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Distance for a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You've been chatting on FAB and getting on well....how far would you travel for a first meeting ?

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

30 mins drive tops ...... unless ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

An hour maybe but if I felt a real connection... miles and miles

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Anything up to a cpl of hours, but it that feeling that they won’t be there that bothers me .. but nothing ventured nothing gained... got the right run about in Spain a cpl of years ago lol

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

The furthest I’ve traveled specifically for a first meeting is about 3 hrs.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Tea and cake = distance holds no bounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have a purely social for a first meet so not too far from where I am

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

No distant too far, we would just make a weekend of it

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drove from Tamworth to Slough.... good 2.5 hour drive. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been chatting on FAB and getting on well....how far would you travel for a first meeting ?"
4,300 miles each way but they have to accom

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not far. Plenty of lovely people close to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any distance for the right one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not far. Plenty of lovely people close to me. "
thats so insular free yourself up to possibilities

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any distance for the right one... "

But if you've never met them how would you know?

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


" 30 mins drive tops ...... unless ...."
after saying that we had a guy visit us from Bournemouth ..thats dedication Lol

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Not far. Plenty of lovely people close to me. thats so insular free yourself up to possibilities "

Nah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not far. Plenty of lovely people close to me. thats so insular free yourself up to possibilities

Nah "
omg hey I'll fab your pic so you get on page 1 again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any distance for the right one...

But if you've never met them how would you know? "

If you dont meet then you'll definitely never...

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

It depends on why as much as it does who i think.

If it's just a quickie to scope each other out for future shenanigans then probably not that far, no more than an hour.

If you know you get on already so more of a friendship and know you'll make a weekend of it whether theres sex involved or not, then further away, a couple of hours or more if you have the time to put in.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Not far. Plenty of lovely people close to me. thats so insular free yourself up to possibilities

Nah omg hey I'll fab your pic so you get on page 1 again! "

Nah that's OK

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have young children so have to stay local due to school run commitments.

Also, I don’t want to waste valuable sex time, travelling.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

all down to each individual circumstance for me... type of meet, how much i liked the person(s) etc, normally probably a hour or so but have been to Edinburgh for a meet in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have young children so have to stay local due to school run commitments.

Also, I don’t want to waste valuable sex time, travelling. "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how well we get on, and how long we'd be together. I've travelled four hours each way before but that was for a weekend meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Furthest I've travelled is about an hour and a half..only because I knew for definite it was going to be worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure, I think 2 and half minutes for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure, I think 2 and half minutes for the right person "

And if they were smeared in Marmite..?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Realistically, someone within 30 mins drive. I would and have travelled further though

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

For the right person distance is not an issue - especially if they're willing to meet at a half way point

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

My male - male verification was for this reason ,

I picked him up and we drive 2 hours down to Leicester , we met her had a quick drink in hotel bar

Then I sat back in car for 4 hours whilst they went to hotel room .

Eventually he got in car and we drove 2 hours back

I asked him was she worth it ?

He said oh yes very much

I asked will you see her again?

He replied no too far away unless I use you again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure, I think 2 and half minutes for the right person

And if they were smeared in Marmite..?"

Completely different story that is. Are you smeared in marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure, I think 2 and half minutes for the right person

And if they were smeared in Marmite..?

Completely different story that is. Are you smeared in marmite "

I'd have to park up round the corner for the smearing.. well I'd be a magnet for leaves, sweet wrappers and pigeon poop.

That might spoil the atmos'... dont you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it’s more about it being the right people .. some things are so worth it x

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Think it’s more about it being the right people .. some things are so worth it x"

This

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

A few hours if I really liked the person and thought we'd get on (not in a sex way). I like visiting other places and having a night away - one of my best meets was with a very good platonic friend who I met in Harrogate. We spent the day talking, eating and relaxing in bookshops and the spa.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

About 3 hours each way....definitely worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About 3 hours each way....definitely worth it "

1 1/2 if we met in the middle...

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

Really depends on the person for me ideally about an hours drive but willing to do 3+hours for the right person

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

An hour or two to airport, a 3 hour flight, and then an hour or two from that airport.

So 7-8 hours would be about my limit.

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Depends on the situation tbh and the level of trust

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"About 3 hours each way....definitely worth it

1 1/2 if we met in the middle... "

See you about 2.45 then

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By *rAntrobusMan
over a year ago

Nantwich

I'd be willing to travel an hour or two; I like visiting new places. But I would want more than just quick fuck, would have to get on with the person and make the night of it

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

For a first meet, the furthest was about a two hour drive...but I've travelled a lot further to meet people I know.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Depends who it was and how long for

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

I have travelled through snow from the East Midlands to North Wales .......it turned out to be a long and meaningful friendship with benefits , but wasn't sure 100% until I arrived

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About half an hour for a first meet but if they are someone I've met before I'd travel farther. Or if it is someone I really like and I know they will show I may go farther.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not too far tbh

First meet is always a social somewhere.

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

I thí k 1 hour is far enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one mile max I'm walking and have sore knees

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"No distant too far, we would just make a weekend of it

D."

Same here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

When I met about 400 metres. It was during my lunch hour at a place I was going to be anyway.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

For a first meeting? 400+ round mile trip

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"For a first meeting? 400+ round mile trip "

There is hope for me yet

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By *wisted VinylMan
over a year ago

Fife


"Tea and cake = distance holds no bounds "

Well said. If theres cake involved id jump on a plane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to only play with married women so I always accomodate, however I have driven an hour to meet couples but that's people I already know and is in clubs.

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

45 minutes for 1st meet. I'd have a back up plan as I've been let down a couple of times in past. If we wanted a 2nd meet and assuming 1st one was about half distance then I'd travel full distance next time.

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By *omesticflightMan
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

as far as it takes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m due to be doing a 420 mile round trip in February.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my meets got to be no more then a half hour away x

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Tbh my goegraphical awareness is absolutely awful though so I tend try and keep things relatively local although life is random so who knows

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