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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. What age gap do you think is too great for a Male and Female partnership.

I'm thinking posters will say if it's ok for the both of them, each to their own.

So avoiding that answer, what are your thoughts.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

What others do is their business. For me no one young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So dependent on the person. Any limits I’ve set myself I’ve subsequently broken when I’ve met people in clubs. There are some very talented, giving and imaginative young men around..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

2 years either side

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By *reemyspiritawakenmysoulWoman
over a year ago

coventry


"What others do is their business. For me no one young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad. "
exactly i agree on than im not a mrs jones either am i lookin for a sugar daddy or pension age yongerest 32 for me older 53 i am 46 personally thats just my take on it x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Five days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really know. I've set my age thing as 18 to 45, but I probably wouldn't go any younger than 23 or older than 36. Never say never though, which is why I set those ages.

Sometimes I'll see a profile from someone who is 25 to 30 and their age requirements will be 18 to 28. It makes me wonder why. They'll happily go seven years down, but only go three up. I just wonder why their limit is suddenly 28.

I've noticed it a lot more recently, maybe not on here, but certainly on POF.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Old enough to be my dad is too old for me. I'm rarely interested in younger men but I'd go a year or two younger if I felt we had fairly equal levels of maturity.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I go for men in theur 40's, I'm soon to be 55. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just consult the golden rule

Half your age plus 7.

That's the youngest you can be in a relationship with before you're weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what they are after for me I don't tend to go younger. If I did it would be a maximum 5 years younger, but I would probably go up to 20 years older

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Just consult the golden rule

Half your age plus 7.

That's the youngest you can be in a relationship with before you're weirdo "

What about just banging though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What others do is their business. For me no one young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad. "

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Hi. What age gap do you think is too great for a Male and Female partnership.

I'm thinking posters will say if it's ok for the both of them, each to their own.

So avoiding that answer, what are your thoughts."

At the end of the day, it's very personal to the couple in question, however, for me personally, I like women to be older than me. I've found that the sweet spot is around 39. I'm actually 33, not 35.

Having said that, sometimes I find the odd younger woman who is good at talking, etc.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Depends entirely on what the two people like and has bugger all to do with anyone else in my mind.

Fair play to anyone who finds themselves with an age gap

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By *rAntrobusMan
over a year ago

Nantwich

Hmmm, depends more on personality and then looks too. My ex was 7 years older, my ex wife was 3-4 years younger, and another is 6 years older... I vary?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Old enough to be my dad is too old for me. I'm rarely interested in younger men but I'd go a year or two younger if I felt we had fairly equal levels of maturity."

If there was an active swinger on here who was old enough to be my Dad they’d deserve a ride out of sheer respect..I’d worry that I’d kill them though.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner is 77 next week and im 54

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just consult the golden rule

Half your age plus 7.

That's the youngest you can be in a relationship with before you're weirdo

What about just banging though? "

I wouldn't dream of going below 27

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Just consult the golden rule

Half your age plus 7.

That's the youngest you can be in a relationship with before you're weirdo "

How completely arbitrary! As far as I'm concerned, the only "rule", golden or otherwise, is that any partners have to be consenting adults. Aside from that, just do what feels right.

I generally prefer women younger than myself, hence the range on my profile starts at 18 and goes slightly above my own age. Whether I'd actually sleep with an 18 year old would depend entirely on the person, but I did conduct a FWB type relationship with a 21 year old a few years ago. That was lot of fun, so if it makes me a "weirdo", so be it!

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Just consult the golden rule

Half your age plus 7.

That's the youngest you can be in a relationship with before you're weirdo

What about just banging though? "

That made me chuckle!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Old enough to be my dad is too old for me. I'm rarely interested in younger men but I'd go a year or two younger if I felt we had fairly equal levels of maturity.

If there was an active swinger on here who was old enough to be my Dad they’d deserve a ride out of sheer respect..I’d worry that I’d kill them though."

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Just consult the golden rule

Half your age plus 7.

That's the youngest you can be in a relationship with before you're weirdo

What about just banging though?

I wouldn't dream of going below 27 "

Oddly specific!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Depends.

Is she filthy rich, single, looking to get hitched to someone younger, has a dodgy ticker and no dependants?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to 60 years difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just consult the golden rule

Half your age plus 7.

That's the youngest you can be in a relationship with before you're weirdo

What about just banging though?

I wouldn't dream of going below 27 "

Well that's a shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 years between me and mine and we re real solid in every wayear. .has nothing to do with age it's down to personality, Outlook and maybe for want of a better description a zest for life..I am the older

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By *logger and Rainbow-AliceCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

13 years between hubby and I. It works amazing for us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only 30 years between husband and me. We're a perfect match.

Mrs

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

18 yrs between H & I & our gf is 26.

Hasn’t been an issue apart from some of the music she listens too

S

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