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BDD Or Lack Of Self-Esteem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or attention seeking?

Dont want to seem attention seeking but I really dont know how I rate to other people.

I've literally have had zero replies on here so I'm starting to worry haha.

Long shot but would anyone like me to send them a face pic an such to rate?

I'll know if it's the looks or if I'll have to improve my flerting skills haha

Much appreciated yall!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

6 weeks and you've already met, that's not so bad you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"6 weeks and you've already met, that's not so bad you know. "

50% of the meet was for the verification, seen comments on some forums that people wont meet unless they have one

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The typical thing new users benefit from changing are their expectations.

It's especially tough for you men here, so it's wisr to be realistic, thick skinned and willing to persevere with hard graft.

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Not read your profile, but six weeks for a meet.

Some people (men and women) have been on here for over a year without a meet.

So what ever you did to get the first meet, carry on doing that.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think BDD has anything to do with anything here.

You're new, you're male, it's a tough gig for newbie males.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think BDD has anything to do with anything here.

You're new, you're male, it's a tough gig for newbie males."

I'm pretty new to the whole scene if I'm honest.

I think I may just be overthinking it, patience is key I'm starting to think.

I'll keep on keeping on haha

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP.

In being on here by only 6 weeks, you are a mere beginner!

On the plus side, however, you're already in possession of a Verification, so well done!

Some guys would kill for a Verification for over a year or longer, as that's what it takes.

Perseverance & Patience are key factors. Stick at it. Get to clubs, socials, or as you've done already, get involved in the Forums - it's all about being Noticed!!

It does work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP.

In being on here by only 6 weeks, you are a mere beginner!

On the plus side, however, you're already in possession of a Verification, so well done!

Some guys would kill for a Verification for over a year or longer, as that's what it takes.

Perseverance & Patience are key factors. Stick at it. Get to clubs, socials, or as you've done already, get involved in the Forums - it's all about being Noticed!!

It does work.

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Thanks for giving me something to ponder over, not quite sure what socials are but will definitely look into it!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

Thanks for giving me something to ponder over, not quite sure what socials are but will definitely look into it! "

There are regular group socials held in pubs etc all over the country - they're not in the slightest bit sexual and are exactly what they say they are "socials" where you can meet like minded people in the flesh for a drink and a chat - they're great ways to get to know people and them to know you in a low-pressure environment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Thanks for giving me something to ponder over, not quite sure what socials are but will definitely look into it!

There are regular group socials held in pubs etc all over the country - they're not in the slightest bit sexual and are exactly what they say they are "socials" where you can meet like minded people in the flesh for a drink and a chat - they're great ways to get to know people and them to know you in a low-pressure environment"

Ah right, didnt think it would be exactly how it sounded haha.

Thanks for explaining. Going to check for some

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't know why auto-carrot chose "low pressure" instead of "no pressure"

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"I don't think BDD has anything to do with anything here.

You're new, you're male, it's a tough gig for newbie males."

It’s an even tougher gig for us older fuckers

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