | |||
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"I have a FB and she told me she wanna be mom. And asked me to do it bareback so she can be mom and she will never tell anything about. I don't feel like doing it but... what would you do?"  | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense." Where does he say she'll be a single parent, or is a single woman? | |||
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"Just have a quick Google on the subject. Plenty of studies saying children raised by a stable couple do better emotionally, academically and financially. ZERO studies saying single parented kids do better." I’m just as, if not more better off than others I know who were brought up by two parents. I don’t need a study to tell me that. | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. I’m hoping you don’t mean that as it’s written as it’s a very incorrect statement. An absent father has a huge effect on a child. Boys typically have anger issues. Girls end up being absolute trainwrecks." | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. I’m hoping you don’t mean that as it’s written as it’s a very incorrect statement. An absent father has a huge effect on a child. Boys typically have anger issues. Girls end up being absolute trainwrecks." Absolute rubbish | |||
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"Where does he say she'll be a single parent, or is a single woman? " He describes her as a FB And implies she doesn't want any commitment from him. | |||
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"I’m just as, if not more better off than others I know who were brought up by two parents. I don’t need a study to tell me that. " But you're an individual. We're talking about trends. Surviving a round of Russian Roulette doesn't mean Russian Roulette is safe. | |||
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"Where does he say she'll be a single parent, or is a single woman? He describes her as a FB And implies she doesn't want any commitment from him." That doesn't mean she's not already attached to someone else. | |||
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"Where does he say she'll be a single parent, or is a single woman? He describes her as a FB And implies she doesn't want any commitment from him." Yes from him, does not mean she will be a single parent plus it does not mean the child will be a trainwreck. | |||
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"Absolute rubbish" Oh of course
Nobody with Daddy issues ever ended up on drugs, living in poverty, sleeping with endless men trying to fill a void in her soul.
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"That doesn't mean she's not already attached to someone else. " She's either going to be a single parent, or she's cheating on a long term partner. Neither is a recipe for a happy, successful, loved child. | |||
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"Absolute rubbish Oh of course
Nobody with Daddy issues ever ended up on drugs, living in poverty, sleeping with endless men trying to fill a void in her soul.
Nope. Nobody's ever heard of that "And plenty of children with both parents end up in the same mess | |||
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"Absolute rubbish Oh of course
Nobody with Daddy issues ever ended up on drugs, living in poverty, sleeping with endless men trying to fill a void in her soul.
Nope. Nobody's ever heard of that "Oh and children who have both parents together are totally clean living and never have any issues! Your comments are offensive and you sound like Boris! | |||
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"And plenty of children with both parents end up in the same mess" Correct, but it's less likely. | |||
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"That doesn't mean she's not already attached to someone else. She's either going to be a single parent, or she's cheating on a long term partner. Neither is a recipe for a happy, successful, loved child." And you know this how? | |||
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"Absolute rubbish Oh of course
Nobody with Daddy issues ever ended up on drugs, living in poverty, sleeping with endless men trying to fill a void in her soul.
Nope. Nobody's ever heard of that "And plenty have "daddy issues" because of perceived rubbish like that so women stay with abussive partners for the sake of the children. | |||
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"The truth, as proven in many studies is offensive and you sound like Boris! " | |||
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"And plenty have "daddy issues" because of perceived rubbish like that so women stay with abussive partners for the sake of the children. " Nice bit of sexism there | |||
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"The truth, as proven in many studies is offensive and you sound like Boris!
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"I see you have nothing left to say! " I'm gobsmacked that you find a statement of facts offensive, simply because it does not fit your narrative. | |||
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"And plenty have "daddy issues" because of perceived rubbish like that so women stay with abussive partners for the sake of the children. Nice bit of sexism there "Fair enough take out women, point still stands | |||
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"And plenty of children with both parents end up in the same mess Correct, but it's less likely." Best not to judge tho. Never know if your child is going to go off the rails and it's a long way to fall from the top of that tower. | |||
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"Just have a quick Google on the subject. Plenty of studies saying children raised by a stable couple do better emotionally, academically and financially. ZERO studies saying single parented kids do better." How about putting the statistics where they belong in the bin and use some common sense. Admittedly I no that's far from as common as it should be but hell give it a try..... | |||
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"Just have a quick Google on the subject. Plenty of studies saying children raised by a stable couple do better emotionally, academically and financially. ZERO studies saying single parented kids do better." "stable". A single parent raises happier, more successful children than those growing up in an abusive environment. Please don't generalise; it's really dangerous, quite ignorant and fecking insulting. | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense." I'm the one who doesn't want long term. If I don't get her pregnant she will do artificial insemination | |||
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"I see you have nothing left to say! I'm gobsmacked that you find a statement of facts offensive, simply because it does not fit your narrative. " The green arrow is a very useful tool | |||
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"I see you have nothing left to say! I'm gobsmacked that you find a statement of facts offensive, simply because it does not fit your narrative. " I work with children and families and have done for 17 years. I don't need statistics to tell me you are talking rubbish. | |||
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"I see you have nothing left to say! I'm gobsmacked that you find a statement of facts offensive, simply because it does not fit your narrative. The green arrow is a very useful tool "Isn't it just | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. Where does he say she'll be a single parent, or is a single woman? " She want to be mom and she is single and she said you or artificial insemination | |||
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"I work with children and families and have done for 17 years. I don't need statistics to tell me you are talking rubbish. " So which kids have more problems? Emotionally and academically? Kids from the suburbs, raised by two loving parents? Or inner city kids raised by a single mum in a scummy block of flats? Which group are becoming upstanding citizens, and which group are committing knife crime? Anyone reading this will know there's a right and wrong way of raising a family. | |||
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"I work with children and families and have done for 17 years. I don't need statistics to tell me you are talking rubbish. So which kids have more problems? Emotionally and academically? Kids from the suburbs, raised by two loving parents? Or inner city kids raised by a single mum in a scummy block of flats? Which group are becoming upstanding citizens, and which group are committing knife crime? Anyone reading this will know there's a right and wrong way of raising a family." I so hope you haven't god kids. Fuck me gently | |||
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"I was raised by one parent and have never sold drugs, unlike a guy from school who does sell drugs, when he's not inside for violence and... well. Selling drugs. Statement of fact, right there. Throw it on the fire with the others and just love your child, whatever the situation innit." Talking trends here, not individuals | |||
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"I work with children and families and have done for 17 years. I don't need statistics to tell me you are talking rubbish. So which kids have more problems? Emotionally and academically? Kids from the suburbs, raised by two loving parents? Or inner city kids raised by a single mum in a scummy block of flats? Which group are becoming upstanding citizens, and which group are committing knife crime? Anyone reading this will know there's a right and wrong way of raising a family." Well that's not much of an argument, you've mixed two different factors. Parents that are together and social background comparing inner city and the suburbs. Which one are you deciding is the biggest factor in your mass sweeping statements? | |||
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"I was raised by one parent and have never sold drugs, unlike a guy from school who does sell drugs, when he's not inside for violence and... well. Selling drugs. Statement of fact, right there. Throw it on the fire with the others and just love your child, whatever the situation innit. Talking trends here, not individuals "Sounds more like numbers and stereotypes, but I understand your point. I hope you understand the point others make when they may seem angry in their response. It's only because they know or have seen the unquestionably gargantuan effort a single person puts in to raising a child, only to be tarred as a statistic. There's souls behind those numbers. That's all I mean.  | |||
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"Well that's not much of an argument, you've mixed two different factors" Two incomes = More financial stability, nicer area to raise the kids in. | |||
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"Well that's not much of an argument, you've mixed two different factors Two incomes = More financial stability, nicer area to raise the kids in." Being financially stable and living in a nice house does not a good parent make. | |||
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"Sounds more like numbers and stereotypes, but I understand your point. I hope you understand the point others make when they may seem angry in their response. It's only because they know or have seen the unquestionably gargantuan effort a single person puts in to raising a child, only to be tarred as a statistic. There's souls behind those numbers. That's all I mean. "I'm not questioning anyone's effort, anyone's love for a child or anything like that. Single parents do a tough job. But there is a proven better way, that is better for the kids. Sometimes the truth hurts | |||
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"Sounds more like numbers and stereotypes, but I understand your point. I hope you understand the point others make when they may seem angry in their response. It's only because they know or have seen the unquestionably gargantuan effort a single person puts in to raising a child, only to be tarred as a statistic. There's souls behind those numbers. That's all I mean.
I'm not questioning anyone's effort, anyone's love for a child or anything like that. Single parents do a tough job.
But there is a proven better way, that is better for the kids.
Sometimes the truth hurts "And who's truth are you talking? | |||
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"Being financially stable and living in a nice house does not a good parent make. " It's a factor. Not arguing over bills? Not having to work all the hours in the day? Living somewhere less prone to gangs, to drugs? These areas are usually linked to better schools, with kids of a similar upbringing with fewer disruptive pupils. On what planet is that not a good thing? | |||
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"And who's truth are you talking? " The truth of logic, experience and empirical evidence. | |||
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"Sounds more like numbers and stereotypes, but I understand your point. I hope you understand the point others make when they may seem angry in their response. It's only because they know or have seen the unquestionably gargantuan effort a single person puts in to raising a child, only to be tarred as a statistic. There's souls behind those numbers. That's all I mean.
I'm not questioning anyone's effort, anyone's love for a child or anything like that. Single parents do a tough job.
But there is a proven better way, that is better for the kids.
Sometimes the truth hurts "It's an opinion. Or that way would work every time. Plenty of variables to make a comfortable, financially stable and happy child with two parents get off the rails. Still, I understand your perspective. Appreciate you sharing. | |||
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"Being financially stable and living in a nice house does not a good parent make. It's a factor. Not arguing over bills? Not having to work all the hours in the day? Living somewhere less prone to gangs, to drugs? These areas are usually linked to better schools, with kids of a similar upbringing with fewer disruptive pupils. On what planet is that not a good thing?" So what about parents who split up and have a long term relationship with a new partner, negating the above issues with money? | |||
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"No i dont want more kids" ...well that's not the line. | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense." While the OPs situation is ridiculous, your comment about single parenting is equally so | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. While the OPs situation is ridiculous, your comment about single parenting is equally so " Nothing ridiculous about thinking two full time people to love, guide and support a child is better than one. | |||
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"Well that's not much of an argument, you've mixed two different factors Two incomes = More financial stability, nicer area to raise the kids in." I'm a single parent. We live in a lovely area and my boys are all doing well. Infact better than a number of their peers who have what you deem to be a better upbringing. Your sweeping statements aren't just insulting, they are wrong. | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense." I think this initial statement and your further statements that it was based on statistics, is disingenuous to say the least. There are many things damaging to children and being brought up by a single parent is not one of them. In fact, in my experience the most damaging things for a child are domestic abuse and neglect as the result of parental indifference. No, I am not a wocial worker, but I do work with many disadvantaged people. | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense. While the OPs situation is ridiculous, your comment about single parenting is equally so Nothing ridiculous about thinking two full time people to love, guide and support a child is better than one." depends on who the two people are. My sons would certainly disagree with you | |||
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"No i dont want more kids ...well that's not the line. "not what line | |||
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"She wants you to get her pregnant? But not be in a long term relationship. Absolutely not. The damage done to children by single parenting is immense." The damage done to children by single parenting is immense? Pretty strong and slightly offensive statement. | |||
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"Wow... "My thoughts exactly
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"I have a FB and she told me she wanna be mom. And asked me to do it bareback so she can be mom and she will never tell anything about. I don't feel like doing it but... what would you do?" If you "don't feel like doing it". That's the right response... don't do it. | |||
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"Run a fucking mile or at best do what an octopus does.....chop your own dick off, throw it at her and tell her to go fuck herself "Hahaha | |||
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