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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

Why is it ok on fab to mess people around. Twice this week people have taken the Micky, it seems their time is more important than ours. In the real world would people behave the same?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it ok on fab to mess people around. Twice this week people have taken the Micky, it seems their time is more important than ours. In the real world would people behave the same?!"

Sorry to hear, unfortunately fab has these types of people as does every other site

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"

Sorry to hear, unfortunately fab has these types of people as does every other site "

I know, I wouldn’t ever do something to someone else I wouldn’t want to happen to myself. Just makes me wonder how these people get through life !

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I feel your pain OP - it gets really frustrating after a while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I feel your pain too get messed around so much

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I feel your pain OP - it gets really frustrating after a while!"

I don’t know why I get so shocked after 4 or so years. But I still do. Especially when it’s people you’ve known for a while. But im just as shocked with new people as surely you’re trying to impress (and get a shag! Lol)

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Yeah I feel your pain too get messed around so much "

Arranged a meet Friday 1:30 they knew we’d booked a day off and then their status update was requesting a meet at different location for similar time! Then arrange a meet with someone we know at 7 tonight and still no show at 9pm!

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yeah I feel your pain too get messed around so much

Arranged a meet Friday 1:30 they knew we’d booked a day off and then their status update was requesting a meet at different location for similar time! Then arrange a meet with someone we know at 7 tonight and still no show at 9pm! "

That's so rude on both occasions. Hope you managed to have a nice night anyway.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Yeah I feel your pain too get messed around so much

Arranged a meet Friday 1:30 they knew we’d booked a day off and then their status update was requesting a meet at different location for similar time! Then arrange a meet with someone we know at 7 tonight and still no show at 9pm! "

That's horrible, did you message either to ask what was going on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Sorry to hear, unfortunately fab has these types of people as does every other site

I know, I wouldn’t ever do something to someone else I wouldn’t want to happen to myself. Just makes me wonder how these people get through life ! "

Bless you, I wouldn’t even know how to spot these people but have seen posts on it before x

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Yeah I feel your pain too get messed around so much

Arranged a meet Friday 1:30 they knew we’d booked a day off and then their status update was requesting a meet at different location for similar time! Then arrange a meet with someone we know at 7 tonight and still no show at 9pm!

That's so rude on both occasions. Hope you managed to have a nice night anyway. "

Great day yesterday. Tonight not so great. Hubby had to go and they were meant to be keeping me company for an hour or two till hubby returned. So I’m sat Billy no mates on my own in a put waiting for hubby to get back. Luckily I’m not worried about sitting in a pub on my own!

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Yeah I feel your pain too get messed around so much

Arranged a meet Friday 1:30 they knew we’d booked a day off and then their status update was requesting a meet at different location for similar time! Then arrange a meet with someone we know at 7 tonight and still no show at 9pm!

That's horrible, did you message either to ask what was going on? "

Kinda. Yesterday I messaged them decided to just block them. Today messaged but not heard back

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

That's really awful for you both. Why people do that sort of thing is beyond us. It's bad manners and totally disrespectful. Sadly in this day and age, people don't seem to have respect for others.

Hope you find some genuine people to meet up with very soon.

PS you're on our hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like it's happening to me right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens but thats fab

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Looks like it's happening to me right now "

Pants isn’t it!

Shame there isn’t a report for being rude button! Lol x

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"It happens but thats fab "

It happens too often.

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"

PS you're on our hotlist "

Lol never been told we’re on someone’s hotlist before! Exciting news! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens but thats fab

It happens too often. "

I know not good

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Why is it ok on fab to mess people around. Twice this week people have taken the Micky, it seems their time is more important than ours. In the real world would people behave the same?!"
Hey thats swing life for you .....every now n again people stay true their word ....we have been lucky ...up to now .....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

‘Do the mess around’: Ray Charles

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Why is it ok on fab to mess people around. Twice this week people have taken the Micky, it seems their time is more important than ours. In the real world would people behave the same?!Hey thats swing life for you .....every now n again people stay true their word ....we have been lucky ...up to now ....."

lol lucky you! I feel like handing the reins over to hubby now and giving up! It’s a shame as we’ve met some lovely people on here. But most then leave for one reason or another....

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


" ‘Do the mess around’: Ray Charles "

Haha haven’t heard that for years. Just played it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fortunate to have never really been messed around on here, but I think it’s an inevitable consequence of how popular this site has become. Sorry to hear it OP.

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I’m fortunate to have never really been messed around on here, but I think it’s an inevitable consequence of how popular this site has become. Sorry to hear it OP."

Just wish people were more respectful of people’s time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m fortunate to have never really been messed around on here, but I think it’s an inevitable consequence of how popular this site has become. Sorry to hear it OP.

Just wish people were more respectful of people’s time...."

Indeed it would help. However if they were disrespectful of your time, how would they have been if you did meet?

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I’m fortunate to have never really been messed around on here, but I think it’s an inevitable consequence of how popular this site has become. Sorry to hear it OP.

Just wish people were more respectful of people’s time....

Indeed it would help. However if they were disrespectful of your time, how would they have been if you did meet?"

I meant by not bothering us In then first place lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People just join the site then delete there own accounts because they are getting too many messages. Must be a Limit to send a message.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We meet for socials...treat em as a night out.....suss em out ....we are a pretty good judge of character usually ...agree tho manners seem to run thin these days ..... we are old school..not everbody is....

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport


"We meet for socials...treat em as a night out.....suss em out ....we are a pretty good judge of character usually ...agree tho manners seem to run thin these days ..... we are old school..not everbody is...."

Yep we like a social first. And it’s to socials that have let us down this week! Lol can’t suss them out if they don’t turn up!!

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

Decided to stay at pub with my bottle of procecco amused myself with Fab. Hubby’s work thing finished and he re joined me. We’re now home, said friend was on and off line but left my message (which was a nice one) unread so now blocked and deleted. Need to be more ruthless in future and less forgiving. So that two blocks by people messing us around this week! Their loss as on both occasions I scrubbed up pretty well and felt amazing lol

Thanks for your comments and messages.

Night all x

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