FabSwingers.com forum: Massage as foreplay?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

How many people really enjoy giving a partner a massage. I don’t mean a quick 5 minute rub. But a good 30-60 minutes sensual massage from head to toe. I find it really erotic to massage a partner, help them relax and see their tension visibly vanishing.

I’m sure everyone loves to RECEIVE a massage! But how many of you get turned on GIVING the massage and what tips, techniques or methods do you mind sharing?? Especially on how to increase stimulation or zones which may not necessarily jump out as erotic places to massage.

Oh and feel free to share any naughty massage experiences any of you have experienced!!

J.H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love massage. Giving as well as receiving.

If I'm receiving it's got to be by someone who knows a little of what they're doing though. Nothing worse than going over and over the same spot to the point it makes it sore.

What I love about giving a massage, especially a sensual one, is feeding off the responses to your touch. Taking your time to discover those special little places that send tingles all over the body....

Hmmmmmmmm I want a bloody massage now!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a lover of giving,

I use coconut oil, warm it first and then slowly pour it down along the back before putting my hands to work, gently spreading it all over, hearing slight moans and groans as you press the muscles, then doing the arms and then the legs, working up to the butt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love massage. Giving as well as receiving.

If I'm receiving it's got to be by someone who knows a little of what they're doing though. Nothing worse than going over and over the same spot to the point it makes it sore.

Hmmmmmmmm I want a bloody massage now!! Lol

Oh yes I agree and I hate when people think prodding your shoulder blades with their thumbs is a massage! Effleurage and smooth strokes does it for me.

Yeah exactly. It’s an exploration of your partner. I think the its the wanting to take the time and the thought of care for your partner which makes it a turn on for me too.

My apologies for any inconvenience! I’m soon on my way to give one. I’m not receiving one in return but the bj will be an equal treat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a lover of giving,

Yes I think the butt is the best place to end. And so many possibilities for a smooth transition to something more!!

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I've only ever received one massage but it certainly left me tingling all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love receiving! Fuzz does spoil me with massage, and it always has a happy ending!

The feeling that sweeps across your body when his fingers are just brushing past your vag as he works the thighs, arse rising, trying to tempt him in but he just keeps teasing... Oh my days!

One of my go to porn categories too!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a lover of giving,

Yes I think the butt is the best place to end. And so many possibilities for a smooth transition to something more!!"

It is, and when she parts her legs, showing how wet and turned on she is from it, knowing that you've got her to that point is incredibly satisfying

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Love a good massage, but it's never sexual for me.

Mrs TMN x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My fingers are too finicky to give. I like receiving, but rarely in a sexual context. It's usually to get knots out from stress or the gym!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love receiving! Fuzz does spoil me with massage, and it always has a happy ending!

The feeling that sweeps across your body when his fingers are just brushing past your vag as he works the thighs, arse rising, trying to tempt him in but he just keeps teasing... Oh my days!

One of my go to porn categories too!

Peach x"

Exactly this...

It's my go to porn too... have a fantasy I'd love to make reality too.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I'm a masseuse! I love to give, I love to receive.

My tip would be to get clear from the start what kind of massage it is. (I mean with lovers .. my clients are just clients!).

It can spoil thinking youre getting a lovely massage but then suddenly find your partners cock in yer face and an expectation to do something.

Sometimes it's nice to just fully receive with no expectation.

Or to know that it's definitely erotic and fully let the body respond in that way is magic!

Give attention to ALL the body. I love giving permission for the receiver just to fully receive. Watch them melt.

My all time fave to give is loads of oil and nuru stylee! Phewee!

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By *abKenMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

As much as I love receiving a massage, giving one is a much bigger turn on for me.

Touching, tantalising and teasing every part of a ladies body... There really isn't much hotter than that

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By *etmelickMan
over a year ago

North East

I had a nuru massage about 2 months ago! It blew my mind! Would love to know more about your massage services!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a masseuse! I love to give, I love to receive.

My tip would be to get clear from the start what kind of massage it is. (I mean with lovers .. my clients are just clients!).

It can spoil thinking youre getting a lovely massage but then suddenly find your partners cock in yer face and an expectation to do something.

Sometimes it's nice to just fully receive with no expectation.

Or to know that it's definitely erotic and fully let the body respond in that way is magic!

Give attention to ALL the body. I love giving permission for the receiver just to fully receive. Watch them melt.

My all time fave to give is loads of oil and nuru stylee! Phewee! "

I need to sign up for one of these

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

To be clear .. I don't offer nuru massage service!

That's reserved for lovers NOT an offer to clients. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be clear .. I don't offer nuru massage service!

That's reserved for lovers NOT an offer to clients. X "

Jus a normal massage is fine

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

A good massage makes me melt. Unfortunately the only ones I usually get are to sort out the knots in my left shoulder

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Oh hell yes. And finishing by pressing my naked body against their oiled up body is

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I love to give massage, and rarely receive one. I'm very particular about who ill let massage me. I use warm coconut oil, and prepare the room in advance, candles, hot towels, very warm room, heated table, a playlist that sets the mood. From beginning to end, it's a ritual, the chat, the slow teasing undressing, a shoulder and neck massage to help her relax, then massaging her whole body, with conscious touch, with erotic intention, but with no goal, no expectations, no chasing orgasms. Just surrender. For 2 hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a nuru massage?

And a yoni one? (if I've got that right)

Seen a few mentioned but don't know the differences.

Feel free to educate me.

I love to give and receive. Rare I get a willing man to receive one though. Or give for that matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a masseuse! I love to give, I love to receive.

My tip would be to get clear from the start what kind of massage it is. (I mean with lovers .. my clients are just clients!).

It can spoil thinking youre getting a lovely massage but then suddenly find your partners cock in yer face and an expectation to do something.

Sometimes it's nice to just fully receive with no expectation.

Or to know that it's definitely erotic and fully let the body respond in that way is magic!

Give attention to ALL the body. I love giving permission for the receiver just to fully receive. Watch them melt.

My all time fave to give is loads of oil and nuru stylee! Phewee! "

Can I book an appointment?

Peach x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What is a nuru massage?

And a yoni one? (if I've got that right)

Seen a few mentioned but don't know the differences.

Feel free to educate me.

I love to give and receive. Rare I get a willing man to receive one though. Or give for that matter! "

I'd prefer to show you.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Love giving , it’s very pleasurable I think I enjoy as much or even more than the receiver sometimes. One day I will learn reflexology and reiki, I do it and I get it done myself, but have never studied it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a nuru massage?

And a yoni one? (if I've got that right)

Seen a few mentioned but don't know the differences.

Feel free to educate me.

I love to give and receive. Rare I get a willing man to receive one though. Or give for that matter! "

I'd be willing to give and receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a sports physio but love to give sensual erotic massages ... unfortunately rarely get them!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

"What is a nuru massage?

And a yoni one? (if I've got that right)

Seen a few mentioned but don't know the differences.

Feel free to educate me.

I love to give and receive. Rare I get a willing man to receive one though. Or give for that matter! "

Yoni is the Tantra word for vagina. A Yoni massage includes the whole body, but concentrating on the pelvis, hips, ass, perineum, and eventually reaching your Yoni. It can last about 2hours or more. The massage of your yoni can be therapeutic with no sexual intent by giver or receiver( scar tissue remediation, etc) or can lead to orgasm. The intention is set before the massage. It's sometimes best for a woman to receive from a woman, or a man who can control his sexual energy.

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By *odd4funnMan
over a year ago

Walthamstow Leyton

Love starting the eve with a massage gets the right mood have my own salon with a massage room so its very convenient as it works well when the offer of a massage is available glass of wine chilled music tea lights aroma oils good hands always a winner

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We love a long sensual massage with oils, and it will 99.9% have a happy ending.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lover of receiving them. I will give one but they’re normally pretty quick before I start rubbing my nose in his arse hole and licking him out.

When I’m receiving one it’s so relaxing and makes you desperate to fuck. Each time the guy runs his hand up and down your thighs you’re screaming inside for him to slip a finger in, lifting your bum up to try and prompt the guy!

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By *igger9969Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

I love giving and receiving.

I am getting to the stage where giving is more of a turn on that receiving. Making a lady feel so sensual by touch is awesome.

If there anyone in South Wales that would like me to pop over to give them a massage just give me a pm xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to give massage, and rarely receive one. I'm very particular about who ill let massage me. I use warm coconut oil, and prepare the room in advance, candles, hot towels, very warm room, heated table, a playlist that sets the mood. From beginning to end, it's a ritual, the chat, the slow teasing undressing, a shoulder and neck massage to help her relax, then massaging her whole body, with conscious touch, with erotic intention, but with no goal, no expectations, no chasing orgasms. Just surrender. For 2 hours. "

That sounds amazing, shame your so far away

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving and receiving. I use baby oil for mine as I'm allergic to anything scented and hate the smell of coconut

I'll quite happily give a normal massage for stress, knots etc or a sensual one. Only let people do it to me that have half an idea of what they are doing. If it's a sensual one and they aren't pressing on too much it's okay but won't let untrained hands touch my knots etc

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore giving a good massage. Head to toe, back and front. And I certainly take my time. Sometimes it's more than foreplay, sometimes it's the main event with a mutual happy ending.

I'm really keen to explore nuru massage next. Both giving and recieving together, lots of sensual and slippy fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is a nuru massage?

And a yoni one? (if I've got that right)

Seen a few mentioned but don't know the differences.

Feel free to educate me.

I love to give and receive. Rare I get a willing man to receive one though. Or give for that matter!

This is something I'd really love to experience. I'm not very good at surrendering myself to someone really but it's very much to learn about my own sexual potential too and to relax more through feelings of pleasure.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Makes me wetter than an otters pocket

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lover of receiving them. I will give one but they’re normally pretty quick before I start rubbing my nose in his arse hole and licking him out.

I’m sure any gentleman who receives a hurried massage in that manner has no reason to complain!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Great to learn quite a bit off of the comments. I didn’t expect so many posts. Tantra is definitely something I’ll be looking in to!

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"What is a nuru massage?

And a yoni one? (if I've got that right)

Seen a few mentioned but don't know the differences.

Feel free to educate me.

I love to give and receive. Rare I get a willing man to receive one though. Or give for that matter!

I have one very special man who can give me a full body into a yoni massage, definitely a whole afternoon activity as slow exploration is the most important part and we use baby oil as I hate the smell of coconut oil.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I had my first tantric massage a few months ago. Soft lighting, coconut oil, relaxing my body and mind to the point where I heard only my breathing and heartbeat and felt only his hands. I felt as if I was floating. Tantric massage doesn't always lead to an orgasm, but for me it did.

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By *igger9969Man
over a year ago

Aberdare

Did he penetrate

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I love giving massages, especially to very muscled bodybuilders. It's great to feel the major releases of tension, as well as hearing their feedback etc. Huge musclebound hunks always welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love giving massages....

Real turn on for me to give a slow, sensual, full body massage. Teasing with touch, loving the feeling of knowing she is getting very turned on and wet from my touch.

I find that letting my fingers gently touch ear lobes as I work my thumbs into the upper neck, leaning over and letting my breath tickle the ears (or even kiss/ nibble the ear lobes) and teasing strokes up the inner thighs gradually getting higher but stopping just short all tend to go down well.

In my experience the orgasm after that slow build up and face down with me using my thumb to stimulate the Gspot and fingers on the clit seems to be an intense, slow, massive one.

I’m a physio, and I’ve had some interesting experiences with massage... that I won’t share here, but happy to share if you want to PM me x

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