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"We have been swinging for around 20 years. My wife is terminally ill and is struggling with sex and has told me to carry on going on meets and to clubs. We have always played together (same house or clubs occasionaly seperate rooms) I feel like this would be cheating even though she says she doesn't mind what should I do? " Im sorry that your wife is so ill OP. You need to go with your feelings as regards this. Noone else can make the decision for you. I wish you and your wife the very best in these times | |||
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"If you don’t feel comfortable then don’t do it " Exactly. | |||
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"If you don’t feel comfortable then don’t do it " I agree with this x | |||
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"We have been swinging for around 20 years. My wife is terminally ill and is struggling with sex and has told me to carry on going on meets and to clubs. We have always played together (same house or clubs occasionaly seperate rooms) I feel like this would be cheating even though she says she doesn't mind what should I do? " do you need it that bad, take her out do things with her or just be with her, thats what I'd do | |||
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"If you don’t feel comfortable then don’t do it I agree with this x" So do I .... if you do then you probably won’t enjoy it and will probably regret it. Sending your other half hugs OP | |||
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"We have been swinging for around 20 years. My wife is terminally ill and is struggling with sex and has told me to carry on going on meets and to clubs. We have always played together (same house or clubs occasionaly seperate rooms) I feel like this would be cheating even though she says she doesn't mind what should I do? " Talk to her and explain how you feel. | |||
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"Sorry to hear about your wife obviously she cares for you greatly to say you can continue without her. Only you can decide but if it was me, I wouldn’t even contemplate it, I would be absorbing my time with the woman I love D." I am in agreement with this. I'm sorry OP. | |||
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"Sorry to hear about your wife obviously she cares for you greatly to say you can continue without her. Only you can decide but if it was me, I wouldn’t even contemplate it, I would be absorbing my time with the woman I love D." Totally agree with this | |||
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"We have been swinging for around 20 years. My wife is terminally ill and is struggling with sex and has told me to carry on going on meets and to clubs. We have always played together (same house or clubs occasionaly seperate rooms) I feel like this would be cheating even though she says she doesn't mind what should I do? " A question no one can answer but you. That said, personally, I'd want to spend as much time with my spouse as I could. The thought of losing them would kill my libido and make me sick, sad to the pit of my stomach. We all deal with life's challenges differently: do what works for you. | |||
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"I would have thought that if your wife was terminally ill that you would want to spend every last minute with her and nobody else." What I was gonna say. If my Mr was terminally ill then absolutely playing would probably Be at the very back of my mind x | |||
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