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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym

Never done it. Never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

Action, or even genital photos at all are enough to put me off.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It won't stop them. I use it as a filter.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like them, but I wouldn’t want them to stop posting those types of photos just because I don’t like them. (If they were to stop, it would be because they most likely don’t have consent to post them, and have came to their senses). Doesn’t affect me, so doesn’t bother me.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Pretty much this. Less Is DEFFO more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe they've had sex before, I don't need proof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen plenty of women with action pictures. I avoid them. Couples aswell If different guys and occasionally ladies

And it won’t stop anyone as it’s like there own porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed! "

Same. Recently happened to me.

Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman?

Mind boggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me cringe for them/the other women.

Imagine being such a dullard you can’t take an appealing photo just by yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never personally even contemplated doing anything along those lines OP. Not my style.

Plus, to be fair, I don’t get many chances to even contemplate taking a pic, let alone posting it, the way things have been the past few months ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

I'm thinking everyone has got what they like ,as far as me doing chance.would be a good start, but live and let live.btw you are a real stunner xxx

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

I'm totally with you OP action shots put me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single women do it too lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not keen either and tends to put me off. But the odd one or two can be overlooked sometimes. Depends who it is and how they are in honesty.

But in general it's not my prefence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

I don’t do it but it is a swinging site and obviously works for the men in question (hence the photos). Why are you so apposed to it? It makes you sound a little bit insecure ??

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I find it rather off-putting, and really not discreet at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I avoid those profiles too.

Unless couples, but even then I prefer photos of closeness/cuddles rather than action shots.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not keen on seeing them, especially if there is more of HER than there is of HIM.

Some pics are an inch of cock that couldn't be quite shoved into a big fat vag..... ( and this is supposed to turn me on ? or be a pic of him ? )

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Definitely not a good thing to find and also what's with some not even having themselves in their pics?

I've opened a few profiles where it is a pic of a woman only to find a dick pic and its yet another guys profile.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I don’t get why you would want to stop doing what you’re doing, surely you’re not fully involved if you’re thinking wow this would make a great photo op.

If it’s been taken by a third party and it’s nicely done I don’t see it as a problem.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Not keen either and tends to put me off. But the odd one or two can be overlooked sometimes. Depends who it is and how they are in honesty.

But in general it's not my prefence. "

This for me too. It depends also if it's what I deem to be a classy shot.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Not keen on seeing them, especially if there is more of HER than there is of HIM.

Some pics are an inch of cock that couldn't be quite shoved into a big fat vag..... ( and this is supposed to turn me on ? or be a pic of him ? )"

A big fat vag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definite turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree, especially when it’s a profile pic of just their cock and mainly of the woman they’re shagging.

If they message me with a photo like they, I tell them I’m not interested in women

My mind boggles as to why men would think women would be interested in seeing mainly other women on the profile of a single man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get asked why I have no action pics my general consensus is I am too busy enjoying myself to care about taking pics or making videos

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

It's a no from me.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

It doesn't bother me. You put up any pictures up with in the rules.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

From a different side... I have a single friend who poses action shots with the ladies he regularly has sex with and they love it.

It doesnt bother me personally I just scroll past pics that don't stimulate me.

Good luck in your quest

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

Instant turn off from anyone if they have pics of obviously different partners. We don’t mind seeing ones of the same couple, but we don’t want photo proof of every m_mber going bareback with the mrs.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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It makes me laugh when the men who have lots of action shots complain about lots of men viewing their profiles, it doesn't occur to them that filling their profile full of naked women will make other men want to look

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I'm not bothered about it? I don't see why it offends others either? So long as the people in the pics have given consent for them to be used all is good

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It feters me as I generally interpret the person as not particularly empathetic, being able to think about me and my needs.

I genuinely assume every one here is not a virgin but I don't want evidence that they aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you've seen in my consent thread, it's that in which I question when I see such photos.

It's not something I will ever do.

Single woman also post these photos and I do find it to be somewhat distasteful, but not overly off putting.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

For me it depends if it’s the same woman.

That particularly turns me off.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Each to their own really I reckon

I'm not a lover of action shots unless I know the person - can fire my imagination sometimes

My main concern is that I hope the other people in shots were ok with themselves being literally plastered over a profile. I'd hate to be having a wander on the site & seeing any part of me pop up anywhere if I hadn't been asked

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

The ladies are just as bad for the same photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed!

Same. Recently happened to me.

Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman?

Mind boggling. "

Well I guess because it's a swinging site and people have multiple partners. Is it a jealousy thing from the women?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

No I think people should be able to run their profiles how they like (within the rules/consent). It's a good filter!! I wouldn't want to meet those kind of people, so I'd rather know up front what they are instead of some sanitised fantasy version.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed!

Same. Recently happened to me.

Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman?

Mind boggling. Well I guess because it's a swinging site and people have multiple partners. Is it a jealousy thing from the women? "

Absolutely it's jealousy, because of course we all only want to meet virgins.

If I want porn, I'll go elsewhere. On a profile here I want to see who I'm meeting, not their random sexual partners that I'll never meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, not for me at all , but then I’m not keen on any naked photos

That’s my preference though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed!

Same. Recently happened to me.

Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman?

Mind boggling. Well I guess because it's a swinging site and people have multiple partners. Is it a jealousy thing from the women?

Absolutely it's jealousy, because of course we all only want to meet virgins.

If I want porn, I'll go elsewhere. On a profile here I want to see who I'm meeting, not their random sexual partners that I'll never meet. "

In some ways I agree. It does feel more like a porn site now, then it did 10 years ago. But does this extend to videos too. Lots of couples have vids of meets etc.

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By *k82Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow


"Seen plenty of women with action pictures. I avoid them. Couples aswell If different guys and occasionally ladies

And it won’t stop anyone as it’s like there own porn. "

This..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking? "

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I agree with you. I especially hate it when you've hit it off with someone, you get into the friends pics and there's loads of action shots, I feel so disappointed!

Same. Recently happened to me.

Obviously for couples it’s different, you’d expect to see pics of them together. But as a single male who is trying to get the attention of a single female, why do they think having pictures of them shagging other women is going to appeal to another woman?

Mind boggling. Well I guess because it's a swinging site and people have multiple partners. Is it a jealousy thing from the women?

Absolutely it's jealousy, because of course we all only want to meet virgins.

If I want porn, I'll go elsewhere. On a profile here I want to see who I'm meeting, not their random sexual partners that I'll never meet. In some ways I agree. It does feel more like a porn site now, then it did 10 years ago. But does this extend to videos too. Lots of couples have vids of meets etc."

For me yes, it extends to videos too. I don't think anyone should be allowed in pics or videos that isn't part of the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

"

Damn, bullets points...they'll be a power point presentation next lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

Damn, bullets points...they'll be a power point presentation next lol "

I can do pie charts, I’ve got a fucking lush pie.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Turn off for me.

But a great filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate it. If I need evidence, I’ll ask for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

Damn, bullets points...they'll be a power point presentation next lol

I can do pie charts, I’ve got a fucking lush pie. "

If it's anything like them amazing tits I bet it is Lush x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

"

Yeah I agree with that

There’s a few ladies as well on here that do the same. I quickly remove myself away from that situation.

I must admit though I do check veri’s of last conquests to be in the safe side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

Yeah I agree with that

There’s a few ladies as well on here that do the same. I quickly remove myself away from that situation.

I must admit though I do check veri’s of last conquests to be in the safe side."

Mine confirm the guy was able to leave and is not strapped to a bed with his ankles smashed in

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


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Mine confirm the guy was able to leave and is not strapped to a bed with his ankles smashed in "

One of my ankles is broken, so half way there

No action shots at all.

Why would i look at a single female profile and see her taking various different cocks attractive.

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

Yeah I agree with that

There’s a few ladies as well on here that do the same. I quickly remove myself away from that situation.

I must admit though I do check veri’s of last conquests to be in the safe side.

Mine confirm the guy was able to leave and is not strapped to a bed with his ankles smashed in "

Scene from 'Misery' springs to mind!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

Yeah I agree with that

There’s a few ladies as well on here that do the same. I quickly remove myself away from that situation.

I must admit though I do check veri’s of last conquests to be in the safe side.

Mine confirm the guy was able to leave and is not strapped to a bed with his ankles smashed in "

Did he leave with a smile on his face though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

"

So in a nutshell, you come on a swinging site but only want to meet men who haven’t fucked other women? Are you sure you are on the right site ?

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"It won't stop them. I use it as a filter."

Exactly this.

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By *alesfinestMan
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I'm still looking for my first meet but I certainly wouldn't put any pictures of that sort up!!

I think it's very disrespectful to the lady in person and any suiters.

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By *hamCouple30Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have no words for double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes two. And others choices are for them to make.

Personally I'm not a fan, but then I wont even post cock pics.

And I dont want or need graphic images in my head of another who I may want to share time with.

Perhaps I just dont belong here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 1 cock photo in private and only ever send it if I get asked for one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no words for double standards "

I do, hypocrisy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

Who likes these pics? The profile owner themselves. Oh and some other single guys.

See the problem isn't that they don't care about which pics they put up...It's more that THEY view them as hot and are too blinkered to realise that not everyone, including the majority of their target audience, will do so.

Still, for all we know, their main goal on Fab and reason for their joining may be to have other single guys message them saying "Cracking pics mate, that's one fittie you banged last May". As if so then tbf their pics are actually ideal.

If their main goal is to appeal to women who want to have sex with them though...then they're pretty much a humungous fail.

B

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By *hamCouple30Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I see lots of posts from women asking for cum tributes!

They want a man to take pics or videos of their cocks ejaculating over a picture of the lady.

Ladies ask for this!

Wtf?

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

Omg me!!!!! Seriously wouldn’t consider meeting someone with previous meet photos on their profile - such a turn off!

Why oh why would we want to see the whole body of some previous meet with three inches of his cock ..,

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My profile is full of them. Sorry!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

To be honest, the whole notion of taking pics during sex baffles me.

I've never once been shagging someone and thought.... "Wait.... Where's my phone? I should photograph this...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it's their partner or fwb I find it a total turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or....a simpler option...

you should stop looking and then stop moaning about them??

Just sayin'

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I used to have action shots on my profile, I liked them, I was having a great time when they were taken and I couldn’t give a fuck if anyone else liked them or not, it’s my profile after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

So in a nutshell, you come on a swinging site but only want to meet men who haven’t fucked other women? Are you sure you are on the right site ? "

Did I say I wanted all the men I meet to be virgins or did I say it’s a turn off to see single guys with pictures of previous conquests on their profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper turn off for me.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Personally, It's a massive turn off... I know they had sex before, it's not rocket science or needs to be proven

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or....a simpler option...

you should stop looking and then stop moaning about them??

Just sayin'"

Hard to avoid when some men send these kind of pictures when they message you.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"To be honest, the whole notion of taking pics during sex baffles me.

I've never once been shagging someone and thought.... "Wait.... Where's my phone? I should photograph this....""

Oh my lord really you have never lived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just another form of censorship.

I like the fact that I can avoid those types so would rather they were blatant about it.

I use it as a form of filter.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I used to have action shots on my profile, I liked them, I was having a great time when they were taken and I couldn’t give a fuck if anyone else liked them or not, it’s my profile after all "

Why worry about how someone runs their profile? If it's not for you then it'll make fuck all difference to them.

Always seems to be more the singles that have an issue with this rather than couples.

And if the issue is that you're comparing yourself to a previous meet then that's equally pointless. Like veris the odds are that not every meet will be recorded either in word or picture form.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view.

If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots.

idea for my next thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have gone entirely over my head but what's wrong with single people displaying pictures of them and their lovers on the job?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best ones are guys sucking off other guys, fab profile states straight

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view.

If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots.

idea for my next thread "

90% of thhe 1% of site users that use the forums.........

The other 99% may feel differently.

Why not just let them do as they please? It's their choice and their profile after all.

A

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

As a single male my honest thoughts are that it's really off putting and even some single females do it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

Absolutely hate it, but I hate censorship too so, meh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view.

If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots.

idea for my next thread

90% of thhe 1% of site users that use the forums.........

The other 99% may feel differently.

Why not just let them do as they please? It's their choice and their profile after all.

A"

Not when you get unsolicited pics sent to you as well as when you’re browsing.

Easy enough to scroll past those kind of profiles but when you’re chatting with someone and they send you a load of actions pics then its frustrating because it puts me off someone who could potentially be a match. Once something’s put me off in the early stages I can’t get back any former desire I previously had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't offend me. People can display what pictures they like. The nature of the site means that many pictures will be sexually explicit. Don't like it? Use a regular dating site.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Puts me right off a profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view.

If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots.

idea for my next thread

90% of thhe 1% of site users that use the forums.........

The other 99% may feel differently.

Why not just let them do as they please? It's their choice and their profile after all.

A

Not when you get unsolicited pics sent to you as well as when you’re browsing.

Easy enough to scroll past those kind of profiles but when you’re chatting with someone and they send you a load of actions pics then its frustrating because it puts me off someone who could potentially be a match. Once something’s put me off in the early stages I can’t get back any former desire I previously had. "

Then they aren't what you're looking for. Job done. What's the issue?

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

I stick to a face pic to leave something to the imagination

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So on the whole then I’d say at least 90% of the women who commented on this thread share the same view.

If guys insist on having them maybe they should keep them private and wait to see if anyone asks if they have action shots.

idea for my next thread

90% of thhe 1% of site users that use the forums.........

The other 99% may feel differently.

Why not just let them do as they please? It's their choice and their profile after all.

A

Not when you get unsolicited pics sent to you as well as when you’re browsing.

Easy enough to scroll past those kind of profiles but when you’re chatting with someone and they send you a load of actions pics then its frustrating because it puts me off someone who could potentially be a match. Once something’s put me off in the early stages I can’t get back any former desire I previously had.

Then they aren't what you're looking for. Job done. What's the issue?"

Exactly. If that behaviour puts you off then they've done you a favour in letting you know you're not compatible.

Move on to the next potential.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stick to a face pic to leave something to the imagination "

I've a fantastic imagination. I doubt you'd live up to it then I'd be disappointed. That's the problem with that approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

I see you really hate action shots!

Might just send you all of mine from my phone which would be 0 haha

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I stick to a face pic to leave something to the imagination "

I did for a while then yeah I have 2 cock pics on my profile but the rest are either face or body pics

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I'm still looking for my first meet but I certainly wouldn't put any pictures of that sort up!!

I think it's very disrespectful to the lady in person and any suiters. "

For the ladies, yes, most definitely if permission wasn't granted but suitors?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you so worked up about this?

Expectations from couples/women (who often have no profile pics):

-have good pics

-face pics on profile

-no action pics

-no cock pics

-loads of public veris

-not too many veris

-can accommodate no matter what otherwise you're cheating on your partner that you may or may not have

-be happy to meet for a social in a club of our choosing

The list goes on!

It's enough to give you a headache!

Let them post whatever they want on their profiles. Most peoples profiles are a mess anyway! lol.

Fab is all about double standards and let's not forget it!

Just relax and have some fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like a picture of a man going down on a woman.

Action shots don't put me off.

I like looking at couples action shots as well.

Hanging out of random meets isn't attractive though.

It's not exclusive to single males profiles.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston


"I stick to a face pic to leave something to the imagination

I've a fantastic imagination. I doubt you'd live up to it then I'd be disappointed. That's the problem with that approach. "

I would for you as I'm not black. Imagination may have been the wrong word but I would wait a while to get in to the graphic stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to each individual/couple to put up whatever they want on their profile (as long as it is within the site and legal/regulatory rules).

It is up to each of us to decide what we like or don't like about profiles, and what, if any, action we should take for further interaction?

Surely it's a good thing to see a profile that has pictures or wording or a lack thereof so you know which ones you are not interested in as much as it is to spot the pictures or text that you do?

In other words, if you don't like it move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never kiss and tell...so wouldnt post pictures of another person either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A"

Is it the male or female half usually posting cos you come across quite condescending.

Why should I have to sacrifice my ability to use the site to its full especially as I pay to support the site. I’ve already said many times the difficulty with blocking everyone. I can’t possibly search every area in South Wales or even the South West, I’d miss 100’s of potentials if I blocked every incoming message.

Other woman share the same view on the subject so I’m not the only person who thinks it’s off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when they attach action shots to their messages. Instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different and entitled to put anything on their profile its all about personal preference, me personally iv got nude pics and that's it I'm not even hard in them

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A

Is it the male or female half usually posting cos you come across quite condescending.

Why should I have to sacrifice my ability to use the site to its full especially as I pay to support the site. I’ve already said many times the difficulty with blocking everyone. I can’t possibly search every area in South Wales or even the South West, I’d miss 100’s of potentials if I blocked every incoming message.

Other woman share the same view on the subject so I’m not the only person who thinks it’s off putting. "

The clue is in the sign off initial but I suspect you already knew the answer.

Condescending? I'm not the one telling people what they should and shouldn't do with their profile.

Why should they have to sacrifice the way they choose to use the site?

Equal rights and all that.

A

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A"

What about the men who said they didn't like action shots? Or is it just the women that should block all messages? Also, I didn't see anyone complaining about "wading through messages", just saying that they don't like action shots. They're easily deleted.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A

What about the men who said they didn't like action shots? Or is it just the women that should block all messages? Also, I didn't see anyone complaining about "wading through messages", just saying that they don't like action shots. They're easily deleted. "

It was a sarcastic response to a suggestion that men should change how they choose to use the site.

Apologies if that wasn't obvious.

Why can't people just concentrate on their own profiles and leave other to theirs? As you say - not too hard to delete after all? Not interested or put off by something? Move on to the next and see it for what it is - an obvious sign you're not compatible despite any initial feelings.

A

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A

What about the men who said they didn't like action shots? Or is it just the women that should block all messages? Also, I didn't see anyone complaining about "wading through messages", just saying that they don't like action shots. They're easily deleted.

It was a sarcastic response to a suggestion that men should change how they choose to use the site.

Apologies if that wasn't obvious.

Why can't people just concentrate on their own profiles and leave other to theirs? As you say - not too hard to delete after all? Not interested or put off by something? Move on to the next and see it for what it is - an obvious sign you're not compatible despite any initial feelings.

A"

It was obvious, I'm just stirring it a bit

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A

What about the men who said they didn't like action shots? Or is it just the women that should block all messages? Also, I didn't see anyone complaining about "wading through messages", just saying that they don't like action shots. They're easily deleted.

It was a sarcastic response to a suggestion that men should change how they choose to use the site.

Apologies if that wasn't obvious.

Why can't people just concentrate on their own profiles and leave other to theirs? As you say - not too hard to delete after all? Not interested or put off by something? Move on to the next and see it for what it is - an obvious sign you're not compatible despite any initial feelings.

A

It was obvious, I'm just stirring it a bit "

Phew. Thought I was losing my touch for a second.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why there are some people on here who think that everyone else should run their profiles to suit them and should do things the way they do. Fuck right off. There's room for all sorts. Shame if that makes it harder to find what you want, but I don't see why people need to fit into your ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I'm not entirely sure this is the right site for you.

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By *Marvel-Man
over a year ago

In The Gym


"OP I'm not entirely sure this is the right site for you."

She's gorgeous. It definitely is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And yet there are tons of women's profiles with photos of dick-sucking and penetration. Presumably these are OK?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"And yet there are tons of women's profiles with photos of dick-sucking and penetration. Presumably these are OK? "

Its a one way street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And yet there are tons of women's profiles with photos of dick-sucking and penetration. Presumably these are OK?

Its a one way street"

Much like the anus (to most women I've met).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I'm not entirely sure this is the right site for you.

She's gorgeous. It definitely is. "

Oh it's ok because she's gorgeous... right.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's not one you're going to win, OP. I despise the pictures, too. But it's within the rules and people can do as they please. You can only choose how to respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know what I hate? Women pulling apart their fanny lips in extremely zoomed in pictures. Makes me sick in my mouth, but hey ho, what can you do, right?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"And yet there are tons of women's profiles with photos of dick-sucking and penetration. Presumably these are OK?

Its a one way street

Much like the anus (to most women I've met)."

Kiss my ass hah... now stop at the lights...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like ‘action’ shots

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By *irtuousBullMan
over a year ago

lake district


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

"Hanging out of a bird"

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

"

Wow! Just avoid those men - delete, block and move on. Calling women buzzards is just plain nasty. Those ladies are human beings - try seeing them as such and there will always be people hotter than you. It's the nature of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

"

So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A

Is it the male or female half usually posting cos you come across quite condescending.

Why should I have to sacrifice my ability to use the site to its full especially as I pay to support the site. I’ve already said many times the difficulty with blocking everyone. I can’t possibly search every area in South Wales or even the South West, I’d miss 100’s of potentials if I blocked every incoming message.

Other woman share the same view on the subject so I’m not the only person who thinks it’s off putting.

The clue is in the sign off initial but I suspect you already knew the answer.

Condescending? I'm not the one telling people what they should and shouldn't do with their profile.

Why should they have to sacrifice the way they choose to use the site?

Equal rights and all that.

A"

I’d have known if I’d looked at your profile which I should have done before asking I suppose.

Well I’ve got my answers anyway and I’m not the only woman on here who is turned off by action shots. It would be entirely different if I was looking for couples or interested in threesomes, but as my target audience is single men and what I’m looking for is single men only, it’s only pictures of the guy I could potentially be meeting that I want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just thought of the perfect solution for any women that find particular things offensive in someone's profile, be that words or pictures.

Block all incoming messages from anyone, do your own browsing and only contact those that meet your requirements and portray themselves in a manner acceptable to your standards and tastes.

Hey presto.

You'll never receive a message from someone you deem unsuitable again, you'll never have to wade through messages from those you have no interest in and as an added bonus......you're more likely to find the right match.

Winner winner!!

A

Is it the male or female half usually posting cos you come across quite condescending.

Why should I have to sacrifice my ability to use the site to its full especially as I pay to support the site. I’ve already said many times the difficulty with blocking everyone. I can’t possibly search every area in South Wales or even the South West, I’d miss 100’s of potentials if I blocked every incoming message.

Other woman share the same view on the subject so I’m not the only person who thinks it’s off putting.

The clue is in the sign off initial but I suspect you already knew the answer.

Condescending? I'm not the one telling people what they should and shouldn't do with their profile.

Why should they have to sacrifice the way they choose to use the site?

Equal rights and all that.

A

I’d have known if I’d looked at your profile which I should have done before asking I suppose.

Well I’ve got my answers anyway and I’m not the only woman on here who is turned off by action shots. It would be entirely different if I was looking for couples or interested in threesomes, but as my target audience is single men and what I’m looking for is single men only, it’s only pictures of the guy I could potentially be meeting that I want to see. "

Surely that makes it easier for you to narrow it down then?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots."

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome "

Prefer to keep mine private and send upon request though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome "

Depends on the face really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane? "

Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane?

Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off. "

You go on about the guy having low standards, then in the next breath you say you have a pot belly. So it's low standards to fuck certain women, but not you? What makes you so special?

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

It's not for me, yes I know you have had sex with lots of women I just don't need to see it especially when you send it in a private message like I'm going to go yes I totally want to be that woman.. totally puts me off.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome "

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing "

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If requested we always send a face pic. No attraction no problem but we do come as a pair. That's not for everyone we get that... But "action" shots do nothing at all for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane?

Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off.

You go on about the guy having low standards, then in the next breath you say you have a pot belly. So it's low standards to fuck certain women, but not you? What makes you so special? "

Because I was trying to relate to people and doing that thing that everyone loves when you put yourself down, some people don’t like it when you’re confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane?

Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off.

You go on about the guy having low standards, then in the next breath you say you have a pot belly. So it's low standards to fuck certain women, but not you? What makes you so special?

Because I was trying to relate to people and doing that thing that everyone loves when you put yourself down, some people don’t like it when you’re confident "

And going by your logic, someone will look at you and think that a guy has low standards for fucking you because of your pot belly. And before you say that's cruel, this is what you think about other women by your own admission. 'Pot', kettle, black, so to speak (pardon the pun).

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in "

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again "

We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not bothered about it? I don't see why it offends others either? So long as the people in the pics have given consent for them to be used all is good :-

I agree this is not a dating site where u just put your best face pic. D"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate bare back playing pictures, and would not meet anyone with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile is full of them. Sorry! "

Dont apologise it's not tinder lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have action shots on my profile, I liked them, I was having a great time when they were taken and I couldn’t give a fuck if anyone else liked them or not, it’s my profile after all "

Yehhhh u go girl let the rest of em go and swipe right lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't offend me. People can display what pictures they like. The nature of the site means that many pictures will be sexually explicit. Don't like it? Use a regular dating site. "

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m with you OP but is it a turn off cause someone was there before you or that they look far too forward and extreme for your liking?

It’s a turn off for many reasons:

•The woman could look like a buzzard, unclean, poor hygiene, buzzing fanny, shows low standards from the guy.

•The woman could be a super fit gym bunny and it would make me feel bad about my little pot belly.

•Can look like the guy is trying to make himself look like a stud, like look at me I’m a real boy and I can shag a real woman.

•I don’t even like hearing about last conquests let alone seeing them.

So you don't like men fucking munters and you don't like men fucking hot women? Are you insane?

Mate people can fuck who they want that’s not what I’m saying. Why is this being twisted into me trying to dictate who people meet? I was asked to explain why it’s a turn off for me to see action shots and I stated my own personal reasons as to why I find it a turn off. Just as every other woman on this thread has stated their reasons for finding it a turn off.

You go on about the guy having low standards, then in the next breath you say you have a pot belly. So it's low standards to fuck certain women, but not you? What makes you so special?

Because I was trying to relate to people and doing that thing that everyone loves when you put yourself down, some people don’t like it when you’re confident

And going by your logic, someone will look at you and think that a guy has low standards for fucking you because of your pot belly. And before you say that's cruel, this is what you think about other women by your own admission. 'Pot', kettle, black, so to speak (pardon the pun). "

I’m a size 6/8 so I’m hardly breaking the scales, plus I dirty bulk in winter and like to shred in March when the first signs of spring are around me. You’re getting a bit personal in your responses now rather than just participating with the original topic. I’m sensing a little something something in your comments. Now If you don’t mind, I have to return some video tapes.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

OP, I'd message you in person but I'm blocked....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my action vids and pics couldnt give a toss if other women do or dont there for me i wont show any without her consent and if i did it wouldnt to fish for a shag tho

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again

We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings "

Yes we do...any idea where one might find these special occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will avoid men with this sort of profile photo. Concerns about consent, discretion and comparison override any initial attraction.

I'd also be pretty annoyed if a bloke starting taking photos whilst fucking me: concentrate, man!!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again

We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings

Yes we do...any idea where one might find these special occasions "

They are like magic..they appear when one is least looking for them

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again

We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings

Yes we do...any idea where one might find these special occasions

They are like magic..they appear when one is least looking for them "

I'm awful at seeing what could be right in front of me so definitely need things to be crystal clear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, I'd message you in person but I'm blocked...."

Sent you a message, should be able to get through the filters now x

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Maybe if enough people say not to do it it will stop single guys doing it.

Single women what are your gods honest thoughts about seeing single guys with pictures of them hanging out of a bird, getting sucked off by one, or any sexual scenario involving another woman.

Who honestly likes these pictures because for me it’s enough to make me not want to meet that person even if I’ve previously been keen. Complete turn off. Thoughts?"

In that scenario, instant turn off

Tastefully done pics can be hella sexy

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Doesn't bother me either way really. As long as the other person has given permission and the photos are not breaking any rules or really hardcore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Presumably all such action shots are waiting in the friends only section?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Presumably all such action shots are waiting in the friends only section? "

You’d think but sometimes guys just send them to you without you asking for them.

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

Bet those triggered by these photos watch porn.

Same thing,

If you are triggered by it find yourself a safespace

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Doesn't bother me either way really. As long as the other person has given permission and the photos are not breaking any rules or really hardcore. "

Me neither

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again

We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings

Yes we do...any idea where one might find these special occasions

They are like magic..they appear when one is least looking for them

I'm awful at seeing what could be right in front of me so definitely need things to be crystal clear "

What is clear is that you are gorgeoua to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bet those triggered by these photos watch porn.

Same thing,

If you are triggered by it find yourself a safespace "

Not triggered by it just put off by it. And yes I watch porn, quite a lot actually but I only watch gay porn, forced male orgasm compilations mainly.

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I'm not bothered either way, I've seen countless nudes, it's the substance within the pics/nudes that makes the difference and I'm equally or more so turned on by a powerful mind, so well laid out text (spoken in truth without a off putting self righteous ego) can equally stir the mind also and will probably excite me more. I'm more a fan of fetish pics personally,erotic garments etc

And couples post pics of themselves up to no good regularly, so is it not a bit double standard ish of couples who post them type of pics, to pull someone up who has posted pics (with full mutual consent) of them having fun times with people the they've met on here? I'm totally on the fence with it I'm just thinking of the variables

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's often the difference between something that looks quite unpleasant and something that is tastefully produced. Summat that's posed, directed and with high quality production.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’m not overly keen but I’m glad they do in a way as it can be a great filter!

Where you can clearly see the woman (ie you’d recognise her if you happened to know her) then you know they’re not only indiscreet but have zero respect for their meets!

When they have many bareback pictures (and some women and couples do too) with multiple partners then you know the concept of safe sex is alien to them - and they’re a major fab health hazard!

People often inadvertently give a lot more away in their pictures than they do in their profile text - and long may it continue!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again

We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings

Yes we do...any idea where one might find these special occasions

They are like magic..they appear when one is least looking for them

I'm awful at seeing what could be right in front of me so definitely need things to be crystal clear

What is clear is that you are gorgeoua to me "

It's very clear you're beautiful in your pics to me too, if only I could be sure of what you were looking for as I'm a cd and when I look at your profile, it's the one thing I cannot see

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I'm not bothered either way, I've seen countless nudes, it's the substance within the pics/nudes that makes the difference and I'm equally or more so turned on by a powerful mind, so well laid out text (spoken in truth without a off putting self righteous ego) can equally stir the mind also and will probably excite me more. I'm more a fan of fetish pics personally,erotic garments etc

And couples post pics of themselves up to no good regularly, so is it not a bit double standard ish of couples who post them type of pics, to pull someone up who has posted pics (with full mutual consent) of them having fun times with people the they've met on here? I'm totally on the fence with it I'm just thinking of the variables"

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because threads that ask you to post pics to one another can get a bit ott?

So folk then think it's generally ok to do it ad hoc?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again

We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings

Yes we do...any idea where one might find these special occasions

They are like magic..they appear when one is least looking for them

I'm awful at seeing what could be right in front of me so definitely need things to be crystal clear

What is clear is that you are gorgeoua to me

It's very clear you're beautiful in your pics to me too, if only I could be sure of what you were looking for as I'm a cd and when I look at your profile, it's the one thing I cannot see "

I'll pm you..I haven't been looking for cd's x

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"I'm not bothered either way, I've seen countless nudes, it's the substance within the pics/nudes that makes the difference and I'm equally or more so turned on by a powerful mind, so well laid out text (spoken in truth without a off putting self righteous ego) can equally stir the mind also and will probably excite me more. I'm more a fan of fetish pics personally,erotic garments etc

And couples post pics of themselves up to no good regularly, so is it not a bit double standard ish of couples who post them type of pics, to pull someone up who has posted pics (with full mutual consent) of them having fun times with people the they've met on here? I'm totally on the fence with it I'm just thinking of the variables

Good point "

I like to think I have one braincell left somewhere, hopefully lol

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I have pics of me with Red but that's because if you're meeting me then you're meeting her too, If I was meeting alone then yeah I wouldn't have those kind of pics and didn't in the past.

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh


"I often get asked why I have no action pics my general consensus is I am too busy enjoying myself to care about taking pics or making videos "

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Nothing but wholesome photos on mine that don't make you reach for the bucket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to see good pics of mens bodies rather than his cock, more face pics would help but i appreciate its not always appropriate due to the nature of the site.i give my face pic privately if im chatting but some men wont at all? Lets face it if we are to meet i will see your face, so whats the point ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand it. It’s like they have to prove that they’ve had sex. Smacks of insecurity.

That said, I posted one once. Lots of my arse. 3” of him. Got quite a few surprised comments from friends. Took it down.

Tend to use it as a filter if there’s a long gallery of them. See reasons above. I like to meet confident men, not men that feel the need to prove something.

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Despite the fact it's a swinging site, I don't think people wish to know about someone's conquests, rather they accept it must happen & are prepared to put it out of their mind & not think about it, which the photos blow apart.

I think secretly we all like to feel a bit exclusive & special to someone despite all being on here.

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey


"Seeing that on any singles profile is a bit weird.. the first thought is does the other person know..

-On a couples profile though I quite like seeing action shots.

Off topic but face shots, now they can be pretty awesome

Face shot wins for me every time.

I'm always far more interested in whether I'd like to see their smile or look into their eyes, the rest is window dressing

Sophie...you have a gorgeous face. It definitely draws me in

Now I'm blushing it's my special occasion face, just needs a special occasion to look like that again

We all need those special occasions in our life...to go with the ropes and piercings

Yes we do...any idea where one might find these special occasions

They are like magic..they appear when one is least looking for them

I'm awful at seeing what could be right in front of me so definitely need things to be crystal clear

What is clear is that you are gorgeoua to me

It's very clear you're beautiful in your pics to me too, if only I could be sure of what you were looking for as I'm a cd and when I look at your profile, it's the one thing I cannot see

I'll pm you..I haven't been looking for cd's x"

Get your coat Sophie luv, you've pulled! Jammy so & so.X

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