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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend?

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By *musedforlifeMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I miss cuddles more than sex

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not at all, I do it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "

No way is that weird OP, snuggle in and enjoy the cuddle.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Not at all, I do it all the time"

Maybe I'm not the best person to judge it on though, I'm prone to weirdness

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

for me yes, but I'm not single and I'm not looking for intimacy of that sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah fuck that I’m off tada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless ya, is it weird its probably the least weirdest thing I've read on here, enjoy your cuddles x

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough


"for me yes, but I'm not single and I'm not looking for intimacy of that sort."

But don't you find sex intimate anyway? Even if it's just a one night thing it's the most intimate thing you can do. I just want to collapse into a guys arms after hours of mind blowing sex. I have friends that I wouldn't dream of asking as it's not our thing but this particular friend is so sweet and has offered I just don't want it to be weird

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

No it's nice. Just to show some care & a little affection for someone who's been brave enough to meet up. I couldn't walk away without spending a little time cuddling up & being there for another lonely soul. There will always be different views tho. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"for me yes, but I'm not single and I'm not looking for intimacy of that sort.

But don't you find sex intimate anyway? Even if it's just a one night thing it's the most intimate thing you can do. I just want to collapse into a guys arms after hours of mind blowing sex. I have friends that I wouldn't dream of asking as it's not our thing but this particular friend is so sweet and has offered I just don't want it to be weird"

If you don't feel its weird then it isn't , that's why I said "for me" .

I do find lots of things about being sexual intimate for sure but cuddles are a type of intimacy I don't want from our casual partners. I suspect more people find me weird than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all weird

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I can’t imagine a meeting without cuddling

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I do this with all of my single meets, not husbands though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I had a fwb in the past who had never cuddled. Without the cuddles I wasn't getting what I needed from him so he learnt to cuddle

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nope. I had a fwb in the past who had never cuddled. Without the cuddles I wasn't getting what I needed from him so he learnt to cuddle

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yeah I think its about two or more people agreeing on what they need from a meet.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I confess, I'm a hugger,(I do get consent though)

Fortunate really that my friends are all fairly tactile as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I'm big on cuddles. Its a massive part of the human contact fix for me. Just be up front.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My fwb doesn’t cuddle me and if I raise it he says ‘we are not in a relationship’...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have no problems hugging anyone I'd fuck. I'm real good at compartmentalising stuff. Love a cuddle and a kiss... it's great for hubby too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not weird at all, I`m a big hugger

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By *mileysimieMan
over a year ago

tewkesbury

I love cuddles and hugs, I’m a very huggy person so it’s not weird at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb doesn’t cuddle me and if I raise it he says ‘we are not in a relationship’...

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There's an option for you if you want something different. You don't have to tow the line!

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By *pril86Woman
over a year ago

chester

I’m glad you posted this I was wondering too, as I’m new I’m not sure on the etiquette so to speak x I love a cuddle just didn’t know if it was the norm lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I’m glad you posted this I was wondering too, as I’m new I’m not sure on the etiquette so to speak x I love a cuddle just didn’t know if it was the norm lol "

you do what's normal for you and agreed between you and the people you meet ! There isn't an etiquette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cuddles no meet

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, not weird. I love cuddling.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think it's weird. It would be weirder if, after sex, they said 'ok you can go now', for me anyway. I enjoy being held for a bit afterwards. 20 mins max though otherwise I'm likely to fall asleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone will fuck me but not cuddle then well... we wont be fucking again! Cuddles are good however brief or tenuous the interaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fwb doesn’t cuddle me and if I raise it he says ‘we are not in a relationship’...

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Would you like to though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, sex, cuddling, conversation.

Prerequisites.

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol


"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "

Always cuddle affection is part of it

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I love cuddles whether that's with or without sex, I'm just a cuddly person.

But with sex it makes the intimacy just so much better for me especially if we spoon cuddle after sex, my favourite cuddle position. X

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I love cuddles. Only with other singles though. I crave a little bit of downtime and aftercare after sex. I'd probably meet just for cuddles and naps. My FWB gives the best cuddles.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I love cuddles! Especially with my fwb's, were intimate. I cuddle my friends too. But then I'm tactile.

I have had situations where lingering cuddles are not really appropriate but I still like warmth and a hug x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Oh come on.

Who doesn't luv a cuddle?

Even before sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "

Cuddle is fine

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Ive got one fwb who stops during sex to have a cuddle but as soon as it's done he's up and dressed. I'm hoping the other fwb gives me a cuddle after all is done so it's not quite so much "wham bam thank you mam" kinda thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles all the way

Before and after the fun

As been said a spooning cuddle is fantastic, lovely way to start morning fun too mmmm

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

It’s a natural progression for me, I’m a very tactile person so if it wasn’t for them I wouldn’t agree to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have cuddles with my FWB. Fell for him. He didn't want a relationship. We are a couple for over two years now so be careful who you have cuddles with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have cuddles with my FWB. Fell for him. He didn't want a relationship. We are a couple for over two years now so be careful who you have cuddles with "

I've had cuddles with all my meets in 8 years and never had it leading to issues.

I'd say don't only be careful about who you cuddle. Be truthful about what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have cuddles with my FWB. Fell for him. He didn't want a relationship. We are a couple for over two years now so be careful who you have cuddles with

I've had cuddles with all my meets in 8 years and never had it leading to issues.

I'd say don't only be careful about who you cuddle. Be truthful about what you want"

Neither of us was looking for a relationship when we first met. It just happened and we are happy it did

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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)


"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "

Absolutely natural thing, nothing weird with it.

I have my partner but even if there is more than himself (FF or MM), cuddle always good

You may find it great experience after all the hot & steamy fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds rather idyllic and completely normal to me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "

I see no issues in it, I enjoy a little chill after

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Cuddles are great, its all part of the mix and depends on the situation and the people. Had plenty of post meet cuddles and some cuddles only meets. Even a few FWC long term friends we know nothing else is ever going to happen but love a cuddle.

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby


"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "

If you have a common understanding of your needs then I think a cuddle is a perfect way to conclude an amazing time you have just shared x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not in the slightest bit weird - in fact in the context of a one to one meet I'd find it weirder not to have cuddles and snuggling in between other stuff as part of the overall experience - the idea of turning up, getting naked, having sex, getting dressed and leaving leaves me cold personally - but appreciate others may feel differently, and if they do then in terms of meeting we wouldn't be a good match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not weird at all. It's lovely to snuggle up in that post orgasm glow before the next round begins.

I dated someone for a while who suffered terribly with post orgasm regret. For that reason the snuggle time after was lacking, despite the most mind blowing fun. I really missed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cuddles are great,everyone should cuddle more just seem to lift your spirit

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

No not at all its . It’s just a nice respite for round two

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I'd have thought that pretty much everyone enjoys a cuddle after sex, it just seems such a natural thing to do. I'm at my happiest then x

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Cuddling is a huge part of the intimacy of sex - I love to spend hours and hours doing both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "
i cuddle, sex is intimate and so are cuddles, cuddle away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot are saying they need cuddles, and is essential, so do you ask before meeting if cuddles are part of the deal?

I rarely cuddle. I never cuddle after sex with those I fuck, i just feel so awkward.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire


"I miss cuddles more than sex"
snap

.k

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Depends where we end up, if in bed cuddles usually occur while chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To cuddle after a meet? I have a fwb who has offered to cuddle after sex as it's probably the only thing that I miss about a relationship but is it weird to cuddle up to someone you don't see as more than a friend? "

Nothing is weird between two people,if they are both happy to do it

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